What makes you faithful in your relationship?

[FAMU]

What makes you faithful in your relationship? Is it just in "your" nature? Your faith? Fear of getting caught? Totally in love and have no reason to stray? *Then what would be a good reason to stray? Do you think its unatural for humans to be in a monogamous relationships?

[mystkev]

I am faithful in my relationship, b/c I am a loyal person if I am w/you only I am w/you only. I wouldn't want to be cheated on, so why would I cheat?.

To me there isn't a good reason to cheat, you cheat b/c you want to, not b/c the other person did something.

It's not unnatural for humans to be in a monogamous relationshiip, but if you want to have sex w/other people realize that before you commit to someone. The person you are w/should have the right to choose what they want in mate. You want to fuck a bunch of women/men, say you do. If people would be honest life would be a lot easier

[knowledge7]

Respect and honor for her. She has to be able to show me that her feelings are genuine and real. That is what will earn her my respect and my honor.

It is like a recipe. You mix all the ingredients together in your african bowl of faithfullness...then you bring out your woman...and add her last... because she is the main ingredient.. Don't set you oven too high.. you want the relationship to simmer and take its time to develop.. so that you gain that trust and respect....after you mix those two in, you got to stir it gently.. and test it a little bit....don't go overboard .. you don't want to get full testing.. you might waste your appetite and lose sight of its original flavor....THEN you add her.. She completes it.. once you find that.. you have a healty faithful relationship......

Enjoy!!!

[Versatile]

I've always been a one man's woman. It was something my parents drilled into all 5 of their daughters. So loyalty comes natuarally once I'm committed to someone.

[CD]

You stay faithful because that's the type of person you are. If you are not faithful then again that's just the type of person you are.

I don't think anyone can make you do Jack, unless they got a gun to your head, and for some folk that won't do it.

It's a weak immature person that's going to blame their actions on someone else.

[Brightness]

It's just in my nature. . .I've never cheated and I realistically don't believe I ever will because I can't adapt the mindset or see the benefit to going through those motions. Just too much wasted energy in my eyes.

I don't think there is ever a good reason to stray. I am not one to be on that 'tit for tat' tip either. . .that's more immature and childish than the person who was unfaithful in the first place.

[D2daO2da]

Faithfus is as faithful does.

Bubba Gump.. lol

[shtalker]

It just was that I have a lot of respect for myself and with the person I am in a relationship with.

[Juicey1]

My love for him makes me faithful. I don't want to mess up our great relationship by being unfaithful. In my mind, there is no one else that can love me like he can, put the smack down like he can and I don't want to try and find out either.

Also, its just my nature to be faithful. I never was one for sexing 3 or 4 guys at a time. I have done two, but the relationships were not committed and they each knew I was seeing someone else.

[lightandlovely1]

Love and respect for my partner. Also complete satisfaction in the relationship. That doesn't mean that he is perfect, just that I am satisfied that together, he and I are working towards a common goal.

[Melotic]

I don't feel the need to go outside the relationship, cause I realize I have alll I need at home... Cheaters never win...

[dulce]

mutual respect & satisfaction plus my own sense of loyalty & honesty

[MsTopshelf]

You're on a roll MR FAMU!

I never cheat when I'm in a monogamous relationship with someone but the temptation has been there but it hasn't been worth it. The one thing that keeps me faithful in my current relationship is my respect for my s.o. and his feelings. Also he is a damn good man and he has my best interest in mind and vice versa. They say opposites attract and we are definitely that. He brings out the best in me and I in him. We get along great and he is just an all aroung good man. He has been hurt in the past and so have I. So its kinda like we don't want to dissappoint each other either. I don't think it is unnatural to be monogamous but both people have to have the same mindset and both have to want the relationship to work. I don't think there is a good reason to stray from a good thang if you are satisfied all the way around and trust me I am.