Game Recognize GAME!

[que90nek]

Let's list some tell tell signs that we all (ya'll single folks) should watch for....List by RED FLAG (STOP)and YELLOW FLAG (proceed with caution)

1. If you call and leave a message and he doesnt return your call for a week -- RED FLAG
2. If his last real relationship was 13 years ago -- Yellow FLAG


*i don't have a lot of examples right now...ya'll help me out!*

[dulce]

if he or she is living with their baby's daddy/momma but they say that they're not "together" - RED FLAG!!!

and here are a few more RED FLAGS that a friend of mine should seen so she wouldn't a been crushed when she found out her man was married (now tell these ain't clear!)

1. he only calls from work or his cell
2. he never takes you on a date - only to the hot tubs by the job at lunch time
3. you can't have his home number
4. you can't have his address (cuz there's baby momma issues - yeah right!)
5. he comes by your house, fucks ya and then has to bail because of an emergency that he found out about when he called somebody (they didn't call him!) and this scenario happens everytime he comes over...

[seductive_tee]

Que you something else.......and why can't the married folks answer...HELL they MAY have more game than the singles...:rolleyes:

[que90nek]

married folks can answer...but why do i care about this stuff...i don't.

[mystkev]

*If they live with their family, you've been to their house, but have never met their family even though they were at home (your probably not their main squeeze) ~ reddish-yellow flag


*If their always busy working, but don't ever have any money ~ red flag

*If the only time you receive a call is after 10pm, even though they get off work at 5pm (booty call) ~ red flag

*If the only time they call is after they've been to the club (booty call) ~ red flag

*If things are always coming up (car brokedown, gotta take mama to the airport, my sister need to go grocery shopping) ~ yellow flag

[davinci]

she's ALWAYS on the phone (hold on...hold on...hold on)...yellow flag

[nubianx2]

They never use your given name when talking to you. - Yellow flag

[que90nek]

lol@nubian....u talkin bout when they on the phone with u? or in general?

[Vronni]

let's see......

*He can never spend the entire night with you

*You never spend any holidays together

*He never takes you out in public and when you see him in a public setting with his friends,he barely acknowledges you

* When you ask why he didn't return your call or page,he always says " What page (message)? I never got it"

*He never buys you anything because he's always "broke "

*When he get's calls on his cell phone,he always whispers or goes into another room to talk

*He never wants to spend time with you when your family or friends are around -"Oh,your sister's over there? Well,call me when she leaves" and never comes to any event being held by your family and friends -even though you've invited him countless times

-That's all for now-

[nubianx2]

Originally posted by que90nek+
lol@nubian....u talkin bout when they on the phone with u? or in general?

Both

[SoftNwet]

RED-FLAG:
You can meet for lunch but you can never go to his office, and he won't come to yours.

You can not call him on his work phone, "Hit me on the celly, or page me that is the best way to reach me!"

His car has a sorority tag: Delta, AKA.

YELLOW FLAG:

His car has car seat dents in the back seat but he claims he has no children.

He lets your call go to voice mail and then calls you back 5 min. later.

The woman you saw him with was his cousin or his boys girlfriend.

[que90nek]

soft...damn those were good...cept for the first one about meeting....

sometimes it can be less than professional to meet multiple women at the job.....as nosy as workmates can be...they don't need to know who i am dating. not yet anyway.....maybe if we become exclusive (engaged) i can take you to a company event.

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by que90nek+
sometimes it can be less than professional to meet multiple women at the job.....as nosy as workmates can be...they don't need to know who i am dating. not yet anyway.....maybe if we become exclusive (engaged) i can take you to a company event.

But he won't come to your office either!!

[Tastey]

Yellow Flag:
If he's ever said any of the following:

Can I borrow $20 bucks till payday...again.
I don't like family...can't we just be alone?
Sure I like your son. (But you have a daughter or viceversa)
Can I borrow your car...again.


If he's ever done any of the following:
Let his phone ring and ring while you are at his home.
Cancelled more than 2 dates at the last minute.
Ignores his pager, although it keeps going off.

Red Flag:
Forgotten Christmas or Valentine's Day (these are NATIONAL holidays)
Won't allow you to just "drop by" while in the neighborhood.

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by Tastey+
Yellow Flag:
If he's ever said any of the following:

Can I borrow $20 bucks till payday...again.


If he is borrowing money he is a buster............not a player!!!

[Tastey]

A busted playa maybe? LOL :p

Seriously I know men who borrow money from one woman to spend on another. LOL :p

[que90nek]

lol

that's funny!

[HulaSista]

Originally posted by dulce+
1. he only calls from work or his cell

mmmmm hmmmmm......

12:02 pm, 3/7/02 - CAUGHT

i asked...he spilled the beans. :beating shit was hella funny. i move on. NEXT!:hammer :D

[SoftNwet]

RED FLAG:
He agrees to meet you.....at his "boys house" and when you ge there he(the boy) boy asks "Is this the one you were talking about?"



This is one thing that they may slip on: Catalogs/Magazines
You are at "his" place and there are magazines and catalogs that come in a womans name, and he claims that they are his sisters. But when you met he said he was an only child. :rolleyes:

[Bedroomeyes]

He talks in code when answering his phone... "hello... yes... no... yeah... ok... no... ok.... bye.. " :rolleyes:

[OhSoPrecious]

When he tells you to meet him at the hotel, get the room before he gets there and then page him with the room number~!! :hammer

That's a double Red Flag. . cause if he suggests that. . then I ain't meeting him nowhere~!!! :blah:

[lightandlovely1]

L&L1 is up in here furiously taking notes

[HulaSista]

Originally posted by OhSoPrecious+
When he tells you to meet him at the hotel, get the room before he gets there and then page him with the room number~!! :hammer

That's a double Red Flag. . cause if he suggests that. . then I ain't meeting him nowhere~!!! :blah:

Saturday , June 10th, 2001..... 12:30 am :cool:

[Sparkles]

some of the things that are being mentioned is straight common sense shit. However, I am wondering who wrote Game 101 anyway and the fact that there is so much waste time and energy put into game playing....Ultimately, what does the player actually take a way from this beside the thrill of lowering there prey self-esteem a few knotches....

[davinci]

"raisin"' his/hers

[SoftNwet]

He will call and leave a message at your house when he knows your work and your cell number.

[MsMeelah]

Originally posted by Tastey+
A busted playa maybe? LOL :p

Seriously I know men who borrow money from one woman to spend on another. LOL :p

Yup thats true.. I was dating a guy once and why did his "girlfriend" find my # and call me. She asked the usual questions.." do you know_________ how long have you been seeing him, were you with this night blah blah" Anyway she asked me about a specific evening and I told her that she took me to dinner and to see a comedy show, she said "That muthafuka borrowed $ from me saying he was taking his daughter and her friends skating and for pizza" Man... some men ain't shit! :beating

[MsMeelah]

Originally posted by que90nek+
Let's list some tell tell signs that we all (ya'll single folks) should watch for....List by RED FLAG (STOP)and YELLOW FLAG (proceed with caution)

1. If you call and leave a message and he doesnt return your call for a week -- RED FLAG
2. If his last real relationship was 13 years ago -- Yellow FLAG


*i don't have a lot of examples right now...ya'll help me out!*

Giving me a pager or cellphone number is a , "girlfriend, babymomma, wife" alert. If I realize that the # is a cell or pager, it goes straight in the trash

[que90nek]

wait wait meelah! come on now....you can't have folks u don't know callin the crib! cell phone first...but after the first date...he should give out the regular digits...or get to steppin!

[MsMeelah]

Lol…I know Imma catch heat for this one but….. It's okay for ME to give my cell phone. But I want the home number!

Originally posted by que90nek+
wait wait meelah! come on now....you can't have folks u don't know callin the crib! cell phone first...but after the first date...he should give out the regular digits...or get to steppin!

[lightandlovely1]

I'm with you Meelah on this one. I want all the damn digits. Too many married men out here creeping for me to accept less. But since I got caller ID and call blocking, they can have my number.

[OhSoPrecious]

I'm pretty comfortable with just the cell phone number. . . initially~!! :upretty

However, Nigga. . don't tell me that when I call your cell.. it will ring.. but I can ONLY leave a message for you that comes across the screen (for you to read). . when that is NOT the case~!!!!!!!!!!!! :hammer

I guess that would be considered a YELLOW flag. . on it's way to a RED one~?!?!?! :eek:

[misha]

I always assume that if I get a cell phone number, that there is a woman at home that may answer if he gives me his home phone. I toss it before he is barely out of sight.

[nubianx2]

Originally posted by misha+
I always assume that if I get a cell phone number, that there is a woman at home that may answer if he gives me his home phone. I toss it before he is barely out of sight.

Misha,
I know quite a few single men that don't have a home phone, just a cell phone.

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by nubianx2+
Misha,
I know quite a few single men that don't have a home phone, just a cell phone.

True but, when I call the cell, DO NOT wait for me to leave a message and then call back!!!

[HulaSista]

Originally posted by que90nek+
wait wait meelah! come on now....you can't have folks u don't know callin the crib! cell phone first...but after the first date...he should give out the regular digits...or get to steppin!

march 17th, 2:00am, Lucky Lounge Oakland California.