Have you ever been

[lovely]

in a relationship and the sex was great. The best you ever had..and then that relationship ended. You moved on..met someone else and the sex was good....but nowhere near what you had with the ex. Would you sometimes crave the excitement, the freakiness of your least relationship? Would you teach your new lover new things? Would you make do with what you have? Would you move on until you met someone who could provide what you want sexually?

[que90nek]

i often wonder what folks do after me.....

[mystkev]

I have had that happen, I did crave the sex that I had w/my ex. I tried to teach my new lover new things, he was a virgin when we met so he thought I was weird.

I think that if the new person is open minded then you should introduce them to new things, if they are not comfortable move on until you find someone that is more compatible.

[seductive_tee]

I crave certain things from certain past lovers. Sometimes i give them a call.

Actually made a call this weekend...damn cell phone interruptions.....but they got the message.

[nubianx2]

There are momemts when I have pleasant flashbacks, but I always try to keep flashbacks from interfering with the present.

[Mocha]

Originally posted by que90nek+
i often wonder what folks do after me.....

you are real silly!

I bet you think your so good they proababy stoping having sex...or move to other states!:)

[que90nek]

for real!

i've been told that everything is so much better after me...like they are finally awake!

[que90nek]

mocha...i don't think that i am good.....i just AM.

[Brightness]

The best sex (physically) I ever had was with men that I wasn't in relationships with and that can't really compare to the best sex (emotionally). . .they never quite end up the same and I've never tried to turn one into the other. . .they both served their purposes at the time.

And to place myself on the flip side of this. . .I would be really offended for a man to want to make me into a carbon copy of what he believed was his best sexual relationship. True you may introduce new things to me but don't go trying to re-create something you did with someone else with me.

[Mocha]

Originally posted by que90nek+
mocha...i don't think that i am good.....i just AM.

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[CD]

If it was all that, maybe it was more than sex. You can get with someone and the sex will make you fall out, but that's just it, sex.

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by que90nek+
i often wonder what folks do after me.....

Damn, I coulda had a V8!!!!!
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[knowledge7]

Thats why you wear that ass out while you still getting it so that when she gone.. ... she still remembers......and when you bored..and she bored....phones start ringing...

[D2daO2da]

I can't get with that question.. It's not the sex it's the person. You can do the same exact thing to two different people and it will feel different because of the person. One may be more flexible, one is taller, one has bigger breast. and so on. So it's there are more factors to it than just SEX.. I miss a lot of my Ex G's but i am not looking to find the next best representative. I know what I like and anyone is a candidate to take me back to the mountain top. If you want the old stuff and they are still single make a booty call. Other than that.. Move on...

It's like holding on to your first car.. no matter how long you keep it, you'll have to get something else of greater/lesser or equal value.

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[lightandlovely1]

If the sex with my current is mediocre, together we would explore new things. But I would not try to make my current a duplicate of the past.