My former best friend.

[Tastey]

This afternoon I went to the funeral of a choir member. :(

It was an emotional day anyway, but sitting in the church I saw the woman that used to be my best friend, she is my son's Godmother. I haven't talked to her in 4 years. :(

I don't know why, we just drifted apart. After the service I went over to her and we hugged and cried for several minutes. I love that woman like my sister and when I saw her I realized how much I truly missed her.

Do you have anyone you've lost touch with...for no reason?

[mystkev]

Yeah I do, I have quite a few people that I was really close to but just didn't keep in touch with. I think we get so busy living day to day life, that we lose sight of important things, like friendships. Oh, I can call her tomorrow, tomorrow turns into next week to next month and by then you've lost their number and they have moved.

At least now the two of you can catch up and get back to being close again.

[MsMeelah]

Yes, that happened with my childhood friend Shannon. We saw each other about a year ago we picked up right were we left off.I love that girl like my sister

[HulaSista]

yes

we found each other last december.

she is my new sister.

she even married a guy with my same last name! lmao

[nubianx2]

It's funny sometimes how you lose contact with someone that means a lot to you. Just this morning I was thinking about one of my girlfriends that I've lost tough with. I need to do some diggin to locate her.

[D2daO2da]

Hmmm, I don't have one of thos stories. I been real blessed to have the people that I defined as Friends/Family still with me.

D

[seductive_tee]

Yes, my girl Lynette....we have recently been keeping in touch.....technology is something else....let me go send her a text message right quick....

[lightandlovely1]

Yes, my best friend Beverly. We were friends from the 1st grade on. She taught me so many things and I like to think that I taught her a few things. Then we took different paths in life and lost touch with each other when we were about 18. I haven't seen her in almost 20 years. Last week I tracked down members of her family and got her phone number. We chatted briefly but are so different now that I dont' see us as ever being like we were. That's ok though because I believe that some people come into our lives for a reason and when they have completed their purpose, they move on.

[OhSoPrecious]

When you run into one of those lost friends. . and they don't want to be friends anymore~!! :rolleyes:

There's someone I grew up with that I've lost touch with over the past ten years. . . I ran into her sometime last year, we exchanged numbers and promised to keep in touch with each other. . I've been doing my part. . but, she has not been doing hers~!! :( So, I might just lose touch. . again~!!

[Tastey]

*bump*

[KissableSexyShortStuff]

yes I have two firendd like that and we "found" each other last year.....


One we grew up together from age 5 up until about age 13.. Then we kept in contact..... over the years until about age 16.. Then her parents died and I lost contact until last year....



The other one I knew since the second grade...... Really don't know what happened there we saw each other last year as well....

[belleza]

I ran into a friend from HS. We used to do everything together the prom, roomies at grad night. We drifted apart when I left for college. She was the hip cool one and I was the nerdy one. LOL

I was waiting for a friend outside the Honda place and pulled a book from my purde and she looked from the red light and jumped out of the car and we have been together since...

My other friend from HS and college got married last October, I was in the wedding and held her legs when she had her baby. But I have not seen her since the wedding and now I have that stupid red satin dress in the closet.:rolleyes: She says " it's hard being a wife and mother" I just wish I had known that her getting married would wreck a 20 year friendship.

[Pamalicious]

Patricia - Me and this sista were TIGHT!!!!! Grew up from about 4th all the way thru High School together.

After HS we lost touch and on several occasions I have looked for her.

Well when I came back down here six years ago I went searching again and because (1) finding people on the internet has advanced and (2) her mother had a unique "southern" name..

I FOUND HER!!

I called her Mom and left a message and in about two hours Patricia called me and we stayed on the phone like 5 hours. She is only about 1 hr. 45 minutes away.

We exchanged email addy's and I sent her some pictures of me and my daughter and what not and all of a sudden she stopped taking my phone calls etc.

I know that she has had a hard life - including some addiction YET she is now married and seems to be doing okay. I called her Mom and her mom told me she was a bit embarassed to see me. I couldn't believe it - I've seen this girl in some deep situations.

Well I didn't push it and I stopped calling but at least I know where she is and that she is alright.

[Juicey1]

I am glad to say that I don 't have any friends, that I have really lost touch with. Me & my friend Mary don't keep in touch like we should, but I always send her a Christmas card and maybe a card for her birthday and every now and then I will get to thinking about her and send her a note card. She called me about a month ago and promised to send me pictures of her kids and her new grandbaby. I haven't received the pictures, but I know my girl is going through some thangs with her mom being sick and none of the other siblings wanting to help out. Then she is helping her 18 year old daughter with a baby, plus she works 3rd shift. But I know I can always get in touch with her. The same with Lela.

The one friend that I had through grade school and most of high school, well, we had a fight in high school and never spoke to each other again. I learned through another school mate that she said she did me wrong and she wishes she had never done me the way she did. When her sister was killed in a auto accident, I sent her a card, but I never heard anything from her.