I am everything you NEED?!?!?!

[Sparkles]

I here folks say that comment all the time and I know exactly what they mean when they say, but how do you know, you are everything that he or she needs? What is it based on, what is everything?!?!!?!

just curious!!!

[FoxEMomma]

they mean spiritually, physically, fiancially.

[Sparkles]

I would think emotionally should be on the list also.

[HulaSista]

you are right: WHAT is this based on?

Its based on ME, at the age that i am, knowing ME and what a man (in general) wants, i can say i am everything you need.

but if he needs something different or something more than i can provide, only time can tell when we both figure that part out.

so then, the "everything" is just a sales pitch for you to "choose me! choose me!" and really doesn't capture the "everything" that you are. or he/she is.

[Sparkles]

because for myself sometimes, hell I don't know what I need so how can someone esle come up with if for me.. With all that said and done, there is still a lot folks who really don't know what they need and different folks need different things,,

[HulaSista]

lady, you right, different folks do need different things.

i had a convo with someone and he asked "are there any particular things you want me to provide when you get here?"

and i said: 3 square meals a day

when i asked him what he needs, he said: 3 square blow jobs a day!

ctfu...

folks REALLY do have different needs! lmao

disclaimer: JUST JOKES...i am not givng no body 3 blow jobs a day as equal payment to feed me! ctfu!

[Sparkles]

you are something else, ctfu--when are you getting your own stand up show, cause I would back ya......lol

[misha]

Hula! You kill me girl!

I don't think it is possible to be everything to some one. I can give my love, my emotional support, my body, etc...but I am hoping that this man has other interests that stimulate him, so that he isn't looking at me ten years from now saying, you don't complete me any more!

[nubianx2]

I really can't see someone being completely and totally what I need. However, I do see someone thru time becoming more and more of what I need/desire.

[Tastey]

I think that as women we have men who tell us what they need and our nurturing natures cus us to give it...then when this brother moves on our doesn't accept it we are confused because we thought we have given him everything he needed...but actually he didn't really tell us everything.

For me I think that someone could give me all I need although I have not found him yet.

[swtjamaica]

...one person can be everything one needs...they can fulfill most of the things, i'm sure...they would be perfect if that was the case, and we all KNOW that ain't so...

[SoftNwet]

What you want and what you need. We all want to have the "house on the hill, the husband, and the 3.5 kids" or something like that. But what we must not do it get our wants and need confused. And as was stated before peoples need change from day today. Yeah I need roof over my head but do I want to give up my peice of mind to get it?? Yeah I need to have a job but do I want to work where I am not fulfilled?? We can ususaly provide for ourselves what we need. A mate may be able to contribute to those needs but 9 times out of 10 our SO fulfills our wants..........we know what we need and how to get that.


SIDEBAR: Breaking out of the Sex forum slowly, as not to offend.

[D2daO2da]

A simple way to find out is to have him/her explain to you what they are looking for in a mate. Then from there you can see if you are what they truly need (at the time), can you grow with the person, you can be what they need in January and not what they need in July.

So you have to audit the relationship to keep it fresh,
Take inventory ,
We need more Hugs on isle 5,
We are running out of compliments, order some more hon.

ya know stuff like that.
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