Would You Let It Go...

[Versatile]

Okay, you've been seeing your s/o for about 6 months. You get into an arguement and leave upset to go home. About 1 hour later, they call you and invite you to a party at your mutual friend's house. You immediately decline and hang up. About 5 mins later, you call back but there's no answer so you leave a message on the phone saying, I've change my mind I'll go." 15 mins later and no response so you call back. Still no answer so you leave another message telling them to call you back, you want to go. 3 hours later and still no response you call again, no answer. So the next morning before work, you stop over your s/o house and you see their car parked outside of the garage just as they do when your car is parked inside. Normally, they always keep their car inside the garage, except for when you are there. You ring the doorbell, no answer. You bang on the door, no answer. You tap on the window to the bathroom, no answer. You call on the celly, no answer. So, now your fuming because your s/o have now turn suspect of having someone else there. You get in your car and drive around the corner to see if you can see anyone coming out. Then you see your s/o get in their car and they drive around the corner and pull up behind you. They proceed to cuss you out about coming over unannounced and asking why you playing games. You in turn ask a question containing 4 little words. "Who's in the house?" They say, "no one," and push you in your car and tell you to take yo azz to work before you be late. So you jump back out and ask again, "who the phuck is in the house?" So they say, ok yeah I got someone in the house, you satisfied. Now take yo azz to work." So you leave, all hurt and stuff...... feeling like a fool and say that's it, I'm out it's only been 6 months. Now, during lunch time your s/o comes to take you to lunch and say we need to talk. You agree, because know it's your turn and you got a whole lotta $!@# to say before you you say "it's over." But before you can, they tell you they were lying and no one was in the house. They just said that because you pissed them off by not going out with them last night and then coming over unannounced? WTH?!?!

[14KBlaqWmn]

Sounds like a whole lot of assumptions and immaturity going on. Either both need to sit down and talk like adults to work things out or let it go. No need to be involved in something that's gonna make you act like a child or be suspicious.

[lovely]

That whole situation is funny to me:p .
All that calling, going over banging on doors, ringing doorbells, tapping on windows, calling cell phones, spying.....thats funny to me. :p

[que90nek]

this guy has balls! i like that...he didnt take none of her shiznit...
he asked if u wanted to go...u said no...he was like cool...i'm OUT!

they were playin games around his house....he came out...handled it...

these are the things that men need to know....just how crazy a woman will get.....

[mystkev]

Umm, if I was going over there, I would have tried to look through a window before knocking or calling. I would let it go and move on from there.

But if you cannot really let it go just forget the whole thing, b/c then you would always be wondering if it was true or not.

[lovely]

Originally posted by mystkev+
Umm, if I was going over there, I would have tried to look through a window before knocking or calling.


Are there women really like this? Or was this a joke?

Like que said...he called and asked if she wanted to go...she said no..he went anyways. What did she expect to happen? For him to sit at home and be mad cause she is? Then for her to do all that mess..she just made the situation worse for herself. I would have left one message. "Baby..sorry about the agruement. I really would like to spend the evening with you ...give me a call." Thats it.

And then for mystkev to say that she wouldve looked in through a window first!!

LOL:p :p :p

[mystkev]

I would not have gone over there, I would not have called so much that same night either. I'm just saying that if you are going to go over there you should look through a window first.

I am not the type of woman that would try to spy on a guy, but there are women that do. They are the same kind of women that will fuck up your car and throw bricks through your windows.

[Versatile]

Originally posted by mystkev+
Umm, if I was going over there, I would have tried to look through a window before knocking or calling. I would let it go and move on from there.



Now that's some funny stuff right there.

[dulce]

I would let it go! His actions were suspect and her reaction was not cool. They need to both just walk away...

[que90nek]

how were his actions suspect...

she made a lot of assumptions....i don't always park in my garage...
but she did some crazy burnin bed type stuff....callin and callin and callin was the start of it....

this is good information for him....now he can move on. she obviously needs to work on her trust issues and stuff!

[dulce]

que, neither one of them is blameless in this drama but as Versatile laid it out, his actions did look a little fishy...and I agree that the female involved went beyond rational...as far as info that he needed to know, I think they both found out stuff about each other that should tell them to just say NO!

[djackso]

Jealousy in this relationship should be addressed. She had no business going over there acting a damn fool. I sometimes ice females by ignoring their calls especially if they start acting crazy. What if someone was there ? Was she going to hurt someone? His actions were not suspect. He just didn't want to be bothered with her crazy ways.

[Versatile]

For one minute. It's funny how you relate a story and we automatically assume it's the person relating the story or even attach a gender to who is whom. This is not Vers situation for one and flip the genders as to whom is the male Que..because the woman in this story is the one with the balls. *lol* Not literal ones.


Originally posted by dulce+
que, neither one of them is blameless in this drama but as Versatile laid it out, his actions did look a little fishy...and I agree that the female involved went beyond rational...as far as info that he needed to know, I think they both found out stuff about each other that should tell them to just say NO!

[dulce]

Versatile, I didn't think it was you...I thought you were describing a situation and that's why I mentioned "the female involved"...

[Vronni]

whoever went to the other's person's house-has trust issues and in my opinion,is insecure. If you think the other person is cheating, why even bother- ?I would not continue in a relationship with them-the insecure person- from that point on. If you don't have trust,you have nothing. Next they will be following you, doing all kind of covert stuff and who needs the drama? ...

[Bedroomeyes]

I would have left a message on his phone saying I changed my mind about the party... If he didn't call me back in an hour.... I'm going to the party! :D

Hell... I was invited.... :upto:

[Tastey]

Originally posted by lovely+
That whole situation is funny to me:p .
All that calling, going over banging on doors, ringing doorbells, tapping on windows, calling cell phones, spying.....thats funny to me. :p

I agree Lovely. Too much drama for me.

I would have called back, said I'm sorry I changed my mind. Then went on about my bizness.

However, I think the person who said they were lying about having someone over...is lying about lying. I mean they just "happened" to park their car outside...and they just "decided" to not answer the door or phone to teach the other person a lesson. Yeah whatever!

These 2 got issues like Jet magazine. LOL

[HulaSista]

Originally posted by Bedroomeyes+
I would have left a message on his phone saying I changed my mind about the party... If he didn't call me back in an hour.... I'm going to the party! :D

Hell... I was invited.... :upto:

THANKS YOU very much...

mutual friends...OH hell yes... i'm callin the freind and be like... "you needs some ice or sun-in?"

[Bedroomeyes]

And will walk in with my dish and speak to everyone there and act like nothing is wrong.. If he chose not to speak.. So be it! I'm sure someone at the party will be willing to conversate with me... :cool:

[seductive_tee]

Originally posted by que90nek+
....just how crazy a woman will get.....

WHAT...like men don't get crazy too.....:rolleyes: :rolleyes:

[misha]

I would have gone to the party. had a good time, and put the drama behind me.