Sexual Peaks...

[Qjai]

Generally when does a woman reach her sexual peak...

cause here lately....if sex could be a full-time job my ass would be up for a promotion with all the overtime I'm putting in and not too long ago a month or so could go by with no problem with me.

[mystkev]

I'm not exactly sure, but I think somewhere in the mid - late 30s, I guess around 35.

[Tastey]

I don't believe there is a sexual peak. It's just a myth.

I think that some women get older and learn their bodies better therefore they appreciate and enjoy sex more than they did at 18 or 25 or 30 but it's not age that's doing it. It's about experience.

There are 22 yr old women who know their bodies well enough to be peaking right now and 35 year old women who are bored with sex.

Personally I've always enjoyed sex to the utmost. Even my first time which is what most women say was painful was the BOMB diggidy to me. lol :p

[OhSoPrecious]

However, sex didn't get really good for me til I reached my 30's~!! :upretty And, I feel like I can go another 30 years, or so~!!! :D

[lightandlovely1]

I can't speak for anyone else but somewhere around 33 or 34, sex started to get really good. Now at 37, I've lost my damned mind!!:blast There is no way I can stand it if it gets much better. :upretty

[Brightness]

I feel like I came out the gates 'peaking' and although I don't get all the sex I want, it's not that I've not peaked. . .it's that I'm more discriminating in my encounters.

I think it's more mental and being comfortable with yourself, your body & knowing your sexual preferences than anything.

I would say that for some women this comes later because of how sex was introduced into their lives. . .were they molested, abused, raped. . .did they lose their virginity just to have something to do. . .did they regret losing their virginity. . .do they regret a lot of their past sexual experiences.

I think it can be any or all of these are factors or different ones. . .also, when you're able to take a man and show him how to make you achieve orgasm, instead of wishing he knew or being scared of offending or coming off wrong. . .that's some powerful stuff right there. . .sistah-girl, you have arrived. :upretty

[Sparkles]

pushing my chair back, giving BRIGHTNESS a standing ovation!!!
Very well put and more folks need to realize how there past can affect them!!!!


Originally posted by Brightness+

I feel like I came out the gates 'peaking' and although I don't get all the sex I want, it's not that I've not peaked. . .it's that I'm more discriminating in my encounters.

I think it's more mental and being comfortable with yourself, your body & knowing your sexual preferences than anything.

I would say that for some women this comes later because of how sex was introduced into their lives. . .were they molested, abused, raped. . .did they lose their virginity just to have something to do. . .did they regret losing their virginity. . .do they regret a lot of their past sexual experiences.

I think it can be any or all of these are factors or different ones. . .also, when you're able to take a man and show him how to make you achieve orgasm, instead of wishing he knew or being scared of offending or coming off wrong. . .that's some powerful stuff right there. . .sistah-girl, you have arrived. :upretty

[misha]

I am 40 and sex has never been so good. I can remember back in my 20's......even with the most effort on both our parts, I had an orgasm about 50 percent of the time.

Now, even bad sex gives me orgasms....LOL

But it is true....the past can affect a womans sexuality. Positively, or negatively.

[HulaSista]

Originally posted by Tastey+
Even my first time which is what most women say was painful was the BOMB diggidy to me. lol :p

me too......

i am peaking right now, but, for different reasons. my body is still changing and so i find myself discovering something new about myself each time. its more in what type of man i want that will match my body...

[nubianx2]

Since I've hit my 30's sex for me has risen to a different level. I think the reason being is that I'm more in tune with my body.

[lightandlovely1]

Not only has sex gotten very good for me but I've also gotten a lot more demanding.

[Brightness]

Can we hear your thoughts/experiences about sexual peaks?

For women or men?

[davinci]

where's my reply? gave a somewhat lengthy, yet succint reply to this sunday morning and *poof* it's gone. i know it went thru because i edited it twice and since i lack deleting powers....

[Brightness]

sucked into the vacuum with the rest of the other posts.

[davinci]

physiologically, puberty to 25:

males get testosterone going and that energy is manifested in aggression which comes thru in sexual energy because they don't have a lot to grow save hairy nuts and an adam's apple. but control begins to happen near the end. which is why most male pro-athletes put off relationships until late twenties.

females get estrogen going and it manifests itself in growth of vital organs and functions. more work and less excess energy.

25-33

males are coming off the "sugar high" and taming themselves. one of the reasons sex is less emotional for men is that it started out physical and it's hard to switch gears.

females are coming off the estro-peak, but since they are used to the withdrawals - since it's been happening monthly for years now - the balance allows testosterone to assert itself. most women admit that at this time they seem to stand up for themselves and get more aggressive. again, aggressive energy is manifested sexually more often than not. but it doesn't have to be. most world class female athletes come into their prime around this time: flo jo, bonnie blair, jackie joyner-kersey, etc and glass ceiling breakers in the corporate world. it last a while until the ultimate estrogen w/drawal takes place...you know....

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not as eloquent as the first, but it WAS titled, i know little about a lot of things

[Andre98]

Originally posted by Brightness+
Can we hear your thoughts/experiences about sexual peaks?

For women or men?

I agree with the Tastey one. And I'll take that on faith :D
I don't think you can define a peak, so much as a continuing discovery of new sensations. I think the decline of sexuality is due more to age and the hormonal changes affecting the plumbing. I can say that I don't recoup the "boing" in my wood nearly as fast as I used to, and that can be frustrating if I send up a flare before the real fireworks begin. ( Don't cha love metaphors?) I can say that the acquired skills or, "tastes" only get going later. I laugh when I remember back in the teenage years, trying to hold my breath when my face was "in the place". LMAO be ready to pass out in the punani trying not to smell it. But then the young females had a thing or two to understand about just how clean you gotta be down there too. And a lot can be said about long term sexual intimacy. That has influenced the peaking process too. There's no fear that a bad "at bat" will torpedoe a fledgling relationship. Doing it raw is the bomb too.... I hated the condom era, thank goodness it was only a brief era in my history. Fear of STDs would also be a inhibitor of the action, especially orally. I know I am peaking in that area, and I hope that is not due to decline any time soon. Unlike my younger self, I welcome the scent of an aroused, wet open pussy, it's "my" wet open pussy.... I talk to it, it answers me, and we have a regular conversation. Wifey has to tap me on the head sometimes and say, "Hey, I'm up here!" It's easy to get off in a zone. Where the young Andre98 was fearing to tread, trying to use just the tip of his tongue, the old Andre98 is in up to his ears. ;)

[davinci]

dre is a different kinda nigga? remind me of the 7-up dude in boomerang.

[CD]

I know I haven't reached my sexual peak. It seams that the better I understand myself as well as understanding women, the sex gets better.

[HulaSista]

how is it that CD and Andre are the two oldest dudes in this thread and have two differet POV's...

CD I was hopin your comments would be closest to Dre's... looking for a trend in the ageing process...

[Melotic]

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