Foreplay/Afterplay

[Brightness]

I think the general consensus among women vs. men on this subject is that we love it, want it, need it . . .while in most cases men don't tend to place as much importance or emphasis on it.

What exactly is your personal definition and preference when it comes to foreplay & afterplay? On a scale of 1-10 what importance do you place upon it?

LADIES: Do you specifically make your desires as far as foreplay & afterplay known to your S/O such as length of time, erogenous zones, firmer/softer touch, etc or do you tend to settle for less?

MEN: Do you set about trying to satisfy a woman who's definition may not be the same as yours. . .(I.E. she likes 20 minutes of kissing followed by 45 minutes of oral or whatever her desire might be. . .)

[ThickBodyHottie]

Originally posted by Brightness+

LADIES: Do you specifically make your desires as far as foreplay & afterplay known to your S/O such as length of time, erogenous zones, firmer/softer touch, etc or do you tend to settle for less?


I do not make my desires known...he can pretty much tell if i want or need foreplay...if it doesn't work, he doesn't get in and must try again...:hearts:

[OhSoPrecious]

I would say Foreplay = 10~!! :) During foreplay, I am usually already in that zone Que talked about in his thread. . . and I just go with the flow~!! :upto: :evil:

There's not much afterplay going on though~!! :rolleyes:

(sigh)

[mack_black]

Aww C'mon Afterplay? :rolleyes:

After some significant work has been dropped down, the only play you're gonna be thinking about is curling up and going to sleep ;)

[Bedroomeyes]

There must be foreplay - I would say it is an 8 on my scale.. *leaving room for the quickies.. ;) *

I'm with Mack.. Not too much afterplay going on..

[que90nek]

afterplay is lovely...
thats when they take it in their mouth...
and make sure that all the nut is out....
damn...its hard again!!!! now that afterplay became foreplay!

and

etc etc

[CD]

I like to keep it simple

Foreplay:

Lady:I like to get the women nice and wet by any means necessary. That usually means making her cum prior to penetration.

Me: The thought of just hitting that pootang, and seeing her move her body like a snake is a good start for me.

After play:

I like a samich sometime or a couple of fried chicken wings with some hot sauce if I really put in some work.

My intentions are all ways the same. I tell the honey dip up front: I'm going to do the best I can for as long as you let me"....:D

[Brightness]

Not all men are capable of putting in 'significant work' and that may be the case for some women, too.

Originally posted by mack_black+
Aww C'mon Afterplay? :rolleyes:

After some significant work has been dropped down, the only play you're gonna be thinking about is curling up and going to sleep ;)

[Brightness]

I'm glad someone else on here appears to know (and dare I say, ENJOY) the experience of afterplay.


Originally posted by que90nek+
afterplay is lovely...
thats when they take it in their mouth...
and make sure that all the nut is out....
damn...its hard again!!!! now that afterplay became foreplay!

and

etc etc

[mack_black]

making a mental note....Brightness could be an excellent dish served hot ;)

so how many rounds per night are you capable of :eek: :wolf :eek: :wolf

[seductive_tee]

Foreplay is a good thing with me, i would put it on a scale of a 8.

Afterplay - cuddling, and a drink!

[sistuhchey]

NO DRY-PHUCKS allowed.....Afterplay:: Hold me, touch me, sleep with with me...let me know you liked it...so we can start all over again....I'll do my part and you do yours...:cool: :cool: