I have a question( a piggy back off my last post)

[FAMU]

Most people on this board feel that there S/O has no right to know how many sexualy partners that he or she has had. My next question is how many sex partners is to many? Would you marry someone that has had numourous sex partners?

For instance, I knew this chick back in college who was tight to death. She was smart, intelligent, beautiful, long hair dark hair( I love a woman with beautiful natural hair), and a body that was just exquisite. The only problem was that honey had been around the block one to many times. She had to many sexual partners for me to consider having a relationship with. Now I was more than glad to join in on that number, but as far as a relationship goes I would ahve to be out of my mind:beating. Now I will admit that there was a clear bias in this because by that time in my life I had just as many partners as she, but I just did not feel comfrontable being with a woman that had been so loose. I guess thats why I married a virgin.

I have more to add, but I will wait until later.

[OhSoPrecious]

Originally posted by Mr. Famu+
by that time in my life I had just as many partners as she, but I just did not feel comfrontable being with a woman that had been so loose.

That ain't even right~!!! :blah: How do you think we women feel about you men that have been around the block and back~??? :confused:

[FAMU]

Originally posted by OhSoPrecious+
That ain't even right~!!! :blah: How do you think we women feel about you men that have been around the block and back~??? :confused:

and thats why I propose the question. How many sexual partners is too mnay?

[sistuhchey]

too bad your wife didn't marry herself a VIRGIN - MALE!!!!:blah:

[Admin]

Mr. Famu, thanks for laying it out like that bruh. I mean you kepot it real and told us how you felt about the situtation at the time.

I have to respect that:cool:

Now, for me? I have never ever asked any of my ladies how many men that have been with. Why? I do not wanna know. I mean yeah, I might be put in a situation were I feel intimidated if I find that she has more experience than I do.

Since, the male ego is so fragile and I know me, I have never been hurt like that cause I have never asked for that information to be provided.

If I like her, I like her... and we roll from there.
Holla
;)

[Toffee]

I could care less how many partners the person has had.... Who am I to throw stones...

I'm more concerned with are u cool with some of your past partners.....

[nubianx2]

I think I'd be a lot more concerned about when my partner had his last AIDS.

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by Mr. Famu+
but I just did not feel comfrontable being with a woman that had been so loose. I guess thats why I married a virgin.



I do not know how many is too many but, your kind of thinking makes me sick!! :rolleyes: You out there hittin and stickin and you gonna hate on a woman that is doing the same thing. Then you go out and mary miss goodie-goodie and still out there looking for the "freak of the week' to satify your freaky urges 'cause wifey ain't feeling your freaky ass.

I think Ricky_x had a thread back in the day about this same thing. Why men want the freakiest women before they get married and then want to mary a woman that is pure as the driven snow. Then no sooner then you say "I do" you knocking and Boom-quisha's door because she know how to make your toes curl.

You men are a :confused: confused species. Don't want a woman that has some experience but then get mad when wifey won't suck your damn dick!!! Make up your minds!!!!!

[que90nek]

hats off to famu....

for tellin it like it actually is in a lot of folks minds! that is the REAL.

and it is WHY 90% of you keep the actual number to yourself.

[Sparkles]

I know you remember the thread when folks posted there number's of sexual partner's and the other one about what make a whore--a whore--so let's not go there--too much judging going on.

Anyway, Like I said before in your previous post, I am not ashame to say how many partners I have had, because it hasn't been that many. However, If it had, I guess I would have been reluctant to say because unfortunately a lot of men feel the same way you do.

I am not sure of the point you are trying to make, because you have openly admitted that you have had numerous partners, so there fore that why you married a virgin! What was the point? My husband has had numerous partners, I didn't ask how many, but I know, and I have even met some of them. I love him for who he is right now today. His past has made him who he, and that who I fell in love with.

Imagine this, what if most woman though the way most men did, you know dating and chilling, but not having sex waiting on a "virgin" just imagine! What would you think men would do then. Famu you know the game, post men ain't hanging around for too long, if he ain't hitting it, because there will always be someone else who's giving up the panties.

So basically once a gain women are fucked, if don't give up the panties then a brutha gonna step shortly, and if you do, you'll be labelled a good lay, but not marrying materiall! tisk, tisk, what is a gurl to do, i say fuck it, do what ya feel,,,,,

Oh Yeah Famu--did you ask your wife this question, I would be curious to know what her response is since she was a virgin, and you weren't?/

Get at me

[que90nek]

bottom line is that ya'll women need to be comfortable with what ever you do! including the amount of mileage that you put on your cootchie! if you are not comfortable you will feel less inclined to share the truth with your potential mate...thus perhaps telling a lie and getting your relationship off to a ...lying start. :shrug:

[Sparkles]

And you wife for that matter, and did the number of partner's she had, have any bearing on your choice to marry her?!?!

just curious!

[SoftNwet]

what ever I have done in my past is there.....behind me. I don't look like, nor do I act like a virgin so he already knows the deal. Now if he wants a virgin, there are plenty born every day!!!!! But in 2001 I do no know too many 25+ virgins and if you happen to find one the CONGRATS!!!!!

Yo Que, I am comfortable with my number but the problem is.......will he????!!!!!
:confused: :rolleyes: :confused:

[que90nek]

actually her number did have very small bearing in the total picture....but i don't really care enough to let it stop me.

my number....uh...i don't know. :rolleyes:

isnt that the point, soft...if he can't handle your number...isnt that good information for YOU...to know that he is that insecure to not understand that a woman beyond her 30's number is not gonna be 2!

[Babygirl]

Originally posted by Mr. Famu+
I guess thats why I married a virgin.

I have more to add, but I will wait until later.


Playing Devil's avdvocate for just a brief moment here...and Famu my intent is not to burst your bubble okay!? Correct me if I am wrong but wasn't your wife pregnant when you got married??? Therefore wouldn't make her a virgin when y'all got married right? Also don't you have other children outside your marriage??? If one of those kids is a little girl...and she (GOD forbid) had kids prior to marriage and all men thought like you...she will be alone for the rest of her life. I don't think there is and good or bad number. What difference does it make. Either you disclose the info or you don't. The only thing you should be concerned about(in my opinion) is STDs and HIV/AIDS.

[HulaSista]

:beating ... i would share...but man...i don't need to start my blood pressure tah risin... :beating

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by que90nek+
isnt that the point, soft...if he can't handle your number...isnt that good information for YOU...to know that he is that insecure to not understand that a woman beyond her 30's number is not gonna be 2!

If it is 2 or 202 a mans ego is entirely too fragile. I don't think it has anything to do with insecurity, if he can not handle the number it has to do with ego.

[djackso]

Ladies, Please respect FAMU's honesty because 7 out of 10 men feel like that.

[Sparkles]

Originally posted by djackso+
Ladies, Please respect FAMU's honesty because 7 out of 10 men feel like that.

True "D" i respect his honesty, and the fact that most Men feel that way. I guess my question is, why do you giuy's feel and think that way. We can searc post over and over about sex, and i guarantee just about everyone of the men on this board has admitted some type of freaky shit they enjoy doing. Obviously ya haven't been doing it with virgins, so what is a gurl to do??!!!?!?!

That's just sounds like some contradicting Bullshit to me, but fuck it carry on......

[HulaSista]

respecting his honesty is one thing...

agreeing with his comment is COMPLETELY seperate.

so, really, Famu, you have said nothing, none of us, have not heard before, yet, like Sparkles asked...WHY do the 7 (out of the 10) of ya'll think that?

i mean...damn.:beating

[djackso]

the male ego. We want to have & do things another men can't. The same reason men climb Mt. Everest , sign the biggest sports contract or catch the biggest fish. We don't want a woman that the average man has had. We want the women only a few elite men have had the game to get.

[SoftNwet]

clears the air!!! Thanks for that explanation!!!

[HulaSista]

i can't let this go now......

why do your competitive egos have to transform over into how you relate to women? damn. :rolleyes:

[que90nek]

the male ego.....

gosh this is a huge topic! (pun intended)

i think God intended for one man to be with one woman...so when it becomes status quo for other things to occur...that is why this entire scenario is all f'd up!

[djackso]

Originally posted by HulaSista+
i can't let this go now......

why do your competitive egos have to transform over into how you relate to women? damn. :rolleyes:

Competitive egos is how we live life. In the boardroom at Microsoft to the dice game on the corner to how our wife looks has the same natural instincts.

[HulaSista]

Que.......THANK YOU....I was hoping some male out there understood this.

D - to how your wife looks...same natural instincts?

OKAY...now i am really go let it go...

lol...natural instincts...please! :rolleyes:

okay...i'm go hit it again...

if it was left up to your NATURAL instincts...EVERY MAN and his ego would talk himself OUT of pussy and other female related thangs... :D then you couldn't procreate correctly...like ya suppose to...

i am SO off the subject now...i'm gone. :hammer

[misha]

Well if this isn't some double standard bull shit!!! Okay, here it is.....if a man's ego is so fragile that he cannot handle the fact that I had a life before I met him, then he is not the man for me!

How many men I slept with before I met him is none of his damn business, we can go hand in hand to the clinic to get all the tests he desires.

But as far as holding against me something that I am not ashamed of??? Puhleeze...what, are you afraid that somebody else put it down better?? Chances are they did. But what should that matter when we are in loooooove?????

Personally, my favorite type of man is the one that wants a lady in the living room and a freak in the bedroom, but, what can I say?

This isn't really an issue for me, because when a person gets older, alot of those hangups fall away. People meet, they have been married before, that kind of thing.

[HulaSista]

Originally posted by misha+
what, are you afraid that somebody else put it down better?? Chances are they did. But what should that matter when we are in loooooove?????


yelp...yelp...yelp... :beer

[ThickBodyHottie]

of course, sha-mi...the male ego is very sensitive, as it was expressed in a previous post...the thing is that lots of guys are marrying what they THINK are virgins because some women realize that fact...one must treat irrational creatures irrationally...it doesn't pay to be honest to men about sexual history because they will never want to view you as the one they've fucked around with...

as our female ancestors have done and we shall always do:

feed that male ego...tighten your coochie and say "you're the best, daddy"...that'll get them good and jaded

[Vronni]

well, what Mr. Famu said was honest but also shows a typical example of the double-standard prevalent in our society. (some) Men are caught up in how many men their woman has slept with but what about:can she read ? does she have any goals? is she mentally stable? there are so many other things a man should be focused on than who "hit it" before you ,but that's priorities for you.....:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

[RaiOfSunshine]

I think that is a double standard. Men who hit a lot of women are considered "playas" or "pimps", but when a woman does the same, she's a "ho" or a "slut". That's not fair.:rolleyes:

In my opinion, many men who say they want to hook up with or marry a virgin or a woman with little sexual experience want to protect their egos. When they break a woman's virginity, they feel that "this is my woman. she's gonna be with me & only me". Their ego is stroked because they have the opportunity to turn an innocent woman into a sexual dynamo. They have experience & that's power to them because they feel they are the only ones their women know of sexually.

When some men are dealing with women that they really feel, and find out they have more or just about the same experience as them, they may feel sexually inadequate. Not only do they feel that they don't have anything new to bring to the table sexually, but they feel powerless.

I have a cinematic example. In "Chasing Amy", Ben Affleck thought he was the only man that Joey Lauren Adams had been with, because he thought she was a lesbian. When he found out that she had actually been with many guys & women, and doing this wild stuff, he really felt insecure and sexually inadequate. Their relationship went sour from there.

There are some men who could care less about how many partners their girlfriends/wives had. I hope I run into them. :)

[OhSoPrecious]

However, I think that if anyone is ashamed of the number of their past sexual partners. . . then, that's a problem~!!!! :eek: And, whether you want to disclose that info. . . is your business~!! :hammer

I am not ashamed. . . maybe because I am still in the single digits. . on two hands~!! :rolleyes:

But you're wrong FAMU~!!!! :blah: Dead wrong~!!!

[FAMU]

Let me clear up a few things first. When I said I married a virgin I did not mean she was a virgin the night we got married. What I meant to say by that was that I am the only salior that has ever sailed her ship, period. No Babygirl she was not pregnant before we got married that occuerd during our honeymoon and yes I do have kids outside of my marriage.

The reason that I would not want a woman that has had many sexual partners is because thats too many people togo to bed with. Most woman and men take their past sexual relationship into the bedroom with them when they start a new relationship. Now they is cool while I am on the dating circuit, but not for my marrige. When you deal with a woman that has had a lot of sexual relationship you have to compete with the different men that she has been with. You have to eat the coochie like "Bobby" eat it because thats the only way she can get off or you have to stroke it like "Steve" stroked it because that the only way that she can get off. Most woman want admit it, but this is true. Woman try to train there new man to please them the same way her ex use to please them. Most woman have become accustom certain techniques that they have developed over different relationship that work for them and help them achieve there orgasim. Thus, when they do get married to "Jimmy" he has to stroke it like "steve" and eat it like "Bobby" and thats not fair.

[sistuhchey]

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Mr. Famu+
[B] yes I do have kids outside of my marriage.


If you're "GOOD" and have "SKILLS" and know how to please your woman EGO'S are extra and only matter when your lying to your "PARDNERS" about the pussy.......


:hammer :beating

[Brightness]

That is the most antiquated & archaic thinking I've ever heard but not the first time I heard it.

It's okay for you to bring illegitimate children and SOME sex partners into the relationship but not for the woman? Man, you are a piece of work with that one. . . .

It seems to me like you let your low self-esteem get the best of you if you were concerned with a woman who may have had better than you and KNOW it for a fact vs. a woman who wouldn't KNOW for a fact. I just think you exhibit a little insecurity with that thinking. . .like wondering if you are the biggest dick she's had or something. I could give a damn about who anyone had before me and I certainly wouldn't let it hinder me.

But as far as a someone liking the way one man stroke it and one man ate it. . .isn't that part of knowing yourself, your body and what it takes to achieve an orgasm? I thought that was a plus but to some men maybe it's not. I don't have any problems articulating my likes and that doesn't mean I've had to have a bunch of partners to get to that state of mind.

I could see if she started telling you to dress like some other man or to start calling her Pumpkin Britches like her ex did but damn. . . .you went extreme with yours.

More power to you. . .I have a question, if it's not prying too much. . .I already believe I know the answer but I'll ask anyway.

Didn't you take some of your previous experiences into the bedroom (I.E. I'm sure you tried to lay it on wifey the same way you did that got you rave reviews, high fives and standing ovations in the past?)


Originally posted by Mr. Famu+

The reason that I would not want a woman that has had many sexual partners is because thats too many people togo to bed with. Most woman and men take their past sexual relationship into the bedroom with them when they start a new relationship. Now they is cool while I am on the dating circuit, but not for my marrige. When you deal with a woman that has had a lot of sexual relationship you have to compete with the different men that she has been with. You have to eat the coochie like "Bobby" eat it because thats the only way she can get off or you have to stroke it like "Steve" stroked it because that the only way that she can get off. Most woman want admit it, but this is true. Woman try to train there new man to please them the same way her ex use to please them. Most woman have become accustom certain techniques that they have developed over different relationship that work for them and help them achieve there orgasim. Thus, when they do get married to "Jimmy" he has to stroke it like "steve" and eat it like "Bobby" and thats not fair.

[ThickBodyHottie]

again, ladies...continue to not devulge your sexual history...remember, you are dealing with an ego, and an ego is always irrational...

mr. famu...you ain't right ;)

[misha]

So, it is okay to train your wife to suck you like Sally did, right??
This is pure comodeeee!!!

Sorry brotha, but that is some funny shit!!!

Let me tell you one thing though, even a virgin knows what gets her off.....from all those masturbating years....I know that long before I had seen a dick, I knew....or did she not touch herself either????

ROFL!

[que90nek]

famu...u have the support of the brotherhood on this one!

whether the women like it or not...it IS the way famu says it is. period.

[que90nek]

even God knows about our egoes! and that is why he wants us to marry virgins. :shrugshoulders: :duck:
:rolleyes:

[misha]

Well que, I guess that means that God wants women to marry virgins too.....but since reality isn't that way, isn't it time for men to be realistic as well?

[misha]

And what happens to those that have been married before? I am divorced. If I marry again, he will not be getting a virgin.....I guess that means that I am not good enough, right? Since I am not pure and all......

[que90nek]

i don't want to go down the biblical bunny trail........

[djackso]

I'm not saying it's right but men think like that when they're young.
Ladies, You can't handle the truth.

[FAMU]

Originally posted by Brightness+
Didn't you take some of your previous experiences into the bedroom (I.E. I'm sure you tried to lay it on wifey the same way you did that got you rave reviews, high fives and standing ovations in the past?)

Nope!!!!! Men, are not as emotinal about sex as woman are. We don't need all of the kiss me there and kiss me here, or hold me like this that woman need. All we need is a moist coochie hole. Notice I did not say wet, but moist. We get ours either way it go. In and out thats all we have to do!!!!

Misha, to answer your question It took me a long time for my wife to convience me to allow her to suck my dick. ( I know I may be aone on this one) For some reason I did not picture my wife sucking on my dick! It is not sumthing that I wanted her to do at first. I always felt that dick sucking was reserved for non-wifey type woman. Now it is cool, but it was not always that way and no I did not hav to train her it was a process we went through together.

[ThickBodyHottie]

Originally posted by djackso+
I'm not saying it's right but men think like that when they're young.
Ladies, You can't handle the truth.

yes, they can...that's why they're not gay...

[HulaSista]

OH MY GOODNESS...

it just keeps gettin worse and worse.....


(lol@que and biblical bunny trail!)

[Sparkles]

Tis is one of those Thread that TAstey need to be closing with her moderator powers and shit!!!!LOL

djackso+ I'm not saying it's right but men think like that when they're young.
Ladies, You can't handle the truth.

Yeah, "D" looks like the men are the one who can't handle the truth. All this shoulda yada yada shit, is just bull shit and you know it!

If the truth be told, Mr. Famu description of why men think that away is so unbelievable. In relationships folk have sex, so when your in the dating game you date and encounter relationship, you fuck, it's that simple. Now if you men just really want to believe that we women are just enjoying having different sexual partners you more fuck up than i originally anticipated. MOST WOMEN WANT'S ONE PARTNER THAT THEY CAN DO ALL THE FREAKY SEXUAL SHIT TOO, but unfortunately there are so many trifling azz nigga in this world , it's going to take us time to get to that one, so in the mean time, we gotta do what we gotta do.

So you guy;s are basically saying WE have to stroke men's ego to pacify them because they can't handle the fact that just maybe some body been laying pipe better than them lol

Oh yeah, Mr famu--let's just hope you taught your wife all the right skills about given head , just in case!!:eek::eek:

[que90nek]

tbh is right...
u either get in the game...figure us out...or be gay!LOLLOLLOL

[FAMU]

Originally posted by Sparkles+
Now if you men just really want to believe that we women are just enjoying having different sexual partners you more fuck up than i originally anticipated. MOST WOMEN WANT'S ONE PARTNER THAT THEY CAN DO ALL THE FREAKY SEXUAL SHIT TOO, but unfortunately there are so many trifling azz nigga in this world , it's going to take us time to get to that one, so in the mean time, we gotta do what we gotta do.

So it is men fault that woman are having to many sexuals partners? Since there are, "so many trifling azz nigga in this world" why don't yall woman lock up the coochie and what until that one man comes that you call do all that freaky shit to. It is not our fault that woman fall for the game.

[que90nek]

^5

[OhSoPrecious]

I wish I had the power and authority to close this one~!!!! :blah: :hammer

[que90nek]

if u can not stand the heat...
get out the kitchen....

FAMU for PRESIDENT!

[HulaSista]

Originally posted by Mr. Famu+
It is not our fault that woman fall for the game.

now ain't this some shit?

NEGRO........ain't NOBODY saying its your damn fault...

history tells us that the majority of women have always taken responsibility for our AND your shit...(do i have to pull the child support issue on the table....) SO WHAT........we can admit when we WRONG, OUR pride and ego don't have THAT problem....

but......your original statement, as much as it is true......IS STRAIGHT WRONG........WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG .:hammer

ADMIT IT DUDE! ADMIT IT .......its fuckin wrong to think that way.

we ain't in denial about shit....we just want you to say it .....ALL YA'LL SAY IT.......ITS WRONG that THOSE men with those ego problems and think this way IS WRONG.

say it ....... :beating
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say it ....... :beating

[FAMU]

Originally posted by HulaSista+
......your original statement, as much as it is true......IS STRAIGHT WRONG........WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG .:hammer ADMIT IT DUDE! ADMIT IT .......its fuckin wrong to think that way.


I will it that there ia clear bais in what was said, but know it is not wrong for me to think like that. It is the truth it is based on reality. The funny thing is that woman have the power to prevent all of this. If woman would tighten the requirements to get some pussy then this way of thinking would not be. Freely yall give and freely we take!!!!
:beer

[HulaSista]

will someone hurry up and close this thread!!!!!!

:D :cry: :D :cry: :D :cry: :D :cry:

Okay TBH...I'm gonna try it...but, man, its go be hard...

"Okay Famu. You are SO right...I completely understand your plight. I wish I can take all the burdens of your struggles and the weight of the world from your shoulders so that you can focus better on fuckin me in the ass. MATTER OF FACT :idea why don't you put it between my legs RIGHT where it belongs...."

did that work? is that enough strokin? how did i do ladies?:beer

[seductive_tee]

Mr. Famu.....you know what....you just ain't met the one who would lock up her coochie......but just think..if she gonna lock up the coochie...why not lock up the lips....

Ya'll men kill me....fuck every lady that will spread her legs but when the table is turned it's a man's thing......

And men fall for game too....don't go there with that one......

On that note...good evening everyone...I'm headed to/up/down 495.

Hope it ain't close before i got my 2cents in :D :D :D

Originally posted by Mr. Famu+


So it is men fault that woman are having to many sexuals partners? Since there are, "so many trifling azz nigga in this world" why don't yall woman lock up the coochie and what until that one man comes that you call do all that freaky shit to. It is not our fault that woman fall for the game.

[mack_black]

FAMU...
let me say this....

I guess it all depends on you personal level of insecurity..which all of us have...some to a greater degree than others.....

If one realizes that the level may be high, then one needs to work on that to lower it so he can become free.....Know what I mean FAMU?

[misha]

I find it sad that some men are so insecure that they have to have a woman that is sexually inexperienced, so that the woman cannot compare his skills....that way, if his dick is little, or if he is selfish, or if he has a problem, it can be all her fault....it is also sad that some men are so pathetic that they can even blame women for "falling for the game." If you knew how that sounded.....that sounds like a child....thank God some men grow up!

[misha]

And you know what is really sad????
That whole attitude is white in origin. Look it up in any book, it is called the Madonna/Whore syndrome...yes brothas, syndrome. I cannot believe that black men in 2001 are letting the white man make puppets of you....yall sound like an old black and white movie....sad....

[OhSoPrecious]

Originally posted by misha+
...thank God some men grow up!

Key word here is s-o-m-e~!!! :blah: :fu

[que90nek]

this situation is very real for some.....and is in the mind of some....

brothers should learn to be stronger...and concentrate on things that matter...like whether or not she will be a good mother or whether or not she will be a good wife.

[Babygirl]

Originally posted by que90nek+
this situation is very real for some.....and is in the mind of some....

brothers should learn to be stronger...and concentrate on things that matter...like whether or not she will be a good mother or whether or not she will be a good wife.


Did this thought process work for you Que???????:upto: :upto: :upto:

[que90nek]

what thought process?

my thought process had nothing to do with virginity...even though it was one of the things that went into the entire package.

[Brightness]

:cry: :D :cry: :D :cry:

Ya'll going a little too far now, next ya'll be saying you only have sex on Friday nights in the missionary position with the lights off for 12 minutes exactly.

[Babygirl]

Originally posted by que90nek+

concentrate on things that matter...like whether or not she will be a good mother or whether or not she will be a good wife.


Did you think about that before you got married??? AND how do YOU feel about your decision??? :upto:

[HulaSista]

Originally posted by Brightness+
:cry: :D :cry: :D :cry:

Ya'll going a little too far now, next ya'll be saying you only have sex on Friday nights in the missionary position with the lights off for 12 minutes exactly.


:cry: :D :cry: :D :cry:

DON'T get me started Bright!!!!!!!

[CD]

I'm late on this one

I'm sure MR. FAMU an't the only brotha out there that thinks like that.

To answer the question, I really don't ask anybody questions that I wouldn't like answering myself.

As fas as the number of sexual partners, what the hell. If a woman is young and had a lot of partners that don't mean she knows what giving or receiving love is about. That just means she let a lot of guys run up in her. On the other hand if the woman is older, I would hope she has had her share of exprienaces so when I get with her she knows how to express herself sexually.

I may be crazy, but I feel like I really got my shit together when I hit a lady that has had a lot of sexual partners, and afterwards she ends up flipping out over me when I do my thing....:rolleyes:

[OhSoPrecious]

Originally posted by CD+
I may be crazy, but I feel like I really got my shit together when I hit a lady that has had a lot of sexual partners, and afterwards she ends up flipping out over me when I do my thing....:rolleyes:

CD, you talk a good game on the boards, bruh. . . but, you won't set up that NY/NJ Regional~!! :blah: :D

[lasttry]

i see where the dudes coming from but i tell you what...
i would not believe any woman over a certain age if she told me she was a virgin...it might be true but i would take it with a grain of salt....one of my friends told me something his boy told him and its true...

girls want to fuck just like dudes do

so i always keep that in mind ... i might have thought like famu to an extent but not no more...

my first time fit this whole scenario....
the girl was like three years younger than me... i knew she was a virgin so i figured our first time would be together... but she "fell for some game" and gave it to some other dude first (trust me she did get played...she would agree) so yes i was upset but i also said well we still gonna get together because i did have FEELINGS for her...so we did...but before that she asks me how many and i tell her none...she is shocked because remember i'm older than her....so after we did it she makes a deal about saying it doesn't matter if i lied about the number....(guess she figured my skills was too good to be a novice :D ) but i was mad cuz it seems like 1 she didn't believe me and 2. she doesn't care that i would have lied... anyway that was an off and on relationship that kinda broke down over sex...she in my opinion was too concerned about it....anyway all i'm saying is there aint no perfect people so i would never trip off this particular issue...
shoot i might want to thank her "teachers"
;)

[CD]

Originally posted by OhSoPrecious+
CD, you talk a good game on the boards, bruh. . . but, you won't set up that NY/NJ Regional~!! :blah: :D

That I'm all talk........Ha, Ha, Ha, Ha!

Ok you got that off.........;)

[OhSoPrecious]

Originally posted by CD+
Ok you got that off.........;)

I know~!!!!!! :upto: :evil:

[HulaSista]

this is a damn good ass thread...

[SeaDuceme2]

Ladies chalk this that shit up as this, don't tell a nigga shit, there fragile wittle minds can't handle the truth!

[OhSoPrecious]

Originally posted by HulaSista+
this is a damn good ass thread...

Damn Hula. . . you bringin the oldies but goodies back~!!!!!! :cool:

Ahhhhhhhh, the memories. . and how they linger~!!!!!! ;)

[CLSmooove]

But as Sea would say this is some Fraginacle BULLSHIT.....

But too each their own....

My only question or Comment is this.... A woman can say she only had two partners in her Fucking years....That would be ok with some of you.... But Two Partners DOESNT say how many times she Fucked, got freaky, turned out and was taught a thing or two from one of those partners.... OR a woman could have had 50 partners and not know shit about FUCKING... She could just be a "lay there looking at ceiling peel" type of woman.....Its not how many we've had its what we did with them.....

Once again Ladies Damned if we Do Damned if We dont....

Fuck'em girl Fuck'em.... I aint telling you shit....

oh yeah and I dont remember who said it but the comment about men marrying a virgin or something close to it, but spend their married years trying to fuck whatever walks by cause wifey aint doing what u want them to do is sooooooooooo on point.... Nigga Menzzzzz aint neva satisfied....