Choice in a mate/S.O.

[Brightness]

Which would you prefer in a mate/S.O. and why. . . someone who's personality is routine and predictable or someone who is exciting and spontaneous? Do you find your preference may have changed from the one you had when younger?

[shtalker]

Someone a little of both things, I like someone who has a plan set for the things and I also want a little excitement and for the personto be spontaneous too. I think a person can have a little of both.

[HulaSista]

i think i prefer someone who is predictable...cause i am...

but, because i like the shock factor...i enjoy one who i spontaneous.

my choice in men has not changed much, but have been defined greatly to the gravest detail...that i appreciate...

[ThickBodyHottie]

predictably spontaneous, like myself...

[SeaDuceme2]

had enough of same ol same ol, need and like spontanaeity

[seductive_tee]

I'd want someone who had some spontaniety in them....someone who can spice up the relationship sometimes.....

[nubianx2]

I get bored with the routine thing, I gotta have some spontaniety.

[Tastey]

I love a man who is exciting and spontaneous to the point that I can rarely guess what he's going to next.

It makes you want to hang around and find out what tomorrow is gonna be like.

[swtjamaica]

i'd have it no other way!!!

[Deelicious]

I need a combination of both... I don't want somebody that I KNOW what they're gonna do, say, or how they're gonna react to every situation... that would be damn boring! Gotta have a little excitement/spontaneity, but haveing it ALL the time can get a little nerve racking too.

I need a balance.

[adaya]

i need a combination of both. i am a fairly routine and predictable person, so i need someone who can relate and appreciate that. however, i will surprise your ass when you least expect it. i would like for my man to be able to bring me the same type of unexpected excitement. i think that too much spontanaeity would tap on my 3rd nerve........