Soft is Sad

[SoftNwet]

I am in a funk. I do not know how I got here, but I am. Hell, last night I cried myself to sleep!!! I am going to take this weekend and do some real soul searching and get on my knees and pray to get out of this funk. But right now.........I do not see the light at the end of the tunnel!!!!:( :(

[yendys]

((((Soft)))) I know there is nothing anyone can really say to make things better, so I will just say that I hope things start to turn around for you. The shaky year I have had has made say, "It could be worse.", no matter how bad things get.

Anyhow, hope you feel better. :)

[CD]

Do you want to share.....what's is the problem honey: job, boys, home, love life ???? Oh! I almost forgot money???

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by CD+
Do you want to share.....what's is the problem honey: job, boys, home, love life ???? Oh! I almost forgot money???

All of the above!!!!! Sitting here trying not to cry as I type!!!:( :( :(

[Juicey1]

I hope things turn around for you soft. I have been there before, just recently in fact. :(

[nubianx2]

Soft,
Just remember "trials come to make you strong."

[Tastey]

(((Soft)))

You know I have been there. I feel you completely. Just hang in there girl. (((Hush Hug)))

[seductive_tee]

We all have been there, including myself.....Soft....girl go ahead and cry...don't hold it in...it might be what u really need to do.....

Keep that head of yours up!

[seductive_tee]

Let me know if i need to send Pookie and Ray Ray down to kick some ass...they don't charge much...just a 3 piece from popeyes, and a 40. :beer :fu

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by seductive_tee+
Let me know if i need to send Pookie and Ray Ray down to kick some ass...they don't charge much...just a 3 piece from popeyes, and a 40. :beer :fu

Thanks for that laugh!!!!:cool:

[seductive_tee]

Sure thing..

And i just talked to them, and they said if you through in a pack of Newports, forget the chicken from Popeyes, cause Shaquan always eat it! :cry: :fu :cry: :fu

[Admin]

Soft, what's really going on witchu? I know you and this is not normal at all. You are a strong sista and for me to picture you crying (at all) yourself to sleep is just too much.

Please give more detail if you can. Remember that we a re here for you. If you need advice, then you know you are at the right place for that.

(((HUG)))

Holla
:upretty

[Bedroomeyes]

Keep your head up.. Yes, we all have been there.. I was the same just last month.. I'm now over it, but I still don't know what was going on.. I guess sometimes all of the pressures that we deal with in our lives catch up with us and knocks us down on our asses...

Even the strong ones have their moments of weakness.. This too shall pass.. Sooner than you know.. ;)

[que90nek]

soft...u mentioned buying a house. THIS IS VERY VERY STRESSFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!The entire process is not very fun!

Keep your head up...take a step back and re-evaluate...and then jump back in...after all, you have no choice.

[mack_black]

soft Im gonna call ya and make ya happy...

It just cant be that bad... :D

[SoftNwet]

But this what I have looked like all morning!!http://www.freakygamers.com/smilies/s/otn/ez/pi_cry.gif

[seductive_tee]

I'm gonna come cry with ya......good girl cry....where them twins of yours?

[Vronni]

soft,keep your head up.I knew that you will prevail over whatever comes your way ;)

[SoftNwet]

I am trying to feel better. Thanks to everyone that responded and also the PM's. I am going to to make this a good weekend. I will update you all on Monday.

[OhSoPrecious]

Soft, you didn't let that sad/depressed friend make you sad, did you~??? :rolleyes: :(

Feel much better, girl~!!! :)

[seductive_tee]

Soft, how r u?

[SoftNwet]

Things are a bit better. But I started the day off with a call from school @7:30am!!!!!! So you know that it was not good news. I had to dig in dat ass first thing this morning. My son was not tot happy when he finally go to shcool and I was not to happy with him.

I just got the new Kirk Waylum(sp) CD and that is very soothing. So at least I have calmed down but still not back at 100%!

I do want to thank you all for the post and the PM's that I have received.

[dns70]

Sometimes things just suck all the way around, but one thing my pastor said once that has always turned out to be true for me is "when it looks like things are at their worst, is when your breakthrough is closest".

You have something great on the horizon coming. Just press on and hang in there!

[Admin]

Since you wont tell us exactly what the matter is?

Kids,
Job,
Men,
purcahsing a home?

Then, I am glad that you are doing better. B&B should be trying to do better to help mom...don't ya think? i think I'll nickname them, double trouble:D

Holla

[seductive_tee]

Originally posted by softNwet+
Things are a bit better. But I started the day off with a call from school @7:30am!!!!!! So you know that it was not good news. I had to dig in dat ass first thing this morning. My son was not tot happy when he finally go to shcool and I was not to happy with him.

Soft...girl i got a call myself...and i'm home....1st you know i wasn't to happy because i was home...2nd it was not even 8:00, which means class had not even started....all i thought was that he got in a fight.....well he knows the consequences of that...

Anyway, he just forgot his school ID and wanted me to bring it, since he couldn't come home to get it.

I was like don't start on my damn day off.

[SoftNwet]

Admin it is a combination of things that I tried to convince myself did not bother me but they. THere is not just one thing it is a bunch of little things that have decided to rear thier iglu heads and bother me.





PS: it has nothing to do with trying to buy a house!!!!!!!!!:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

[FAMU]

Man, i will get that package out to you ASAP.


Now please smile for me:p

[ThickBodyHottie]

lady, go CRY! did you already? if you did, didn't it feel good?
:cry:
:cry:

[SoftNwet]

The little demon seed was still at home!!!!!!

The teacher was calling about his recent behavior and atitude in school. She wanted to catch me before I went to work!!!! As soon as I got off the phone I was all up in that ass and I wanted to jump on him but I had to let him go because he would have gotten an ass whoopping for shit that is bothering me in addition to the ass whoopin that he deserved!!!!

[seductive_tee]

Oh okay..so u meet him at the school....:eek: :eek:

Demon seed...:D :D , i laughed because i watched Kingdom Come this weekend and thats what she called her son.

Soft, my son thinks that every time i jump in his shit i'm mad at someone else...not the case......sometimes he just do stupid stuff...and i start fussing.....

Right now, mine has a bit of a attitude.....I think it has to do with some girl, cause i heard him on the phone fussing with someone about something he supposedly did or said.....and seeing as though he can't get outside to get to the root of the problem, he has to deal with it through the phone.

And Pookie and Ray Ray said they still available, but Friday is no good...they gotta take care of some other business...:D :D

[Brightness]

I'm sorry to hear things have you a little down. And I know that sometimes it seems when it rains it pours but you just have to remember to know when to bend a little (cry, rant, rave, whatever) under pressure so you don't snap. Stay strong, things will get better. . . you didn't make it this long or far only to feel sad.

[HulaSista]

Wow Soft.....

I was so busy going through some family issues myself, that, I didn't pop in to see if others were okay or not......

How do you feel lady?

Do I have to call Brandon 'em from Vegas and tell them to pay you a visit?

It will get better...just think of all the blessings you have and the things you have to be thankful for...and you will see the light at the end of the tunnel.

Love ya gwirlie!

[Babygirl]

Soft,
I have been in the hospital so I didn't really peep this out til now. I hope you are feeling better mentally. Take a break from work if you can and drive down to Savannah and relax for the weekend. Or better yet drive up to Helen and rent a cabin for just you and chill, mediatate, and relax yourself. Be Blessed.

[Juicey1]

Soft, I hope it gets better for you. I know it will. I was a little down myself. Just a combination of things. Money is the highest thing on my list and everything else stems from there. Its frustrating when I can't do what I want to do when I want to do it. Thank God my kids have been behaving themselves. My husband told me to stop stressing, let him do the stressing.

It will get better girl. Maybe you need to do as Babygirl suggested, just take a couple days for you and go somewhere and just relax.

[SoftNwet]

this weekend. I have some things that I have to do but once they are completed.........I am out!!!!

I have made some plans and am confirming them as I type!!!

[RaiOfSunshine]

I have been in situations where I didn't think I was going to make it through the day. Life gets rough at times. With God's grace and our strength, we are able to make it through.

Hang in there, Soft.

[Juicey1]

Originally posted by softNwet+
this weekend. I have some things that I have to do but once they are completed.........I am out!!!!

I have made some plans and am confirming them as I type!!!

How are you today Soft? Did you take that much needed break? I hope you are better. Here is a big ole )))))))HUG((((((((

[SoftNwet]

I have been so encouraged from all the post, PM's, and emails form all of you. I know that I am usually the calm in the storm but things had gotten the best of me and I had to let someone know. I do not have any sisters but the love that I got from the "Daily Divas" here on this board was what I needed. I know that we all get down and just need a few words of encouragement. For those words, I want to say Thank you all!!!!!! You will never know how much it meant to me for you to understand that sometimes you hit a rough patch where everything and nothing is wrong. I could not explain what was wrong but thank you for knowing that sometimes you can not put your finger on it.

Over the weekend I went to a place called "Art & Soul" where you can pick out a pottery piece and paint it. Well, it was very theraputic, I went with a co-worker that comforted me when she saw me boo-hooing at my desk. We had a great time. I painted a coffee mug and a plate. I do not know how the mug will come out but the plate should be cool. The best thing about going was that it was such a change for me, instead of going to the mall, or movies I was doing something constructive and that made me feel real good. I have a ways to go to get out of this funk but........I know that there is some one out there that cares and understands.......YOU!!!

Well, let me go before I start to :cry: again. I have been listening to Yolanda Adams CD all day and the song "In the midst of it all" and "Already alright" have been most comforting. I have taken out time to pray today, a little more that normal but........prayer changes things!!!!

But know I appreciate all of you!!!!! :cry:

[Juicey1]

I am glad that you are feeling a little better. I know how it is to be feeling sad and don't really know why or can't explain why you are feeling that way.

My favorite poem is Footprints. I have a copy of it on my desk. I read it whenever I am down and it always make me feel a little better because I know that the Lord is carrying me when I am down.

FOOTPRINTS

One night a man had a dream. He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the Lord. Across teh sky flashed scenes from his life. For each scene, he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand; one belonged to him, an dhte other to the Lord.

When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he looked back at the footprints in the sand. He noticed that many times along the path of his life there was only one set of footprints. He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times in his life.

This really bothered him and he questioned the Lord about it. "Lord, you said that once I decided to followe you, you'd walk with me all the way. But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life, there is only one set of footprints. I don't understand why when I needed you most you would leave me."

The Lord replied, "My precious, precious child, I love you and I would never leave you. During your times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you."