How young is too young

[sinnah]

I went out with a group of friends this past weekend. I was sitting at the bar when this guy came up and started talking to me. We talked for a hour or so and I gave him my number.

On Sunday we went to the park ate brunch and had a great time.

When he took me home I said taht I had to get up early the next morning for work. He said he had early classes. When I asked what he meant he said he is a sophomore at the local college and only 20 yrs old. I am 31. I was shocked and didn't know what to do.

We kissed goodnight and he went back to the dorms. :eek:

I am feeling this guy but just how young is too young?

[Brightness]

Well, when is he going to be 21?

I'm 34 and I set that bottom line but never went as low as that.

I think the youngest I've had has been almost 7 years my junior but if everything's cool then age is not that big a factor. . . .it's all about the mental.

[nubianx2]

Sinnah,
Only you can decide what age is taboo. True maturity doesn't have an age limit. If he has the maturity that appeals to you (not your girlfriends) then go for it.

[shtalker]

You know the old saying " age is nothting but a number". I would go for it what do you have to loose. Do you have anything else going on right now?

[Vronni]

if he is mature,then the age shouldn't matter. Compatability is the most important thing-

[CD]

If you feel comfortable with this guy, then that’s all that counts. Its not like you talking about getting married. The two of you are just enjoying each others company, and that’s part of what life’s about. Maybe you two will expand each others horizons.

I dated a woman for about three years when I was 23 years old and after about 1 ½ years into the relationship she asked me why I didn’t ask her how old she was. At the time I knew she was older than me, but she was fine and very well built. Found out the lady was 34. Didn’t matter, but for some reason that blew my head up, had me feeling like PIMP DADDY.....:D

[seductive_tee]

Did you ever celebrate her birthday?

Originally posted by CD+
I dated a woman for about three years when I was 23 years old and after about 1 ½ years into the relationship she asked me why I didn’t ask her how old she was.

And SINNAH....go for it......enjoy....and was he drinking.....cause he ain't 21 yet!

[que90nek]

ya'll spent an entire day together...and u didnt find out till the end that he was in school? what were ya'll talkin bout that you actually think that this guy will work?

my short answer...all depends on what you expect...slash...want from this guy....