Watch your cyber back...WTF???

[14KBlaqWmn]

Today I decided to check my notes and emails on BP. One of the notes said: "Hello sweetie. How r u? Are you bisexual?"

Usually notes like that I just delete and keep on rolling, but I was already in a funk today so I decided to respond back. What I told this person was: "Obviously you don't know how to read because my profile states that I am HETEREOSEXUAL".

I'm thinking that was the end of that....wrong. She/he/it/they responded back saying "Obviously you don't know who I am because we have met. I've spent some time in your apartment off of #### Road".

I have no clue who this is. The only female that I've had at my crib is Soft and I know she ain't bi or would do something stupid like that. My roommate's friends aren't bi so it's no telling who this could be. The only rational explanation would be somebody around the neighborhood has seen me before and then ran across my page on BP.

I'm not scared that someone knows me and I don't know who they are, it actually pisses me off something unreal.

Have any of you had something weird like this happen because you have a page or profile on the internet? If so, how did it make you feel? How did you handle the situation?

[Melotic]

They probably saw you, and made a connection... You probably don't have worry about, but I would be curious to know who they are... A friend of mine had someone steal their fotos, and claim to be them on another site... How you handle it, ignore or take the site down...

I hate BP... BV is ok, but none are like Hush...

[14KBlaqWmn]

I thought the same thing that it could be a prank. It could actually be a dude trying to play games.

At any rate, I'm not gonna spend any more time or energy into the matter.

Mel, I'm tripping on your friend's photos being stolen. That is so ridiculous. We had a Hush member once who did the same thing. I wonder who that could be? :rolleyes:

[Qjai]

a friend of mine had something like that done to her....she felt like she was being stalked...from that I decided to get rid of any profiles/pages that I had online..just not worth the drama

[14KBlaqWmn]

I hear ya Qjai, but to me that's giving that person the upper hand. The signal is being sent that what they did is scaring you off. I refuse to allow anyone to do that to me.

[Tastey]

Originally posted by 14KBlaqWmn+
Today I decided to check my notes and emails on BP. One of the notes said: "Hello sweetie. How r u? Are you bisexual?"

Usually notes like that I just delete and keep on rolling, but I was already in a funk today so I decided to respond back. What I told this person was: "Obviously you don't know how to read because my profile states that I am HETEREOSEXUAL".

I'm thinking that was the end of that....wrong. She/he/it/they responded back saying "Obviously you don't know who I am because we have met. I've spent some time in your apartment off of #### Road".


In this case I think your best reply would have been no reply.

There are crazy people on the internet, who will do crazy things and replying to someone with an insult...is never a wise thing to do.

I know a guy who breeds virus' and if he had received said response from you...he would have emailed you that virus.

There are also hackers who can get into your personal files, your credit files, your address.

Even if this person does not know you...they can find out.

I understand you were not in the mood for it...and I don't blame you for what you said...just saying in the future it's best to just delete it and move on.

[seductive_tee]

What if that was not a prank? And how do you know your roommate is or does not have bi-sexual friends....

[14KBlaqWmn]

To Tastey: Yeah, I know it's not a good idea, the reason why I don't answer the other notes that say the same kinda BS. I stated why I answered the note. I was already in a bad mood. The fact that someone just disregarded what I had on my profile pissed me off so I responded.

Now, as far as for getting a lot of my personal info from a BP note.....good luck. I don't respond to emails that I don't recognize, so if your friend or anyone else that I don't know sends me something, it will get deleted.


To Tee: If it wasn't a prank....oh well....I'm not gonna worry about it. As for my roommate, before she moved in we talked about stuff like that. Her comment then was "I'm strictly dickly. Never lickly". And based on the fact that I've seen her going out with dudes and I've heard her with these dudes, I don't have a lot of reason for believing that she is anything but straight.

After that person said they knew where I lived, I showed my roommate the note and asked her about her friends. Her comment was that they were straight and wouldn't pull something stupid like that.

[Bedroomeyes]

Man BW... That's some scary shit.. Even though it may be a prank.. It's scary to know someone who knows you is crazy enough to pull some shit like that.... What about their profile? Are you able to look them up by name and get some clues??

I have never been one to put my info on the net.. I too am on bp but I never filled out the profile info... I guess it's a good thing that I didn't... :rolleyes:

[14KBlaqWmn]

The only thing that I saw was that it was a 29 year old female.

I ain't worried about it now 'cause the same thing could have happened even if I never had a profile up or ever been on the net. You never know who's watching you and you shouldn't spend your life worrying about it either.

[Qjai]

BW, I think that if you just suddenly up and took everything down that person might feel as if they scared you off. For me, It just got to the point where I wasn't interested in that stuff anymore and I didnt' want to leave my face or info floating around the net.

I dont think you have anything to worry about with this...its still just words on the screen. Just be careful and like you said, watch your back.

[OhSoPrecious]

Originally posted by 14KBlaqWmn+
You never know who's watching you and you shouldn't spend your life worrying about it either.

I agree. . . just be careful though~!! ;) There are some crazy people out there in this world we live in~!!

I never had anything like that happen to me. . . however, I met this guy in a chatroom once. . he and I kicked it off pretty well. . the topic of sex never came into conversation (I swear) and I felt pretty comfortable with that. . .

Later on did I find out he was a 59 year old man living in Canada owning his own company (I did my research on this one). . . he and I lost touch somehow. . . :rolleyes: It was sort of my decision not to keep in touch with this man anymore. . . cause he told me that he loved me one day and that freaked me out~!! :(

It's been a year or so. . and he called me this past weekend~!! :eek: YIKES~!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm just gonna be careful. . .

[14KBlaqWmn]

This whole world is full of craziness. Not just on the net. All any of us can do is proceed with caution.

[Mocha]

that's fucked up!

[MsMeelah]

[QUOTE]Originally posted by 14KBlaqWmn+
[B]Today I decided to check my notes and emails on BP. One of the notes said: "Hello sweetie. How r u? Are you bisexual?"

I get Gay women and couples and people wanting to have orgies and all types of weird shit on BP.. When I first joined 2 years ago bp was nothing like that. Now it has become a virtual freak fest