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OhSoPrecious
02-18-2002, 07:16 AM
Ladies, if you are not having sex with your man of three years. . . why are you surprised to find out he's cheating on you~?? :confused:
My friend just found out that her man has been cheating on her for the past year. . :eek: She has not been sleeping with him for that period of time~!! :hammer
Not really sure what type of relationship they have. . cause it's just one of those friends that you hear from every now and then. . but, damn. . that would not come as a surprise to me~!! :rolleyes:
She found out cause she got a phone call from the other woman~!! :beating
mystkev
02-18-2002, 07:21 AM
That is really funny.
What did you say to her?
OhSoPrecious
02-18-2002, 07:25 AM
"Well, what did you expect~??" :eek: That's what I said to her. . . The sad thing is. . . she just don't understand~!! :rolleyes:
I mean, it's one thing for a man to be taken care of at home and still go out and cheat (I've never understood that). . . but, damn. . you ain't giving him none. . that would not come as a surprise to me~!! :hammer
Sparkles
02-18-2002, 07:37 AM
relationships shouldn't be based on sex. Hell nigga cheats when you are giving them some. Seems like there is more to the story, what kind of understanding did they have, were they seeing each other exclusively?!?!?!. I have found that sometimes we "assume" we are exclusively but the understanding was never discuss...
OhSoPrecious
02-18-2002, 07:42 AM
Yes, relationships shouldn't be based on sex. . . but, damn. . you gotta get / give some sometime~!! :hammer
Like I said. . not really sure what type of relationship / understanding they had. . obviously, she thought it was cool that they were not sleeping together for the past year~!! :rolleyes: Homeboy thought otherwise. . .
Btw, Niggas cheating when you are giving them some and when they are being taken care of at home. . is a whole 'nother thread~!! :cool: I would love to hear the answer to that one. . .
SoftNwet
02-18-2002, 08:29 AM
Originally posted by OhSoPrecious+
Like I said. . not really sure what type of relationship / understanding they had. . obviously, she thought it was cool that they were not sleeping together for the past year~!! :rolleyes: Homeboy thought otherwise. . . .
How in the hell did she think that he was not getting any for a whole year. A man may go without for few weeks maybe even a month or two but she was fooling herself thinking that after 3-6 months that he had not found anohter way to get his rocks off. She is a FOOL!!!
seductive_tee
02-18-2002, 12:21 PM
If i could only send this thread to someone......
OhSoPrecious
02-18-2002, 01:17 PM
Tee, what's stopping you from sending it~?? :confused: If you can send it, go right ahead~!! :D
seductive_tee
02-18-2002, 02:07 PM
It'll just cause more drama than what's already there. I don't even voice my opinion about it anymore.
OhSoPrecious
02-18-2002, 02:11 PM
O I C ;)
MsMeelah
02-19-2002, 06:10 AM
Is she celibate? as in" no sex until marriage?" why are they not sleeping together?
Mocha
02-19-2002, 09:02 AM
Unless they had an understanding, then I can see where she would be surprised...but if she came home one day and said, baby I think we should be celibate and her mind was made up, without his input then she shouldn't be surprised.
I think he proved he loved her by dealing with that for 3 years... but if he had an understanding and he couldn't go through with it, he should have communicated to her his feelings
Tastey
02-19-2002, 09:12 AM
Originally posted by OhSoPrecious+
"Well, what did you expect~??" :eek: That's what I said to her. . . The sad thing is. . . she just don't understand~!! :rolleyes:
I mean, it's one thing for a man to be taken care of at home and still go out and cheat (I've never understood that). . . but, damn. . you ain't giving him none. . that would not come as a surprise to me~!! :hammer
WTF? WTF? WTF?? Are ya'll really saying that if you don't have sex with a man that's a license to cheat??? OH HELL NO!!!
If he wanted sex, and he wasn't getting it in the relationship then get out of the relationship you don't cheat! Period.
Versatile
02-19-2002, 10:20 AM
other woman, claiming him to be her man. Unless he was impotent, this is just a joke or that woman has to be beyond stupid
dedawg
02-19-2002, 10:38 AM
....is this couple married? Is the female capable of having sex? Why has she not given up the poona for over a 3 years? WTF.
There must be a lot more to the story.
Sparkles
02-19-2002, 10:49 AM
okay Tastey, I thought it was just me . hhmmmm
Originally posted by Tastey+
WTF? WTF? WTF?? Are ya'll really saying that if you don't have sex with a man that's a license to cheat??? OH HELL NO!!!
If he wanted sex, and he wasn't getting it in the relationship then get out of the relationship you don't cheat! Period.
HulaSista
02-19-2002, 11:16 AM
Originally posted by OhSoPrecious+
Yes, relationships shouldn't be based on sex. . . but, damn. . you gotta get / give some sometime~!!
no you don't.
i agree with Tastey.
dulce
02-19-2002, 11:46 AM
yeah, we definitely need more info - if she felt like he was cheating, then what was really going on with their relationship? I've heard of folks going celibate right before they get married...
que90nek
02-19-2002, 01:22 PM
Originally posted by Tastey+
WTF? WTF? WTF?? Are ya'll really saying that if you don't have sex with a man that's a license to cheat??? OH HELL NO!!!
If he wanted sex, and he wasn't getting it in the relationship then get out of the relationship you don't cheat! Period.
if u r married....u don't just get out.
but u do seek gratification elsewhere....your hand, the internet, porn, etc.
seductive_tee
02-19-2002, 03:49 PM
Originally posted by CD+
This is a joke right
I know 2 people in this exact situation.
The person who did the cutting off
and
the person who got cut off
Both reasons = RELIGION
OhSoPrecious
02-20-2002, 09:54 AM
This girl has been dating this guy for three years.. she has NOT been sleeping with him for the past YEAR~!!!! :eek: Like I said, not really sure what type of understanding they had.. he never left her all that time, but decided to cheat on her~!! :confused:
I will try to contact her this weekend to get some more information. . aight~???!!!!! :upretty
OhSoPrecious
02-20-2002, 09:56 AM
Originally posted by Tastey+
WTF? WTF? WTF?? Are ya'll really saying that if you don't have sex with a man that's a license to cheat??? OH HELL NO!!!
If he wanted sex, and he wasn't getting it in the relationship then get out of the relationship you don't cheat! Period.
No, it is NOT a license to cheat. . but, some folks choose NOT to get out of the relationship for whatever reason~!! :rolleyes:
Vronni
02-20-2002, 02:00 PM
It's not automatic that the man would cheat but I would think that it certainly would be a possibility if is unhappy with the situation. My thing is,if you are not getting what you want/need out of the relationship,just let it go,then there's no need to cheat.....
OhSoPrecious
02-20-2002, 02:52 PM
Originally posted by Vronni+
if you are not getting what you want/need out of the relationship,just let it go,then there's no need to cheat.....
Girl, that is so much easier said than done~!! :rolleyes: There are a whole lot of folks cheating on their mates. . . married and unmarried~!! :eek: The million dollar question would be. . why are they still in those relationships~?? :hammer
Who knows~??? Like I said. . folks stay for whatever reason~!! :upretty
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