what do you say take 2!?!?!?!

[Sparkles]

What do you say to a friend who is about to cheat or is already cheating on the S/O???. The S/O is a good person, but I have indicated to the friend I didn't think the S/o and firend was a good couple. however when the friend is around the S/o they aren't the same person. The friend said that they Love the S/o and is the kind of person they want to marry, but isn't ready for marriage yet. The friend is being selfish by not letting the s/o but continue to fish around in hopes of something better....

btw- this scenario is 2 seperate couples...

[mystkev]

I would ask my friend "if you really love your s/o and eventually might marry them. why would you do something that would hurt them?" or "how would you like it if they were cheating on you?" or "is sex important enough to risk your relationship?"

If they still want to cheat, that's their business.

[Mocha]

I would tell my friend she is wrong. I have had friends tell me that. When she realize you don't approve, she will not mention what she is doing around you.

Unless you don't care and do approve, but my friend didn't approve and she told me and I understood. I also didn't involve her in my cheating acts...

[nubianx2]

I had a friend that was constantly cheating on her husband. Once I realized what she was doing I let her know that I didn't approve and not to use me an an alibi.