What do you think about this?

[redphoenix2002]

I was in four year relationship with a man; who on the night before I was to give birth to our son, was told by him that he was hiv+. I decided to stay because I believe in forgiveness. However, flash forward three years later and this nigger decides at (41) he going to leave me for 22 yr old homeless chick! Yes I thought of murder but, God forgives and so shouls I. I told this man he has to leave my house; but the n***er is so broke that has no place to go. I feel sorry for him and to be honest after all shit I still feel love. I'm currently trying to find him a room. I decided that I can't hold onto this anger and hurt; it's not healthy. I don't know folks just venting!!! What's your feedback on this dilemma. Oh by the way thank God me and my son were not infected.! Praise God !!!

[Melotic]

I was in four year relationship with a man; who on the night before I was to give birth to our son, was told by him that he was hiv+. I decided to stay because I believe in forgiveness. However, flash forward three years later and this nigger decides at (41) he going to leave me for 22 yr old homeless chick! Yes I thought of murder but, God forgives and so shouls I. I told this man he has to leave my house; but the n***er is so broke that has no place to go. I feel sorry for him and to be honest after all shit I still feel love. I'm currently trying to find him a room. I decided that I can't hold onto this anger and hurt; it's not healthy. I don't know folks just venting!!! What's your feedback on this dilemma. Oh by the way thank God me and my son were not infected.! Praise God !!!
There is only so much you can do, let go and let God... That infections might have infected his brain cells, also... Not trying to be funny, I think you should think about yourself and life you brought into the world, first and foremost... What do you want your son to witness... I pray you get some guidence, have you discuss this with your family...

[tenor1]

There is only so much you can do, let go and let God... That infections might have infected his brain cells, also... Not trying to be funny, I think you should think about yourself and life you brought into the world, first and foremost... What do you want your son to witness... I pray you get some guidence, have you discuss this with your family...


I have to agree with all you said. Things will work out with loved ones help.
God bless and stay up!

[que90nek]

i believe in forgiveness, but not foolishness...

you need to give him X amount of time to get the heck on out of your life. you holding on to him is not healthy at all....and it appears that he has already moved on........why you feeling sorry for him equates to you CARRYING him.....is beyond me...

Get a Grip.....

Get him GONE!

[jaila]

i believe in forgiveness, but not foolishness...

you need to give him X amount of time to get the heck on out of your life. you holding on to him is not healthy at all....and it appears that he has already moved on........why you feeling sorry for him equates to you CARRYING him.....is beyond me...

Get a Grip.....

Get him GONE!


im wit mr. que on this. After my thoughts of murder subsided he would have to get gone wit da quickness. If u gon leave me...be a man about it and roll out. If his honey is homeless then they need to be in love and homeless together but awww hell naw to him stayin another minute in my house!!!

[HulaSista]

i believe in forgiveness, but not foolishness...

you need to give him X amount of time to get the heck on out of your life. you holding on to him is not healthy at all....and it appears that he has already moved on........why you feeling sorry for him equates to you CARRYING him.....is beyond me...

Get a Grip.....

Get him GONE!

thank you very much.

if you trusted God that you and your son isn't infected

guess what? you can trust God to handle that man when you tell him to go make his own bed to lay in.

btw - don't forget to change your locks on your doors and keep the windows locked day and night for a few months in case he wants to slip and come back on the sneak. can't trust NO BODY no a days. if you feel the urge to move - and can afford to do so - do that too...

[que90nek]

might i add....

that God has nothing to do with the foolishness that you are living with....

there are so many things i could say, but...i will be nice....

[topGunna]

Thats deep. Did he know if he was HIV + before you became pregnant.??? If so he’s fucking triflin and should have never been given a second chance. That’s called attempted murder and he should be in jail. He knew that if you will take him back after he told you he was positive with HIV, then he could damn near do anything he wants to do and you wouldn’t do too much but forgive his disease trying to spread ass… I don’t know you but I sure do hope somehow you put a cap on this situation ASAP. You need to call the police and report him so they can put his picture on channel 5. I wonder does the homeless chic know.?? If not, it is your responsibility to warn her.

[sistuhchey]

Thats deep. Did he know if he was HIV + before you became pregnant.??? If so he’s fucking triflin and should have never been given a second chance. That’s called attempted murder and he should be in jail. He knew that if you will take him back after he told you he was positive with HIV, then he could damn near do anything he wants to do and you wouldn’t do too much but forgive his disease trying to spread ass… I don’t know you but I sure do hope somehow you put a cap on this situation ASAP. You need to call the police and report him so they can put his picture on channel 5. I wonder does the homeless chic know.?? If not, it is your responsibility to warn her.




All I can say is I'm sorry you had to meet such a bum... and you're in my prayers....

[redphoenix2002]

He is gone ! Moved out yesterday! Amen I'm so glad this nightmare is over and I can move on. I thank Jesus everyday for my blessings he given over the past four years; including this experience that made me grow so many ways.

[Melotic]

He is gone ! Moved out yesterday! Amen I'm so glad this nightmare is over and I can move on. I thank Jesus everyday for my blessings he given over the past four years; including this experience that made me grow so many ways.
Continue to stay strong, read the Bible and pray...

[dejavu]

I was in four year relationship with a man; who on the night before I was to give birth to our son, was told by him that he was hiv+. I decided to stay because I believe in forgiveness. However, flash forward three years later and this nigger decides at (41) he going to leave me for 22 yr old homeless chick! Yes I thought of murder but, God forgives and so shouls I. I told this man he has to leave my house; but the n***er is so broke that has no place to go. I feel sorry for him and to be honest after all shit I still feel love. I'm currently trying to find him a room. I decided that I can't hold onto this anger and hurt; it's not healthy. I don't know folks just venting!!! What's your feedback on this dilemma. Oh by the way thank God me and my son were not infected.! Praise God !!!


I would have had to live him alone after he told me he was HIV positive. He not only put your life on the line, but the life of your son. He had no regard for you and yours. Yes, it is good that you are able to forgive him....but he would have to do for himself. I wouldn 't have helped him do anything.