Niggas stop fucking me over......

[TexasThicChic]

It seems that no matter how hard I try, niggas keep fucking me over,and,over. I have come to a point in my life that I'm ready for a down to earth nigga(man) to treat me the way a woman should. Doors being opened, giving up a seat on the bus, Giving me the last fry.lol!! Right now, I am stranded in New York over a nigga fucking me over. Holla Back Ya'll :blast

[MndBdySoul]

You attract the type of man based on the way you carry yourself.... figure out why you keep attracting the no good ones, change it, and go from there.

[Brightness]

Wow, sorry to hear about that but there is some truth in that a nigga can't fuck you if you don't bend over and then hand them the grease to do so.

MORAL OF THE STORY: Don't put yourself in the position to get 'got'.

I know this can be easier said than done sometimes but there are truly some situations that are no-brainers.

Much success in your endeavor.

[misha]

You attract the type of man based on the way you carry yourself.... figure out why you keep attracting the no good ones, change it, and go from there.


Somewhat true, however most of us don;t want to admit that there are more men like this than the other, so the odds are that no matter how you carry yourself, one of these individuals will approach...men like this will throw a ton of mud at the wall and wherever the mud sticks is all good.

What is more important is that you read the sign he is holding in his hand and act accordingly. Do not ignore that sign. Read it! If it says "I'm trifling and it is better that you throw me back into the pool," do just that!

Alot of women go into their own world and hear what they wanna hear. Then by the time you start paying attention, you have invested time, money, had a baby or two, all that.

READ THE SIGN!

[athome]

Somewhat true, however most of us don;t want to admit that there are more men like this than the other, so the odds are that no matter how you carry yourself, one of these individuals will approach...men like this will throw a ton of mud at the wall and wherever the mud sticks is all good.

What is more important is that you read the sign he is holding in his hand and act accordingly. Do not ignore that sign. Read it! If it says "I'm trifling and it is better that you throw me back into the pool," do just that!

Alot of women go into their own world and hear what they wanna hear. Then by the time you start paying attention, you have invested time, money, had a baby or two, all that.

READ THE SIGN!
I nominate this, the post of the day! This is real, we have to open our eyes and read what's directly in front of us... instead of saying 'he did this to me' say 'I've let him do this to me, but what can I do differently so this will never happen again'

[topGunna]

It seems that no matter how hard I try, niggas keep fucking me over,and,over. I have come to a point in my life that I'm ready for a down to earth nigga(man) to treat me the way a woman should. Doors being opened, giving up a seat on the bus, Giving me the last fry.lol!! Right now, I am stranded in New York over a nigga fucking me over. Holla Back Ya'll :blast


a man can do all of that and still fuc* you over. Unless you are digging in the trash, look at it as "shit happens"... Good luck on getting home.

[Brightness]

Somewhat true, however most of us don;t want to admit that there are more men like this than the other, so the odds are that no matter how you carry yourself, one of these individuals will approach...men like this will throw a ton of mud at the wall and wherever the mud sticks is all good.

What is more important is that you read the sign he is holding in his hand and act accordingly. Do not ignore that sign. Read it! If it says "I'm trifling and it is better that you throw me back into the pool," do just that!

Alot of women go into their own world and hear what they wanna hear. Then by the time you start paying attention, you have invested time, money, had a baby or two, all that.

READ THE SIGN!

Yep, this is pretty much true.

I don't know what it is within us women to have to tame the wildness of a man. It's almost like we think that makes us more of a woman to be able to stick it out through some b.s.. . .like it raises our credibility rather than diminish & kill our spirit.

[zuriyahe]

I agree with the hush ladies.

Step out of wonderland and "read the signs"...It is usually right there for you to read.

Don't willingfully put yourself into situations that can cause you to get "fucked over". (either exercise or develop and exercise common sense when dealing with folks)

Example: If a brother wants you that bad, then he can come to you or he can send you the cash so that you can buy your ticket.


Ok, there was a post on Dating common sense....I think.

But anyway, sorry to hear about that mess.

[Juicey1]

When you say stranded in New York.....did he take you to New York and leave you, or did he promise to buy your return ticket and didn't?

Either way, my mama always told me don't leave home without your OWN money.

I agree with what has been said by the others. Read the signs. Chalk this up to a learning experience and do better the next time.

[GraveDigga]

Chivalry iz Dead!!! :upto: ooops!!!