Men & Marriage pt II

[ThickBodyHottie]

my daughter's best friend's mother told me this:

"If a man is divorced, he's no good...why would a WOMAN divorce a GOOD MAN?"

OOOOooooooo....what ya'll think about THAT?

[nubianx2]

Could it be that the good man divorced the not so good woman??????:rolleyes:

[djackso]

An ex-girl told me I got an X on my back cause I'm a divorcee. Tell me more.

[ThickBodyHottie]

well, djackso...i think that is the universal way of thinking for most women who know better...hate to say it, but usually men have a hard time getting over women, so divorcees - especially recent ones - are taboo

[CD]

Originally posted by nubianx2+
Could it be that the good man divorced the not so good woman??????:rolleyes:

Thanks nubianx2.......for a moment there I had my mouth hanging open...

[djackso]

Taboo.. I've been having to hide out from all these women calling wanting to come over or go out...Asking when is the divorce final..Do you plan on getting married again...Tell me more!

[que90nek]

i think that 20-30 years ago...this may have had some merit...
but in the y2k...we have to consider that somewhere around 40% of marriages end up in divorce....so that's an awful lot of x's on backs.

[ThickBodyHottie]

hey...i'm not DEFENDING it, i'm just relaying it...

[mack_black]

What about the simple fact that they decided to get divorced 'cuz they weren't right for each other.....what does that have to do with whether one is good or not....and whose eyes are we looking thru to determine the state of goodness

[HulaSista]

Originally posted by mack_black+
whose eyes are we looking thru to determine the state of goodness

interesting question....

[OhSoPrecious]

I've said it in the Part I thread. . and I will say it again. . Ladies, let's not blame it all on the men~!! :rolleyes:

(sigh)

[Tastey]

Originally posted by ThickBodyHottie+
my daughter's best friend's mother told me this:

"If a man is divorced, he's no good...why would a WOMAN divorce a GOOD MAN?"

OOOOooooooo....what ya'll think about THAT?

A woman will divorce a GOOD MAN because she's ungrateful bia bia that does not realize what a GOOD MAN she has. lol :p

[Qjai]

if folks got married because he/she is good for me and my life and not just good to certain body parts...I'd say this could be true.

But nowadays, some folks are not married and in love....they married with "arrangements"

[lightandlovely1]

Originally posted by ThickBodyHottie+
...
...hate to say it, but usually men have a hard time getting over women, so divorcees - especially recent ones - are taboo

I'm in agreement with this. I am EXTREMELY cautious about dealing with a man who has been divorced for less than a year or 2.