Should I check this bitch?

[davinci]

and yes i called her a bitch...

this co-worker looks at my son at a faculty meeting. any folks that have seen my boy thinks he's mixed. my ex was light. her great grandma was white, and her mom won't tell her about her father. but mom is black as night and family is caramel type. anyhoot...we met in the hood where we grew up. bottomline ol' girl is black and doesn't look like she could pass, especially once she opens her mouth...i digress.

this late co-worker (late because my son is up there all the time and everyone else knows him) looks at him and tells me that's what's wrong with me. i'm like huh? she looks down at my son and fixes her damn mouth to say, "you stepped out, you need a sista." at first i argued for my ex's ethnicity, then i got a hold of myself and was like so what if he was. you don't talk about a man's son and then use that to say that something is wrong with me.

wanted to go off, put my intellect overode my emotion. she was lucky. should i check her?

[que90nek]

hell yeah...
check her ass!

she had a lot of nerve sayin that!

[SoftNwet]

Check that Biatch!!!!
She can think what ever she wants but once she opened her mouth then she needs to be ready for whatever response that you give...........Check her ASS!!!!!

[nubianx2]

If ya ain't got nothing nice to say then keep ya damn mouth shut!:hammer

It's a shame that in this day and age people still use their ignorance as an excuse. Handle ya business D.

[Sparkles]

wants, but whe ole gurl came at you like that with out evening knowing the situation(not that it's any of her business),

you should have check her right then, you waited and now you all rational and shit but handle her....

[MsMeelah]

CHECK HER!!! People feel like they can come out thier mouth and say anything!!!:beating

[misha]

CHECK THAT HEFFA!

I went through the same thing with my oldest daughter....her dad is mixed, although he looks like he is black. never knew his dad, he died before I ever met him, and his mom is black.

Most of the nasty comments came from white women however, since I am black, they don't like to think about their fathers, brothers and husbands getting with a sista....

she had no right to go there. Let her know it.

[davinci]

i told my ex. she said she'll come up here and show my co-worker how black she is. tempting, but i calmed her down. i'll say something today at lunch. knowing me, it'll be one of those velvet gloved slaps in the mouth. it'll sound friendly, but she'll know she messed up.

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by davinci+
i told my ex. she said she'll come up here and show my co-worker how black she is. tempting, but i calmed her down. i'll say something today at lunch. knowing me, it'll be one of those velvet gloved slaps in the mouth. it'll sound friendly, but she'll know she messed up.

But if all else fails.....let his Moms come up there and check her.

[que90nek]

ok...

in all seriousness... i am sure that you will handle this appropriately....her ignorance shouldnt land u a CASE!

so....velvet glove sounds good!

[djackso]

Why do people say stupid shit in front kids? Verbal can of whip ass would be at lunch waiting on her.

[dulce]

hell yeah, you should check her! she had the gall to say some dumbass shit like that so that bia deserves whateva is coming to her...but we all know you won't be catching a case behind her stupidity!


dumbass coworker:hammer

[14KBlaqWmn]

Why dignify her with any response? It's none of her business who your child is by. It shows her ignorance for making the assumption. The best thing to do is to just say nothing to her. If she tries to step to ya like that again, just ask her to look in the mirror and tell you who her real ancestors are. I bet she'll shut up then.

[davinci]

at lunch i walked by and told her what my ex said. she tried to carry it like that would've been ghetto, but as i walked away she was like, i was just playin'. riiiight.

BW, i feel you, but when you use my son, well...daddy don't play that.

[Tastey]

Why people gotta always make assumptions.

My good friends daughter is mixed. Her husband is black. People are always coming up to her asking who her child's REAL father is and she points to her husband. The both of them ADOPTED their daughter.

Niggas and flies...niggas and flies. :p

[Mocha]

I would have told her in a dignified way she is outta line, I would have not lat that fester in me....

Especially in front of your son, your kids need to know they are being defended, I would have handled it right in front of my child, and let her know he is out of line.

[davinci]

she didn't say it in front of him. she's not that ignorant, and i'm not that rational. i agree with you mocha.

[CD]

Checking that bitch is in order.

[Mocha]

Ok I thought she said it in front of the boy...

She still a silly bitch!:hammer

[Juicey1]

When my daughter was an infant, people that didn't know her father used to always ask me if her father was white. That shit really got old. Just because I am medium dark, and she is light with grey eyes didn't mean she was white.

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by Juicey1+
When my daughter was an infant, people that didn't know her father used to always ask me if her father was white. That shit really got old. Just because I am medium dark, and she is light with grey eyes didn't mean she was white.

Don't they know we make the most beautiful children?!?!??!

[que90nek]

yes, light skinned people are better looking....:rolleyes:

[dulce]

que, leave that mess for sinnah...:blah:

[que90nek]

well hell!!! that's what i thought i just read.....

hence, the use of the :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

[dulce]

I hardly think soft was going there with her post and you know it too, mr. man!

[Melotic]

Originally posted by dulce+
I hardly think soft was going there with her post and you know it too, mr. man!

I think she was saying, we have many flavors to our beauty...

[Vronni]

that woman was ignorant as well as rude. It's not worth even stooping to her level and getting ignorant but I would let her know that she wayyy out of line with that comment.

[dulce]

I think you're right with this, Mel...

I think she was saying, we have many flavors to our beauty...

[swtjamaica]

...slapped that biatch in da mouf!!! (yep, mouf)...that was some crazy shit...but you handled it very well...the velvet glove thing is a muhvfucka when used correctly, ain't it??

[davinci]

Originally posted by spicy+
the velvet glove thing is a muhvfucka when used correctly, ain't it?? being the sarcastic bastard that i am...i've mastered it:D

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by Melotic+


I think she was saying, we have many flavors to our beauty...

Thanks for the calrification in my absence!

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by Melotic+


I think she was saying, we have many flavors to our beauty...

Thanks for the clarification in my absence! I was out of the office for a conference.