Being Sexually Free vs. Being a Whore

[FAMU]

Please don't be offended by the harshness of my title.

Listen, is a person considered to be a whore just because they choosen to have sex with multiple partners or is that person simple sexually free and chooses to explore his/her sexuality. Is there anything wrong with a person having multiple sexual partners? What exactly is a whore anyway? How many sexual partners have u had?

[mystkev]

I feel that a person who has multiple partners is sexually free and chooses to explore his/her sexuality. I feel that there is nothing wrong w/being sexually free as long as you have consenting adults.

A whore to me is a prostitute, but it can also mean someone that is sexually promiscuous.

Compared to most my number of partners is relatively small, only 18.

[SoftNwet]

Sexually free is someone that is comfortable with thier sexaullity no matter how many partners they have had. They are willing to try anything once and if is feels good maybe even twice. However, their life is not centered around their sex, they still carry themselves like a lady and no one would ever guess that this person is a FREAK behind closed doors. They are discreet in thier dealings and are very selective in who and what they do. You never know until she drops it on you that she had the potential to go there. Not every encounter will be a knock down-drag out sex fest but when the choice has been made to go there then "let freedom ring"!!! ;)

A whore on the other hand, makes is obvious what she is into and does not care who, what, when, or where she does her thing. Upon first glance there is no doubt what this woman is about and in dealing with her you expect to get the knock down-drag out sex fest every time. And if she comes up short you will be dissapointed.

I think it is all in the presentation.:rolleyes: But that is just my thoughts on the matter.

[que90nek]

Originally posted by mystkev+
I feel that a person who has multiple partners is sexually free and chooses to explore his/her sexuality. I feel that there is nothing wrong w/being sexually free as long as you have consenting adults.

A whore to me is a prostitute, but it can also mean someone that is sexually promiscuous.

Compared to most my number of partners is relatively small, only 18.

what!!! somebody giving the actual number!

wow! hat's off to u.

[davinci]

i often ask this question. freelove, the 60's and whatnot, was a time when folks claimed to be seeking, but a lot of them boned to rebell and to be accepted.

when i do meet a genuine student of the fuck (<---i coined that, don't steal it) i am often shocked. you can truly tell the inquisitve ones from the nymphos.

my point, don't confuse your confusion, or addiction, for exploration. whatever you are my number is 202.555.BONE;)

[FAMU]

I guess soft missed that part of the question:rolleyes:

[mystkev]

Originally posted by que90nek+


what!!! somebody giving the actual number!

wow! hat's off to u. Since it was small I was cool with sharing.

[nubianx2]

Originally posted by softNwet+
Sexually free is someone that is comfortable with thier sexaullity no matter how many partners they have had. They are willing to try anything once and if is feels good maybe even twice. However, their life is not centered around their sex, they still carry themselves like a lady and no one would ever guess that this person is a FREAK behind closed doors. They are discreet in thier dealings and are very selective in who and what they do. You never know until she drops it on you that she had the potential to go there. Not every encounter will be a knock down-drag out sex fest but when the choice has been made to go there then "let freedom ring"!!! ;)

A whore on the other hand, makes is obvious what she is into and does not care who, what, when, or where she does her thing. Upon first glance there is no doubt what this woman is about and in dealing with her you expect to get the knock down-drag out sex fest every time. And if she comes up short you will be dissapointed.

I think it is all in the presentation.:rolleyes: But that is just my thoughts on the matter.

Once again Soft, you have broken it down.

[Sparkles]

Now I bet you can remember the thread about how many partner's you have had and remember how it got off track and turned into......

Let me see if I can remember, i think the only dfference was You can have as many partna's as you like as long as you handling you business..( Which I don't agree with). I gather from the old thread that a whore was basicially sleeping with a lot of differene folks, but everybody knew. well that what I gather from most of that old thread.

Let's not rehash that please however, i think is has to do with how many and who you are sleeping with. I don't think any person should have more than 2 sexual partner's at one time for many reasons. My number one reason is the shit will become to complicated for one, and morally speaking it's wrong unless both partner's are aware of the situation. That just my humble opnion.

I have had 4 1/2 partner's lolol yeah 1/2 probably shouldn't even count him, but it happened so I have too. . However I am very sexually free as you stated with my current S/O and I only done things with him that I would have dreamed of doing with someone else but that was "MY" choice. I wanted to saved something special for my husband.

[FAMU]

Originally posted by mystkev+
Since it was small I was cool with sharing.

You are right, it is small compared to some of the numbers I have seen on here back in the old days.

[que90nek]

my guess...is that mystkev will be alone this day!

from soft's definition.....there is only ONE sexually free person here...and her name is mystkev.

[que90nek]

make that two....

[FAMU]

4.5! Now thats a nice respectable number. You are the type of woman that men dream of coming cross, but in this day and age you are like a prehistoric animall

[Sparkles]

circumstance is all, I started at 18 got married at 22 and lucky for me ole boy holding it down sexually so I haven't had to creep, but those were my circumstances, everyone situation is different.

You are so funny every man dreams, what the difference in men and women. I know for a fact that my man has has many women, to many to even talk about and more than he indicated. I don't sweat that kinda of stuff, and It has never been an issue for us, and it shouldn't because we can't change the past...



Originally posted by Mr. Famu+
4.5! Now thats a nice respectable number. You are the type of woman that men dream of coming cross, but in this day and age you are like a prehistoric animall

[que90nek]

good goin famu...now everybody is gonna respond :rolleyes:

i know there's at least 3 women here with at least 50....

and two others with at least 32.....

will they fess up?

5 is an ok number, but....not very realistic....hell...if u been active since 16....and u r 35....that's 19 years!....u could easily have one partner a year.

*hopefully i've cleaned this up.*

[mystkev]

Originally posted by que90nek+
my guess...is that mystkev will be alone this day!

from soft's definition.....there is only ONE sexually free person here...and her name is mystkev.
Actually by the definitions it seems as if I am a cross between being sexually free and a whore.

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by Mr. Famu+
I guess soft missed that part of the question:rolleyes:

Let me answer for you then Mr. FAMU-

More than 5 less than 100!!!!:fu

[que90nek]

that's if u agree with the definitions.

i say that if u are honest...u can not be a whore.

unless.......u explicitly take money for sex. and even then....u are doing a whorish act....which doesnt make u a whore...unless that is how u make your living.

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by Mr. Famu+
4.5! Now thats a nice respectable number. You are the type of woman that men dream of coming cross, but in this day and age you are like a prehistoric animall

Shit we could tell your ass it was 5 and how would you know the difference!?!?!?!? Y'all dumb asses did not you were being used for sex until yesterday!!!!!:rolleyes: :blah: LMBAO

[que90nek]

truly soft...u can only lie to yourself. u can NOT lie to me.

and as far as u using us for sex....ya'll did not prove that at all...IN FACT...if i recall...u guys all said that u could only do it on a time limited basis...that eventually u DO catch feelings. Hmmmm....let's see...who's more likely to catch feelings.....

US....or YOU

[mystkev]

Originally posted by que90nek+
and as far as u using us for sex....ya'll did not prove that at all...IN FACT...if i recall...u guys all said that u could only do it on a time limited basis...that eventually u DO catch feelings. Hmmmm....let's see...who's more likely to catch feelings.....

US....or YOU I do not recall everyone saying that feelings eventually come up.

[que90nek]

everyone is such a dangerous word...(and so is ALL, que)

there was one or two...that said that they could just f the same guy forever....no strings attached.

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by que90nek+
there was one or two...that said that they could just f the same guy forever....no strings attached.

If you both know that is all it is then........what is the problem. Could you sleep with the same woman(on a booty call basis), say for.........6 months and not start to care a little!?!?! Yeah, we may start to care but as long as you remember what you are there for then you know the deal.

[lovely]

To be sexually free you dont have to have sex with a lot of people. To be sexually free means that you you are free of inhibitions. That has nothing to do with the number of people you have relations with. Whore is a very strong word..and for me it means that you are having sex for money. And i havent done that one...yet:D ..cause if the price is right......


Anyways..i have had five sexual partners.

[que90nek]

3 people...who will share their number.

the hush only has three sexually free (by soft's definition) women?

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by softNwet+
Sexually free is someone that is comfortable with thier sexaullity no matter how many partners they have had. They are willing to try anything once and if is feels good maybe even twice. However, their life is not centered around their sex, they still carry themselves like a lady and no one would ever guess that this person is a FREAK behind closed doors. They are discreet in thier dealings and are very selective in who and what they do. You never know until she drops it on you that she had the potential to go there. Not every encounter will be a knock down-drag out sex fest but when the choice has been made to go there then "let freedom ring"!!! ;)


There is my definition.....please explain how you only come up with 3!:confused: Sharing a number has nothing to do with what I said. I said they they are comfortable with how many partners they have had, that does not mean it is anyones business!!

[Tastey]

Originally posted by softNwet+
Sharing a number has nothing to do with what I said. I said they they are comfortable with how many partners they have had, that does not mean it is anyones business!!

Thank you Soft. My man doesn't know...why am I gonna tell the Hush. LOL Let's see somewhere between 2 and 100. LOL

As far as freedom vs whore. I have to agree with Soft's definition. Being comfortable with your sexuality gives you the freedom to choose your partners, and your positions ;). You can only be sexually free when you've become comfortable with who you are as a woman, and you know how to put sex in it's proper perspective in your life.

Usually women who are whorish, have low self-esteem and are afraid of or don't understand their sexuality. They use it to gain attention and acceptance. They don't choose they allow thier partners to choose for them, when, where, how, and even who. Sex controls them, rather than them controlling sex.

[CD]

I drop this before so I'll keep it short. I think a whore is someone that uses their sex for some type of gain. The gain could be material or financial.

A man/woman sexes the boss to get that open position, then that person is a whore.
A man/woman sexes with you so you can give them a better price on the rod you selling then they're a whore.
A man/woman sexes you so they can get some credit from you then they're a whore.

In other words, they put that out on the table as a bardering tool. You give me this and I'll give you that, with sex being on one side of the equation. Mind you we all got a little whore in us, but its those individuals that it's a way of life.

Freesex or lifestlye, I think are those indiviuals that are about giving and don't look for nothing in return but mutual satisfaction. A good chance they are on the FREAK level.

[FAMU]

Originally posted by softNwet+
Shit we could tell your ass it was 5 and how would you know the difference!? LMBAO

Look a man could tell the difference. There is a differenc in between how a woman who has had 5 sexual partners and a woman that has had say more than 20 coochie feels. Coochie has a type of firmness to it that a man can reqonize. Most woman can keep there coochie tight, but once you get going and everything gets all wet and slippery and the bottom of that coochie falls out. I am telling a man can tell if a woman has been around the block once or two, or three, or four, etc.

[dulce]

CTFU! aw hell naw, Famu, you lost me on that last post...doing the Kegels on the regular will keep that shit tight. Plus some women just have tight ass coochies - no matter how many dicks have swung by...

whew, damn, still CTFU!

[Sparkles]

lalalla...


Originally posted by dulce+
CTFU! aw hell naw, Famu, you lost me on that last post...doing the Kegels on the regular will keep that shit tight. Plus some women just have tight ass coochies - no matter how many dicks have swung by...

whew, damn, still CTFU!

[que90nek]

Originally posted by Tastey+



Usually women who are whorish, have low self-esteem and are afraid of or don't understand their sexuality. They use it to gain attention and acceptance. They don't choose they allow thier partners to choose for them, when, where, how, and even who. Sex controls them, rather than them controlling sex.

tastey....whores have no license on low self esteem. i think that in general esteem within all of us....has its highs and lows and that we all do various things to keep our esteem at acceptable levels....some of the things we do to maintain these levels is WHORISH....we use our body parts to boost our egos and esteem....but....like any drug....like any alcohol...the results are momentary....they don't last. the next day....u need another hook up.....and another....and then one day...u look in the mirror and u feel SO alone....u feel like u r in the race alone. it is then that u realize that your behaviour is self destructive....that your behaviour is designed to punish yourself...to punish yourself for your guilt.

guilt....yes, guilt. *and that is another thread*

[Qjai]

Originally posted by Mr. Famu+
Please don't be offended by the harshness of my title.

. Is there anything wrong with a person having multiple sexual partners?

How many sexual partners have u had?

Is ther anything wrong with it? Well to me what you do is your thing and yours alone. Society is always going to have a double standard for men and woman re: this subject anyway so if a woman decides that she is going to be "sexually free to explore" than she may very well need to be ready for the backlash people will give her about her chosen lifestyle. What I see is that the same woman willing to be out there sexually don't give a f**k about what people think of her no how. At least thats what she wants everyone to think. Sex means different things to different people. It would be hard for me to say whats whoreish and whats being sexually free besides the obvious exchange for goods/services/money. She could be sexually free just smart enough to profit from it as someone stated before I think.

I see it like this...everyone you sleep with has an intimate piece of you. You had to let them inside and I just can't imagine a whole room full of people who have ME in common...if you know what I mean. For me, I dont' consider myself sexually free. I have engaged only in the basic stuff just recently experimenting with toys but thats another forthcoming thread :D. I have to this very day been with 10 different men. I consider that number very high for me and its not something that I am overly proud of, but whats true is true so there it is. I have wanted to keep that number low but I had one OUT THERE summer when I was younger. :D

[Brightness]

to being about the women and their numbers?

Originally posted by que90nek+
good goin famu...now everybody is gonna respond :rolleyes:

i know there's at least 3 women here with at least 50....

and two others with at least 32.....

will they fess up?

5 is an ok number, but....not very realistic....hell...if u been active since 16....and u r 35....that's 19 years!....u could easily have one partner a year.

*hopefully i've cleaned this up.*

[Brightness]

pure comedy

Originally posted by Mr. Famu+
4.5! Now thats a nice respectable number. You are the type of woman that men dream of coming cross, but in this day and age you are like a prehistoric animall

[que90nek]

it was based on the definitions that everybody was agreein to...from soft...
i think :D

[dulce]

actually Soft's definition mentioned that a sexually free woman was also discreet in her dealings...so as far as numbers, the only number of significance if 1...the 1 that I'm doing at the moment - before or after is only my concern.

Now!

[davinci]

Originally posted by dulce+
the only number of significance if 1...the 1 that I'm doing at the moment - before or after is only my concern.

Now! you know a ho' w/ some really tight coochie told me that once:D

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by dulce+
actually Soft's definition mentioned that a sexually free woman was also discreet in her dealings

And discretion means not blabing all over town/the boards how many you have been with. In my definition Que, I stated that it was not obvious that this woman was sexaully free....she has exercised discretion and will continue to exercise it.

I do not understand why you or FAMU feel you need a number, like it is gonna make any difference........neither on of y'all is gonna get any of us(Hush Divas) any way.

My question to you and FAMU is: What difference does knowing the number make? Is it threatening that a woamn may have more experience than you? That she will know how inadequate you may be in bed? That she will know that you are not up to her standards? That you have a "ding-ding" as opposed to a "King-Dong"?!??!!? What help us understand why knowing is going to make a difference!!!!!:confused: :confused:

[lovely]

Originally posted by softNwet+


And discretion means not blabing all over town/the boards how many you have been with. In my definition Que, I stated that it was not obvious that this woman was sexaully free....she has exercised discretion and will continue to exercise it.

I do not understand why you or FAMU feel you need a number, like it is gonna make any difference........neither on of y'all is gonna get any of us(Hush Divas) any way.

My question to you and FAMU is: What difference does knowing the number make? Is it threatening that a woamn may have more experience than you? That she will know how inadequate you may be in bed? That she will know that you are not up to her standards? That you have a "ding-ding" as opposed to a "King-Dong"?!??!!? What help us understand why knowing is going to make a difference!!!!!:confused: :confused:

Very interesting

[Brightness]

Ke ke ke. . .

[Tastey]

Originally posted by softNwet+


And discretion means not blabing all over town/the boards how many you have been with. In my definition Que, I stated that it was not obvious that this woman was sexaully free....she has exercised discretion and will continue to exercise it.

I do not understand why you or FAMU feel you need a number, like it is gonna make any difference........neither on of y'all is gonna get any of us(Hush Divas) any way.

My question to you and FAMU is: What difference does knowing the number make? Is it threatening that a woamn may have more experience than you? That she will know how inadequate you may be in bed? That she will know that you are not up to her standards? That you have a "ding-ding" as opposed to a "King-Dong"?!??!!? What help us understand why knowing is going to make a difference!!!!!:confused: :confused:

Awww suki suki now!!! LOLOLOLOLOLOL :p

[que90nek]

ok, soft....

that's fine....discretion is cool. if you are uncomfortable with your number that's cool.

it's funny how u throw in apples and oranges to turn the question around.....please explain how me knowing how many folks you have kicked it with gives ME and inside track to be the next? that ...is ludacris!

and furthermore....your experience level does not even compare to mine. it is an apple and an orange....

king dong...ding ding...whatever works for u.


AND

me knowing your personal number is not really relevant...what is relevant to me is your inability to give that number....to me that speaks volumes. i ask questions around this camp all the time....it is my own little ways of getting to know u people...if by asking these questions it means that i am tryin to get in your pants...so be it.

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by que90nek+
3 people...who will share their number.

the hush only has three sexually free (by soft's definition) women?

me knowing your personal number is not really relevant...what is relevant to me is your inability to give that number....to me that speaks volumes. i ask questions around this camp all the time....it is my own little ways of getting to know u people...if by asking these questions it means that i am tryin to get in your pants...so be it.


If your knowing the number is, as you stated, not really relevant then WHY is it that you, as stated above, using it to get to know people?!!? If we were to meet under different circumstances, you would never dream of asking me or any woman for that matter how many men she had slept with. That is not the measuring stick that I use to get to know people. Maybe if that is on your list of requirements to get to know people then so be it but for me it is and will remain none of your business. My number is just that, my number. It seems to m that You think I do not know what it is. Well I am here to tell you and to go on record that I do know how many and can give names. But discretion is what I prefer to exercise.

The reason that I said that you were using the number as a gauge as to which Hush sister you would try to kick it with is just a speculation as to why, oh why the number is such a big deal.

Don't get it twisted..........our experience may be an apple and an orange but that does not make the difference between being sexually free and being a whore!!!

[davinci]

invariably, my women have outnumbered me with their "experience." but i still freaked 'em. cuz i'm a dawg. ROO ROO ROOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!

[que90nek]

"me knowing your personal number is not really relevant...what is relevant to me is your inability to give that number"

read my sister....the number is irrelevant....but your ability or in your case inability to answer....is good information.

and if that is your idea of speculation...you should learn to speculate better. and since you are the speculatOR....please explain...which one i will try to get with....the woman with the large number of men or the small number? since that is the basis of your speculation you should be able to come up with something...with regard to that question.

[mystkev]

Why haven't the men answered this question? I don't think it was directed solely at women. Will the guys give their definitions and share their numbers?

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by que90nek+
"me knowing your personal number is not really relevant...what is relevant to me is your inability to give that number"

read my sister....the number is irrelevant....but your ability or in your case inability to answer....is good information.

and if that is your idea of speculation...you should learn to speculate better. and since you are the speculatOR....please explain...which one i will try to get with....the woman with the large number of men or the small number? since that is the basis of your speculation you should be able to come up with something...with regard to that question.

I did read, as a matter of fact that is may last name, so I can read!!! You may need to read as well, I do not have an inability to give the number I chose not to give it. But as I asked why would you use such a number to "get to know people" what type of person uses that information as a gauge on how well the know someone.?!?!

As far as you getting with a Hush Diva, like I said I was trying to figure out why the number is such a big deal to you!!

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by mystkev+
Why haven't the men answered this question? I don't think it was directed solely at women. Will the guys give their definitions and share their numbers?


The real question is............Do WE (women) really care about the number?!!?!?!? :rolleyes: :confused:

[mystkev]

Originally posted by softNwet+



The real question is............Do WE (women) really care about the number?!!?!?!? :rolleyes: :confused: I don't really care about the number, but it seems as if the whole point of the thread has been turned around. Plus you have men that are all about numbers, but I don't see them sharing.

Why do the men have a double standard about sharing?

[que90nek]

mystkev...

a whore explicitly accepts money for sex to make a living.

and sexually free...i steal lovely's answer

"To be sexually free means that you you are free of inhibitions. "

now for the number...

to be honest i don't really know my number....most guys don't keep track of these type of things....

Ques estimated NUMBER:
82

[que90nek]

damn soft...why do you keep sayin i'm using the number to get to know u....Jeez!!!! i have said two times in a row that's not what i'm doing! the number is not important.....to me. AGAIN....your inability/unwillingness to answer....tells ME a few things.

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by que90nek+

it is my own little ways of getting to know u people...[

AGAIN....your inability/unwillingness to answer....tells ME a few things.


I did not say it......YOU DID!!!!!!!! Go back and read your own posts!!!

My unwillingness should tell you that, what goes on with Soft/Leigh will stay will Soft/Leigh. I do not have to give a number to prove a point or to help you get to know me, it is my number and it will stay with me. Do not get the impression that just because I won't share it means that I am ashamed.

But as the saying goes: "Discretion is the better part of valor."

[que90nek]

right....the information i get from that is not as simple as u being ashamed....

and discretion is my middle name, but i do know that discretion over a NUMBER...is a lot different than discretion over an individual...a name.

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by que90nek+
right....the information i get from that is not as simple as u being ashamed....

and discretion is my middle name, but i do know that discretion over a NUMBER...is a lot different than discretion over an individual...a name.

What-ever Que90-DISCRETION-nek!?!?!?:confused:
If you are discrete in small things.........you will be discrete in large things.

[que90nek]

my number of 82...gives you no REAL information....

it doesnt say anything about that 12 person orgy that i did

it says nothing about the 4 women i did in one day....

it says nothing about me having sex with ms nelson...


if u want to be discrete....u should spend very little time in this sex forum...by your definition.

hell, your description of your head giving ability....how indiscrete (by YOUR definition) is that! lol

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by que90nek+

if u want to be discrete....u should spend very little time in this sex forum...by your definition.



Touche', Que, touche'!!!!;)

[que90nek]

*que just fell out his chair!*

:)

[OhSoPrecious]

Sometimes, I feel like a HO. . sometimes I don't~!! :rolleyes: According to Soft's definition. . I am sexually free~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D

Whewwwwwwwwww. . it just sounds so much better~!! :upretty

[nubianx2]

Originally posted by OhSoPrecious+
Sometimes, I feel like a HO. . sometimes I don't~!! :rolleyes: According to Soft's definition. . I am sexually free~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D

Whewwwwwwwwww. . it just sounds so much better~!! :upretty

OhSo,
Ain't nothing wrong with being sexually free. Do ya thang!!!!

[que90nek]

hate to say it....but if u FEEL like a ho....you may be one.

That is, only YOU can define what being a ho actually is....if you fit your own criteria....it may be time for a change.

[misha]

I'm just me, baby. Just mish.
My number? Somewhere between 20 and 30. So what?
What do I consider myself? A mature woman with a healthy sex life. With no title attached. Not ho, not Sexually free. Just mish.

[Andre98]

Not to say that this "discussion" was a veiled attempt to poll for a number of lovers, but, .... uh, well, hell,.... yeah, I think that's what it is... but since you asked, I do not think that many sexual partners constitutes a lack of morals over just a few. What that number should be is not for me to judge. We all know the double standard exists for the females, and it's the very males that champion a man that judge a woman negatively. My number? What does it matter? I've married 15 years, it just doesn't matter.

[OhSoPrecious]

Originally posted by que90nek+
hate to say it....but if u FEEL like a ho....you may be one.


:fu

[que90nek]

do u disagree?

[OhSoPrecious]

The reason why I said that was because I have slept with two different men in the same month. . :eek: and, I felt kinda ho-ish by doing so~!! :rolleyes: That's all. . . damn~!!!

But, I like Soft's description of Being Sexually Free. . . cause it fits me to a "T"~!!! :upretty

Besides, you know I gotta f*ck with you~!! :hearts:

[que90nek]

ohso...you are missing the point.

this is not about que. do u still feel like a ho?

[FAMU]

Where in the hell is soft?


Bump

[CD]

After reading a few of these post one thing sticks in my mind as a man.

Anyone fixated on numbers and uses that is some type of bench mark for judging someone has some major insecurity issues, or just plain old immature.

[sistuhchey]

Originally posted by CD
After reading a few of these post one thing sticks in my mind as a man.

Anyone fixated on numbers and uses that is some type of bench mark for judging someone has some major insecurity issues, or just plain old immature.
**************************

If my number was 1 or a 101...so:confused: ...it means nothing to you...unless you were in that count???

[que90nek]

if...for you ONE is too many....and u feel like a whore...

you are a WHORE...

a WHORE....

*i like the way that word sounds*

WHORE

*soundin it out*

WHORE

[CD]

your view on this que, but your last post leads me to think that from your view being a whore is internal not external, which makes a number irrelavent?

[OhSoPrecious]

I don't feel that way anymore! :upretty

[CD]

Originally posted by sistuhchey

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If my number was 1 or a 101...so:confused: ...it means nothing to you...unless you were in that count???


I was 102 and after that you stop counting since you had no need to count anymore..;)

[FAMU]

Originally posted by sistuhchey
If my number was 1 or a 101...so:confused: ...it means nothing to you...unless you were in that count???

Hell, how do you know I want to be counted in that number? (hypothetically speaking acourse:rolleyes: ) Your number means something if we are going to be in a commited relationship.

I view coochie like a car. The more mileage on a vehicle the less value of that car. Now I have known a few people to pick up some good used car with a lot of high mileage, but everybody loves to drive the brand new car off the lot. Especially one with a 10-year bumper to bumper guaranteed warranty. Along with free oil changes (quickies) for as long as you own the car.

[redphoenix2002]

I think if anyone is a consenting adult they should be able to have as many parnters as they choose, as long as, in this day and age; that they practice safe sex. Why just have one, when you can have a assortment of " Flavors". I think black folks are too sexually repressed anyway. Nothing is wrong with being sexually enlightened or free.

As for the question:"What is a whore"? Me personally, I don't think there is such a thing, it's a state of mind. Hey, Ho's gotta eat too!:blah:

[Brightness]

QUE was the only man to post an "estimated number".

Maybe if an anonymous poll were posted people would be more inclined to state their numbers. . . .then again, maybe not.

I guess most single folks would have us believe they've had all these SEXPLOITS posted about in the forums with one, two or three men/women maximum.

And having said all that, I can certainly add my own number

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click. . .sound of ISP going down

[redphoenix2002]

Cute

[que90nek]

Originally posted by redphoenix2002


As for the question:"What is a whore"? Me personally, I don't think there is such a thing, it's a state of mind. Hey, Ho's gotta eat too!:blah:

precisely....

if YOU THINK you are.....

then....

YOU ARE.