I'm not feeling you...

[Vronni]

Fam,after you have fallen out of love with someone,Can you ever recapture the feeling? And if so,how? I ask this because I can think about exes and have good memories but it would be hard to give them a second chance after all the drama I went through in the past. It's like I love you -but I'm not in love with you.

[OhSoPrecious]

I've recaptured that feeling once in my lifetime. . . I hadn't seen my Ex in fifteen years~!! :eek: He and I ran into each other at the Supermarket one day~!! LOL

We started dating again... two years later, our daughter was born~!! :hearts:

Ask me where he is now~!!!!! :rolleyes:

It's all good though. . . :cool: From our union, I was blessed with a beautiful little girl, and I don't care if I never see him again~!!! :blah: :(

Damn, that sounds mean, huh~?? :rolleyes:


Such is life~!!! :p

Btw, I love my Ex's too. . . I'm just not in love with them~!!! ;)

[ThickBodyHottie]

there is always a reason why your ex is an ex...always...and as far as "recapturing"...well, i always thought that if it must be "recaptured" it wasn't love from the get...

[OhSoPrecious]

that's why my shyt didn't last, huh~?? :eek: And, we were engaged to be married~!! :(

[Tastey]

It's not about recapturing old feeling but the feelings never left to begin with.

I've recently begun dating an ex...so far so good but I'm going real sloooooooooooow on this one.

[SeaDuceme2]

I believe this is the million dollar question...I believe if the love is gone it's gone.....

You can never get back the love you once had, that is now gone.

[nubianx2]

Nope I can't go back. I always have flashbacks of all the reasons we ended the relationship in the first place. More than likely he hasn't changed, just the date and time.

[Vronni]

Originally posted by nubianx2+

[Quote][/b] I always have flashbacks of all the reasons we ended the relationship in the first place. More than likely he hasn't changed, just the date and time. [/b] [Quote]

See,that's what I'm saying but then I feel bad because ideally if you forgive someone for their past mistakes, shouldn't you forget as well ?

[KissableSexyShortStuff]

I dated a guy in high school broke up with when he went into the military we got back together 4 years later and lasted 4 years.......


Will I it again? Only time will tell me......

[Tastey]

Originally posted by Tastey+
It's not about recapturing old feeling but the feelings never left to begin with.

I've recently begun dating an ex...so far so good but I'm going real sloooooooooooow on this one.

I learned from this experience that it's rare that you can go back and it doesn't take long for you to realize why you left in the first place.

[Brightness]

I think there was a basic reason to why you wanted them in the first place and if there's been the passage of time and you've grown as a person, you're able to relate to them on a different level than you did previously.

As far as tring to totally relive something from the past that has fizzled out. . .I'm not sure.

I'm still attracted to my first love/sexual partner, we've grown so much from the 18/19 yr. old that we were but we still have an attraction for one another. . .we haven't seriously explored it (he's about 100 miles away) but I don't believe that it would be out of the question because the foundation for why we cared about each other is/was left undamaged. We were able to remain friends, we lost touch for a few years and last year we got back in touch so you never know. . .we aren't rushing or forcing it, if it happens then it happens.