Can you go backwards???

[MsMeelah]

This question came from another message board...
This is mainly for the fellas
Say you are dating a woman for about a month or so. One night you go out, have a few drinks, things get heated and you do the do. You both enjoy the sex but the woman comes to you the next day and says "I think we made a mistake and I don't want to have sex anymore until we get to know each other" How would you react to this? Would you wait, especially after you have already done it? Would you continue to date her?

[que90nek]

I think that if that is the way that she feels....she should express that. But realistically the relationship is in some serious hot water. Whether or not I wanted to continue would depend on what I really expect from her...

knowing how i am....i would be hurt that she regretted our beautiful moment...i don't sleep with people that i am not prepared to be friends with for life....so i would continue getting to know her. if she won't give me any booty...i would get it elsewhere.

[Mocha]

Originally posted by que90nek+
...i don't sleep with people that i am not prepared to be friends with for life....so i would continue getting to know her.

I agree..but another thing, as a women, anything I do I don't regret, I know exactly what I am doing, and I would never try to put a man in that position. I would think he would think she plays games. You don't just make that kinda mistake, it was obviously something there that allowed her to feel comfortable enough to go there. Then she says that..I would be a little irrated as a man.

But if I wanted more then I would take it slow.

[OhSoPrecious]

Originally posted by que90nek+
i don't sleep with people that i am not prepared to be friends with for life


That is so beautiful, Que~!! :hearts:



Originally posted by que90nek+
if she won't give me any booty...i would get it elsewhere.

Now, this last statement takes me right back to my thread. . My man is cheating~!! :hammer


Btw, MsMeelah. . good question, girl~!! :upretty Cause I was just actually thinking about this. . . and also wondered how the fellas would feel~!! :rolleyes: Let's just say I might be going thru the same thing right now. . . (sigh)

[swtjamaica]

women should not do that to men!!! a real woman should be able to make a decision without regretting it, as my girl mocha stated previously...games like that can cause major harm to a woman...if she should run up on the wrong fella...