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lightandlovely1
03-10-2002, 05:52 AM
What non-sexual act is so romantic to you that it turns you on? For me it's a foot or back rub with oils. Another thing is musical - a man that can play an instrument for me, sing to me, recite poetry.
Toffee
03-10-2002, 06:13 AM
Eye Contact
mystkev
03-10-2002, 06:18 AM
Originally posted by Toffee+
Eye Contact and I've said this before so I hope I don't sound like a broken record, smelling my own feet, it is something about the way they smell that sends a rush through my body.
misha
03-10-2002, 06:25 AM
a man being creative turns me on very much. playing an instrument, reciting poetry, singing, dancing, yeah, I am a fool for that kind of thing.
OhSoPrecious
03-10-2002, 12:36 PM
I would have to say body language & a man dressed in any type of uniform. . i.e. military, police, etc.~!! :upretty
SoftNwet
03-10-2002, 01:32 PM
well dressed man walk into a room and just his presence alone comands and demands respect. That shit turns me on.
HulaSista
03-10-2002, 03:18 PM
holding hands seems to do it
sistuhchey
03-10-2002, 04:39 PM
him rub on his bearded face....watching him sleep...and then seeing him clean and sharp interacting with folks from a distant....
Tastey
03-10-2002, 06:08 PM
Holding a baby, leaning down to talk to a kid, an infectious smile,
eyes that talk to you. WOW....those are my true weaknesses.

But a man who can make me laugh...really laugh hard...can laugh me right out of my draws. LOL :p
Bedroomeyes
03-10-2002, 07:00 PM
eye contact
his smile
a man that smells good
dulce
03-10-2002, 07:23 PM
intelligent conversations - especially in a group setting...
same thing for humor - either being together at the comedy club or at a party - if a brotha can make me laugh or laugh with me...well, tastey said it best:

But a man who can make me laugh...really laugh hard...can laugh me right out of my draws. LOL

also dancing & playing sports together - me and my ex-husband used to play ball on the weekends and after work & then rush home to ball...;)
Juicey1
03-11-2002, 05:16 AM
Seeing him in uniform or a very nice suit.
Seeing my husband on his motorcycle;)
davinci
03-11-2002, 06:15 AM
Originally posted by lightandlovely1
For me it's a foot or back rub with oils. to paraphrase pulp fiction, EVERYTHING is sexual about a foot massage.
lightandlovely1
03-11-2002, 06:41 AM
Originally posted by davinci+
to paraphrase pulp fiction, EVERYTHING is sexual about a foot massage.

Not necessarily. I had one guy looking soulfully into my eyes, trying his best to make the mood romantic - I fell off the bed laughing. Kinda destroyed the mood - lol
lightandlovely1
03-11-2002, 06:41 AM
Originally posted by davinci+
to paraphrase pulp fiction, EVERYTHING is sexual about a foot massage.

Not necessarily. I had one guy looking soulfully into my eyes, trying his best to make the mood romantic - I fell off the bed laughing. Kinda destroyed the mood - lol
D2daO2da
03-11-2002, 08:27 AM
looking at the right woman.

her walk, her hair, her clothes, her shape, her soft skin...

the way she walks, talks and carries herself.

the way she sips her malt liquor from her champagne glass,

the way curves on her body and phat of her ass.. he he

I just vibe... it can be anything.

I think looking clean and neat is a turn on. and something about glasses.

D
seductive_tee
03-11-2002, 11:57 AM
ya'll know my answer....a hairy chest
que90nek
03-11-2002, 12:19 PM
Originally posted by seductive_tee+
ya'll know my answer....a hairy chest

what a cop out. :rolleyes:
CD
03-11-2002, 01:08 PM
Originally posted by seductive_tee+
ya'll know my answer....a hairy chest

Somebody told on me. That's one of the things I like.....when a woman strokes my back or chest that will make me relax....
Versatile
03-14-2002, 11:59 AM
Basketball for sure. Plus my king has a real deep voice so sometimes him saying a simple world like "mash potatoes" just make me ready.
SoftNwet
03-14-2002, 12:00 PM
Originally posted by Versatile+
Basketball for sure. Plus my king has a real deep voice so sometimes him saying a simple world like "mash potatoes" just make me ready.

Not mash potatoes!!!!! :D
FoxEMomma
03-14-2002, 12:07 PM
His Teeth
his skin
his cologne

driving on a dark road with a nice CD playing
eye contact...
PecanTan
03-14-2002, 12:12 PM
A man who smells good and looks good to boot, a knowing glance that passes between the two of us.
Versatile
03-14-2002, 12:22 PM
Originally posted by SoftNwet+
Not mash potatoes!!!!! :D


Yes mash potatoes...and don't let him say "peas" because that sounds to much like "please" which equals he begging for it *LOL*
Melotic
03-14-2002, 12:41 PM
Athletic sistas...
Spiritual sistas...
smart sistas...
:)
adaya
03-14-2002, 05:44 PM
there are a few things that i really like:
a nicely dressed man
a man wearing a good-smelling cologne
a man who is intelligent
a man who is down-to-earth
a man who is funny

but one thing that can really get me is a man's walk.
if a brotha ain't goofy, and has a confident stride, i will definitely pay attention. heck, if his stride is really, really confident(& he's fine & has a nice butt;)) i just might follow him!!!
lightandlovely1
03-15-2002, 02:36 AM
Originally posted by adaya+
.....

but one thing that can really get me is a man's walk.
if a brotha ain't goofy, and has a confident stride, i will definitely pay attention. heck, if his stride is really, really confident(& he's fine & has a nice butt;)) i just might follow him!!!

I'm feeling you on that, a man with a confident stride is very sexy to me too.
MsMeelah
03-15-2002, 09:56 AM
I have a thing for thick lips.... I love a man with some thick juicy soft looking lips.!:D