favors

[HulaSista]

if you ask me for something.

and I do it.

then I ask you to reciprocate.

why you tryna negotiate? I didn't negotiate on your request?

Why must I get mad about it before you realize that the law of reciprocity applies to YOU, too.

THEN you finally do it.

This really burns me up.

[mystkev]

Some people are just selfish. They want you to do for them, but don't want to do for you.

[dulce]

forget them - what chu need, mami?

[Tastey]

Do favors for anyone because I just don't like the idea that we have to be even/steven.

If I do something...it's done. I don't expect to be paid back and like Hula said Negros always trying to negotiate. :blah:

I just took the word favor out of my vocabulary...if you want me to do something...just ask. :)

[HulaSista]

Dulce-lady: i need negros to stop negotiating!

Tastey, I feel you.

What about if those favors are... intimate?

(remember my post in another thread: feed me 3 square meals = giving good head? lol)

Anyways...

just had to vent.

although, there is a give and take... i mean, what good is it to do one without the other. it is a tool that helps build relationships, i thought. keep thangs from going one sided. maybe i am wrong. maybe i am still bitter (thinkin back to bad relationship...)

my girlfreinds are great with the negotiating stuff.

how does baby sitting my son equal discussions of me moving to la with you? i may want to move to la, but NOT WITH YOU! (ya'll feel me? "after all i've done for you and your son..." wtf?)

i guess... i really get funky about it when the negotiations are somewhat... off. (see above example)

[Tastey]

Originally posted by HulaSista+
Dulce-lady: i need negros to stop negotiating!

Tastey, I feel you.

What about if those favors are... intimate?


Well, I have been known to scream "Nigga I s*cked your d*ck last night and you won't wash my car?"...LOL

But it got clean...tires too. LOL

However I try to stay away from intimate favors. Brothers always saying sh*t like...
If I cut your grass...what you gone do for me?
If I move a couch...what you gone do for me?

I ain't doing nothing for you Nigga...just cus you negotiating. LOL :p

[HulaSista]

riiiiiiiight.... see....

one dude tried to negotiate the first date to equal me cookin for him

wtf?

i cooks for my child... and my husband. which you are neither.

i think he thought he was doing me a favor by wanting the date.