i am seriously considering saying ok....

[lovely]

to a marriage proposal.

and not cause im head over heals in love.

but because im tired of doing this all by myself.


















there i said it :blah:

[Juicey1]

Do you at least like him enough to live with him? Do you all get along good? Will your child like him? Do you enjoy having sex with him? Do you think you could fall IN love with him later?
Is he good to you? Will he be good to your child?

Please, please think this over before you just up and do it.

Either way, good luck with your decision:)

[HulaSista]

arrange marriage huh? they (and any other kind of marriage) only work if you can trust that the other person has your interest at heart and vice versa. don't do it because you are tired of "doing this alone". make sure you can bring something EQUAL to the table. the two of you decide together. make sure he understand it's not love for you.

[Joi :)]

been there, done that, and IMHO u can do bad by yourself...think about it long and hard please...I didn't marry mine...which is good, cause I was able to just walk away from his ass. :D

[sistuhchey]

interesting....

[nubianx2]

The mere fact that you're thinking of saying "okay" (which sounds like much hesitation) and not "yes" seems like you need to totally re-examine your current reasons for even entertaining the idea of marrying this person. True, people marry for all types of reasons, but the "key" is "can you live with this life changing decision that you are about to make for you and your daughter.

[Melotic]

I guess that's reason for the high divorce rate, you won't be the first to get married for a reason other than love...

But, I really would consider rethinking such a big decision, it may end up being worst financially with a marriage...

[mack_black]

oooo boy....

[misha]

Please don't do it. Take it from someone that married the wrong man and lived to regret it.

[CD]

is when you find yourself falling in love with someone other than the person you are married to.....What cha gonna do then?

[djackso]

It is not going to work!

[que90nek]

u don't give yourself the opportunity to love anybody else.

you grow to love the one you are with.



do it.

say yes....but have a year long engagement :upto:

[seductive_tee]

So you doing this for money?

What about your daughter?

[lovely]

Originally posted by que90nek
u don't give yourself the opportunity to love anybody else.

you grow to love the one you are with.



do it.

say yes....but have a year long engagement :upto:

kinda goes back to the love or commitment thread.

does love make you commit...or does commitment make you love?

i have more to say about this...but i have to do it when i have a lull here at work.

[Brightness]

Is this a serious answer?


Originally posted by que90nek
u don't give yourself the opportunity to love anybody else.

you grow to love the one you are with.



do it.

say yes....but have a year long engagement :upto: