Not in the mood anymore!

[lovely]

I am usually a very sexual person. But for the last couple of weeks i could care less if i have sex or not. I've never ever felt like this before...and i dont know why i do at this time.
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Has anyone else felt like this before? If so, what did you do?

[mystkev]

That happens to me from time to time. It usually passes on its own. Give it time, maybe your body is oversexed.

[seductive_tee]

I get like that.....and it'll pass like mystkev said....

you could be just bored, or maybe tired of the same routine.....

[nubianx2]

Maybe you need something new and exciting to spark your excitement and get your juices flowing again.

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by lovely+
I am usually a very sexual person. But for the last couple of weeks i could care less if i have sex or not. I've never ever felt like this before...and i dont know why i do at this time.
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Has anyone else felt like this before? If so, what did you do?

I tried to wait it out to see if the mood would change. It really did not, so I tried to do it and see if that would help. So now I am on complete chill mode..........Talk about loosing your MOJO!!!:(

[Juicey1]

Yes, I have been like that. I guess when you get it on a regular, then your body has to take vacation just like you have to take one from work.

[HulaSista]

lovely... last time i felt like this... i picked up a gambling habit! :D

hope you're able to find something great to get into!

[D2daO2da]

Write a book.

You have plenty of time.

Sit down with the computer and start writing. Write about anything. Your mind is working on something causing you to not want sex.

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[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by D2daO2da
Write a book.

You have plenty of time.

Sit down with the computer and start writing. Write about anything. Your mind is working on something causing you to not want sex.

D

I got half a novel comeplete!!!! Damn a computer right now!

[Mocha]

I think it is just being over sexed, and right now your body just need a rest...it will pass. You just need something real exciting to get you back in the mood.

[D2daO2da]

write down 10 things that stimulate you. Then see if they are what you are currently doing. If not, try to do some of those things. If not don't worry about it. It's like belbottom jeans. They always come in and out of style.

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[OhSoPrecious]

Originally posted by lovely+
Has anyone else felt like this before?

Of course~!! Try not being in the mood for a few months. . like six months~!! :eek:

I was actually on strike from August 2001 til February 2002. . . girl, time was up~!!!!!!!! :upto: :evil:

[misha]

I have gone through that before. It was temporary, and I just went with it until the feeling came back. But then I didn't have a man, and didn't have to explain to anyone what was going on...that can make it difficult, because the first thing he is going to think is...."what did I do to cause this" or "Is it me?"

[Brightness]

If I'm with a partner and this strikes, then I try to get to the root of the cause. Is there something I am suppressing, am I feeling under stress and not feeling their support. . .it could be any number of things when you're in a relationship which brings about this mood.

As a single person, I've felt this way but it was more of a conscious decision on my part so I didn't view it as a problem. . .I know I could always get the d*ck if I really want it.

[HulaSista]

Originally posted by Brightness+
...I know I could always get the d*ck if I really want it.

Watch out! Don't say that too loud. Someone may say you have low self esteem, or, lack self respect because you have no... uh um... depth.

[Toffee]

It could be outside stress causing this.

[lightandlovely1]

Yes, it happened to me. I've been celibate for a while now and I think it happened because I was getting too much. Take a break and when your body is ready, you'll be back in the saddle.