What's love got to do with it...

[Bedroomeyes]

Would you ever consider marrying someone for the money?

You like them .. Just not in love with them... And this person is offering to take care of you for the rest of your life.... Would you do it? :evil:

[Babygirl]

I can't see vowing to spend my life with anyone I don't love...material things can be lost...but you can love for life:hearts: :hearts: . Am I sappy or what???:rolleyes: I rather be loved:blah: . But I don't knock anyones hustle.

[shtalker]

Nope, I don't think I would be faithful to that person I NEED THE LOVE!!

[seductive_tee]

If the sex is right....they personality good, not a alcoholic, not into drugs, and he not abusive.....I might.

[Juicey1]

I don't know if I could do that one. Don't know if I want to be married to someone I didn't love, even if we do have a good friendly relationship.

[Brightness]

Hmmm, this is one to think about. . .

I think I could marry someone but I wouldn't want to sleep with them. . . .

[sistuhchey]

Love is something that's nutured and grows on a indvidual, shit it doesn't happen overnight....So while it's growing I might as well be happy comfortable and rich!!!:eek: :eek:

[ThickBodyHottie]

no...i'd tell him that i didn't believe in marriage but, to get at my goods, i'd have to be kept - on a long-term basis...and he'd do it, too, because i'd make not being married so much fun...and end up rich because i'd be a common-law wife.

[HulaSista]

my carnal sinful self would do it.........

[lovely]

I'm with tee, i would marry a man with money as long as he was a good person, i really liked him and he treated me good and the sex would have to be good.

[Toffee]

Yup,,,,,, if the sex was good... and he wasn't beating me or anything... Havent been in love in my 27yrs... I don't think I'm missing much.

[Bedroomeyes]

Bright.. If this guy was really in love with you.. How would you pull off not having sex with him if ya'll are married??


I was in a similar situation some years back.. Had the ring and all.. But couldn't bring myself to do it.( I really hated giving back that ring..:( ) As much as I had been struggling I couldn't do it..

Now some years later, I'm still hearing from this person and he's doing better than he was when I was with him.. And now he's starting to hint getting back together again.. :rolleyes: He's a very sweet person and I would love to stay friends but nothing else..

I wouldn't be able to do it.. I guess I'm just a romantic at heart... :p

[nubianx2]

Seeing that I married the first go round for love, I'd probably wouldn't have an issue doing it the second time for money and stability.

[OhSoPrecious]

Originally posted by Bedroomeyes+
Would you ever consider marrying someone for the money?


In a heartbeat~!! :eek: Now I can say that. . I am 34 years old~!! :p I've tried the love thing already. . . Hell. . love didn't have anything to do with it before~!!! :fu LOL

Btw, where is he BE~?? :eek: You know . . . this man w/all the money. . ready to take care of me~!!!! :hammer :D

I'm still waiting. . . :upretty

[Bedroomeyes]

Matter of fact.. He's in New York.. Manhatten.. You can have him!!:D

He's visiting Africa right now for two weeks, but as soon as he comes back...... I'll do some introducing... ;)

[Brightness]

We'd just have to have that understanding I suppose. . . .

Originally posted by Bedroomeyes+
Bright.. If this guy was really in love with you.. How would you pull off not having sex with him if ya'll are married??

[Tastey]

I could do it. It's not the preferred choice in mate but I could definately see myself doing it.

We all want to fall in love and live that fairy tale life of happily ever after.

But let's be real. That simply doesn't happen all the time. Alot of divorced folks can tell you that marrying for love don't mean being married and IN LOVE. And even more folks can tell you that being BROKE and married is hard as hell.

I am assuming this person is a dear friend and not someone I detest just someone I'm not "in love" with.

I think in time, love might even grow although it may be a "friendly" love...it would still be love just the same.

[Deelicious]

I've had the opportunity, and just couldn't.

I need love... somebody I'm compatible with, have fun with, enjoy being around, and love sexing.

You can only spend so much money before it's starts to play out... that's why alot of the celebrities that have everything are so unhappy and feel all alone.. they don't have nobody to love.

My mom married for stability... she wasted 12 years of her life... was unhappy the whole time. Now she's with a man that makes less than she does and she's never been happier.

[D2daO2da]

I would...

Oprah, Please come nocking... he he he

I'd be a trophy.. I would have to like them at least.

I am not marrying for SEX.. Are we in love the people that have given us the BEST BOMB DIGGITY SEX. Not all the time.

I'd still have a girlfriend(s)

I would do a lot of good things with the money... Start a mentorship pimping program.

D

[lightandlovely1]

I don't think I could do it. Marriage is too intimate to me to be with someone I don't love.

[misha]

I think I could do it. This is somebody I like? Yep. We could travel, do fun things together....we like each other, so the time we spend together would be pleasant.

I tried marrying for love once, and that turned to disaster. I think that I could do this.