~ Just can't get it up ~

[OhSoPrecious]

Ladies, have you ever been with a man that just couldn't get it up~?? :confused: I mean, during foreplay he's hard. . . but, when it was time. . he goes soft~!! :rolleyes:


Men, have you ever been with a woman and you just couldn't get it up~?? :eek: What was the problem~??





This happened to me twice in my lifetime. . . once, when I was in highschool. . of course, I thought the problem was me~!! :rolleyes: Much later on in life did I find out the problem was with him. . and homeboy still has a problem~!! :eek:

And, most recently as of last year. . . I knew that wasn't my problem. . :upretty This guy kept telling me that all he could think about was that I was his "friend" (we had been friends for so many years w/o sex) and that he just couldn't get it together mentally~!! :hammer

I know. . . lovemaking is more than just penetration, right~?? :confused: (see other thread)

[misha]

It happened to me after 3 years of doing with out sex. He was my first, and I think that he felt the pressure of that....also, he is a drinker, so I know that didn't help matters.

He and I had been friends, so he knew that I had a long period of celibacy. And he was pumped up about getting some of this...but when the time came, he got very nervous. He didn't have to, it was still pretty good!!! LOL

[mystkev]

on a few occasions as well. Twice in high school, both guys were virgins, so I think it was b/c they were scared. One of the guys turned out to be really good in bed.

The second happened a few months ago, I think he was just too excited. He was on medication at the time. He has viagara now and wants to try it out.

[OhSoPrecious]

Originally posted by mystkev+
He has viagara now and wants to try it out.

LOL. . that's funny cause the guy last year asked me if I had any in my purse~!! :eek: I had my condoms. . but I don't carry Viagara~!! :hammer

[que90nek]

....
*treading lightly*

sometimes dickhardness depends on attraction level....and attraction level can change once all the clothes come off. :rolleyes:

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by que90nek+
....
*treading lightly*

sometimes dickhardness depends on attraction level....and attraction level can change once all the clothes come off. :rolleyes:


And the same goes for the softNwet-ness.........it can all cahnge once your clothes are off too!!!!:fu

[Brightness]

I once asked a man would it be possible to delay their ejaculation by thinking about Whoopi Goldberg or someone they didn't think was physically attractive. He said any man who did that was crazy and threatening to wind up soft.


Originally posted by que90nek+
....
*treading lightly*

sometimes dickhardness depends on attraction level....and attraction level can change once all the clothes come off. :rolleyes:

[Toffee]

Yup.. soft dick MF

[que90nek]

the difference soft....is that all i have to do is spit on you and u will lube up....

us....it is so much more mental...

[OhSoPrecious]

For the male's POV. . I truly believe it's all mental~!! :upretty

But, that shyt can mess a sistah up~!!! :hammer :D

[seductive_tee]

Originally posted by OhSoPrecious+
Ladies, have you ever been with a man that just couldn't get it up~?? :confused: I mean, during foreplay he's hard. . . but, when it was time. . he goes soft~!! :rolleyes:

Yes i have, when i was 30.......and it wasn't hard during foreply either...eventually later into it, he got it up...He said it was because he hadn't seen me a long time and was a little nervous. About 20-30 minutes later, after we talked, it was all good, things were just like i remembered.

[que90nek]

my ding ding has a mind of its own...

if the girl is just laying there....acting like she doesnt want to do it....sometimes my ding ding will tell me that it doesnt want to proceed....i sometimes stop and put my clothes on. :(

[Brightness]

If you aren't prepared to perform, it's best to 'hide' that ish until you're ready for action.

[seductive_tee]

Originally posted by Brightness+
If you aren't prepared to perform, it's best to 'hide' that ish until you're ready for action.

:cry: :D :cry: :D :cry: prepared to perform..now that is funny!

[nubianx2]

Happened a few years ago. I actually felt sorry for him but not sorry enough to keep giving more opportunites. We stayed friends long after, just never talked about it.

[lovely]

It happened once. About a year ago. It wasnt the first time we had sex..and the sex had always been good before..but this time it wouldnt stay hard. In my mouth he was hard..in my hand he was hard...when he entered me he was hard...but then..:confused: He was going through a divorce..some legal issues. His exwife wouldnt let him see his son. He was going through some mess. He said that that's what the problem was..he was too stressed..then turned around and gave me some bomb oral sex...so it was all good:D

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by que90nek+
the difference soft....is that all i have to do is spit on you and u will lube up....

Spit, did your gross ass say, spit on me?!!?!?!? :eek: WTF!!!!! Once it is dry - it is dry and the only thing that will be wet once you spit will be your bloody nose, after I punch you!!!! That is some nasty shit!! :blah: You could have said lick it or something but spit.............................................h ttp://216.40.201.155/s/otn/puke/barf.gif I think I'm gonna be sick!!!!

[que90nek]

this aversion to spit is funny...

when i spit...you WILL like it...in fact...u will beg for more!

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by que90nek+
this aversion to spit is funny...

when i spit...you WILL like it...in fact...u will beg for more!

Spit is spit......there is nothing, and I mean nothing that I will like about anyone spitting on me!!!!

[HulaSista]

to respond to the originial question:

this has happen alllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll to many times.

what is funny...... it happened after we have been sexin for a while (not in the same night, but, you know...). that cracks me up.

soft, ain't nothin wrong with a little spit! lmao

[misha]

Originally posted by que90nek+
....
*treading lightly*

sometimes dickhardness depends on attraction level....and attraction level can change once all the clothes come off. :rolleyes:

I guess you are saying that because this man had never seen me naked before, that when he did, he changed his mind....perhaps, but this man had seen me naked before....alot of men have that have never tasted my ambrosia....do I have to get deeper?

[HulaSista]

Originally posted by misha+
do I have to get deeper?

ahh hell misha! you know you ain't gots to ask! just do ya thang! :D

[Qjai]

yep...been there done that. This guy was a drinker as well and was also on the small side (dick not him) so when it happend he would often threaten to cut off his own dick thinking that he wasn't satisfying me (when he was able to work it out) hence the term I use for him EX :D LMAO!

[Andre98]

One time in college, I had a friendship with this girl that was nice, I just didn't think of her in a sexual way, but she made me dinner a few times, was really trying in that awkwardly charming way to "make her move" like a modern woman, and I was in the frame of mind that to beg off was going to be looking like something was wrong with me, preference-wise. So we ended up in the sack, and I went to my ace move, dining out at the "Y".....sure enough, Bonz Malone was ready, but as soon as I made the move for getting into position to giddy up, air let out like a balloon. I had to fess up and tell her that I had always had sex within the framework of a relationship or wanting to have one on a intimate level. I couldn't believe I was give her the speech that females give men all the time, and as I had feared she was embarrassed to be getting "the speech", and cut me off telling me to leave. She was smiling like all was fine later around campus but we never hung out again. She was cool with me 'cause I never heard any grapevine talk.

Second time was with my wife, the second time we did it. She was brand new to me, and I was Powerhouse Pete the first time, bringing it by the pound, hell, I surprised me. So now, a day or so later, here I am worring about living up to the other night, and over examining how she may be reacting..."is she faking?..." "Does she see that I am a mere mortal, not Supa-Lova?" It seems so stupid now, the wood was getting too spongy, and I had to stop. She didnt know what the problem was, because I just sat on the side of the bed, saying I'm sorry. She thought it was her, and with the other night to compare to, all my "its not you its me..." lines were not flying. I thought we were over, and it did cool for more than a week. Keep in mind, this was with seeing each other in the hallway of the place she had classes, because I ran the Multimedia Lab. I feel like I got lucky twice because she said it really was no issue, and we picked up where we left off. Turned out the only reason we "cooled" was that I was too embarrassed to call her.

I think it is predominantly a symptom of confidence, especially with a new partner. Comparing then to now, I can say that age and physical condition factors in for some people too. Alcohol is usually a nice enhancement. Back in the day, I couldn't drink enough! Now, one drink too many and I am sleeping into the afternoon of the next day.

[OhSoPrecious]

Thanks Andre. . for another male's POV~!! :hearts: You had me buggin with your first time, bruh~!! :D The second time was kind a cute, too~!! ;)

[Brightness]

I think Admin should make him Hush Storyteller. . .he's got one for every occasion.

[HulaSista]

Originally posted by Brightness+
he's got one for every occasion.

don't he? i mean damn. and then got the nerves to tell them GREAT!:D

[knowledge7]

Now I am the type of muvfugga that can get hard off of watching an old lady bend ova.....:eek: but that is only because it is more of a mental type of thing like Que said..

There has been times where I would not really be feeling her at the time and not feel her sexually.. like if you came home and went straight to the bathroom and handled business, then come up to me tryign to get all nassy...uh uh...dick soft....


You just cursed me out.. then you want some dick....uh uh...dick soft

your breathe stink......dick soft...

Just like that.. a good dick can go soft..

So the mental as well as the physical plays a big part in it all.. they can't go without each other.. Unless you was Janet.....she ain't got to brush her teeth for another 2 weeks.. she can just go and buy some more..

[CD]

Two times that I can remember. I when out on a hoe round up for about two weeks. Went threw about 6 woman in 4 days. When the fifth day came I was on auto pilot. Took a lady back to my spot. Lady was slobbing on the knob, dick was real hard, but every time she jumped on the dick, it wouldn't work. Told old girl that I would break her off in the morning since I was tired. Next morning same thing. Lady said that I was all phucked out, and I really didn't like her.

In retro, I just went with the green light she really wasn't good looking.

[Versatile]

Originally posted by softNwet+


Spit, did your gross ass say, spit on me?!!?!?!? :eek: WTF!!!!! Once it is dry - it is dry and the only thing that will be wet once you spit will be your bloody nose, after I punch you!!!! That is some nasty shit!! :blah: You could have said lick it or something but spit.............................................h ttp://216.40.201.155/s/otn/puke/barf.gif I think I'm gonna be sick!!!!

To funny.

[que90nek]

guys....have u ever had to think about somebody else to get your dick hard? close your eyes....and think about.....concentrate.....ok....ding ding workin now! whew!

[knowledge7]

Originally posted by que90nek+
guys....have u ever had to think about somebody else to get your dick hard? close your eyes....and think about.....concentrate.....ok....ding ding workin now! whew!


Hell Yeah..

I ain't no brother to be goign around banging everybody but there was this one time a phucked this one woman as a favor.. she had just gotten out of a bad relationship that lasted 5 years, she would alwways complain about her man not satifying her within the 15 minutes that he would be good for.. SO one day I made a joke and told her that it would handle that within 15 minutes and would have already made her reach her point a good three times before round two.. She didn;t say anything but she was thinking bout it..

The woman was not very pretty, but she had a banging body..

Anyway...the next day she came and asked to talk to me.. I thought she was about to yel on me abotu the comment I made.. but she asked me to give her some ......I was single (still am) so I went ahead and helped her out...

Not your usual favor huh...but damn she was ugly...

[HulaSista]

Originally posted by knowledge7
Not your usual favor huh...but damn she was ugly...

how can you dothat? eww! :blah: if i am not attractive to you, then don't waste MY time just to give me some dick or do me a favor. don't even talk to me in the first place.

i know more guys than gals who can do this.

[knowledge7]

You taking it the wrong way...

Don't get me wrong, I did it because I also wanted to ..but at the same time we both knew that it was just a phuc..

[HulaSista]

...but then how can you look at her? :confused:

[knowledge7]

Originally posted by HulaSista+
...but then how can you look at her? :confused:


Just like my boy Teddy said....

"Turn out the lights"

but don't light no candle

[mystkev]

Originally posted by knowledge7



Just like my boy Teddy said....

"Turn out the lights"

but don't light no candle Dang, you are wrong! How unattractive can one person be? Although, I do think it was nice of you to give your friend some sex when it was in need.

[knowledge7]

Younger days...now you would have to pay.....lol....

[mystkev]

Originally posted by knowledge7
Younger days...now you would have to pay.....lol.... What are your rates?

[knowledge7]

It ain't too much ..

I am sure that a decent woman can afford it.

All you got to have is common sense

Be VERY in tune with your sexual side

Come Honest.....liars get no play

Good Humor(not the ice cream)

and be yourself.. and you can get all the ____ you want...

[OhSoPrecious]

Originally posted by que90nek+
guys....have u ever had to think about somebody else to get your dick hard? close your eyes....and think about.....concentrate.....ok....ding ding workin now! whew!

That sounds like a problem, bruh~!!!!!! :hammer Then, why the hell are you with the one that can't help you get it up~?? :blah:

[knowledge7]

I didn't read that one..:eek:

[Tastey]

Ladies have you noticed that most of our men are not willing to admit that their own shortcomings. If the d*ck ain't hard it's cuz she was UGLY. LOL

Then why you trying to get with her???? RTFLOL :p

It happened to me once. Brother claimed it was because he was allergic to condoms. Now I find out...he wasn't attracted to me all along...RTFLMMFAO!!!!! :p

Whew! Well at least he didn't try to spit on me. LOL :D :D

[que90nek]

the ding ding is not a machine!!!

trust me....if YOU want it hard...it will get hard! :D

[knowledge7]

Originally posted by que90nek+
the ding ding is not a machine!!!

trust me....if YOU want it hard...it will get hard! :D

Thank you.....

:beer

How many of the ladies can actually say that they stay wet? Go head...I want to see this

[que90nek]

exactly!!!

preach, bruh.....

:beer

[djackso]

Women think the dick controls the brain but really the brain controls the dick. If something happens that ruins a man's thought then his dick will be limp. I could be in middle of great sex then flip her over & see some stretch marks that make me go soft as ice cream.

[knowledge7]

Exactly.. :beer

The fellas rising to the top..

But I must say that I saw stretch marks on this one female...and they were jive cute..

[nubianx2]

Originally posted by knowledge7


How many of the ladies can actually say that they stay wet? Go head...I want to see this

I've never had a problem with not being sufficiently wet.

[knowledge7]

:rolleyes:

[mystkev]

I can admit that I don't always stay wet.

[HulaSista]

Originally posted by knowledge7



Just like my boy Teddy said....

"Turn out the lights"

but don't light no candle

see.......

no matter how dark it is.....

if i already KNOW you ugly..... i can't fuck ya...

i cannot stay wet if we start off rough and/or using a condom...

djackso, what in the hell is wrong with stretch marks? i swear... ya'll come up with a million (little) things wrong with us...:beating if we don't ALREADY have 'em, belee this: WE WILLE EVENTUALLY HAVE THEM...... then what you go do?

oh my damn... let me leave....:blah:

[knowledge7]

I can understand without a condom, but starting of rough....come on Hula.. sometimes .....you just got to have your S/O right there....So I take it that rough ain't your stlye.. you want the more smooth type of bruh that gonna wax that with his eyes all googly huh....Understanable....

[HulaSista]

:D i actually like it rough.

throw me around...... have me hangin off the bed...

just can't stay wet.

need lube!:eek:

[Tastey]

I will admit, that I don't always stay wet.

But I will also admit that it's not ALWAYS his fault either. Sometimes I'm thinking about something else. Like did I pay the phone bill, what am I gonna wear to work tomorrow, what's that noise I just heard outside...any number of things.

Yeah, sometimes it's because he ain't turning me on...but Damn, men ya'll act like if the woman is banging...your d*ck will stay hard...and uh...that just ain't true...otherwise Viagra would be out of bizness. LOL

Fess up Niggas...it's more to it than that. LOL

[knowledge7]

Originally posted by HulaSista+
:D i actually like it rough.

throw me around...... have me hangin off the bed...

just can't stay wet.

need lube!:eek:

On my way.. right nuw......

Understandable..

But the same way that is for you.. is the same way it is for men....

[knowledge7]

Originally posted by Tastey+
I will admit, that I don't always stay wet.

But I will also admit that it's not ALWAYS his fault either. Sometimes I'm thinking about something else. Like did I pay the phone bill, what am I gonna wear to work tomorrow, what's that noise I just heard outside...any number of things.

Yeah, sometimes it's because he ain't turning me on...but Damn, men ya'll act like if the woman is banging...your d*ck will stay hard...and uh...that just ain't true...otherwise Viagra would be out of bizness. LOL

Fess up Niggas...it's more to it than that. LOL

She ain't got to be no supermodel.. Please.. I am not the best looking dude in the world so I don't expect the best.. and neither would I want her either, Ugly to me is your personality, nasty azz hygiene......funk breathe is a no no.. no bra in the workplace....is a no no.. wearing the same clothes within the same week.. come on....say it with me .....is a NO NO..

It is more mental than anything.. I make sure that when I do engage.. I come like 10 dicks.....but just liek you said .. it is all up to what is on your mind when you are in the act......

A lot of brothers go in the bedroom with confidence, telling themsleves that thay are goignto wear that azz out..

Then you got some thinkin.....damn i hope I last long enough to get one out of her...

It is a mental thing.........Mental

[CD]

Originally posted by Tastey+
[B]Ladies have you noticed that most of our men are not willing to admit that their own shortcomings. If the d*ck ain't hard it's cuz she was UGLY. LOL


Now you have a good idea why looks is very high on a mans list as apose to brains.

Yes, every now in then we try to do the right thing, but the bald head champ lets us know , No can do, No can do!

[HulaSista]

Originally posted by knowledge7
But the same way that is for you.. is the same way it is for
men....

but i ain't never sat for no period of time and WILLED myself to juice up. (scruntched up squeezing my legs real tight fist balled up and eyes closed shaken my head til it flows) when i am dry its because of friction. that's it. ya used me up dude. get the lube. i can think of shemar moore for the rest of the evening and not get wet...again.

point is: I CAN STILL PERFORM! :D

[knowledge7]

Originally posted by HulaSista+




point is: I CAN STILL PERFORM! :D

Shyt that is all I need to know.. be up there in a minute aiight.. have the food prepared so that when we wake up at 12:30 in the afternoon all we got to do is warm it up.. unless you want me to cook...

joking.. you know its all love

[HulaSista]

damn.........

[que90nek]

nice job fellas....

i like stretch marks...specially the ones on the titties....and the booty!....

gosh...what is involved with this performance? if a woman lays on her back and squeezes her kegels she thinks she is doin somethin!

if my dick go limp i use my fist. :D

[HulaSista]

Originally posted by que90nek+
if my dick go limp i use my fist. :D

ouch...... i felt that

[CLSmooove]

Originally posted by djackso+
I could be in middle of great sex then flip her over & see some stretch marks that make me go soft as ice cream.


WTF WTF WTF??????????? :eek:

Oh HELL No ......... Like men dont have stretch marks too.... :fu :confused: :beating :hammer

[Brightness]

Originally posted by knowledge7


Thank you.....

:beer

How many of the ladies can actually say that they stay wet? Go head...I want to see this

[MsMeelah]

Originally posted by que90nek+
nice job fellas....

i like stretch marks...specially the ones on the titties....and the booty!....

gosh...what is involved with this performance? if a woman lays on her back and squeezes her kegels she thinks she is doin somethin!

if my dick go limp i use my fist. :D

LOL!! QUE You off tha chain!!

[que90nek]

*packing fist for hushnic*

*fisting isn't cheating is it?:D*


brite....wet...all...the time......my lips are wet right now.:)

[OhSoPrecious]

Originally posted by knowledge7
How many of the ladies can actually say that they stay wet?

Dammit, after the 4th or 5th round (in the same session). . . if I am no longer wet. . it is then your job to make me wet~!! :blah: Get downtown, Nigga~!! Especially if you're having trouble keeping it up~!! :hammer

You guys are killing me with this one though. . it is all our (the women) fault if you just can't get it up because:

#1 I'm ugly
#2 I took my clothes off
#3 I have stretchmarks
#4 You got a lot of shyt on your mind

What else~?? :hammer


Geeeeeez~!!! :fu

[knowledge7]

Hold up though...


I utilize my shyt. I am sure the fellas can agree with me on this..

Check this out...

The Super Stroker goes limp...

you have a number of options...

Go down

stay on top of her and smack the kitty with the limpness and then use the juice to get that thang going again.

kiss

touch...and all the rest that you can think of...


But like I said...it goes back to each partner doing whatever they can to please the other....

ME ...I would rather go all out at anything I do.....then feel good with the results....If she ain't satiesfied ..then she must be a Baaaaaaaaddd muvfugga....


Hula....babygirl.. you don't want me to come up there.....I ain't trying to have you in the Ask The Hush section asking how to recover from a Very good Night and Morning.......:eek: :D

[que90nek]

lol

man...that's my technique too....

i try to increase the level of passion...through kissing and rubbing....if they are in to it...IT WILL GET HARD.

if that doesnt work.....i start to eating...and eating.....this generally works....especially if they cum!

[knowledge7]

Can I get a Amen in the House of the Hush

[HulaSista]

Originally posted by knowledge7

Hula....babygirl.. you don't want me to come up there.....I ain't trying to have you in the Ask The Hush section asking how to recover from a Very good Night and Morning.......:eek: :D

i would never tell.... or hint..... or ask .... i'll just move on with my life!:D

[knowledge7]

oh really....;)

[HulaSista]

i was in the mood for some laughter and look what i found! :idea:

*bump*

[Pamalicious]

I am over here dying laughing!!

Que that shit was funny about the fist, lol

Well I had a Bro. couldn't keep it up but I think he was on something,lol but then again the very first time we tried to have sex he was so nervous he threw up soooooo who knows, lol lol lol

[Milan]

Ewww he threw up??????


I have had this happen to me before by my ex high school sweetheart, Id cheated and he found out after that he couldnt really get it up like he used too, said he could imagine me doing the other guy fucked with his head.

I have a question though, is it not medically possible for a woman to stay wet, is there something wrong w/ her if she is always wet and does age have a factor in this also?

[Pamalicious]

Originally posted by Milan
Ewww he threw up??????


I have had this happen to me before by my ex high school sweetheart, Id cheated and he found out after that he couldnt really get it up like he used too, said he could imagine me doing the other guy fucked with his head.

I have a question though, is it not medically possible for a woman to stay wet, is there something wrong w/ her if she is always wet and does age have a factor in this also?

yes girl so I ended up nursing his all all nite. Apparently pizza and beer didnt' agree with him...add nerves and it just wasn't his nite.

I don't think there is anything wrong with a woman who is always 'moist'. Just like everything else, we all come in different packages. Maybe that person is properly lubricated in terms of their water intake etc. Alot of time dry people are that way because their body is crying for liquids.

Then sometimes if you are the type of female who has been lucky enough to be tapped not only sexually but mentally then he's hit the jackpot and you are wet all the time because you just into it like that, lol

[novelty]

This happend one time with my ex the second time we had sex. We were both nervous and he didn't really think I was into it. He really felt bad. When we tried again everything was okay and we never had that problem again.

[Thought]

To speak on the original topic......

It happens to most men... its a mental thang like Que said.

SO with that being said.. a message to the women.....

Keep him amped and you won't have to worry about the limpness... Its all in the mind...