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FAMU
02-07-2002, 11:07 AM
Have you ever cheated on your mate? What was the reason that lead you to cheat? Whould you ever cheat on your mate again?

Admin
02-07-2002, 11:27 AM
Q: Which mate? wife or girlfriend?...makes a BIG difference.

Holla

lovely
02-07-2002, 11:38 AM
I cheated on my fiancee(daughter's father). We were in a long distance relationship and i was very unhappy, not sure if i wanted the relationship, but was still in it for the relationship between him and our daughter. I cheated and told him. I cant lie to people i care about...so i had to tell him. I know i wouldnt cheat with anyone else because i wouldnt put myself in the predicament again. No more long distance relationships, no more trying to be in relationships that i really dont want and then if i am that unhappy in a relationship than i will get out of it.

Mocha
02-07-2002, 11:45 AM
Yes I have cheated. My reason was immaturity. I was bored, I wasn't being satisfied sexually in my eyes. I felt my mate was not doing all that I wanted him to do. But then I think about it the ones I cheated on him with wasn't doing it either.

I think cheating comes from immaturity, and curiousity, and being selfish. Would I do it know? NO! I have matured and learned from the past, plus been there and done that, and now I expect more out of a relationship then just the bomd diggity sex. I want that, and that is why I am choosey so I don't feel like I have to look somewhere else, and I am not selfish as I was in college, so I can be compeletly satisfied with the mate I am with.

Brightness
02-07-2002, 03:38 PM
Never, ever, ever cheated on a boyfriend so I am fairly confident I wouldn't cheat on someone I pledged my life to be with (husband).

I believe too much in communication and treating people the way I want to be treated to cheat on someone. Yes, I've been cheated on and that only deepened my belief, but strangely enough it should have made me bitter than I am.

Tastey
02-07-2002, 03:52 PM
Yep, I did because I wanted.

No, I wouldn't again because I'm not the same person I was back then.

OhSoPrecious
02-07-2002, 04:01 PM
No, I never cheated on a mate. . however, I have been with someone who was doing the cheating~!! :rolleyes:

Bedroomeyes
02-07-2002, 06:13 PM
I have never cheated on anyone I was in a serious relationship with...

Melotic
02-07-2002, 06:46 PM
Not while in a serious relationship...

que90nek
02-07-2002, 06:56 PM
yes, i've cheated.

mystkev
02-07-2002, 07:10 PM
No, I have never cheated.

Sparkles
02-08-2002, 04:38 AM
never cheated......

FAMU
02-08-2002, 05:10 AM
To Mocha, Lovely, Tastey, and Que. Since yall admitted to cheating with on your mates. Did u ever admit to your mate that you cheated in the relationship or did your mate ever find out?

To answer my own question. Yes, I have cheated in a number of relationships. The reason I cheated was like Mocha said," Immaturity". They all found out because I either told them myself(another immature move) or they found out from someone else.

que90nek
02-08-2002, 05:31 AM
i have never been found out....and i have never told. :(

Tastey
02-08-2002, 05:44 AM
Nope, didn't tell. Why would I?

que90nek
02-08-2002, 05:51 AM
tastey...they say that confession is good for the soul....that forgiveness is important....do u know where i am going with this?

Tastey
02-08-2002, 06:14 AM
Who is this mythical they?

I've been forgiven by God....that's what counts.

Exactly where are you going with this? :confused:

lovely
02-08-2002, 06:54 AM
Like i posted before..yes i told him. He didnt ask, but i had to tell him. He was angry..upset. I dont think he ever forgave me(whatever:blah: ). I had to tell him because he didnt believe how unhappy i was and because i dont like hiding things.

nubianx2
02-08-2002, 06:57 AM
Yeah, I've cheated but not with anyone that I was in a committed relationship with. Didn't bother to tell them, didn't see the point.

lightandlovely1
02-08-2002, 07:25 AM
Yes I cheated. I wasn't happy and I thought that would solve all my problems - a divorce actually solved the problem. I wouldn't do it again because it causes more problems than it solved.

lightandlovely1
02-08-2002, 07:33 AM
Oh yeah, I told him.

Mocha
02-08-2002, 07:42 AM
yeah I did admit it...it broke us up for a minute, then we got back to gether and it was not the same.

I vowed never to admitt it again. I don't care if I bumped right into him....I will still say, "naw that wasn't me!"

misha
02-08-2002, 10:28 AM
I have always wondered what the motive was for telling, and if telling did more harm than good.....

I cheated on a boyfriend, because I was miserable with him and he wouldn't leave. I never cheated on my husband.

lightandlovely1
02-08-2002, 11:05 AM
Originally posted by misha+
I have always wondered what the motive was for telling, and if telling did more harm than good.....

I cheated on a boyfriend, because I was miserable with him and he wouldn't leave. I never cheated on my husband.

Exactly! my husband wouldn't leave. Even when I told him! I think I only told him in the hope that he would leave.

SoftNwet
02-11-2002, 05:08 AM
Originally posted by Mocha+
yeah I did admit it...it broke us up for a minute, then we got back to gether and it was not the same.

I vowed never to admitt it again. I don't care if I bumped right into him....I will still say, "naw that wasn't me!"

That is what happend to me and like Mocha I would not tell......

CLSmooove
02-11-2002, 05:13 AM
Sure I have but not with a serious relationship....

Did I ever tell him??? Are you crazy???? HELL NO!!!!!!!!

Vronni
02-11-2002, 11:01 AM
when I was younger,I thought about it. That was my queue that I needed to end things

D2daO2da
02-11-2002, 12:42 PM
Yep I did,

Define Mate

Was no big deal. I was outs on the relationship anyhow.

D

Qjai
02-11-2002, 06:01 PM
In almost every serious relationship I've been in i've cheated. Mostly out of immaturity or boredom. Back then sex = love and when i wasn't feeling loved i just got that "loving feeling" from someone else (usually an ex) Usually though, I've tried to end the relationship but the person kept holding on or wanted to work it out in some way and I just didn't totally let it all go before moving on to someone else. I never told, that was the fun part of it. Knowing I had done it but the other person thinking I was a goodie two shoes. I wouldn't do it now simply because I wouldn't want it done to me. I've grown up a whole lot since those days.

Toffee
02-11-2002, 06:17 PM
Yup... I'm scared of commitement

dulce
02-11-2002, 09:57 PM
yep - I cheated once - it was a serious relationship but I was very, very, very unsatisfied in the sex dept. Braugh had just about everything else going on but was seriously deprived size-wise. I felt very shallow that it was even an issue and tried to hang but all that yang about it ain't the size and what not? It DOES matter...well, at least to me....

nope - I never told him...we just broke up soon afterwards...I'm just not a cheater at heart...

seductive_tee
02-12-2002, 04:06 PM
Yes i have cheated, let me see, on 2 different men, but cheated with the same man.....

Did they find out....NOPE and NO i never told.

seductive_tee
02-12-2002, 04:08 PM
And this post needs to be in the confessional, but then again, sinnah might come in there and mess it up with some racial mess.....

HulaSista
02-16-2002, 06:35 PM
i have cheated.

i never told.

i did it because i needed someone who needed me. even if it was only sexually.

i wouldn't do it again. i still would never tell if i should do it again.

texasheat
03-10-2005, 07:06 PM
bump...................

HulaSista
03-10-2005, 10:32 PM
my anwser aint changed.

jaila
03-11-2005, 04:29 AM
my anwser aint changed.

me too...what she said!

jaybaby
03-11-2005, 05:32 AM
I cheated on Baby back when I was 16. He was 17 and just graduated from high school. He was so busy hustlin and running the streets with his niggas that he didn't spend as much time with me as I needed him to. (He was young who could blame him)! I ended up finding somebody else to ease the lonliness. We started spending more and more time together and after 6 months of creeping...I ended up pregnant. So of course I had to tell. I regret it to this day, but we were able to work things out and we're still together. So I guess I'm a reformed cheater. Wouldn't ever do it again.

MARLAND_SKILLZ
03-11-2005, 06:13 AM
I cheated on Baby back when I was 16. He was 17 and just graduated from high school. He was so busy hustlin and running the streets with his niggas that he didn't spend as much time with me as I needed him to. (He was young who could blame him)! I ended up finding somebody else to ease the lonliness. We started spending more and more time together and after 6 months of creeping...I ended up pregnant. So of course I had to tell. I regret it to this day, but we were able to work things out and we're still together. So I guess I'm a reformed cheater. Wouldn't ever do it again.


Was it "the child" the other mans child or the one you worked it out with..

jaybaby
03-11-2005, 06:39 AM
Was it "the child" the other mans child or the one you worked it out with..


the other man's child. He didn't tell me the condom busted. I was young and naive as hell!!!

MARLAND_SKILLZ
03-11-2005, 06:57 AM
the other man's child. He didn't tell me the condom busted. I was young and naive as hell!!!


Now thats deep... You must have that good stuff...

jaybaby
03-11-2005, 06:59 AM
Now thats deep... You must have that good stuff...


I've been told! I guess that's why baby has been around for 10 years!

MARLAND_SKILLZ
03-11-2005, 07:06 AM
I've been told! I guess that's why baby has been around for 10 years!



Yea, whatever... You just make sure you keep that shit tight... If it was the kid, I would wait ten years to get yo ass back.. He will never forget that. Every time he looks at his stepchild or the baby daddy it crosses his mind.

Fu** what you heard.

jaybaby
03-11-2005, 07:18 AM
Yea, whatever... You just make sure you keep that shit tight... If it was the kid, I would wait ten years to get yo ass back.. He will never forget that. Every time he looks at his stepchild or the baby daddy it crosses his mind.

Fu** what you heard.


That could very well be true. His stint in prison made him see the light. If he was spending more time with me and less time hustlin and out there in the street none of that would have ever taken place. I have been down for that nigga since I was 15 years old and trust and believe he regrets just like I did. That's why he wasn't mad about it. He was hurt no doubt...but he understood the choices he made was the start of it all.

MARLAND_SKILLZ
03-11-2005, 07:27 AM
And his "stint" was only saying that shit becouse he was in prison or it never happend to his ass.. I wouldnt give a damn if I was on the streets for 10 years, if you have a kid by another man its OVER. Now if that man ever leave you longer than a month or two, he gets no sleep. Not to mention the baby daddy popping up smiling and shit, thinking of how sneaky his baby momma is..

jaybaby
03-11-2005, 07:35 AM
And his "stint" was only saying that shit becouse he was in prison or it never happend to his ass.. I wouldnt give a damn if I was on the streets for 10 years, if you have a kid by another man its OVER. Now if that man ever leave you longer than a month or two, he gets no sleep. Not to mention the baby daddy popping up smiling and shit, thinking of how sneaky his baby momma is..


Well that's you...You can't speak about that man. We was kids ! I was only 16 and he was 17. He hadn't grew up yet. He still wanted to bang and be a gangsta and shit! But when had to do them 2 years he understood that he left me with no choice. Who wants to be in a relationship and be neglected. When he grew up, he understood that it was his fault. And just fyi.....baby daddy was cut loose long time ago. Just cause I spent time with you and had your child don't mean shit. I made a mistake...so sue me! I learned from that shit when I had my baby.

texasheat
03-11-2005, 07:49 AM
And his "stint" was only saying that shit becouse he was in prison or it never happend to his ass.. I wouldnt give a damn if I was on the streets for 10 years, if you have a kid by another man its OVER. Now if that man ever leave you longer than a month or two, he gets no sleep. Not to mention the baby daddy popping up smiling and shit, thinking of how sneaky his baby momma is..

Do you speak from experience? Cause my guess is, if you were under those same circumstances, yo ass wouldn't be going nowhere. :rolleyes:

That Damn jl
03-11-2005, 07:50 AM
truthfully: yes, I have cheated. I am still ashamed and embarrassed by it. Yes, I told.

truthfully: he has cheated. Yes, he told.

MARLAND_SKILLZ
03-11-2005, 08:00 AM
Well that's you...You can't speak about that man. We was kids ! I was only 16 and he was 17. He hadn't grew up yet. He still wanted to bang and be a gangsta and shit! But when had to do them 2 years he understood that he left me with no choice. Who wants to be in a relationship and be neglected. When he grew up, he understood that it was his fault. And just fyi.....baby daddy was cut loose long time ago. Just cause I spent time with you and had your child don't mean shit. I made a mistake...so sue me! I learned from that shit when I had my baby.


Babe I am just speaking for most "Honest" men and there thoughts. I am not saying you was wrong or right.. I had a kid younger than you and I always wanted that "I will be with my baby moms one day" mentality, but I was too young at the time. She did her thing, I did mines. She got knocked up, my thoughts changed. Even though she wasent my women at the time, I still knew one day. Not anymore. I would rather for my ex, baby, or someone I still have feelings for to get married than to have another kid by another cat. Even though you say the baby daddy is out of the picture, he never will be unless death or just ignorant...

Maybe its just me.. Maybe not..

jaybaby
03-11-2005, 08:16 AM
Babe I am just speaking for most "Honest" men and there thoughts. I am not saying you was wrong or right.. I had a kid younger than you and I always wanted that "I will be with my baby moms one day" mentality, but I was too young at the time. She did her thing, I did mines. She got knocked up, my thoughts changed. Even though she wasent my women at the time, I still knew one day. Not anymore. I would rather for my ex, baby, or someone I still have feelings for to get married than to have another kid by another cat. Even though you say the baby daddy is out of the picture, he never will be unless death or just ignorant...

Maybe its just me.. Maybe not..

You said the key word HONEST MAN! We were CHILDREN when this incident happened. We are now grown and have learned better. That's why he hasn't held it against me. There was never really a need for baby daddy...other than to fill that void (lonliness) I was experiencing AT THAT MOMENT. He hasn't seen my child in over 5 years and my child will be 8 this year. But my child has a father...BIOLOGICAL OR NOT! Baby would die for him just like the other two kids. He has sworn that before GOD and me! So NOW he is an HONEST MAN and should I pull the same stunt, I doubt if it would fly!

MARLAND_SKILLZ
03-11-2005, 08:30 AM
You said the key word HONEST MAN! We were CHILDREN when this incident happened. We are now grown and have learned better. That's why he hasn't held it against me. There was never really a need for baby daddy...other than to fill that void (lonliness) I was experiencing AT THAT MOMENT. He hasn't seen my child in over 5 years and my child will be 8 this year. But my child has a father...BIOLOGICAL OR NOT! Baby would die for him just like the other two kids. He has sworn that before GOD and me! So NOW he is an HONEST MAN and should I pull the same stunt, I doubt if it would fly!



But, the baby daddy can pop back up any day now. Would your man be cool with it..?? Just asking.

Navarre
03-11-2005, 08:43 AM
Yes I have cheated

I felt as if I had no other choice I was in a realtionship. That left miserable She would come home and you could cut the thension with a nice. Sex was not happening and if it did I had to quilt her into it and she would say some shit life here it is get it. made me really just not want to at all. Then I met this nice lady from out of state we started talking and just clicked the woman i was in a realtionship with just happend to eb going out of town the same weekend my new friend was coming into town. So we hooked up that weekend and we are married now.

MARLAND_SKILLZ
03-11-2005, 08:45 AM
Yes I have cheated

I felt as if I had no other choice I was in a realtionship. That left miserable She would come home and you could cut the thension with a nice. Sex was not happening and if it did I had to quilt her into it and she would say some shit life here it is get it. made me really just not want to at all. Then I met this nice lady from out of state we started talking and just clicked the woman i was in a realtionship with just happend to eb going out of town the same weekend my new friend was coming into town. So we hooked up that weekend and we are married now.



damn, first post.. oh yea. You are at the right place to confess yo sins...lol

Jonjon
03-11-2005, 08:47 AM
Yes I've cheated on numerous occasions .......... in the past.

Looking back I can't believe I did a lot of the things I did back then.

One guy in particular lived far and told his best friend to take care of me...... big mistake .......... he took care of me all right. The same guy introduced me to his boss and next thing I know his boss drove all the way to my house one night........he knew my boyfriend was at work :upto: ............ and took me back to his place. That was one of the worst cheating I did ..... with a guy's best friend and boss !
I felt this guy didn't try hard enough to see me as often as he could...... his friend and boss found time for me.

I cheated on another guy with his best friend.......... I was always attracted to his friend and one day his friend made advances that I didn't refuse

I have not cheated in YEARS.

This was all in my late teens.

I wouldn't do any of those things today.

jaybaby
03-11-2005, 08:49 AM
But, the baby daddy can pop back up any day now. Would your man be cool with it..?? Just asking.



Baby Daddy probably could if he knew where we was. He doesn't know where we live, my phone number, where I work , what kind of car I drive or nothing. The only thing he does know is where my Grandmother lived (that's where I was staying when I met him), but she has gone on to Heaven and has no intention of coming back! Me and baby don't discuss the Baby Daddy (Right hand to God)! It's really as though he never existed. He was cool to kick it with but he hasn't really had a big impact on me or my child's life!

MndBdySoul
03-11-2005, 08:55 AM
Baby Daddy probably could if he knew where we was. He doesn't know where we live, my phone number, where I work , what kind of car I drive or nothing. The only thing he does know is where my Grandmother lived (that's where I was staying when I met him), but she has gone on to Heaven and has no intention of coming back! Me and baby don't discuss the Baby Daddy (Right hand to God)! It's really as though he never existed. He was cool to kick it with but he hasn't really had a big impact on me or my child's life!


Does he know your name? That's all a person needs if they really want to find someone.

MARLAND_SKILLZ
03-11-2005, 08:57 AM
Yes I've cheated on numerous occasions .......... in the past.

Looking back I can't believe I did a lot of the things I did back then.

One guy in particular lived far and told his best friend to take care of me...... big mistake .......... he took care of me all right. The same guy introduced me to his boss and next thing I know his boss drove all the way to my house one night........he knew my boyfriend was at work :upto: ............ and took me back to his place. That was one of the worst cheating I did ..... with a guy's best friend and boss !
I felt this guy didn't try hard enough to see me as often as he could...... his friend and boss found time for me.

I cheated on another guy with his best friend.......... this was all in my late teens.
I was always attracted to his friend and one day his friend made advances that I didn't refuse

I have not cheated in YEARS.

I wouldn't do any of those things today.



Damn Jonjon... We may know eachother.. Z you might be in for the ride of your life... Some things never change.. lol

jaybaby
03-11-2005, 08:58 AM
Does he know your name? That's all a person needs if they really want to find someone.



And what information could he possibly get with my name. Everything would lead him back to that same phone number and address that my grandmother lived.

MndBdySoul
03-11-2005, 09:00 AM
And what information could he possibly get with my name. Everything would lead him back to that same phone number and address that my grandmother lived.

With little to almost no effort.. you'd be surprised what information a person can find out.... just with a name. It may lead back to your grandmother's address, but from there, if they dig deep enough, they can find out even more information....

Then if they were really desperate..... of course money always talks to.

MARLAND_SKILLZ
03-11-2005, 09:02 AM
Baby Daddy probably could if he knew where we was. He doesn't know where we live, my phone number, where I work , what kind of car I drive or nothing. The only thing he does know is where my Grandmother lived (that's where I was staying when I met him), but she has gone on to Heaven and has no intention of coming back! Me and baby don't discuss the Baby Daddy (Right hand to God)! It's really as though he never existed. He was cool to kick it with but he hasn't really had a big impact on me or my child's life!


Do you really think that this is the right way to go about it....??? You cant hide for long and even if you do, you child may hate you in the long run. Trying to protect yo man feelings or to keeping shit on chill mode, could hurt any chance the real father has with ever having a true bond with his child..

texasheat
03-11-2005, 09:08 AM
I'm pretty sure if the baby daddy wanted to be a part of the childs life he could :rolleyes:

And I'm pretty sure Jay's life and the childs is just fine without this nikka in it. Especially when the child got a Daddy that loves him.

jaybaby
03-11-2005, 09:08 AM
Do you really think that this is the right way to go about it....??? You cant hide for long and even if you do, you child may hate you in the long run. Trying to protect yo man feelings or to keeping shit on chill mode, could hurt any chance the real father has with ever having a true bond with his child..


My child knows he got another daddy. I even have the pictures he and his daddy took at my son's first birthday party in our family album. So he knows what he looks like and what his name is...but that's it...That's all he cares about RIGHT NOW. Should my son tell me one day that he wants to meet his REAL father, I know where to start looking. Until then hell yea, I'm leaving well enough alone.

jaybaby
03-11-2005, 09:14 AM
With little to almost no effort.. you'd be surprised what information a person can find out.... just with a name. It may lead back to your grandmother's address, but from there, if they dig deep enough, they can find out even more information....

Then if they were really desperate..... of course money always talks to.


I guess I made it seem like I'm HIDING from BABY DADDY, but I'm not. It's just He ain't needed...really and truly! So if he does get the information and drops by my house one day...nothing would change! He could come in have a glass of Kool-Aid, sit on the couch talk to my child a bit (get to know a little about him) and then take his ass home. My child ain't leaving with him....shit my baby would tell him he ain't leaving with him cause he don't know him like that. Ain't no weekly visits, go play ball in the park, throw the football around... Ain't none of that unless my child feels like he can handle it! Point blank.

MARLAND_SKILLZ
03-11-2005, 09:16 AM
I'm pretty sure if the baby daddy wanted to be a part of the childs life he could :rolleyes:

And I'm pretty sure Jay's life and the childs is just fine without this nikka in it. Especially when the child got a Daddy that loves him.


look, you can roll your eyes at me all day, it still isnt right to be hiding from the child biological father just becouse you was creeping, trying to keep yo man from thinking about the situation or whatever.. She shouldnt have to hide.

texasheat
03-11-2005, 09:21 AM
how is she hiding? just cause she aint hunting this nigga down, which would prolly be a waiste of time anyway. like mbs said there are ways of finding people and if the bdaddy wanted it bad enuff he would locate her and the child. why should she go hunt this nigga down to do a job thats already being done?

MARLAND_SKILLZ
03-11-2005, 09:22 AM
I guess I made it seem like I'm HIDING from BABY DADDY, but I'm not. It's just He ain't needed...really and truly! So if he does get the information and drops by my house one day...nothing would change! He could come in have a glass of Kool-Aid, sit on the couch talk to my child a bit (get to know a little about him) and then take his ass home. My child ain't leaving with him....shit my baby would tell him he ain't leaving with him cause he don't know him like that. Ain't no weekly visits, go play ball in the park, throw the football around... Ain't none of that unless my child feels like he can handle it! Point blank.



Who said he isnt needed... YOU.. Not the judge, father, or the child..???? Thats where the term "baby momma drama" come from.. That man may be a better daddy that yo man. But you wont give him a chance...

texasheat
03-11-2005, 09:26 AM
Who said he isnt needed... YOU.. Not the judge, father, or the child..???? Thats where the term "baby momma drama" come from.. That man may be a better daddy that yo man. But you wont give him a chance...

OR he may cause more harm than good...

MARLAND_SKILLZ
03-11-2005, 09:30 AM
Well tex, that is a chance she should take.. She took a chance sleeping with his ass, why not see if could be a good father to his child.. And why does he need to call all around Texas to see his kid..???

jaybaby
03-11-2005, 09:34 AM
Who said he isnt needed... YOU.. Not the judge, father, or the child..???? Thats where the term "baby momma drama" come from.. That man may be a better daddy that yo man. But you wont give him a chance...


Naw that can't even be compared to baby mama drama. I done seen that shit first hand and this situation with my baby daddy ain't SHIT compared to that. It ain't about BABY DADDY'S wants , I made that choice to ex him out MYSELF. It's up to my child and my child only! And trust me he don't even ask about that mf'er. But if the day comes where he wants to meet him, then yea I'll look for him. But not before then. It's not like my child is wanting for a daddy. And yea you right, he could've possibly been a better daddy than the one my child got...but my child don't know that. He worships the one he got. When he says he wants to be like daddy....We all know who he talking bout and it ain't BD!

LoveStory
03-11-2005, 09:35 AM
Yes I have cheated

I felt as if I had no other choice I was in a realtionship. That left miserable She would come home and you could cut the thension with a nice. Sex was not happening and if it did I had to quilt her into it and she would say some shit life here it is get it. made me really just not want to at all. Then I met this nice lady from out of state we started talking and just clicked the woman i was in a realtionship with just happend to eb going out of town the same weekend my new friend was coming into town. So we hooked up that weekend and we are married now.

dang, why you gotta tell all our secrets..LOL

MARLAND_SKILLZ
03-11-2005, 09:43 AM
Naw that can't even be compared to baby mama drama. I done seen that shit first hand and this situation with my baby daddy ain't SHIT compared to that. It ain't about BABY DADDY'S wants , I made that choice to ex him out MYSELF. It's up to my child and my child only! And trust me he don't even ask about that mf'er. But if the day comes where he wants to meet him, then yea I'll look for him. But not before then. It's not like my child is wanting for a daddy. And yea you right, he could've possibly been a better daddy than the one my child got...but my child don't know that. He worships the one he got. When he says he wants to be like daddy....We all know who he talking bout and it ain't BD!

the baby momma dramma shit can be worse, ok, but I am sure in his book, he looks at it as being dramma.. And how do you expect your son to ask about his father when he really dont know him..?? Nor are you giving him a chance to.

jaybaby
03-11-2005, 09:50 AM
the baby momma dramma shit can be worse, ok, but I am sure in his book, he looks at it as being dramma.. And how do you expect your son to ask about his father when he really dont know him..?? Nor are you giving him a chance to.



He knows his FATHER...biological or not he's still his father. No, he doesn't know his birth father...but he doesn't care to (RIGHT NOW) either. If he did, then I would get on it! My child is only worried about playing football again in July (that his FATHER is coaching)...he ain't nowhere near worried about that man and what he doing. IN all reality I doubt if baby daddy is just sick about it either. The last time he saw my child was 5 years ago...I didn't just pack up and say to hell with this dude I don't want him to see my child ever again. That's not what that was....He had a lot on his plate too at that time. The decision I made benefitted all of our lives....not just mine!

Whatsupwithat
03-11-2005, 10:02 AM
Who said he isnt needed... YOU.. Not the judge, father, or the child..???? Thats where the term "baby momma drama" come from.. That man may be a better daddy that yo man. But you wont give him a chance...


if he was a better daddy, in the first place, there would be no need to look for him, cause he would never let baby outa his sight...

Whatsupwithat
03-11-2005, 10:05 AM
Well tex, that is a chance she should take.. She took a chance sleeping with his ass, why not see if could be a good father to his child.. And why does he need to call all around Texas to see his kid..???


point exactly, he shouldnt have to, but most likely he made the choise of NOT being there, because he shouldve never left

Jonjon
03-11-2005, 10:11 AM
Damn Jonjon... We may know eachother.. Z you might be in for the ride of your life... Some things never change.. lol



Naw........ Z is safe.

With what he is throwin' down ........ I ain't going no where !

texasheat
03-11-2005, 10:30 AM
haaaayyy, ^5

also, I'm digging your siggie, u reppin Z! Thats good shit...

zuriyahe
03-11-2005, 10:45 AM
Hea Texas,

But you are commin' to Hushnic, right?

Jonjon and I would love to meet cha! :upto: :D

KissableSexyShortStuff
03-11-2005, 10:55 AM
i have cheated.

i never told.

i did it because i needed someone who needed me. even if it was only sexually.

i wouldn't do it again. i still would never tell if i should do it again.


What Hula said... but I did tell him...

Jonjon
03-11-2005, 10:56 AM
What Hula said... but I did tell him...



You told !

What did he say ?

texasheat
03-11-2005, 11:13 AM
^
l
l
l
What she asked?

texasheat
03-11-2005, 11:16 AM
Hea Texas,

But you are commin' to Hushnic, right?

Jonjon and I would love to meet cha! :upto: :D

umn humnh :upretty

i would love to freak, i mean meet ya'll too :upto:

...now i just gotta convince grave to come so i can get 2 meats at once...

Jonjon
03-11-2005, 11:27 AM
...now i just gotta convince grave to come so i can get 2 meats at once...


2 meats ?............ what about me?

Hhhmm ......... a 4 some ........that's something I've never done.......... could be interesting !

HulaSista
03-11-2005, 11:34 AM
:cry: :D :cry: :D

are ya'll serious?

texasheat
03-11-2005, 11:35 AM
LOL, you should have the booty thing down by then, practice tonight up until hushnic. I never did the girl on girl thing so you can teach me the ropes... should be a blast :upto: Then we can switch...

*writing down an event list for hushnic*

1. double penetration
2. do Jon Jon
3. watch JonJon and Grave go at it
4. give Grave 3 some
5. give Zuri 3 some

Not in order and definately not only once

Feel free to add to the list :upretty:

FoxEMomma
03-11-2005, 11:35 AM
Paying attention

Who's to say that the females will be attracted to each other?

MARLAND_SKILLZ
03-11-2005, 11:36 AM
if he was a better daddy, in the first place, there would be no need to look for him, cause he would never let baby outa his sight...



Whateva yo.. That is must how it goes down in your area.. Where I from, the shit is wrong..

zuriyahe
03-11-2005, 11:42 AM
Paying attention

Who's to say that the females will be attracted to each other?

*extending Hushnic invitation to FoxE*

From Z and JJ :eek: :upto: :D

*looking online for a good digital camcorder*

zuriyahe
03-11-2005, 11:43 AM
And where in tarnation is Grave?!?!?!? Texas...go get him and bring him back!

FoxEMomma
03-11-2005, 11:44 AM
Ummm.... Zuri

I may have done a lot of dirt in my life..
But I don't get down like that....
And if I did
the woman better be knock down drop dead beautiful
before I lick
any carpets....

I just can't get down like that....

Pamalicious
03-11-2005, 11:45 AM
LOL, you should have the booty thing down by then, practice tonight up until hushnic. I never did the girl on girl thing so you can teach me the ropes... should be a blast :upto: Then we can switch...

*writing down an event list for hushnic*

1. double penetration
2. do Jon Jon
3. watch JonJon and Grave go at it
4. give Grave 3 some
5. give Zuri 3 some

Not in order and definately not only once

Feel free to add to the list :upretty:

Cancelling my ticket to Hushnic

texasheat
03-11-2005, 11:45 AM
Its also WRONG for Niggas who have the opportunity to be in their childs life, NOT TO!!!!!! What you gotta say about that?!?!? She said when her child asks about his daddy then she'll hunt him down, but at the same time Is the daddy even looking for his son in the first place? Prolly not if it's been 5 years!

Jonjon
03-11-2005, 11:46 AM
LOL, you should have the booty thing down by then, practice tonight up until hushnic. I never did the girl on girl thing so you can teach me the ropes... should be a blast :upto: Then we can switch...

*writing down an event list for hushnic*

1. double penetration
2. do Jon Jon
3. watch JonJon and Grave go at it
4. give Grave 3 some
5. give Zuri 3 some

Not in order and definately not only once

Feel free to add to the list :upretty:


Woo Hoo !

Sounds like fun !

The :upretty on :upretty thing is great . I love being the giver !

texasheat
03-11-2005, 11:47 AM
Ummm.... Zuri

I may have done a lot of dirt in my life..
But I don't get down like that....
And if I did
the woman better be knock down drop dead beautiful
before I lick
any carpets....

I just can't get down like that....

well maybe we can change your mind FoxE

FoxEMomma
03-11-2005, 11:49 AM
Seriously doubt it....
Seriously

HulaSista
03-11-2005, 11:52 AM
Cancelling my ticket to Hushnic


you bet not

hushnic will be at a hotel in the north bay

what they doing will be at zuri and jj's house in the southbay somewhere and hour away from us

pam, don't play

zuriyahe
03-11-2005, 11:54 AM
Seriously doubt it....
Seriously


How about if I wear a Mario Van Peoples mask?

texasheat
03-11-2005, 11:54 AM
Seriously doubt it....
Seriously

I think every woman should try this at least once in her lifetime...

Pamalicious
03-11-2005, 11:56 AM
I think every woman should try this at least once in her lifetime...

Why? Exactly what is it going to enlighten you on?

FoxEMomma
03-11-2005, 12:02 PM
How about if I wear a Mario Van Peoples mask?

Mario is not cute

FoxEMomma
03-11-2005, 12:03 PM
I think every woman should try this at least once in her lifetime...

Say what you wish
but I'm not every woman..
And FoxE don't lick no carpets
Dick yeah
but not carpets....

texasheat
03-11-2005, 12:05 PM
I think there are certain things every woman should experience... It doesn't have to enlighten you, doesn't have to make you a better person... Just something to experience... for FUN

btw, if I was really trying to get FoxE's cootie, I'd PM her and try to convince her...

PM me FoxE

Pamalicious
03-11-2005, 12:07 PM
I think there are certain things every woman should experience... It doesn't have to enlighten you, doesn't have to make you a better person... Just something to experience... for FUN

btw, if I was really trying to get FoxE's cootie, I'd PM her and try to convince her...

PM me FoxE

So you promoting women doing other women for no other reason than it's.....fun? Okay..movingon

texasheat
03-11-2005, 12:10 PM
So you promoting women doing other women for no other reason than it's.....fun? Okay..movingon

yes please............ it aint that Serious

zuriyahe
03-11-2005, 12:26 PM
Come on folks. Let's not take this too seriously. Pam...don't be scurred. No one is gonna bite you. Come on ova to Hushnic.

HulaSista
03-11-2005, 12:35 PM
it is that serious when you DON'T want to do it. and by saying its NOT belittles the persons' choice to NOT do it

texasheat
03-11-2005, 12:51 PM
it is that serious when you DON'T want to do it. and by saying its NOT belittles the persons' choice to NOT do it

Why would it belittle your choice? If you don't want to do it, then don't do it... My opinion is my opinion don't make it right or wrong... And it doesn't apply to you if you don't feel that way.

Jeez

Don't lick carpet if you don't want to, what am I gonna gain or lose from you not agreeing with MY OPINION?

Here http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v248/MochaMommies/chillpill.gif Take one and pass it on

zuriyahe
03-11-2005, 01:00 PM
it is that serious when you DON'T want to do it. and by saying its NOT belittles the persons' choice to NOT do it

No it isn't. If you don't want to do it. Don't do it. IT IS NOT SERIOUS, BECAUSE NO ONE WAS SERIOUS. That is a fact.

Most of the folks was just goofin' off and joking with some adult humor. Are we saying that no one has ever done that here?

No one was belitled here...so...what the problem is?

Jonjon
03-11-2005, 01:13 PM
I feel like when I was at slumber parties when I was little and we would be talking and telling secrets then a somebodies mama would come and tell us to be quiet !




Damn ......... can't have any fun in here !

texasheat
03-11-2005, 01:29 PM
so i guess we ain't hooking up

KissableSexyShortStuff
03-11-2005, 01:58 PM
You told !

What did he say ?


Do you know that fucker got mad.... Come find out he was cheating on me and didn't think I would do the same... In his words he wanted his cake and ice cream......

texasheat
03-11-2005, 02:04 PM
that's how alot of men think... 'least the ones i know

HulaSista
03-11-2005, 04:08 PM
lol... naw... no need to take a chill pill. life chills a person out all by itself. you all will have your very own prescriptions one day soon...

FAMU
03-11-2005, 05:59 PM
LOL, you should have the booty thing down by then, practice tonight up until hushnic. I never did the girl on girl thing so you can teach me the ropes... should be a blast :upto: Then we can switch...

*writing down an event list for hushnic*

1. double penetration
2. do Jon Jon
3. watch JonJon and Grave go at it
4. give Grave 3 some
5. give Zuri 3 some

Not in order and definately not only once

Feel free to add to the list :upretty:

I want to come to yall party.............I am not participating, just spectating.

Jonjon
03-11-2005, 06:04 PM
I want to come to yall party.............I am not participating, just spectating.


*Extending the invitation to Famu*

zuriyahe
03-11-2005, 06:34 PM
so i guess we ain't hooking up

I'm telling THEM that so that they won't get scurred....

lol.

What happens at Hushnic...

STAYS AT HUSHNIC....:upto:

FAMU
03-11-2005, 07:03 PM
Extending the invitation to Famu

Yesssssssssss!

MndBdySoul
03-11-2005, 07:16 PM
What happens at Hushnic...

STAYS AT HUSHNIC....:upto:


Apparently that ain't always the case ...........lol

HulaSista
03-11-2005, 09:23 PM
yep so what ever you do at hushnic dont' tell NO BODY ELSE or it will end up on the board!

RockYoKoo
03-12-2005, 08:27 AM
Say what you wish
but I'm not every woman..
And FoxE lick Dick yeah
....

My type of woman :hearts:

BLACK SINBAD
03-17-2005, 02:13 PM
Here http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v248/MochaMommies/chillpill.gif Take one and pass it on

Hmmmmmm, looks like a date rape pill. U puttin those in the fellas dranks
Tx Heat? You are???? :upto: Well Im drankin Goose and Tonic.....gimme 2.

Its like this.....do what you like @ HUSHNIC. You grown and in full control
of your actions. Just remember, if ya bring it to the board.......it will be
community business.

dejavu
03-17-2005, 03:02 PM
Ya'll are crazy...LOL

Andre98
03-17-2005, 06:48 PM
yep so what ever you do at hushnic dont' tell NO BODY ELSE or it will end up on the board!
Does that include regionals?

rainy
03-18-2005, 06:55 PM
i never cheated on my ex-husband.

did cheat on an ex-boyfriend with my previous boyfriend. to put it bluntly he had a small dick and it wasnt hitting all the right places so i went back to something i knew could.

never did tell him and broke up with him shortly thereafter.

zuriyahe
03-18-2005, 07:48 PM
Apparently that ain't always the case ...........lol

lol! You know...you are right! Damn! Grown ass folks can't even keep a secret! lol!