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Reesecup1
02-26-2002, 09:31 PM
commit adultery on his/her mate?
Reesecup1
02-26-2002, 09:48 PM
Should I have not asked the ? Is this a sore subject for some of you folks? I'm still a youngster, who, as you may already have heard from the Hush president himself, never been married, and I want to know.
mystkev
02-26-2002, 09:53 PM
I didn't answer, b/c I do not know. There are some recent posts about cheating, somewhere. They are probably under Ask the Hushfam or Live Life & Relationships.

Sorry I couldn't be of more help.
que90nek
02-27-2002, 05:38 AM
there are several factors involved with cheating...
Admin
02-27-2002, 07:20 AM
Cmon, answer the dayum question!!

Okay, I have cheated only when three things were going on:

1. I was bored in the relationship.

2. Honey was throwing it sooooooooo hard that I just had to.

3. I was being acussed of cheating and WAS NOT...so I got tired of defending myself and decided to cheat. (Hey, I was 21-22 years old) and I figured that since I was gonna have drama about cheating, I might as well cheat so the next argument would be a valid one. I know this don't make no dayum since, but it did at the time.

Holla
nubianx2
02-27-2002, 07:26 AM
1. They have no sense of commitment or respect.

2. Immaturity

Just to name a few.
que90nek
02-27-2002, 07:42 AM
this question is not simply about cheating....but about adultery.
dulce
02-27-2002, 11:41 AM
cheating/adultury - just semantics, que. diff being one is specific to the institution of marriage. either way reasons were given for why folks strayed and that was basically the intent of the question, wasn't it? hell, you even used the word "cheating".

to add to what's been posted (from stories told to moi)

1. thought they wouldn't get caught
2. selfish
3. greedy
4. thought that everybody cheats, so what's wrong with it?
djackso
02-27-2002, 12:28 PM
Some cheating is a call for attention from their S/O. If you don't pay attention to me somebody else will.
Reesecup1
02-27-2002, 02:35 PM
Hush Fam, I ask that ? to see what responses I would get. My thing is, a person should not walk down that aisle, on their supposed to be wedding day, if they are just going to end up unfaithful. If you are married, and cheating, why remained married? Is it for the children, is it for the convenience?

Admin stated that he got bored.... WTF?