Double Standards

[mystkev]

I am truly tired of the guilt trips and the game playing. I forever have guys trying to make me feel bad, b/c they are not the one and only, when I am not their one and only.

I was wondering, why is it that men want to have sex w/u and somebody else, but get mad when u want to have sex w/someone else?

[djackso]

Bragging Rights!

[mystkev]

Bragging rights how? If we don't know any of the same people, they will not know what I am doing anyway.

[davinci]

it's a dog thing. i pissed on the tree, it's my tree. did i mention a juvi thing that even d is guilty of rare occassions.

[que90nek]

my ego tells me that I am enough for u.

you shouldnt need to go anywhere else...

MY EGO TELLS ME THIS...your going outside of our sexualship...means that i am not providing all that you need.

FLIP

AS a man...i need variety....you can provide me everthing except that!

[davinci]

Originally posted by que90nek+
my ego tells me that I am enough for u.

you shouldnt need to go anywhere else...

MY EGO TELLS ME THIS...your going outside of our sexualship...means that i am not providing all that you need.

FLIP

AS a man...i need variety....you can provide me everthing except that! deep. i can dig it.

[mystkev]

So a woman doesn't need variety?

Well what if my ego says that I should be enough for you?

Why are you all the man that I need, but I'm not all the woman you need?

[djackso]

I can please more than one woman at a time. I'm the MAN!

[mystkev]

Originally posted by djackso+
I can please more than one woman at a time. I'm the MAN! I can please more than one man at a time. If your still getting yours, why deny someone else of getting theirs?

[14KBlaqWmn]

Originally posted by que90nek+
my ego tells me that I am enough for u.

you shouldnt need to go anywhere else...

MY EGO TELLS ME THIS...your going outside of our sexualship...means that i am not providing all that you need.

FLIP

AS a man...i need variety....you can provide me everthing except that!
You hit the nail on the head with the first part of what you said. But on the flipside, why can't a woman's ego be hurt by you thinking that. It does go both way ya'no

[davinci]

que was just trying to show you our mindset. right or wrong, it's how we think. personally, i can do w/o the relationship drama and stick to just fuckin'. fuck who you want, i'm fuckin too.

[mystkev]

Originally posted by davinci+
que was just trying to show you our mindset. right or wrong, it's how we think. personally, i can do w/o the relationship drama and stick to just fuckin'. fuck who you want, i'm fuckin too. I wish all my guys were like you.

[djackso]

Originally posted by mystkev+
I can please more than one man at a time. If your still getting yours, why deny someone else of getting theirs?

Men don't share unwillingly. No one else can have some unless we say so. Men can't stand to think that another man is spanking that ass like he does or a woman sucking his dick like she sucks another man.

[davinci]

priceline?...yes...alameda, ca...$600...nah neva mind (damn!)

[14KBlaqWmn]

Originally posted by davinci+
que was just trying to show you our mindset. right or wrong, it's how we think. personally, i can do w/o the relationship drama and stick to just fuckin'. fuck who you want, i'm fuckin too.
And that means that you make the assumption that our (women's ) mindset is not the same as y'alls. In this day and age, I just can't get down with f'ing just anybody. I have to have the whole shebang

[mystkev]

Oh I understand now. Thanks for clearing this up for me. I'll just stop telling them about the other guys.

[davinci]

no, i'm hardly saying that. BW, no beef here. i'm not a woman, so i won't speak for women. that's all. no likey debatey with you.

[mystkev]

Originally posted by davinci+
no, i'm hardly saying that. BW, no beef here. i'm not a woman, so i won't speak for women. that's all. no likey debatey with you. No I wasn't trying to debate, i had just gotten guilt tripped, so I was a little angry. Sorry if I took it out on anyone that was not my intentions.

[14KBlaqWmn]

Originally posted by davinci+
no, i'm hardly saying that. BW, no beef here. i'm not a woman, so i won't speak for women. that's all. no likey debatey with you.
No debate here. Just letting you know how the other half thinks.

[davinci]

Originally posted by mystkev+
No I wasn't trying to debate not you, mystkev...14k was about to attack d and d didn't have his ginko biloba this morn.

[mystkev]

Originally posted by davinci+
not you, mystkev...14k was about to attack d and d didn't have his ginko biloba this morn. I guess that's what BW stood for? Alright cool.

[que90nek]

i believe we are speakin in generalities. there are some exceptions to the rule.

mystkev is an exception.

its where the saying men are from mars women are from venus.

if u believe that we all are the same....you are confused....and hiding from reality.

[mystkev]

Originally posted by que90nek+
i believe we are speakin in generalities. there are some exceptions to the rule.

mystkev is an exception.

its where the saying men are from mars women are from venus.

if u believe that we all are the same....you are confused....and hiding from reality. How am I an exception?

[que90nek]

u think like a guy.

[mystkev]

Originally posted by que90nek+
u think like a guy. Okay, I have to ask, how is it that I think like a guy?

[que90nek]

ok...

i'm gonna do this quick...i'll stay in THIS thread...i could easily find more info in the other threads...but you'll get the picture.

"but get mad when u want to have sex w/someone else?" - a weak example but here is where it starts...


"I can please more than one man at a time. If your still getting yours, why deny someone else of getting theirs?" - this statement is a cocky guy...with lots of libido..."their plenty of me to go around to all the ladies! yeah!"

"fuck who you want, i'm fuckin too. " - i admire this quality in davinci....am i incorrect in saying that this is YOUR policy....this is totally GUY think.

"I'll just stop telling them about the other guys." - this part is kinda female...and kinda DUDE....the difference is that we never would have told her about the others!


I could go to other threads.....

but this is not a bad thing per se....if you are comfortable in your behavior...are you?

[mystkev]

Oh I am comfortable w/my thinking. I've been told that I think like a guy before, but no one has ever provided me with the reason why they thought that.

Thank you for your explanation.

[que90nek]

u r comfortable with your thinking...

but are you comfortable being like the fellas? do u feel like because u r young you can do these things? do u feel like the things that u do have a time limit....in other words will u continue these things well into your 30's?

[mystkev]

Originally posted by que90nek+
u r comfortable with your thinking...

but are you comfortable being like the fellas? do u feel like because u r young you can do these things? do u feel like the things that u do have a time limit....in other words will u continue these things well into your 30's? I am comfortable being like the fellas, b/c I like who I am.

What things am I doing?

I don't think my age has anything to do with my line of thinking.

Will I continue this way into my 30's, probably, b/c this is the only way I know how to be. I might settle down at some point, but no time soon, I am having way too much fun.

[HulaSista]

Originally posted by davinci+
no likey debatey with you.

lmbao

[HulaSista]

Originally posted by djackso+


Men don't share unwillingly. No one else can have some unless we say so. Men can't stand to think that another man is spanking that ass like he does or a woman sucking his dick like she sucks another man.

see mystkev... right here... is it (as well as what que says)... here is the kicker: THEY ACTUALLY WANT US TO BELIEVE IT AND DO AS THEY SAY... can you believe that ? that's what gets my panties all up in a bunch...

[mystkev]

Originally posted by HulaSista+


see mystkev... right here... is it (as well as what que says)... here is the kicker: THEY ACTUALLY WANT US TO BELIEVE IT AND DO AS THEY SAY... can you believe that ? that's what gets my panties all up in a bunch... No I can't believe it and they try all kinds of ways to make you feel bad, when they are doing the same thing. But I guess that's the shit we women have to put up with.

I have to tell this story:

I once had a guy who tried to guilt trip me into only sexing him, he said that I don't get excited about him anymore, I wasn't a real friend b/c everytime he called I was out w/another guy, therefore we can't be friends anymore.

I think he wanted me to beg.

My respone to him was "it's been nice knowing you, have a nice life" "click"

[que90nek]

looks like you are finding guys that may want to settle down with you...but right now...sexual gratification has overcome the other maternal needs that you WILL start to feel.

[FAMU]

Dang, I slept on this post. Mystkev, I am like the men you decribe in your post. I am a very selfish person and I don't like to share anything. When I get ahold to sumthing I like the exclusive rights. I mean a man feels like if he gets the coochie once he should be able to get it whenever he wants. We feel like we treated that coochie right and nobody can treat it the way we do. I don't know about the other hush brothers, but I feel like can't no other man screw or eat better than me. So if I get a girl and I want to hit it again then eventually I am not going nobody else around them. Hell, I have felt that way about 3 or 4 girls at the same time. Though I had all 4 of them I wanted to be the only rooster in the hen house at all times. You see men have very large egos and if u try to step on a mans ego he fights back. Thats where the guilt trip come in at.. If a man hits u with a guilt trip then u have done sumthing to rub his ego the wrong way.

Its sort of like buying a house. After house shopping, you pick the house u like. Once you pick the house out the realetor puts a sign in front of the house that says "Under Contract" that means that nobody can go in the house or attempt to buy the house cause u have it under contract. Thats the same way that men feel about woman they are screwing.

[Toffee]

Mystkev I'm feeling you on this one... I do believe it is an ego thing. But u can't let them feed you with that bullshit. I do believe in sex w/no commitement. Some people don't have time for the drama and work involved in a relationship.. RElationships are Jobs on their own. But sometimes you need an itch scratched. But their is no age associated with it. It's just about the priorities you have set for yourself.

But I live with the motto..."You cannot keep all the milk to yourself if you are not willing to buy the cow"

[Andre98]

Toffee, those breasts on your post are killing me!

[que90nek]

Originally posted by Andre98+
Toffee, those breasts on your post are killing me!

yeah...speakin of MILK!!!!

[mystkev]

Originally posted by Toffee+
But I live with the motto..."You cannot keep all the milk to yourself if you are not willing to buy the cow" I will be using this, Thank You

[Sparkles]

you talking about some big EGO's and famu, you straight off the chain with you comments.