Why Lie????....

[sistuhchey]

Nigga...you're busted...caught with your hands in the cookie jar...Now your gonna attempt to lie your way out of it????..She was...he was...I was....Lie, Lie, Lie.....:beating :fu

[que90nek]

if u don't have me on tape....
i can lie.

[dulce]

que, can you please answer the question so that we have a male perspective? yes, you can lie but why bother? especially if you've been busted?

inquiring & baffled minds and all...

[que90nek]

to be honest...i didnt really understand the question.

how BUSTED is he? did u walk in on him and her in the bedroom? did u see his car parked at a hotel? did u catch him on a date?

all of these things can be explained....:D

[dulce]

but the question is WHY lie? yes - stuff can be "explained" but why bother to lie?


why why why?

[dulce]

oh yeah, happy valentine's day!:p

[Mocha]

some people men/women are so use to people just accepting shit. So they know if they keep lying eventually you will get tired of trying to get it out of them or you will say fuck it, if I see it again or hear it again then it's over...Now that is that person que to be careful next time.

The reason why I say this is because, if you are cold busted and the nigga (man or women) still lie they know they can get away with it because they have lied lied lied in the past and it was ok, so they are going to try it again.

[mack_black]

Anytime you lie....

you show that you are afraid of the person you are lie-ing to.....

[Mocha]

not just afraid but afraid of what will happen...the conquescene for fucking up...could be break up, cracked skull, snapped neck, stabbing in the back where you break the knife in the person chest,,,anything could happen. ;)
Or the person could walk out that person life and never look back. That is what they are afraid of.

[misha]

Trying to have it all. The person that lies wants everything and will go to those lengths to keep it. I have always wondered myself, because if the situation were reversed, I would just admit it and move along quietly.

But I have been in relationships where I have literally caught the man with his dick in a woman's mouth and he tried to lie about it. Why? Because he thought he could. He thought that if he talked long enough, I would just fold. And you know? He is still telling that lie some where else. And somebody is believing it.

[mystkev]

People lie when busted, b/c there is always someone dumb enough or insecure enough to believe what is being said. They hope they are dealing w/one of those people.

[davinci]

wasn't me...nah, i was with que...baby, you're mistaken...wait a minute, why were you at the hotel? you fuckin' around on me!?!?

[djackso]

Some people can't handle the truth.

[Sparkles]

[
one more time. Sometimes folks get trust and being a damn fool, confused. Yeah Iknow he spent the night at his babymomma house,but he was spending time with his kid's and I trust him when he said nothing happen.....Right WTF-

QUOTE]Originally posted by mystkev+
People lie when busted, b/c there is always someone dumb enough or insecure enough to believe what is being said. They hope they are dealing w/one of those people. [/QUOTE]

Oh and what was that Djackson- I hear ya--sometimes the truth forces you to take action even though the relationship isn't that great,but it's confortable.....

[D2daO2da]

If I am caught then why do I need to lie anyhow. If she watching then I have to finish my stroke. I'll deal with her later. I can't be suprised if I get caught being dishonest. Karma is a MoFo...

I got to look at it like this... If I ain't engaged or married then I do what I want. I never turned in the playa card. So whats the big deal. Keep your dirt away from home.. like many many states away.. lol

D

[que90nek]

Originally posted by D2daO2da

I got to look at it like this... If I ain't engaged or married then I do what I want. I never turned in the playa card. So whats the big deal. Keep your dirt away from home.. like many many states away.. lol

D

a lot of women don't realize.....that for men...THIS is the norm.

[sistuhchey]

why go through it...Just spill it....Ok baby the truth...let me dick you down, and dick her down on the side...ok.....then I get to respond............

HELL NO!!!....PLEASE STEP!!!!

[CD]

Originally posted by mack_black+
Anytime you lie....
you show that you are afraid of the person you are lie-ing to.....

Plus: you've been lying to yourself....

[HulaSista]

Originally posted by mack_black+
Anytime you lie....

you show that you are afraid of the person you are lie-ing to.....

well... this explains my baby's daddy...

thanks you very much...

[lightandlovely1]

I don't know why men try to deny. My husband did that. Tell me what you all think:

Scenario 1: The girl calls me and says: would to please tell your husband to leave me alone?

Scenario 2: He goes out at midnight (while I was at home nursing our week old baby) for a beer. Returns 4 hours later and tells me that he ran into a friend who had his girlfriend with him. He and his friend went to the bathroom and when they came back, the girl had stolen the car. So I got a copy of the police report and this is what actually happened: he and the friend had 2 ladies with him. So at midnight they go to Anacostia park to have the beer they bought and when the 2 guys go to the bathroom, the girls steal MY DAMN CAR - not his car but - MY DAMNED CAR!!! On top of that, he told the cops that they didn't know the ladies' names.

Scenario 3: I had a feeling he was creeping and mentioned it to my best friend who happened to be a stay-at-home mother and lived int he same apartment building that I did. She finally told me that a mutual friend of ours told her she was sleeping with him. Not only that, she offered proof which there's no way she could have known.

Now, my soon-to-be-ex husband denied everything - I had him dead to rights and he denied it all. He finally admitted everything just before I left him! He would have had it easier if he'd been honest with me.

[MsMeelah]

See this is the type of shit that makes a sistah wanna shoot somebody!!

Originally posted by lightandlovely1
I don't know why men try to deny. My husband did that. Tell me what you all think:

Scenario 1: The girl calls me and says: would to please tell your husband to leave me alone?

Scenario 2: He goes out at midnight (while I was at home nursing our week old baby) for a beer. Returns 4 hours later and tells me that he ran into a friend who had his girlfriend with him. He and his friend went to the bathroom and when they came back, the girl had stolen the car. So I got a copy of the police report and this is what actually happened: he and the friend had 2 ladies with him. So at midnight they go to Anacostia park to have the beer they bought and when the 2 guys go to the bathroom, the girls steal MY DAMN CAR - not his car but - MY DAMNED CAR!!! On top of that, he told the cops that they didn't know the ladies' names.

Scenario 3: I had a feeling he was creeping and mentioned it to my best friend who happened to be a stay-at-home mother and lived int he same apartment building that I did. She finally told me that a mutual friend of ours told her she was sleeping with him. Not only that, she offered proof which there's no way she could have known.

Now, my soon-to-be-ex husband denied everything - I had him dead to rights and he denied it all. He finally admitted everything just before I left him! He would have had it easier if he'd been honest with me.

[MsTopshelf]

A man is gonna lie TO THE END! If you catch him in the <b>downstroke</b> he still gonna lie and say it wasn't nobody there!

[dulce]

true, true, mstopshelf, but the question still never got answered (by the hushbrothas): why bother to lie? we know that they will and they do and they can but what's the point? if you are busted (especially like in lightand lovely's scenario), I could kinda see how wack ass reasoning could be applied to his lying to keep the main relationship together but otherwise, if you ain't married, why do it?

[seductive_tee]

Bottom line to the person being lied to, what you gonna do about it.

I think we all have been lied to and some of us stayed, some left, hell we probably did both.

I was lied to, and the proof was there 9 months later, but of course, it "happened" when we broke up....whatever.

[swtjamaica]

..we always say "men do it all the time" or "it's their nature to lie", and we accept that shit!!! that behavior is UNACCEPTABLE and should not be tolerated!!! but women will do it just to keep that sorry assed sonuvabitch!!! to hell with the liars!! dismiss their asses ASAP and move on!!

[MsTopshelf]

AMEN to whut Spicy said! Ok you already know that bruthas lie so either you put up with the shish or kick his a** to the curb! NUFF SAID!

[misha]

exactly. Then you try to make a better choice next time, and guess what? The next man lies too!

[CLSmooove]

Originally posted by que90nek+
if u don't have me on tape....
i can lie.

What about Pictures???????:evil: :evil::beating

[knowledge7]

Liars get no love.. they gets slugs.. naw.. I am joking.. I got that from a rap song.. I thought was funny...

[MsMeelah]

Originally posted by spicy+
..we always say "men do it all the time" or "it's their nature to lie", and we accept that shit!!! that behavior is UNACCEPTABLE and should not be tolerated!!! but women will do it just to keep that sorry assed sonuvabitch!!! to hell with the liars!! dismiss their asses ASAP and move on!!

Aint that the truth.... I don't know why it took me so long to figure that out!! :rolleyes:

[que90nek]

u were punishing yourself...

[davinci]

my feelings exactly.

why do bees sting? why does the sun rise? why?