Relocation

[seductive_tee]

You are*involved in a relationship for 5 yrs & decide that it's not going where it should be, not progressing the way you*thought it should.* You love this man/woman, but are not "in love" w/ them.* After the breakup, you*relocate to another State, after a few mos in the new area, he/she calls & wants to patch things up & start anew, wants to join you in the new*State, would you or would you tell them to take a hike? *

[nubianx2]

If I didn't get the results I was looking for with us being in the same state, then I would most likely believe that I wouldn't get them later with true sincerity. Mr. Man would definitely be "short."

[SoftNwet]

"Don't miss the water until the well runs dry!"

[shtalker]

NAW!
Been there done that. No need to go back if it didn't work after 5 years. I would just have to move on.

[Sparkles]

hasn't progressed in 5 years. If not marriage atlest engaged. So I would really have to re-evaluate what wasn't right the first time around, but after 5 year, one should know if the relationshjp is right or not.

My mom always said never reach back!!!!!!!

[misha]

5 years? Nope. That is a much longer chance than he should have gotten. If nothing happened by then, nothing will. Hell, for all I know, he got somebody pregnant in the meantime and is just wanting a place to hide out!

[Brightness]

Me, too, Sparkles. I wouldn't think twice about something I'd invested that much time in and came up empty-handed.

One of my favorite lines from LoveJones was when Nina told her ex that all they had was all those years and that it wasn't enough, anymore.

Sometimes you have to realize that things aren't getting better and know when to let go and move on. So me moving to another state, taking on a new job and a new perspective would mean that I wouldn't be so gung-ho to have them intrude and wreck my flow. I couldn't stop them from moving if that's what they truly were intent on doing so but I wouldn't be giving them the green light on a stroll down memory lane.

Originally posted by Sparkles+
hasn't progressed in 5 years. If not marriage atlest engaged. So I would really have to re-evaluate what wasn't right the first time around, but after 5 year, one should know if the relationshjp is right or not.