Discussion 2,567 about Men on the Internet

[HulaSista]

Excerpt from Messenger conversation:

mikala_lei_anne: ummmmmmmmm...is it me or are men on the net
who send you pictures of them AND they kids and beg you for phone calls and wish that they could be by your side after just meeiting you 4 hours ago ... wierd or what?

like

the pictures of the kids go validate their insanity?

misha61615: whew lawd girl!!!

misha61615: YES!!!!

misha61615: ctfu....hell nah!!!

mikala_lei_anne: even crazy folks know how to make babies!


ladies, you know what i am talkin about...:beating







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disclaimer: this excerpt in no way shape or form shows or implies that the only thing misha and i talk about are men and men on the internet. we also talk about our career, our kids and hushnic as well as everything else under the damn sun!

[Tastey]

Girl,
If I have been proposed to on the net 4x in the last year. LOL

[HulaSista]

Tastey...where's the ring? lol :p

[misha]

What gets me is that married men will approach, and swear they are single.

[dulce]

see, that's why the whole meeting folks on the net is scary to me...other than Hush folks, cuz ya'll will bust somebody OUT! -

[PecanTan]

You don't know who you are talking to. They do have computers and the internet in prisons, don't they? You could be talking to a convicted killer, those fools will tell you anything if they think you are game. Maybe I have been watching too much OZ. :upretty

[dulce]

Maybe I have been watching too much OZ.

CTFU @ PecanTan/admin/hmmm...

[Tastey]

Since Mystkev has been sooooo successful online dating I thought I'd update my profiles and give it another try.

:rolleyes:

Why do brothers ask the SAME stupid questions?

Why is a pretty girl like you not married?

Mmmm let's see because I never GOT married! I mean how do you honestly answer this question? :confused:

What type of girl are you?
Type? I'm the type that hates stupid ass questions like that. Ugh!

And the absolute worse are the brothers who 5 minutes into an IM conversation say:
I can make you so happy if you just let me...I know I can.

You don't even KNOW me Man! What if making me happy involves hanging upside down buck-naked by your freaking toenails...are u gonna do that? Huh? Are you?
:beating

[HulaSista]

tastey... you know they go say YES... "if i could i would"...

this one dude said that he was 5'5'' and said that he could make me happy. PERHAPS.... but.... how do i look bringing your ass home to my momma? and he tried to convince me that height makes no difference. and so, like you tastey, i told him that if he wants to make me happy, to grow 8 inches, and we'll be cool. he said i am asking for too much, and i said, EXACTLY.... ctfu

[MsMeelah]

Oh Lawd Blackplanet is the worst.
I get a page full of notes and probably about 2 of them are worth answering.
notes that say :
Hey Boo ( I HATE that word)
"What up sexy""Holla atcha boy" (wtf?)
"May I have your number so I can call you" ( this is your first note to me, what makes you think I am going to call you?)
and my altime favorite... "I will be in DCfor a convention/vaction next week and I need someone to show me around "( I get that one at least once a month)
This morning I got one that said " do you like my picture?" That was it. This bruva was 37 years old. 37!! and thats ALL you could think of???? . He was a Pretty boy (Genuine lookin) thats not my type but he was a good looking brother but obviously full of himself...

:rolleyes:

[nubianx2]

All of this confirms why I have no patience for the on-line meeting/dating thing.

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by nubianx2+
All of this confirms why I have no patience for the on-line meeting/dating thing.


DITTO!!!!!!

[Tastey]

Soft and Nubian...ya'll just CHICKEN :blah: LOLOLOL :p

Honestly...it's not that much worse that real life dating...lol :p

Dating in general in the 02 is a f*cked up experience...Trust.

[nubianx2]

Originally posted by Tastey+
Soft and Nubian...ya'll just CHICKEN :blah: LOLOLOL :p

Honestly...it's not that much worse that real life dating...lol :p



Naw Tastey I ain't chicken:chicken

I've ventured out a few times with the on-line thing, with absolutely NO SUCCESS. I do much better with the live and in person.

Dating in general in the 02 is a f*cked up experience...Trust. [/B][/QUOTE]

Ain't that the truth!

[mystkev]

The guys are cool, but they have their problems. One thing I have noticed is that the guys that I have met on the internet have gotten attached real fast. One guy said I had no time for him, since we've only gone out once, I just met him a week ago.

Another wants me to get rid of all my men. Another one calls everyday to go out. At least the conversation is interesting.

Oooh I also have one that doesn't know how to use messenger and keeps asking me to show him. He sends me nasty ecards (or whatever they are called), it's two people having sex standing up, I don't wish to meet him.

[HulaSista]

they do sorta become attached....

or they are just HELLA persistent.... which, gets on my nerves....especially when you don't like them... (i keep forgetting about the ignore button....)

[sistuhchey]

because I never have to see his azz!!!!...5 years strong...the most successful fulfilling relationship yet, no sex, no pressure, very thoughtful, we've exchnged photo's, phone calls, mailing address..(5yrs strong)..he's spiritual, great conversationalist, we've laughed, and have shared a "NON-SEXUAL Intimacey I wouldn't trade for anything!!!!...oh and have sent me gifts..
It's a good bond!!!...

Now, he could be married, or a looney or involved..but we keep in touch weekly...and that's ok by me!!!!