ADMIN...what's wrong?

[ThickBodyHottie]

Mr. T:

I know i've stirred up some mess before...i think we all have at one point in time, but i think something is wrong here - ONLY because i thought the members here were more "on-line" close than most boards...

please allow me to explain:
though i know things change and we should embrace change, i see too much tension on the board. i thought at one time it is because of the men talking amorously to more than one hush lady at a time, without their knowing, but now i am seeing it from all avenues...the tension, that is...

back in the day, the sex threads were the hottest things going...now, it's the troublesome and controversial ones...back in the day, not everyone was talking about being saved and religion...now that everyone is good and glorified, controversial threads get more hits than a baseball in a cuban park...

i thought that sometimes, when you want to get that old feeling again, you have to go back to when you felt that way and try to adjust your surroundings to feeling that way again...

well, what are we missing here, mr. t?
are you content with how things are going?
please...i need to know...and maybe others do, too...and since you are the father of this baby, i feel you may have more insight than most...

i love you and the rest of my hush fam...as always...

[ThickBodyHottie]

anyone? please...by all means...if you have any thoughts on this, please shoot...

[que90nek]

reserving comments....

[Babygirl]

TBH,
I don't see as many controversal threads as before( July 1)..a good thing:p I do see alot of "goody-goody" from a few, and alot of folks "forgetting shit" they do or have done which is not so good. :( But I enjoy the hush for the most part and have encouraged others to join, but as you know with online communities there will always be scandle:eek: he-say-she-say, and all that other stuff.

[ThickBodyHottie]

but, babygirl, i SWEAR that he-say-she-say was not like that before...and, que...why reserve comments? you didn't USED to be like that! :D

[OhSoPrecious]

Originally posted by ThickBodyHottie+
...and, que...why reserve comments? you didn't USED to be like that! :D

Thick, I think it's those Hush Relationships he talks about. . . all the time~!! :eek: :D

[Babygirl]

Originally posted by ThickBodyHottie+
but, babygirl, i SWEAR that he-say-she-say was not like that before...and, que...why reserve comments? you didn't USED to be like that! :D

It was worst! There were frequent battles between folks. I think you might have been on your hiatus at the time. But if you are reffering to way back in the day before icons, membership total, and the other gadets..yes there was little turmoil. I do reme,ber that. But Goodtimes only last for so long. I think now with the diversity of people and the lives on here, plus alot of the sneaky freaky dikey going on behind the scenes...shit was bound to hit the fan.

Que..stop biting your tongue!:p Spill it! Man Spill it!;)

[que90nek]

lol
that was funny

because i have commented on this before...in my relationships post...
it wasnt the relationships that degrade the hush...but the pettiness that can sometimes go with it...the UNREALNESS...that pervades an environment that to some is a pickup/hookup joint....

remember when we used to say KEEP IT REAL all the time....perhaps we should start sayin it again!

TENSION...exists because people CARE....

unfortunately every time i try to improve upon the hush...folks start up with the "NEGATIVE" comments...i see it all as constructive.

[FAMU]

TBH,
Me and you have been on the same page with this for a long time, but I have come to realize that the old huhs or the wat things use to be is long gone. The hush is changed for ever. Que, was right relationship change the game. This board has turned into a online dating matchmaking service. Which has hurt the honesty of a lot of posts. We can't keep it real anymore because most people on here have a hidden agenda. Now that some of the relationships on here have been exposed either on this board in public or via the hushgrapevine people are trying to be low-key as not draw attention to themselves. As a result, we have folks walking around with this "goody-goody" attitude that was mention above. It is all just a camouflage to hide there hidden agenda or there own activities.

[Admin]

LOL, we talked about this entire subject at Hushnic 2001. How things have changed since some folks have seen eachother naked:D

Well, TBH, guess what? I was never in controll of a man and woman meeting on the Hush...liking eachother enuff to get a hotel room get undressed and hop into bed with each other. ;)

Admin was not in the room to say "Hey! Hush Honey, think twice before you give this nigga some"...

We are all grown ass men and woman and what was a discussion board has (in some way) turned into a hook up spot. And that's keeping it real.

I'm guilty of taking some fun out of the Hush. Since May 2001, I have been Mr. Goodie 2 shoes. I have not gone off on anyone or anything since that time. I felt and still do that I had to lead by example and that yall were effected by my rants.

So, I have changed my ways....more and more Hush members have seen each other in the nude. So, who's to blame?

I think we all are. For me, I will keep going. I have to. I love me some Hush, I'm hooked on my own supply and you know what? Regardless of what has been going on.....This is still some Gooooooood Shyt.

Cause it's HOMEGROWN!!!
California Hush!

***Here nigga, hit this Hush.....***

Holla

;)

[shtalker]

Well I haven't really been here as muchas the rest of you but in my opinion is this....
I have always kept it real and that is fine for me. All that trivial bickering between folks I just laugh the shyt off. I have learned alot about different peoples opinion about stuff. This site is Fun, Educational, Emotional and Definently great Entertainment.

I love it here.;)

[OhSoPrecious]

Admin, that's it in a nutshell~!!!!!!! :eek:

And, he didn't even mis-spell any words, ya'll~!!!! LOL :D He only added an extra letter to one word and a couple of words needed some spacing. . . but, anyway. . . ;)

I agree with you~!! :cool:

[Admin]

Originally posted by OhSoPrecious+
Admin, that's it in a nutshell~!!!!!!! :eek:

And, he didn't even mis-spell any words, ya'll~!!!! LOL :D He only added an extra letter to one word and a couple of words needed some spacing. . . but, anyway. . . ;)

I agree with you~!! :cool:

LOL@Ohso...
Holla

[seductive_tee]

SHIT...i still ain't see nobody nude..not from the HUSH that is....what am i doing wrong......I wanna see some nudeness dammit! or i'm leaving!.....:D ;) :p

Originally posted by admin
So, I have changed my ways....more and more Hush members have seen each other in the nude. So, who's to blame?;)

[Tastey]

*sigh*

I miss the Hush basement.

[KissableSexyShortStuff]

Originally posted by Tastey+
*sigh*

I miss the Hush basement.


what's the hush basement?

[misha]

*sigh* me too....
It used to do my heart good to know that any time I needed a laugh, I could go bump up that biggie smalls thread, or if I felt like I missed someone, I could bump up one of their classic threads....*sigh*

That's the hush basement KSL.

[KissableSexyShortStuff]

thank you Ms Misha

[MR REMI RED]

Originally posted by ThickBodyHottie
back in the day, the sex threads were the hottest things going...now, it's the troublesome and controversial ones...back in the day, not everyone was talking about being saved and religion...now that everyone is good and glorified, controversial threads get more hits than a baseball in a cuban park...


this thread was created 2 years ago,,,,,,
and i see some shit just doesnt change its just a cycle



big up da basement !

[RockYoKoo]

Originally posted by MR REMI RED


this thread was created 2 years ago,,,,,,
and i see some shit just doesnt change its just a cycle



big up da basement !

Not true Rem, I have yet to see someone Nekkid.....





















and be effected by it....LOL