A few comments

[que90nek]

admin -- i really enjoyed the digital turntables and the quick burn of slick rick from cdrfarm...THE officiallocation of the retired BigWorm. People need to understand that.....admin brought out THREE large boxes of dvd's/cd's/....for us to get what we want. I personally collected well over 50 dvds/cds. I thought I would get stopped in the airport or met in dfw by the feds! The pond was great...but the description of how birds come down and eat the fish....was classic....the citation and commendation from various governments for timex social club...the model cars.....the paint job in the master bedroom....ALL good. Thanks, again...admin.

Chey -- this is really my type of sister. she took responsibility and ENSURED that folks were having a good time...she put the needs of others BEFORE her needs of that moment...and just made it happen. Thank you. I can't remember a hushnic where we did a tour of the city in question...we should definitely do that as it
makes the trip MORE worthwhile...in that i can truly say that i've been to san fran...but can't say that i've been to ...orlando. i would have enjoyed interacting with you more....

Hula -- thank you too for accepting responsibility and ensuring the needs of others....at times it seemed like you were upset...or othered...or....just ....thinking about something else....i would have enjoyed further interaction with you as well.

Rock -- ummm...no more licker for u! i was slightly disappointed that you bailed on us friday nite...but you gotta do what u gotta do...i felt like you hid behind your camera initially...but as you came out you showed a sparkling personality that is probably quite magnetic to women. note: i will never let you drive behind me
again....drunk or not. those beef tips were...pretty darn good....thank you for steppin up and mannin the grill. did i mention that u prolly ought to not drank no mo? ummm....i have two words for u...PERSONAL SPACE....lol man....the more you drink the more you forget about those two words...your moderating at hushlive....was ok...even though you would forget that you were moderating....especially as you FELL OUT (literally) on the floor laughing....at me. i can respect your explanation about zuri....i know some homeboys like you that ...once you cross them.......that's it....they are dead to you. i appreciate that you actually did SPEAK to zuri at all...given your convictions about him. you are an interesting guy.

mrs admin -- i would like to say Thank you...once again for opening up your beautiful home and allowing us to sit on your couch set that looked like it's been sat on about 3 other times....thanks for saying that i could use YOUR bathroom upstairs....*of course i caught the look from admin saying "naw negro..don't do that"* you are a beautiful spirit....and might i add....PLEASE share your secret for your weight loss.....i caught one thing: SPLENDA....*yuck*

cl -- if i have a such thing as a SOUL SISTAH.....you are it....several times....i looked at you...you looked at me and it was clear that we were on the same wavelength........i feel like we both are in similiar boats with regard to our home lives...our spouses....although mine is THE EXACT OPPOSITE......but everything in
extreme ...is probably not good. I enjoyed hangin out with you and will gladly do it again....and look forward to it. i like your objectivity.....even in the midst of debate...you were able to take a step back to consider the OTHER side...of the debate......you did that at least a couple times when it would have been easy to
gang tackle.....

seaduceme -- i have to put yours right after your twin.....i was glad to hear some stuff from you this hushnic because in the past...i just didnt hear a lot from you...even though i know you were saying stuff....i realize that you are/were responsible for a lot of the inside jokes that come from hushnic.....you are a hush throwback and i wish you would be more on the hush...more than last year...admittedly, i was trying to catch something between you and ...umm....whatshisname....but the more i looked the more confused i became.

jon jon -- ummm....u r such a sweet young lady. i can tell that you ...are....umm.....quite sexual...it sorta
oozes out of your eyelashes.....i felt for you a few times as you tried...yet again, to explain your mate...but please know that we realize that there is no real explanation....i think there was genuine CONCERN...for YOU. you whispering creole in my ear...was a personal hilite...THANK YOU.

aintno -- have u ever did jump roap and you sorta weight for your chance to get in the rope....that's what i sensed from you...is that you were ...waiting......and then found it as the drinks started to flow on saturday...but then you had to go. you are a very ...ummm....good looking oman......booty...and ...umm....fellas...trust
me when i say that aintno is the complete PACKAGE......and let me tell ya'll that this girl can DANCE too...i was watchin her out dance some dude on the dance floor...about to get in where I fit in when the dude went up and told the dj to shut it down....so i missed my chance....but i did enjoy watching.

Sinbad -- i had a feeling you would be there. u are quite worldly...it is obvious to me that you have been around...and can handle yourself wherever you are at....i was a little worried about you gettin left on friday nite, but...i shouldnt have been! you are a good listener...a good talker.....objective.....and CAN HANDLE
your liquor.....in fact, did you ever get drunk? We could hang out ANYTIME....

mystkev -- i won't say the usual "she's quiet" because i realize that you are a true OBSERVOR...you truly sit back and just soak it all in....even though it seemed like a few times you ...just were in another...zone...OR daydreamin/sleep. i appreciate you keepin me company and ridin with me...but um....
TITTIE MEAT!!! i know now....not to get in a debate with you about breasts.....

dulce -- i've always liked you. believe it or not. and finally, we had some resolution as to why you didnt really like me. i hope i was able to give some more perspective on what i am doing when i post...i.e. i would never call a woman out of their name...but will defend my point. my question about "why drink?" is another example of a General question...that you took....and applied to your personal right to drink....lol...you even put me on IGNORE....a first for hushlive....just keep in mind that my questions are GENERAL...and even
when going back and forth...it's more meant for the OTHER person that is reading...because i know i can't change your mind...and would never try. i appreciated our talks...and actually wanted to finish our conversation
that we were having on the couch....thanks for bieng a good host as well.

Tee -- when you look up REAL in the dictionary....you should see a picture of TEE....as real as they come, but what impressed most on saturday was what a lot of folks don't know about tee.....that she DOES CARE....and Cares...
your level of concern for jon jon was admirable...i do like hangin with tee..she is so flexible as to what she will do. i hope my snoring didnt interrupt your crab eating!

zuri -- one word....BOUNDARIES. do you have any? if u don't...u should. the refreshing thing about zuri was that he is exactly the same online and offline....the disturbing thing about zuri was that he is exactly the
same online and offline....zuri....i pray that you continue to GROW...and LEARN....your comment/question to cl was wrong on a few different levels. i appreciate that you extended a hand to rock...even if it was
not reciprocated...thanks for just SHOWING up....because if you hadnt...we woulda only been able to keep talkin about you BEHIND your back....but you showing up allowed folks to ASK you stuff directly. personally, the
comments about you being "whitewashed" yada yada....presume that all black folks are alike...and we know that that is not true. realize that marriage is about compromise and making your spouse happy...so ummm.....CUT YOUR
HAIR! Let her do it! lol... you are quite an interesting guy....

que: i told ya'll he had a salt/pepper goatee....why didnt anybody believe me till they saw it! "Wow...lookat all that grey!"

[RockYoKoo]

Rock -- ummm...no more licker for u! i was slightly disappointed that you bailed on us friday nite...but you gotta do what u gotta do...

Few comments to your nice comments :D

You are right I forgot I was playing mediator....had no idea that Hushnic was going to get to that point otherwise I may not have drank....yall making it sound like I was slurring words and stuff...but maybe yall dont drink.....LOL

Bailed on Friday....Hummm I recall calling ADMIN and telling him my plan.....the plan I heard was you all was going up to SAC.....man that is HELLA FAR and I dont have a place to stay meaning I had to drive all the way back to OAKLAND...so I made other plans where ANYONE could have come, ask ADMIN. And I do recal you having my number bruh, but I had NO IDEA when you was coming in, where you were staying, or that you wanted to KICK it.....all ya had to do is say is.....ROCK whats going on tonight??? To be honest I thought you were BUSY :cool:

Nope, I came out everyday of Hushnic, so I put all things aside for the Guest in my area.

Put that on everything....next time OPEN YA MOUTH and you will recieve.

Oh I was quiet for the times you was around because I didnt want to get into it with a person. AintNo made reference to this, she knows me an my friends, and it was best I was quiet.......maybe you have to be from Oakland to understand it.

I appreciate the comment about understanding my relationship with others.....says alot about you, well noted.

Maybe next time we will be both out of towners and we can hang.

Rock on

[CLSmooove]

que, my man.... we were right here --------><------- all weekend....

shocked me that our minds were so alike alot of times.....

but its all in love man!!!!!

Greaat seeing you again.....

[que90nek]

thats the second time i heard a comment about going to sacramento to party...

i had no clue...

alls i know is that....

everybody left and it was

me, myst, zuri, jonjon, aintno, and tee....

then the club closed at 12.....

so that was that....

[RockYoKoo]

thats the second time i heard a comment about going to sacramento to party...

i had no clue...

alls i know is that....

everybody left and it was

me, myst, zuri, jonjon, aintno, and tee....

then the club closed at 12.....

so that was that....

You were one block away from Zazoos and Kimbals....you would have came up at either spot.

Always carry ROCK's number, even when we in another CITY...I got a plan....I always got a PLAN.....

You would have enjoyed friday night....3 floors, international crowd, bad DJ's, and VIP access all night....oh well told ADMIN, but there were BI women in my group...oh well.

Rock on.

[que90nek]

yeah....

i was ready....and wanted to hang...

but everybody was ready to go home...

i found myself wishin that

REMI was there....

[RockYoKoo]

yeah....

i was ready....and wanted to hang...

but everybody was ready to go home...

i found myself wishin that

REMI was there....

LOL I was out till 4am next time ya know.

Rock = Remi in the west.

[zuriyahe]

zuri -- one word....BOUNDARIES. do you have any? if u don't...u should. the refreshing thing about zuri was that he is exactly the same online and offline....the disturbing thing about zuri was that he is exactly the
same online and offline....zuri....i pray that you continue to GROW...and LEARN....your comment/question to cl was wrong on a few different levels. i appreciate that you extended a hand to rock...even if it was
not reciprocated...thanks for just SHOWING up....because if you hadnt...we woulda only been able to keep talkin about you BEHIND your back....but you showing up allowed folks to ASK you stuff directly. personally, the
comments about you being "whitewashed" yada yada....presume that all black folks are alike...and we know that that is not true. realize that marriage is about compromise and making your spouse happy...so ummm.....CUT YOUR
HAIR! Let her do it! lol... you are quite an interesting guy....



Thanks for the honesty, Mr. Que. Here are some of my replies:

Boundaries: Yup, I got them...but they are pretty far out....just the way they are gonna stay. I know that you understand that concept, because you have posted that your "METHODS" and "DELIVERY METHODS" are pretty much going to remain the way they are. So who I am and how I do things works for me, maybe not others...but that is what DIVERSITY is about. The ironic thing about that is that "growth"...real growth is about crossing boundaries on many levels. It is not about fitting into any certian mold...because when you fit yourself into a mold...ya just limited yourself. So I'll just have to keep that in mind. But I do understand. To me the black mindset is largely about having certian boundaries. I happen to cross almost all of them. I know that doing that makes folks uncomfortable. But everyone has a purpose. My existance is to show that there is a life outside of our pre-conceived molds.

CL's titties...titty-ring.

This reminds me of that "Real World" show where the brother was pulling sheets off of this chick's bed....and then all of a sudden, folks are accusing him of attempted rape. lol.

I will say it again...and leave it at that. I asked to see Cl's nipple ring. I did NOT ask to fuck her. Titties in itself is really no big deal. To me, this was in the same lines of me asking to see folk's tats. That is a BIG difference to me. But that is just me looking outside of the box and on a whole different level. Not better... not worse...but different. But we seemed to have gotten caught up on the nipple thing...which I honestly do not understand. CL went on about being married and Tee went on about Jonjon being there....and I just didn't see the relation. Did I make a pass at anyone? I don't think so. Did i make a pass at CL? No. A huge portion of the female hush looks almost like a tattoo and piercing magazine...so I don't know why the nipple thing got so far out of hand. I think that the real issue is that Z was asking about it. Which does NOT surprise me.

[zuriyahe]

yeah....

i was ready....and wanted to hang...

but everybody was ready to go home...

i found myself wishin that

REMI was there....

Maybe next time! We had a LOT of travelling to do that night. There is a lot of things that we could have done and a lot of places that we can go...in and out of Oakland. But there's always next time.

[aintnojoke]

aintno -- have u ever did jump roap and you sorta weight for your chance to get in the rope....that's what i sensed from you...is that you were ...waiting......and then found it as the drinks started to flow on saturday...but then you had to go. you are a very ...ummm....good looking oman......booty...and ...umm....fellas...trust


Thank you for the compliments Que. Like I said I was pleasantly surprised when meeting you. Very handsome and nice as well. I just knew you were going to get on me about my smoking....LOL. You right about me. I like to wait and feel out a room, before I cut loose. But Dulce, brought it out early....THANKS GIRL!!!! Hopefully, next year, I'll have more freedom to kick it. (was trying to be a responsible wife, mother and husher, but miss a whole lot dammit). Dancing is one of my passions and when the music is good I can't help it. I was really hoping we would have gone to the CLUB. Cause that wasn't what I call a club. Would have loved to dance with cha. It was definitely a pleasure meeting you.

[que90nek]

zuri...

boundaries are more than JUST about you.

that's what you fail to understand.

you can do whatever...as long as it has nothing to do with ANYBODY else.

having said that...

i can see that your question to cl was not meant as anything more than u just being perverted and pushing the envelope...

but once u realized that the person you asked was offended....that's where your reaction could have been better.

even that real world episode....david apologized......even though it was clearly a joking matter until she decided that it wasnt.

[que90nek]

aintno...

don't apologize for handling your business....

that's the point i've been making about having hushnics where a bunch of folks are...for a long time.....that you are unable to leave your responsibilities when they are within reach...

but it is also that fact that brings a lot of people OUT......if not but for a few hours.

it's all good.

[seductive_tee]

Z, i don't think you'll ever see my point because we are on different levels when it comes to that. To me that was disrespectful on so many levels, from your wife to Admin's home. I mean to me that just showed no respect to JonJon as your wife. At one point it looked as though Jon Jon was about to cry. I was ready to give her a hug. And no you didn't ask to fuck her but you asking to see body parts......it's not like a nipple ring is in another spot.

But i know one thing, you would not have asked that if her husband was there!

And when u see a titty ring, is it that you think you won't see a tittie?

[RockYoKoo]

And when u see a titty ring, is it that you think you won't see a tittie?

Dats da HOMIE right there.

[seductive_tee]

Thank you for the compliments Que. Like I said I was pleasantly surprised when meeting you. Very handsome and nice as well. I just knew you were going to get on me about my smoking....LOL. You right about me. I like to wait and feel out a room, before I cut loose. But Dulce, brought it out early....THANKS GIRL!!!! Hopefully, next year, I'll have more freedom to kick it. (was trying to be a responsible wife, mother and husher, but miss a whole lot dammit). Dancing is one of my passions and when the music is good I can't help it. I was really hoping we would have gone to the CLUB. Cause that wasn't what I call a club. Would have loved to dance with cha. It was definitely a pleasure meeting you.

I have danced with Que a few times...he's pretty good.

[zuriyahe]

zuri...

boundaries are more than JUST about you.

that's what you fail to understand.

you can do whatever...as long as it has nothing to do with ANYBODY else.

having said that...

i can see that your question to cl was not meant as anything more than u just being perverted and pushing the envelope...

but once u realized that the person you asked was offended....that's where your reaction could have been better.

even that real world episode....david apologized......even though it was clearly a joking matter until she decided that it wasnt.

You are failing to understand (again). You need to THINK beyond your current level of logic and perspective. I cannot change the PAST. And you and anyone else cannot continue to comment on how I went over the line...by asking. That is the past, right? Understaning needs to go both ways. I understand that CL was offended, but does CL understand that what I asked was, in my eyes, the same as me asking to see her tatts. With that, we all could have left that with the understanding that there was misunderstandings on both sides. Don't continue to be offended when the INTENT of the 'offender' was NOT to OFFEND.

And the real world episode, I would have NOT apologized for what I did. Why? Because it would have not changed anything. Dude was still black balled. If CL and others were thinking that I was being disrespective...then the only apology that she would get is that I apologize that she misunderstood my intentions. Or maybe I should say "I'm sorry that you thought that I was asking to FUCK, but really, I was just asking to see the nipple piercing". Who knew? I asked to see EVERYBODY'S tatts. I have seen pudy's belly tatt and took a picture. CL and Sea have a tongue piercing and CL made it quite clear that she had a nipple piercing. So if she can do all that...I figured that she was proud enough about it to show it or just say HELL NO.

[zuriyahe]

jon jon -- ummm....u r such a sweet young lady. i can tell that you ...are....umm.....quite sexual...it sorta
oozes out of your eyelashes.....i felt for you a few times as you tried...yet again, to explain your mate...but please know that we realize that there is no real explanation....i think there was genuine CONCERN...for YOU. you whispering creole in my ear...was a personal hilite...THANK YOU.


Consider yourself lucky. :D

I hear her speak Creole all the time...but she would rarely speak it to me.

Oh well....lol!

And I know that she appreciates the concern of you and others (even your past mentioned concerns, which I believe were very sincere).

But I am very lucky and gratefull to have her, but she is in EXCELLENT hands and is being taken care of very well. I actually do not want her to defend me, because while she understands me...mostly, I am beyond the understanding of most folks.

[CLSmooove]

My name is all up in this peice....

Errrrr Ummmmm.... Actually I wasnt OFFENDED.... I just couldnt understand why you would ask to see my nipple ring, without KNOWING whether or not I would be offended....

I told u HELL NO.... that was my answer....

I understand that you think its the same as seeing ones tattoos....but since my nipple ring does invole the showing of my nipple, to me, IMO, its askin to see my tittie.... Now I know that you wasnt askin to fuck me.... (ROTFLMBAO at that visual).... but the breast (especially the nipple) is a body part used during sex.....

Anywho.... you asked the question, I answered it....


Now move the fuck on and stop using my nipple ring as a conversation peice please.... DAMN!!!

[Jonjon]

I am not going defend him....... he doesn't need me to do that........ he got himself in to this mess........ he can get himself out of it.

But I do want to talk about my point of view on what happened.....

At one point it looked as though Jon Jon was about to cry. I was ready to give her a hug.

LOL.....
Tee what you probobly saw was a look of frustration. I was not about to cry...... just thinking....... damn look what he got himself into now.




I understand both points of views.

I know Z did not mean it in a sexual way......... he just wanted to see a nipple piercing.... nothing more nothing less

I can also understand how CL didn't appreciate being asked that question.

As for me I wasn't feeling mad or anyhting by him asking that because I knew where he was coming from. What would have bothered me more is if he was trying to be shady about it and asked her that in another room for me not to hear. That is what would bother me........ he wasn't trying to hide anything because he wasn't trying to do anything and I understand that.

Que asked me if the tables were switched and there was a man with a piercing on his penis would Z get mad if I asked to see it......... my answer with no hesitation was no he wouldn't.

I know some women would see me as being weak and passive....... I would disagree. When something bothers me I do not have a problem with confronting him with it even when I know it will start a huge argument. Z and I argue quite often and I start most of them....... but they are never for him mistreating me.

I have been in many relationships where I was not able to be who I am because the man was so jealous. One man took into parking lot and proceeded to push and shove me because I put my finger on his brother's shoulder to point out a lipstick stain on his shirt..... he accused me of wanting to fuck his brother !

Z and I are able to our selves 100% of the time with each other. Z knew I thought Que and BlackSinbad were handsome and I ended up sitting between both of them on the couch....... he even made a statement saying " I knew you were in heaven sitting with them in the couch" my other boyfriends and some womens' husbands probobly would not have let their wives sit between two men......... they would have had her sit right there next to him.

We pick our fights...... we just don't pick EVERY fight.

[que90nek]

i can respect that...

the bottom line is that ...it takes a certain level of strength to allow that type of behaviour...

and that's all good...for ya'll.

i wish ya'll the best....

[Jonjon]

I have a question.... not directed to just Que.... this is to anyone who has an opinion.

Do you think it was also disrespectful for me not only to tell my husband that I thought other men were attractive to me and then sit on the couch between them ?
( there was not an available seat next to Z)






BTW........ I am not trying to compare the two incidences I know they are different..... just wanted to know if that was also thought of as disrespectful

[que90nek]

absolutely not.

the only thing that was disrespectful...

was

a. tellin admin that his wife was FINE
b. the question to cl

but both events were highly in character.....and to me it was zuri being zuri....

for example: when he pulled your shirt down to further show me your cleavage....and a portion of your left breast.......some might say that he was disrespectin u....BUT....it's not up to them to say anything....

that's YOUR man....ya'll can do what ya'll feel good doing....and MORE!

i can't tell you or zuri what is or is not disrespectful between the both of you.

[CLSmooove]

absolutely not.

the only thing that was disrespectful...

was

a. tellin admin that his wife was FINE
b. the question to cl

but both events were highly in character.....and to me it was zuri being zuri....

for example: when he pulled your shirt down to further show me your cleavage....and a portion of your left breast.......some might say that he was disrespectin u....BUT....it's not up to them to say anything....

that's YOUR man....ya'll can do what ya'll feel good doing....and MORE!

i can't tell you or zuri what is or is not disrespectful between the both of you.


DITTO DAMMIT DITTO!!!!!!!!!!!


Hey if thats how yall work yall marriage...good for you... it aint up to me or anyone else to say its wrong....

I thought I said this at Hushlive..... If you dont have a problem with his askin me to see my nipple ring then God Bless ya!!!!!!

But that doesnt mean that me or anyone else WONT have a problem with it....

[Jonjon]

absolutely not.

the only thing that was disrespectful...

was

a. tellin admin that his wife was FINE
b. the question to cl

but both events were highly in character.....and to me it was zuri being zuri....

for example: when he pulled your shirt down to further show me your cleavage....and a portion of your left breast.......some might say that he was disrespectin u....BUT....it's not up to them to say anything....

that's YOUR man....ya'll can do what ya'll feel good doing....and MORE!

i can't tell you or zuri what is or is not disrespectful between the both of you.


I remember that .........I wasn't showing my tattoo that I had there. He actually would not have cared if I showed everyone the tattoo of the Z I have on my rear........ if I had a rear worth showing I just might have! :p

I guess I missed him telling admin his wife was "fine"........... did admin get mad ?

[CLSmooove]

I guess I missed him telling admin his wife was "fine"........... did admin get mad ?


Ummmm I guess I really do NEED to explain this..... Ummmmm NO black man should ever tell another Black man that his wife is PHYNE.... not Fine but PHYNE!!!! (i will say that there are exceptions but this is the general rule)

She's beautiful, she's nice looking...sure..... But PHYNE.... Ummmmmm That is a definate NO NO!!!!

[Tastey]

This is the funniest Hushnic thread of them all

RTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Jonjon]

Ummmm I guess I really do NEED to explain this..... Ummmmm NO black man should ever tell another Black man that his wife is PHYNE.... not Fine but PHYNE!!!! (i will say that there are exceptions but this is the general rule)

She's beautiful, she's nice looking...sure..... But PHYNE.... Ummmmmm That is a definate NO NO!!!!


OK......... well I'll have to write this one down.

Z is not the first "black" man I've been out with.

And they were the throw down if you looked at them the wrong way kind of guys........ but I have never heard of this rule.

So far my #1 rule for "dealing with a black man" is don't ever call him a punk ass little bitch.......... he got in my face and told me I must have lost my mind to say that to a black man...........I thought I was going to get my first beat down from my ex from that one.

[que90nek]

lol

yeah...we were in the kitchen...

admin's wife was coming in the kitchen at the time...

i am not sure if she heard...

but zuriyahe told admin....

"your wife is fione"

and admin got this look on his face and ....

i was like

"umm...yes, she looks like a model to me too...."

it was stupid of me to say that but there was such an uncomfy moment because admin was surely fighting his urge to go smooth off.....and zuri...seemed to be oblivious......

again...

BOUNDARIES....

most folks know that THAT was a no no....

but i believe that zuri...just doesnt KNOW....

but now he does....

right?

[Tastey]

lol

yeah...we were in the kitchen...

admin's wife was coming in the kitchen at the time...

i am not sure if she heard...

but zuriyahe told admin....

"your wife is fione"

and admin got this look on his face and ....

i was like

"umm...yes, she looks like a model to me too...."

it was stupid of me to say that but there was such an uncomfy moment because admin was surely fighting his urge to go smooth off.....and zuri...seemed to be oblivious......

again...

BOUNDARIES....

most folks know that THAT was a no no....

but i believe that zuri...just doesnt KNOW....

but now he does....

right?

i didn't know that either.

uhm just for clarification sakes. Why was it okay for Jonjon to comment on you and Sinbad but not okay for him to comment on Mrs. Admin?

:confused:

[que90nek]

jonjon made the comment to her husband....

and...

then...

zuri felt it appropriate to rub it in her face and try to embarass her when she got back with the group.
*start high pitch voice*
"well uh jonjon look there's que who you think is quite handsome and has nice lips....."
*end high pitch voice*

[Pamalicious]

Ok, I have seen stuff on the hush that is so far to the left - I have to read it twice and this is one right here.

Let me ask - are you all swingers? I ask in all seriousness because I understand that there are 'no boundaries' but shouldn't that be a personal thang between ya'll? Society has (or at least should) have boundaries, because without them we get that behavior called uncivilized.

Now ya'll ain't got to explain as much as ya'll doing - I know that people are together for a reason - ask Bobby and Whitney.

Also let me ask - is the open need to 'exhibit' your 'lack of boundaries' some kinda sexual turn on. I mean it seems that there are no off-limits even among each of you.

One more question - is this part of the whole allure of being with a bi-sexual woman.

Just trying to understand cause this is looking real 'dark' to me and I can't believe hushnic had this undercurrent - maybe I need to read back on some previous ones some more.

[CLSmooove]

Its not so much the comment as it was "HOW" it was said....

Which is the reason why i keep changing Fine to PHYNE..... Plus Admin was offended.....

[que90nek]

funny you should ask that, pam...

because we were really TRYING to get an understanding of ...zuri....and zuri/jonjon...

and that was one of the questions...

ARE YA'LL SWINGERS....

it was sorta weird...but like we kept saying...they do what works for them.

[CLSmooove]

Ok, I have seen stuff on the hush that is so far to the left - I have to read it twice and this is one right here.

Let me ask - are you all swingers? I ask in all seriousness because I understand that there are 'no boundaries' but shouldn't that be a personal thang between ya'll? Society has (or at least should) have boundaries, because without them we get that behavior called uncivilized.

Now ya'll ain't got to explain as much as ya'll doing - I know that people are together for a reason - ask Bobby and Whitney.

Also let me ask - is the open need to 'exhibit' your 'lack of boundaries' some kinda sexual turn on. I mean it seems that there are no off-limits even among each of you.

One more question - is this part of the whole allure of being with a bi-sexual woman.

Just trying to understand cause this is looking real 'dark' to me and I can't believe hushnic had this undercurrent - maybe I need to read back on some previous ones some more.


I think someone actually asked them this question..... and the answer was no....

It wasnt as bad as it seems.... some of the comments were off-handed.... but hey thats how zuri is on the board.... Soooooooo....

Pam believe me we had a blast, even with Zuri.....

[que90nek]

let me add....

that ZURI and JONJON added a lot to hushnic....i am glad they came...

zuri really made me laugh quite a bit!

[Pamalicious]

I think someone actually asked them this question..... and the answer was no....

It wasnt as bad as it seems.... some of the comments were off-handed.... but hey thats how zuri is on the board.... Soooooooo....

Pam believe me we had a blast, even with Zuri.....

Ok, just checking - -

[Tastey]

jonjon made the comment to her husband....

and...

then...

zuri felt it appropriate to rub it in her face and try to embarass her when she got back with the group.
*start high pitch voice*
"well uh jonjon look there's que who you think is quite handsome and has nice lips....."
*end high pitch voice*

that really doesn't answer my question. but somehow i know the answer anyway.

comedy

lol

[CLSmooove]

*start high pitch voice*
"well uh jonjon look there's que who you think is quite handsome and has nice lips....."
*end high pitch voice*


CTFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU

:D :cry: :D :cry:



Tastey i replied to what u asked in a post right after Pam's at the top of the page......

[Tastey]

Tastey i replied to what u asked in a post right after Pam's at the top of the page......

I saw that and I'm still confused cus I've done that.

Last year when I met a friend (from online) husband one of the first things I said was "Damn girl. Your husband if FIONE." I think I even added chocolaty and luscious in there somewhere. lol

She wasn't offended at all, because she knows I was NOT making a pass at her husband.

It seems to me that Admin would have known that Zuri was NOT making a pass at his wife and was being complimentary.

So I'm confused as to why it was offensive.

Maybe you just had to be there.

lol

[que90nek]

did u say that the girl was a friend of yours?

perhaps if you are friends with a person you know their perspective and where they are coming from...

and there is no question.

[Tastey]

did u say that the girl was a friend of yours?

perhaps if you are friends with a person you know their perspective and where they are coming from...

and there is no question.

which is why i said 2 posts ago that i KNOW the answer. lol :p

however that wasn't YOUR ANSWER to the question.

now i understand if a person who is not your friend says something like that of course they are suspect. 90% of everything they say is suspect.

lol :p

[CLSmooove]

I saw that and I'm still confused cus I've done that.

Last year when I met a friend (from online) husband one of the first things I said was "Damn girl. Your husband if FIONE." I think I even added chocolaty and luscious in there somewhere. lol

She wasn't offended at all, because she knows I was NOT making a pass at her husband.

It seems to me that Admin would have known that Zuri was NOT making a pass at his wife and was being complimentary.

So I'm confused as to why it was offensive.

Maybe you just had to be there.

lol



LOL.... you did....

[que90nek]

90% is high...

but it's all in HOW you say things too.

but i can't tell admin how to be.....it's up to him to feel however he wants.

[Jonjon]

jonjon made the comment to her husband....

and...

then...

zuri felt it appropriate to rub it in her face and try to embarass her when she got back with the group.
*start high pitch voice*
"well uh jonjon look there's que who you think is quite handsome and has nice lips....."
*end high pitch voice*

For clarification sake....... he was not trying to embarass me. Zuri and I don't have a problem with telling each other if we think someone else is attractive. It would be foolish of me to think he thinks there is no other woman that is attractive and I am not afraid to tell him I think another man is handsome. For Zuri to say it out loud did not bother me because it's not a lie and I didn't say anything wrong.


And if I remember correctly when I heard what he said my response was...... yeah I said that....... and then proceeded to take my seat.

[Tastey]

90% is high...

but it's all in HOW you say things too.

but i can't tell admin how to be.....it's up to him to feel however he wants.

i'm not saying or have not said how he should be.

i was asking for clarification.

just in case i ever meet anybody's husband on here and i say the wrong thing. lol :p

[que90nek]

but jonjon...

if u had wanted me to know...

would you not have told me?

do u appreciate that he took it upon himself to tell me......several times.......???

[Pamalicious]

For clarification sake....... he was not trying to embarass me. Zuri and I don't have a problem with telling each other if we think someone else is attractive. It would be foolish of me to think he thinks there is no other woman that is attractive and I am not afraid to tell him I think another man is handsome. For Zuri to say it out loud did not bother me because it's not a lie and I didn't say anything wrong.


And if I remember correctly when I heard what he said my response was...... yeah I said that....... and then proceeded to take my seat.

Why is a Theatre scene in a movie in the late 70's with a blackman with a perm, showing a quite interesting light show a la the WIZ to a woman - poppin in my head?! :afro

[Jonjon]

but jonjon...

if u had wanted me to know...

would you not have told me?

do u appreciate that he took it upon himself to tell me......several times.......???


Well............ if I would have come up to you and up to BlackSinbad would it not have looked like I was making a pass at 2 men infront of my husband ?

[Brightness]

Priceless!

[Jonjon]

Why is a Theatre scene in a movie in the late 70's with a blackman with a perm, showing a quite interesting light show a la the WIZ to a woman - poppin in my head?! :afro


please translate that ?????

[CLSmooove]

oh damn JonJon i dont know if that was a good answer..... referring to post #48

[que90nek]

Well............ if I would have come up to you and up to BlackSinbad would it not have looked like I was making a pass at 2 men infront of my husband ?
to whom?

i wouldnt have taken it that way.

there is a difference in saying

cute, beautiful, good looking, nice looking....

and

FIONE

but again in the case of u saying it to me...i woulda just said thank you.

[Pamalicious]

please translate that ?????

THIS: Zuri and I don't have a problem with telling each other if we think someone else is attractive. It would be foolish of me to think he thinks there is no other woman that is attractive and I am not afraid to tell him I think another man is handsome

Just sounds like something a 'mack' would say to his woman, but since it's cool for you to also make known other people you are attracted to - I guess this is a mute point.

[Jonjon]

oh damn JonJon i dont know if that was a good answer..... referring to post #48



I am confused

This all seems to be snowballing.

[CLSmooove]

Your #49 post made Que's point....

I just didnt think thats what u were trying to do..... but ya did with your answer thats all.....



hey dont worry about it.... I got some Tylenol u can take.... :D

[Jonjon]

to whom?

i wouldnt have taken it that way.

there is a difference in saying

cute, beautiful, good looking, nice looking....

and

FIONE

but again in the case of u saying it to me...i woulda just said thank you.


You would have just said thank you but if I said that to you in front of other people and my husband how would that have looked ?

It seems to be bad that he said that in front of everyone and it translates into him trying to embarass me.........

would it be bad if I told other men...... in a room full of people ....... and in front of my husband...... that a man is attractive......? wouldn't that be translated into me trying to make him look like a punk ?

[Jonjon]

Your #49 post made Que's point....

I just didnt think thats what u were trying to do..... but ya did with your answer thats all.....



hey dont worry about it.... I got some Tylenol u can take.... :D


I get it............ I think

yeah I'm going to need Tylenol

[que90nek]

jonjon...

when i said he was tryna embarass you...that was the way it seemed...

but as soon as you said

NOPE....didnt even come close to embarassin me because that's how we roll...

that's it....


i can't tell you how to feel in any given situation...and visa versa


admin was offended...perhaps you should ask him...why....

and i can understand why...given the context and delivery of what was said.

but he didnt PUT ZURI out of his house...
he didnt snap his neck...

in fact...he didnt even cuss him out.....

so life goes on.

[CLSmooove]

You would have just said thank you but if I said that to you in front of other people and my husband how would that have looked ?

It seems to be bad that he said that in front of everyone and it translates into him trying to embarass me.........

would it be bad if I told other men...... in a room full of people ....... and in front of my husband...... that a man is attractive......? wouldn't that be translated into me trying to make him look like a punk ?


Ok now I'm confused!!!!

U said all of that...but you dont get why Admin was mad that YOUR husband made a comment about HIS wife and her being PHYNE in front of other folks???


Dammit gotta go get dat tylenol now!!!

[Jonjon]

Ok now I'm confused!!!!

U said all of that...but you dont get why Admin was mad that YOUR husband made a comment about HIS wife and her being PHYNE in front of other folks???


Dammit gotta go get dat tylenol now!!!


I could understand if he said it to his wife..... directly to her......... in front of him.

[que90nek]

i guess the only example would be....

if you are walkin down the street with him....

you go in to a store...and he stays out....

and a person comes up to zuri and says "your wife is FIONE"

zuri may be like "huh..."

or

he could go the other direction and be like "yep...she shole is...and all mine!"

but it's up to him in how he would react to that comment.....

but there are nicer....ways to give a compliment.

[zuriyahe]

Ahhh. Back from soccer practice.

*streeeeeeeeeeetch*

This should be some fun reading....

[zuriyahe]

Shit...where should I start?

Nitpicking over certian words.

Attractive but not fine.

Fine but not FOINE.

Cute, but not Cutie except if both parties have seen the saturday matinee of "The Wiz"...or at least have seen it 2.5 times.

Sweet only on Sundays. Sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeet...never. Not even on Saturday nights.

Foine on Wednesdays but not after lunch.

The Wiz? (um...)

Whew. Folks are making things too complicated...and to me, that seems to be an issue here.

A lot of this stuff will never be understood with the current paradigm that they hold. Jonjon and I seem to operate on a whole different paradigm than some folks.

[Jonjon]

Let me ask - are you all swingers?

The answer is no.

Do I care if Z wants to see a woman's piercing or does Z mind if I think a man is attractive no

Do we care if the other person physically touches and has sex with another person....... YES !


Also let me ask - is the open need to 'exhibit' your 'lack of boundaries' some kinda sexual turn on.

Do you think we are sexual deviants?......... I take that back I think you do.




One more question - is this part of the whole allure of being with a bi-sexual woman.



He asked to see the piercing....... not me....... so I am having a hard time seeing what this has to with me being with women before he came into the picture.

Z has never been able to get any benefit of the fact that I used to eat pussy once in while before I even met him.

[CLSmooove]

Z has never been able to get any benefit of the fact that I used to eat pussy once in while before I even met him.



Yelling "Sea, help me get my fat ass of the damn floor... I just fell the fuck out"

[SeaDuceme2]

Dammit CL you posed to used the sign!!..Imma need you to WATCH!!!

[CLSmooove]

I was tryin to get to it and fell the fuck out first......

Christina DAMMIT!!!!!!

[Admin]

I could understand if he said it to his wife..... directly to her......... in front of him.

JJ, FYI:

My lady was leaving the kitchen as I was entering, so in a way this is exactly what transpired, so I'm glad you can understand.

True, Que was there and I actually did verbalize my feelings to Mr. Z in a much kinder way than I wanted to. (feel me?)

Look, this is not even up for debate. It's not even a BLACK THANG. It's something that I did not want to hear in MY HOUSE and I thought Z (or any other man in the house that day) would not take it there, but yes the line was crossed.

Yup, it's my personal line. Yup, I was offended. Call it Jealousy? I see PHYNE women all the time, I got alot of potnas who date them. These niggas are Musicians, Pro Atheletes, IT Nerds, Etc.

I use the common curtousy rule of NOT verbalizing what feelings I may have about a womans looks to her mans face or in ear shot, cause that nigga might not be feeling like hearing his woman's name or body deminsions .....in my mouth.

Yes, I'm a BIG MAN and if caught in a fight, I would come out of it pretty clean, but what I'm saying is that I would not run the risk of pissing a nigga off for guessing how he feels about me telling him about his womans looks....she could be:

Fat
Skinny
Have a Big Ass
Have a Bad Hairday
Have Big Titties
Have No Titties
Be Ugly as shyt!
or have the Hammer Toes

....but that nigga aint gonna hear it from me. But like I said, Mr. Z crossed mY personal line, so I had to pull him over and let him know how I felt about it.

Man to Man.....I asked him then not to go there that evening at Hushlive and we have since talked about it over a few PMs today.

Mr. Z said that he would not go there again with comments about my lady's looks.

So to me, since we talked....Man to Man....this topic is squashed. I have faith that Mr. Z will honor his word.

Holla

[zuriyahe]

OK......... well I'll have to write this one down.

Z is not the first "black" man I've been out with.

And they were the throw down if you looked at them the wrong way kind of guys........ but I have never heard of this rule.

So far my #1 rule for "dealing with a black man" is don't ever call him a punk ass little bitch.......... he got in my face and told me I must have lost my mind to say that to a black man...........I thought I was going to get my first beat down from my ex from that one.

"African-American", dear. Please use "African-American". not "Black"

That's Rule # 13 on the "How to be a effective black man in today's world"...author unknown.

Oh...

Not "Afro-American" either...that is even worse.

:rolleyes:

[Jonjon]

JJ, FYI:

My lady was leaving the kitchen as I was entering, so in a way this is exactly what transpired, so I'm glad you can understand.



Well............ all I can say is thanks for the FYI.

I didn't know how it all went down...... that's why I was confused why people were taking the way they did.

[Jonjon]

Yelling "Sea, help me get my fat ass of the damn floor... I just fell the fuck out"

LOL !

Sorry CL........ didn't mean to make you fall out your chair.

Let me use a different analogy........

There is no Allure for him to be with someone who used to enjoy the company of women.


or

It's like saying someone likes being with someone who Used to be a millionaire .... what's there to like about that...... they used to be millionaire they don't have anymore money.


I thought you all knew ? ;)

[Admin]

Well............ all I can say is thanks for the FYI.

I didn't know how it all went down...... that's why I was confused why people were taking the way they did.

It's all gravy...
Holla

[zuriyahe]

JJ, FYI:

My lady was leaving the kitchen as I was entering, so in a way this is exactly what transpired, so I'm glad you can understand.

True, Que was there and I actually did verbalize my feelings to Mr. Z in a much kinder way than I wanted to. (feel me?)

Look, this is not even up for debate. It's not even a BLACK THANG. It's something that I did not want to hear in MY HOUSE and I thought Z (or any other man in the house that day) would not take it there, but yes the line was crossed.

Yup, it's my personal line. Yup, I was offended. Call it Jealousy? I see PHYNE women all the time, I got alot of potnas who date them. These niggas are Musicians, Pro Atheletes, IT Nerds, Etc.

I use the common curtousy rule of NOT verbalizing what feelings I may have about a womans looks to her mans face or in ear shot, cause that nigga might not be feeling like hearing his woman's name or body deminsions .....in my mouth.

Yes, I'm a BIG MAN and if caught in a fight, I would come out of it pretty clean, but what I'm saying is that I would not run the risk of pissing a nigga off for guessing how he feels about me telling him about his womans looks....she could be:

Fat
Skinny
Have a Big Ass
Have a Bad Hairday
Have Big Titties
Have No Titties
Be Ugly as shyt!
or have the Hammer Toes

....but that nigga aint gonna hear it from me. But like I said, Mr. Z crossed mY personal line, so I had to pull him over and let him know how I felt about it.

Man to Man.....I asked him then not to go there that evening at Hushlive and we have since talked about it over a few PMs today.

Mr. Z said that he would not go there again with comments about my lady's looks.

So to me, since we talked....Man to Man....this topic is squashed. I have faith that Mr. Z will honor his word.

Holla

No harm no foul Admin.

uh...I don't remember you talking to me about this at your house. If you did, and if i heard it... then it would have been a done deal right there. But whatever. You said your piece man to man. And we are cool.

And thanks for having faith in meeee.

[Admin]

LOL@ Mr. Z, yeah I did tell ya a lil sumthin, sumthin in the kitchen dawg, Que heard me. I think you might have been bizzay......wreckless eyeballing that SANGRIA bottle and blocked it, but it was said. :)

Holla

[zuriyahe]

lol

yeah...we were in the kitchen...

admin's wife was coming in the kitchen at the time...

i am not sure if she heard...

but zuriyahe told admin....

"your wife is fione"

and admin got this look on his face and ....

i was like

"umm...yes, she looks like a model to me too...."

it was stupid of me to say that but there was such an uncomfy moment because admin was surely fighting his urge to go smooth off.....and zuri...seemed to be oblivious......

again...

BOUNDARIES....

most folks know that THAT was a no no....

but i believe that zuri...just doesnt KNOW....

but now he does....

right?

After the fact of this post:

Zuri's comment:

"Most folks know that....blah blah blah, huh?

Well, 30+ Million blacks. Nearly 300 million folks living in the US.

but anyway.... "Zuri...just doesn't know" is an idiot statement from you. It is easy for you to think that "I am incaple of understanding in my nearly 40 years of existance". But you cannot see that there is another side to it. Just because a person does it, doesn't mean that he doesn't understand. I assumed that with all of the words exchanged on the hush...about almost everything...I ASSumed that Admin would trust that I wasn't attempting to disrespect. But hea...we live and we learn. Until we die, there will always be room for learning. And yes...even for you, Que.

[zuriyahe]

LOL@ Mr. Z, yeah I did tell ya a lil sumthin, sumthin in the kitchen dawg, Que heard me. I think you might have been bizzay......wreckless eyeballing that SANGRIA bottle and blocked it, but it was said. :)

Holla

lol. that's cool. That sangria was calling to me. I just remember you returning the compliment about my wife. But the glow of the sangria can cause a brotha to hear and not hear thangs.

[Brightness]

http://web.nwe.ufl.edu/~ltaylor/teaching/f02/jtucker/clapboard.GIF

That's a wrap folks!!!

However, I'm sure Zuri will continue typing unless this thread is forcibly locked! :rolleyes:

[Admin]

I just remember you returning the compliment about my wife.

Nope, that wasn't me dawg. I never said a word to you about JJ....all HN6, not a word. Other than greeting you both (together) at E&J and at my Home.

Sangria is a powerful Drug! LOL

Holla

[zuriyahe]

jonjon made the comment to her husband....

and...

then...

zuri felt it appropriate to rub it in her face and try to embarass her when she got back with the group.
*start high pitch voice*
"well uh jonjon look there's que who you think is quite handsome and has nice lips....."
*end high pitch voice*

Where did you get that I was trying to rub it in Jonjon's face? Jonjon and I are cool like that. It's an Z/JJ thang...you cannot understand.

Somehow there is this impression that I totally disrespect Jonjon. Sorry, but something cannot be true if jonjon is crazy about me, her mother is crazy about me, her grand mother is crazy about me and her daddy is crazy about me.

But hea...maybe they are all nuts? What do they know?

*shrugs shoulders*

[Brightness]

Nope, that wasn't me dawg. I never said a word to you about JJ....all HN6, not a word. Other than greeting you both (together) at E&J and at my Home.

Sangria is a powerful Drug! LOL

Holla

More powerful than the JELLO SHOTS. . .do we have a new official Hushnic cocktail??

[zuriyahe]

http://web.nwe.ufl.edu/~ltaylor/teaching/f02/jtucker/clapboard.GIF

That's a wrap folks!!!

However, I'm sure Zuri will continue typing unless this thread is forcibly locked! :rolleyes:




Oh no...not yet. I have not gotten to Pam yet...:D

[Brightness]

Where did you get that I was trying to rub it in Jonjon's face? Jonjon and I are cool like that. It's an Z/JJ thang...you cannot understand.

Somehow there is this impression that I totally disrespect Jonjon. Sorry, but something cannot be true if jonjon is crazy about me, her mother is crazy about me, her grand mother is crazy about me and her daddy is crazy about me.

But hea...maybe they are all nuts? What do they know?

*shrugs shoulders*

Do or would you have asked to see a woman's nipple piercing or tattoo in a private area (breast, ass, belly) in their presence or do you RESPECT them more than that?

[Admin]

More powerful than the JELLO SHOTS. . .do we have a new official Hushnic cocktail??

Nawl, them Jello Shots were Lethal Weapons...
Holla

[zuriyahe]

Ok, I have seen stuff on the hush that is so far to the left - I have to read it twice and this is one right here.

Let me ask - are you all swingers? I ask in all seriousness because I understand that there are 'no boundaries' but shouldn't that be a personal thang between ya'll? Society has (or at least should) have boundaries, because without them we get that behavior called uncivilized.

Now ya'll ain't got to explain as much as ya'll doing - I know that people are together for a reason - ask Bobby and Whitney.

Also let me ask - is the open need to 'exhibit' your 'lack of boundaries' some kinda sexual turn on. I mean it seems that there are no off-limits even among each of you.

One more question - is this part of the whole allure of being with a bi-sexual woman.

Just trying to understand cause this is looking real 'dark' to me and I can't believe hushnic had this undercurrent - maybe I need to read back on some previous ones some more.


Interesting post.

Eventhough this question was answered (very well, by CL...thanks) I must say that I am somewhat confused. Pam, you are talking about "no boundaries" and something 'dark'. The biggest Z issue at hushlive was me asking CL (well...you know).... And It seems that the other big issue (after the fact) was was with me and Admin...and my "pre-sangria drunk-ness". Ok.

So what else would you consider that would cause you to even ASSume that we have no boundaries or that there was any 'dark' undertones going on at Hushnic. And why should anything that we do be off limits to the hush? We post a LOT about our lives...and you cannot seem to pick up ANYTHING from those posts? Can you answer that?

And I am sorry that you may see the following as a low blow, but i think that it is fair game given the things that you said in your post ....

But it's not like any of us picked up a stranger nearly half our age and boinked them that very night. We have done NOTHING like that. That, to us, seems to be beyond OUR current boundaries. I mean, I would proably not have sex with someone who's last name I proably don't know. But who knows? Maybe my boundaries may stretch out that far one day. But for most, screwing a stranger half their age some folks would consider to be pretty outrageous. Right? So where is this 'missing boundaries' that you seem to be detecting that would cause you to post this regarding us?

And I also find it laughable on your shameful "Bobby and Whitney" comparison... I really didn't think that our relationship deserves to be put on that level.

Your post reeks of ignorance, inuendos and hyprocracy...and I thought that I knew you better than that.

[MR REMI RED]

seaduceme -- i have to put yours right after your twin.....i was glad to hear some stuff from you this hushnic because in the past...i just didnt hear a lot from you...even though i know you were saying stuff....i realize that you are/were responsible for a lot of the inside jokes that come from hushnic.....you are a hush throwback and i wish you would be more on the hush...more than last year...admittedly, i was trying to catch something between you and ...umm....whatshisname....but the more i looked the more confused i became.

umm brohamm.....
stop trying to catch a " FOUL BALL " when you are playing " CENTER FIELD "

http://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons6/58.gif

[MR REMI RED]

i found myself wishin that

REMI was there....


Wohttp://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons6/13.gifoW













i cant even make a SMART REMARK about dat ....
but thanks....
:beer

[zuriyahe]

Do or would you have asked to see a woman's nipple piercing or tattoo in a private area (breast, ass, belly) in their presence or do you RESPECT them more than that?

Where is this issue about respect comming from?

I asked to see her Tats in public. I asked to see her nipple piercing in public.

Your question is not significant, nor does it makes sense.

Feel free to re-phrase your question so that I can provide an answer for you.

[Pamalicious]

Interesting post.

Eventhough this question was answered (very well, by CL...thanks) I must say that I am somewhat confused. Pam, you are talking about "no boundaries" and something 'dark'. The biggest Z issue at hushlive was me asking CL (well...you know).... And It seems that the other big issue (after the fact) was was with me and Admin...and my "pre-sangria drunk-ness". Ok.

So what else would you consider that would cause you to even ASSume that we have no boundaries or that there was any 'dark' undertones going on at Hushnic. And why should anything that we do be off limits to the hush? We post a LOT about our lives...and you cannot seem to pick up ANYTHING from those posts? Can you answer that?

And I am sorry that you may see the following as a low blow, but i think that it is fair game given the things that you said in your post ....

But it's not like any of us picked up a stranger nearly half our age and boinked them that very night. We have done NOTHING like that. That, to us, seems to be beyond OUR current boundaries. I mean, I would proably not have sex with someone who's last name I proably don't know. But who knows? Maybe my boundaries may stretch out that far one day. But for most, screwing a stranger half their age some folks would consider to be pretty outrageous. Right? So where is this 'missing boundaries' that you seem to be detecting that would cause you to post this regarding us?

And I also find it laughable on your shameful "Bobby and Whitney" comparison... I really didn't think that our relationship deserves to be put on that level.

Your post reeks of ignorance, inuendos and hyprocracy...and I thought that I knew you better than that.

Interesting answer. From just reading in this thread - because I CAN read - there was mention of asking someone to see their nipple ring, pulling your wife's shirt down to further expose her cleavage, verbalizing your wife's compliment on other men when it was said to you, and JJ took great time to explain that this is the way ya'll roll and that there are things that you all enjoy such as pointing out your 'attraction' to other people - so OUT of ALL the stuff that is being said about you on this board - which I told you - was kinda weird (then I did some homework and saw this isn't the first hushnic that the spotlight has been on someone negatively, so I got some understanding about that) YOU get offended with my post.

The 'dark' I was referring to was the mention after mention after mention of you in a negative way - it put a 'darkness' on Hushnic and CL did say "Hey it wasn't that bad" and I was glad to hear that.

There has definately been a division on what is thought of as personal boundaries and I think you two explained what goes on in your world quite well.

So maybe this was the last post you did before you retired for the evening or something - so I'm not going to even take it personal. Unfortunately, it's been a lonnng day for you up on this board and you've had to put out numerous fires.

It ain't easy being green? Now is it?

P.S. (edited in at the last minute) I have said several times that people are together for a reason and it's not for us to totally understand that and Bobby and Whitney are the perfect example of that, so again, I think you were just tired - so you took me coming to the source as some kinda attack on you. It was said that the question was asked at hushlive and you said no - so ok. Bro I don't have any beef with you.

[que90nek]

umm brohamm.....
stop trying to catch a " FOUL BALL " when you are playing " CENTER FIELD "

http://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons6/58.gif
noted..............

[Tastey]

Interesting answer. From just reading in this thread - because I CAN read - there was mention of asking someone to see their nipple ring, pulling your wife's shirt down to further expose her cleavage, verbalizing your wife's compliment on other men when it was said to you, and JJ took great time to explain that this is the way ya'll roll and that there are things that you all enjoy such as pointing out your 'attraction' to other people - so OUT of ALL the stuff that is being said about you on this board - which I told you - was kinda weird (then I did some homework and saw this isn't the first hushnic that the spotlight has been on someone negatively, so I got some understanding about that) YOU get offended with my post.

The 'dark' I was referring to was the mention after mention after mention of you in a negative way - it put a 'darkness' on Hushnic and CL did say "Hey it wasn't that bad" and I was glad to hear that.

There has definately been a division on what is thought of as personal boundaries and I think you two explained what goes on in your world quite well.

So maybe this was the last post you did before you retired for the evening or something - so I'm not going to even take it personal. Unfortunately, it's been a lonnng day for you up on this board and you've had to put out numerous fires.

It ain't easy being green? Now is it?

P.S. (edited in at the last minute) I have said several times that people are together for a reason and it's not for us to totally understand that and Bobby and Whitney are the perfect example of that, so again, I think you were just tired - so you took me coming to the source as some kinda attack on you. It was said that the question was asked at hushlive and you said no - so ok. Bro I don't have any beef with you.

Excellent response Pammy!

[zuriyahe]

Interesting answer. From just reading in this thread - because I CAN read - there was mention of asking someone to see their nipple ring, pulling your wife's shirt down to further expose her cleavage, verbalizing your wife's compliment on other men when it was said to you, and JJ took great time to explain that this is the way ya'll roll and that there are things that you all enjoy such as pointing out your 'attraction' to other people - so OUT of ALL the stuff that is being said about you on this board - which I told you - was kinda weird (then I did some homework and saw this isn't the first hushnic that the spotlight has been on someone negatively, so I got some understanding about that) YOU get offended with my post.

The 'dark' I was referring to was the mention after mention after mention of you in a negative way - it put a 'darkness' on Hushnic and CL did say "Hey it wasn't that bad" and I was glad to hear that.

There has definately been a division on what is thought of as personal boundaries and I think you two explained what goes on in your world quite well.

So maybe this was the last post you did before you retired for the evening or something - so I'm not going to even take it personal. Unfortunately, it's been a lonnng day for you up on this board and you've had to put out numerous fires.

It ain't easy being green? Now is it?

P.S. (edited in at the last minute) I have said several times that people are together for a reason and it's not for us to totally understand that and Bobby and Whitney are the perfect example of that, so again, I think you were just tired - so you took me coming to the source as some kinda attack on you. It was said that the question was asked at hushlive and you said no - so ok. Bro I don't have any beef with you.

Good response, Pam. Thank you.

And uh...well, I guess that we all have a 'different' idea as to what boundaries we have. But I think that this 'boundary' that people speak of is proably quite a bit flexable as needed to support whatever point they have at any given micro-second.

The dark cloud basicly started with a little man who couldn't man up in the spirit of Hushnic. And of course, other subsequent conversations that apparently we don't know anything about.

But thanks, Pammy, your response was good.

[Brightness]

Where is this issue about respect comming from?

I asked to see her Tats in public. I asked to see her nipple piercing in public.

Your question is not significant, nor does it makes sense.

Feel free to re-phrase your question so that I can provide an answer for you.

CLARIFICATION: I was asking that in response to you saying that JonJon's mother, father & grandmother loved you.

So, I wanted to know that if you had been in the same PUBLIC SETTING with them present would you have considered it respectful (to JonJon an her family) to ask to see CL's nipple ring, women's tatts in their private regions, etc.

I would like to think you'd use more discretion but I just asked to be clear on whether you would or not.

Do you understand what I'm asking now? If not, I can ask JonJon's opinion. ..as a matter of fact her opinion is relevant so this can be tailored to address her too.

[SeaDuceme2]

My 2 cents.

from the conversation I had with Jon-Jon towards the end of Hushlive. She is very aware that Zuri's questions and behavior may most times cross the line. She is very apologetic in that regard to his behavior and understands how most would feel its offensive.

From all the comments and questions thrown out at Zuri (during hushlive)regarding the "million $ question" he does not really get what the big deal is about the question, (or just doesn't want too) as he stated he would pose this question or any other, to ANY one, no matter what!

Zuri the only thing I can add in this regard at this point, is to try to excercise caution when posing your questions. I realize you may not want too, but this is all out of respect for others.

[Jonjon]

CLARIFICATION: I was asking that in response to you saying that JonJon's mother, father & grandmother loved you.

So, I wanted to know that if you had been in the same PUBLIC SETTING with them present would you have considered it respectful (to JonJon an her family) to ask to see CL's nipple ring, women's tatts in their private regions, etc.

I would like to think you'd use more discretion but I just asked to be clear on whether you would or not.

Do you understand what I'm asking now? If not, I can ask JonJon's opinion. ..as a matter of fact her opinion is relevant so this can be tailored to address her too.


Z knows how to act around family.... mine and his.

He has been on this board for a while now and I'm sure he felt he was dealing with people he thought were used to his shinanigans (sp?)

I know that everyone acts differently with their friends than they do in front of family.

[Brightness]

JonJon,

Just because people have witnessed Z's shenanigans doesn't mean they appreciate being subjected to them.

I'm not trying to beat this into the ground but it just seems to be a more common reaction to use discretion and err on the side of caution than just jumping in when you don't know your audience all that well.

It's true Z has free will to act like himself but when you infringe upon another person just because you CAN . . . that really says something about the human courtesy you are affording them.

You have some men that have been raised to not curse or speak foul/vulgarly in the presence of women regardless of their age or relation to them. So you have to expect that some women may have been raised where they weren't addressed like that or exposed to that.

It's obvious that you are head over heels for Z because I don't know too many women that would allow their man to be quite so raw....even if their man was all out off the hinges they would expect him to behave himself a bit better around others and pull out the high falutin' manners.

Again, I'm just intrigued at this whole scenario and not necessarily pointing fingers just trying to dialogue and understand people's mindsets.

[zuriyahe]

CLARIFICATION: I was asking that in response to you saying that JonJon's mother, father & grandmother loved you.

So, I wanted to know that if you had been in the same PUBLIC SETTING with them present would you have considered it respectful (to JonJon an her family) to ask to see CL's nipple ring, women's tatts in their private regions, etc.

I would like to think you'd use more discretion but I just asked to be clear on whether you would or not.

Do you understand what I'm asking now? If not, I can ask JonJon's opinion. ..as a matter of fact her opinion is relevant so this can be tailored to address her too.

Well, I proably would not. But who would? Would I sit at my parent's house and talk about my sexual adventures? Well, I wouldn't.

Would I ask some of my friends who has piercings and tatts to see their nipple ring? Yes. They would most likely either show me or say "hell no" and we would all laugh and move on. They would NOT make this into some sort of "Nipple-Gate" which is what seems to have happened here.

But this whole thing is very interesting and enlighnting to me.

But let's get some things clear.

We are talking about the Hush. We are NOT talking about family. We may have been talking about some friends....but the hush, just like life, is a mixture of friends, enemies and people in between. I also know that there was really not much that I could have done to avert this 'nipple-gate'. I could have came and said nothing...and that would have been an issue. I know a 'no win situation' when i see one. But it's all good.

[Brightness]

Well, I proably would not. But who would? Would I sit at my parent's house and talk about my sexual adventures? Well, I wouldn't.

Would I ask some of my friends who has piercings and tatts to see their nipple ring? Yes. They would most likely either show me or say "hell no" and we would all laugh and move on. They would NOT make this into some sort of "Nipple-Gate" which is what seems to have happened here.

But this whole thing is very interesting and enlighnting to me.

But let's get some things clear.

We are talking about the Hush. We are NOT talking about family. We may have been talking about some friends....but the hush, just like life, is a mixture of friends, enemies and people in between. I also know that there was really not much that I could have done to avert this 'nipple-gate'. I could have came and said nothing...and that would have been an issue. I know a 'no win situation' when i see one. But it's all good.

Okay, I understand. . .yet I don't, but thanks for answering.

[Tastey]

did u say that the girl was a friend of yours?

perhaps if you are friends with a person you know their perspective and where they are coming from...

and there is no question.

Jonjon sweetie. Let this go cus this is your answer right here.

Your friends, family, and others love Z so anything he said is took for what is it is (shenanigans)

That love is not shared by the Hush so when he is engaging in his shenanigans it is taken in a much different and not positive light.

That is the bottomline.

It's not that what he said or did was so disrespectful it's that HE DID IT and the people he did it to.

I swear fo God if Que had winked and asked to see that nipple ring it would have been funny. Cus Que and CL have that type of joking repoire with each other. Your husband doesn't have that with them.

I also don't think you need to even concern yourself with folks who say "you were disrespected" because the thing is you can FEEL disrespected and so can anyone else but NOBODY has the right to tell you what should or should not make you feel disrespected.

That is straight up bullshyt. It's your husband and you and he know each other better than anybody on this board could ever know either of you. If you didn't feel disrespected don't let anybody tell you that you were or should have been.

Cus WE ALL done took some shyt off of a man we should not have. No need in feeling sorry for a woman who is obviously HAPPY in her marriage. That's rare. Celebrate it!

Zuri is not one of my favorite people but I honestly believe this whole situation has been blown HUGELY out of proportion.

Hushnic was great...a great time was had by all. It's time to leave it at that.

[Jonjon]

JonJon,

Just because people have witnessed Z's shenanigans doesn't mean they appreciate being subjected to them.

I'm not trying to beat this into the ground but it just seems to be a more common reaction to use discretion and err on the side of caution than just jumping in when you don't know your audience all that well.

It's true Z has free will to act like himself but when you infringe upon another person just because you CAN . . . that really says something about the human courtesy you are affording them.

You have some men that have been raised to not curse or speak foul/vulgarly in the presence of women regardless of their age or relation to them. So you have to expect that some women may have been raised where they weren't addressed like that or exposed to that.

It's obvious that you are head over heels for Z because I don't know too many women that would allow their man to be quite so raw....even if their man was all out off the hinges they would expect him to behave himself a bit better around others and pull out the high falutin' manners.

Again, I'm just intrigued at this whole scenario and not necessarily pointing fingers just trying to dialogue and understand people's mindsets.



I just got called into help at my daughters school....... I will responde to this when I get back in.

[aintnojoke]

Tastey: Hushnic was great...a great time was had by all. It's time to leave it at that.


I couldn't agree with you more Tastey. I was there, and still don't see what the fuss is all about.

[Jonjon]

Jonjon sweetie. Let this go cus this is your answer right here.

Your friends, family, and others love Z so anything he said is took for what is it is (shenanigans)

That love is not shared by the Hush so when he is engaging in his shenanigans it is taken in a much different and not positive light.

That is the bottomline.

It's not that what he said or did was so disrespectful it's that HE DID IT and the people he did it to.

I swear fo God if Que had winked and asked to see that nipple ring it would have been funny. Cus Que and CL have that type of joking repoire with each other. Your husband doesn't have that with them.

I also don't think you need to even concern yourself with folks who say "you were disrespected" because the thing is you can FEEL disrespected and so can anyone else but NOBODY has the right to tell you what should or should not make you feel disrespected.

That is straight up bullshyt. It's your husband and you and he know each other better than anybody on this board could ever know either of you. If you didn't feel disrespected don't let anybody tell you that you were or should have been.

Cus WE ALL done took some shyt off of a man we should not have. No need in feeling sorry for a woman who is obviously HAPPY in her marriage. That's rare. Celebrate it!

Zuri is not one of my favorite people but I honestly believe this whole situation has been blown HUGELY out of proportion.

Hushnic was great...a great time was had by all. It's time to leave it at that.


Well I guess I won't to respond when I get back.

You summed it all up pretty well

Thanks

[SeaDuceme2]

Jonjon sweetie. Let this go cus this is your answer right here.

Your friends, family, and others love Z so anything he said is took for what is it is (shenanigans)

That love is not shared by the Hush so when he is engaging in his shenanigans it is taken in a much different and not positive light.

That is the bottomline.

It's not that what he said or did was so disrespectful it's that HE DID IT and the people he did it to.

I swear fo God if Que had winked and asked to see that nipple ring it would have been funny. Cus Que and CL have that type of joking repoire with each other. Your husband doesn't have that with them.

I also don't think you need to even concern yourself with folks who say "you were disrespected" because the thing is you can FEEL disrespected and so can anyone else but NOBODY has the right to tell you what should or should not make you feel disrespected.

That is straight up bullshyt. It's your husband and you and he know each other better than anybody on this board could ever know either of you. If you didn't feel disrespected don't let anybody tell you that you were or should have been.

Cus WE ALL done took some shyt off of a man we should not have. No need in feeling sorry for a woman who is obviously HAPPY in her marriage. That's rare. Celebrate it!

Zuri is not one of my favorite people but I honestly believe this whole situation has been blown HUGELY out of proportion.

Hushnic was great...a great time was had by all. It's time to leave it at that.


WELL SAID!!! but unfortunately this thread is going to keep going & going & going, I'll place my bet that it reaches 24 pages.

[que90nek]

it is true....

if zuri was not zuri....

it may have been received better....the nipple question.

and the other comment

about admin's wife...

would not have happened.


but we all agree that how zuri and jonjon do their thing is BEAUTIFUL for them......

[zuriyahe]

JonJon,

Just because people have witnessed Z's shenanigans doesn't mean they appreciate being subjected to them.

I'm not trying to beat this into the ground but it just seems to be a more common reaction to use discretion and err on the side of caution than just jumping in when you don't know your audience all that well.

It's true Z has free will to act like himself but when you infringe upon another person just because you CAN . . . that really says something about the human courtesy you are affording them.

You have some men that have been raised to not curse or speak foul/vulgarly in the presence of women regardless of their age or relation to them. So you have to expect that some women may have been raised where they weren't addressed like that or exposed to that.

It's obvious that you are head over heels for Z because I don't know too many women that would allow their man to be quite so raw....even if their man was all out off the hinges they would expect him to behave himself a bit better around others and pull out the high falutin' manners.

Again, I'm just intrigued at this whole scenario and not necessarily pointing fingers just trying to dialogue and understand people's mindsets.

We are talking about HUSHNIC....which is a play on the word FREAKNIK.

FREAK-NIK. Now I have never been there, but I know about FREAK-NIK and what boundaries are there. I listen to the radio and and that stupid "wisper song" and half the other songs out there. But I asked a woman with a nipple piercing and a few other piercings...and now I have crossed some hypocratic ever changing boundary. That is class A bullshit.

(waiting for the 'well this is Hushnic....not Freaknic.' comment)

All of this is just some folks moving and changing the requirements to maintain whatever issue that they may have with a particular person. But such is the hush.

[Tastey]

it is true....

if zuri was not zuri....

it may have been received better....the nipple question.

and the other comment

about admin's wife...

would not have happened.


but we all agree that how zuri and jonjon do their thing is BEAUTIFUL for them......

Well what confuses me, and maybe some others who weren't there is why it's an issue.

For those on the outside looking in (non Hushnic goers) it appears that Zuri walked around being disrespectful to people including his wife at Hushnic. It's been mentioned not only in this thread but in a few other Hushnic threads.

And I KNOW that's not really how it went down.

And I know this is personal...but I hate to see an entire weekend spent with a person reduced to ONE INCIDENT that defines them.

[zuriyahe]

Jonjon sweetie. Let this go cus this is your answer right here.

Your friends, family, and others love Z so anything he said is took for what is it is (shenanigans)

That love is not shared by the Hush so when he is engaging in his shenanigans it is taken in a much different and not positive light.

That is the bottomline.

It's not that what he said or did was so disrespectful it's that HE DID IT and the people he did it to.

I swear fo God if Que had winked and asked to see that nipple ring it would have been funny. Cus Que and CL have that type of joking repoire with each other. Your husband doesn't have that with them.

I also don't think you need to even concern yourself with folks who say "you were disrespected" because the thing is you can FEEL disrespected and so can anyone else but NOBODY has the right to tell you what should or should not make you feel disrespected.

That is straight up bullshyt. It's your husband and you and he know each other better than anybody on this board could ever know either of you. If you didn't feel disrespected don't let anybody tell you that you were or should have been.

Cus WE ALL done took some shyt off of a man we should not have. No need in feeling sorry for a woman who is obviously HAPPY in her marriage. That's rare. Celebrate it!

Zuri is not one of my favorite people but I honestly believe this whole situation has been blown HUGELY out of proportion.

Hushnic was great...a great time was had by all. It's time to leave it at that.

Excellent and well summed up.

I did have fun at Hushnic, it was a great part of a great weekend

[seductive_tee]

It's all about how each individual person views respecting a spouse/mate, a persons home and another persons mate.

Some with it, some ain't, some say whatever.

I ain't with it, voiced my opinion and thats it.

On that note, if HUSHNIC is in the DC area, i would NOT go asking folks questions like that and i certainly would advise not to be telling another man that his wife is beautiful.

Thats it for Tee

[FoxEMomma]

Bottomline:

Did CL show her nipple ring when asked?
Hell
I ain't gay or nofin but shit
if she showing
I would have looked

[aintnojoke]

Well what confuses me, and maybe some others who weren't there is why it's an issue.

For those on the outside looking in (non Hushnic goers) it appears that Zuri walked around being disrespectful to people including his wife at Hushnic. It's been mentioned not only in this thread but in a few other Hushnic threads.

And I KNOW that's not really how it went down.

And I know this is personal...but I hate to see an entire weekend spent with a person reduced to ONE INCIDENT that defines them.


From my stand point, I didnt find what Z did disrespectful in the least. It was done innocently. He was talking pics of tatts, CL mention her nipple ring, Z asked to take a pic and CL said HELL NO. That should have been the end of it.

I think the fact that it's Z and damn near everyone on the board has a problem with him, it now turned into "NIPPLE-GATE". It was all done in fun, and not intended to offend anyone. This shit is getting beat down to damn China. Makes not sense.

Let the Last Samuri be himself (sorry Z, couldn't resist the shogun joke), he's the same on and off the board, so why is this such a shock to the system. He's apologized, and that's all that matters.


I agree with you Tastey, this seems to be very personal.

[aintnojoke]

Bottomline:

Did CL show her nipple ring when asked?
Hell
I ain't gay or nofin but shit
if she showing
I would have looked


No she didnt. And if she did, like you, I would have looked too. Hell she was right across from me.

[aintnojoke]

I dont see what's the big deal with Z saying Mrs. Admin was beautiful. Hell... She is. I told Admin that. But I dont see the difference, when some after seeing my hubby's pic some people told me he was good looking. I know that shit....that's why he's mines....LOL

It was a compliment. I could see is Z went to Admin and was like "Can we swap wives", but he didnt. He simply paid Admin a compliment.

Is ya'lls dislike for Z that much, ya'll can't see the positive. I just don't understand all of this. :confused:

[zuriyahe]

It's all about how each individual person views respecting a spouse/mate, a persons home and another persons mate.

Some with it, some ain't, some say whatever.

I ain't with it, voiced my opinion and thats it.

On that note, if HUSHNIC is in the DC area, i would NOT go asking folks questions like that and i certainly would advise not to be telling another man that his wife is beautiful.

Thats it for Tee


I don't know what DC has to do with anything. But I understand where you are comming from, Tee.

[Tastey]

I dont see what's the big deal with Z saying Mrs. Admin was beautiful. Hell... She is. I told Admin that. But I dont see the difference, when some after seeing my hubby's pic some people told me he was good looking. I know that shit....that's why he's mines....LOL

It was a compliment. I could see is Z went to Admin and was like "Can we swap wives", but he didnt. He simply paid Admin a compliment.

Is ya'lls dislike for Z that much, ya'll can't see the positive. I just don't understand all of this. :confused:

I thought it was just me.

[SeaDuceme2]

Its all about personal preference, what works for some does not work for everyone. Admin stated he didnt like the comment and addressed Zuri accordingly.

CL & others addressed Zuri about his comment. Zuri gave the impression with this whole "Nipple-Gate" question, during hushlive that even though he knows how the general concensus feels about it, he would still ask the question to anyone.

I get the feeling folks who have a problem with his tact of questions or comments or lack there of just want Zuri to acknowledge he needs to excercise boundaries.

[zuriyahe]

Let the Last Samuri be himself (sorry Z, couldn't resist the shogun joke),

Awww shoot. No apology needed, Pudy. I like it.

The Last Samurai. Yes. :D

[que90nek]

aintno...

why did you say "beautiful" instead of "FIONE"

???

Can you see the difference?
Especially considering all the questions in the air that day....and night with regard to zuri...

[Tastey]

aintno...

why did you say "beautiful" instead of "FIONE"

???

Can you see the difference?
Especially considering all the questions in the air that day....and night with regard to zuri...

What's the NEGATIVE significance of FIONE??

Either way I don't get it.

[aintnojoke]

aintno...

why did you say "beautiful" instead of "FIONE"

???

Can you see the difference?
Especially considering all the questions in the air that day....and night with regard to zuri...


Because as a woman referring to another woman....FIONE would not be an adjective I'd use. I'd say FIONE only about a man.

The obvious difference for me is the sex. And I'd never refer to another woman as fine. Now I'll tell the next lady that her husband was good looking, but that's the same as calling him fine, FIONE or whatever. Which I have done in the past, and was never met with such hosility. Basically it was a compliment. I wasn't there when Z said it, so I can't really gage.

[aintnojoke]

What's the NEGATIVE significance of FIONE??

Either way I don't get it.


I'm taking FIONE is noting "SOMEONE YOU WOULDN"T MIND FCKING"


I dont get it either. :confused:

[zuriyahe]

aintno...

why did you say "beautiful" instead of "FIONE"

???

Can you see the difference?
Especially considering all the questions in the air that day....and night with regard to zuri...

You know that any form of comprehension is about perception. I just do not understand what your point REALLY is, Que. Does my 'going through life with wreckless abandon' bothering you? I hope not.

You KNOW that some folks may say beautiful, some may say fine some may say FOINE. One fact is clear, and I don't care if ANYONE THINKS DIFFERENTLY. I was not out there to disrespect Admin's wife and CL. Maybe my words were not choice words for THOSE PEOPLE, but my intentions were not evil. And I don't see why we are going on and on as if I was really trying to do damage to folks.

You are nit-picking over single words and giving a single word more power than it deserves...which surprises me, because we were just talking about that at hushlive.

What are you trying to do, Que? What is your real point? Because you are beating a dead horse...so you proably need to narrow your focus and get to it.

[Pamalicious]

Since at this point, I'm focusing on the incidents in a broader scale - I took it outside of the 'world' of the Hush to a Brotha I know who is quite knowledgable about the code between men. I asked four questions and here are his answers from a non-hush but man/woman/respect view:

1. If you were in a room with people who you knew from on-line, a person you know that was married mentioned they had a nipple ring - would you ask, even in joking to see it?

Ans: Depends, if we are all showing our body art etc. then I might jokingly say - "hey when we gonna see that nipple ring", if I just knew they had one and there was no lead in conversation, no I wouldn't do that. And if it were flipped and I was in the room and some nigga asked about my woman's nipple ring - he would get my foot in his ass

Me: Um, nobody asked for that, lol

2. If you were at a casual acquaintances house as a guest and you met his wife, would you say to him "your wife is PHOINE" (of course this is if you think she is)

Ans: No because he's not in my inner circle like that. I might think it, but I wouldn't tell that Brotha that - you never know how a man is gonna take you eyeballin his wife long enough to decide she 'fine' If someone said that to me and we wern't on those familiarity terms, I would have to politely check him. If we on those terms and I just had to get at him, I would say something like "Nigga who thought you could pull that caliber female" I still wouldn't say his woman was PHOINE.

3. If I came to you and said 'hey I think so and so is attractive (a) how would you feel and (b) would you tell him?

Ans: Why you coming to me with that? and no I wouldn't tell him but I certainly would be wanting to know - what the fuck is up with that? We all see people all the time that we find attraction, but discretion should be used, to keep friction down.


4. If you and a man had words on the net and you had the opportunity to meet him in a social setting - would there be friction?

Ans: Depends, internet thuggism is weak, if you can say it on the net then you need to be able to say it in person, but if I'm in a social setting, i'm not gonna trip and have on my head "that nigga fighting over some internet shit' - I would just be cordial but if he ain't my cup of tea on-line, probably not off line cause he put so much energy into pissing me off on-line, I know that nigga got 'traits' I am not gonna feel.

[zuriyahe]

I'm taking FIONE is noting "SOMEONE YOU WOULDN"T MIND FCKING"


I dont get it either. :confused:

Que and others are smelling blood and attempting to go in for the kill.

I totally do not get how this has blown up to this point.

Also, I do not understand the level of hostility that I am seeing.

I am surprised and disapointed at the same time.

I had a GREAT time at hushnic.

And I had some really good impressions of most folks at Hushnic.

This whole thing has gone to a whole new level (uh...lower level, that is...)

If this is what I am to expect with future Regionals and Hushnics...

Well....

[Tastey]

Since at this point, I'm focusing on the incidents in a broader scale - I took it outside of the 'world' of the Hush to a Brotha I know who is quite knowledgable about the code between men. I asked four questions and here are his answers from a non-hush but man/woman/respect view:

1. If you were in a room with people who you knew from on-line, a person you know that was married mentioned they had a nipple ring - would you ask, even in joking to see it?

Ans: Depends, if we are all showing our body art etc. then I might jokingly say - "hey when we gonna see that nipple ring", if I just knew they had one and there was no lead in conversation, no I wouldn't do that. And if it were flipped and I was in the room and some nigga asked about my woman's nipple ring - he would get my foot in his ass

Me: Um, nobody asked for that, lol

2. If you were at a casual acquaintances house as a guest and you met his wife, would you say to him "your wife is PHOINE" (of course this is if you think she is)

Ans: No because he's not in my inner circle like that. I might think it, but I wouldn't tell that Brotha that - you never know how a man is gonna take you eyeballin his wife long enough to decide she 'fine' If someone said that to me and we wern't on those familiarity terms, I would have to politely check him. If we on those terms and I just had to get at him, I would say something like "Nigga who thought you could pull that caliber female" I still wouldn't say his woman was PHOINE.

3. If I came to you and said 'hey I think so and so is attractive (a) how would you feel and (b) would you tell him?

Ans: Why you coming to me with that? and no I wouldn't tell him but I certainly would be wanting to know - what the fuck is up with that? We all see people all the time that we find attraction, but discretion should be used, to keep friction down.


4. If you and a man had words on the net and you had the opportunity to meet him in a social setting - would there be friction?

Ans: Depends, internet thuggism is weak, if you can say it on the net then you need to be able to say it in person, but if I'm in a social setting, i'm not gonna trip and have on my head "that nigga fighting over some internet shit' - I would just be cordial but if he ain't my cup of tea on-line, probably not off line cause he put so much energy into pissing me off on-line, I know that nigga got 'traits' I am not gonna feel.

Actually I did this for my own sanity sakes last night cus reading this thread I began to question what would I do.

I asked the questions differently however on the nipple ring issue the answer I got was:

"If a woman doesn't want me to ask to see her nipple ring then she should not mention to me under any circumstances that she has one, cus I'm going to ask to see it. I'm a man. It doesn't mean I want her, just that I want to see the nipple ring."

On the issue of the FIONE comment.
"Was the person making lewd jestures when he said this?

My answer "I don't know but no one has mentioned that he was."

"Then I would not care. It's a compliment. Now if he continued to stare in a lewd manner or he made lewd gestures then we got issues.

So because of those answers I continue to stand by...I don't get it. :confused:

[zuriyahe]

Since at this point, I'm focusing on the incidents in a broader scale - I took it outside of the 'world' of the Hush to a Brotha I know who is quite knowledgable about the code between men. I asked four questions and here are his answers from a non-hush but man/woman/respect view:

1. If you were in a room with people who you knew from on-line, a person you know that was married mentioned they had a nipple ring - would you ask, even in joking to see it?

Ans: Depends, if we are all showing our body art etc. then I might jokingly say - "hey when we gonna see that nipple ring", if I just knew they had one and there was no lead in conversation, no I wouldn't do that. And if it were flipped and I was in the room and some nigga asked about my woman's nipple ring - he would get my foot in his ass

Me: Um, nobody asked for that, lol

2. If you were at a casual acquaintances house as a guest and you met his wife, would you say to him "your wife is PHOINE" (of course this is if you think she is)

Ans: No because he's not in my inner circle like that. I might think it, but I wouldn't tell that Brotha that - you never know how a man is gonna take you eyeballin his wife long enough to decide she 'fine' If someone said that to me and we wern't on those familiarity terms, I would have to politely check him. If we on those terms and I just had to get at him, I would say something like "Nigga who thought you could pull that caliber female" I still wouldn't say his woman was PHOINE.

3. If I came to you and said 'hey I think so and so is attractive (a) how would you feel and (b) would you tell him?

Ans: Why you coming to me with that? and no I wouldn't tell him but I certainly would be wanting to know - what the fuck is up with that? We all see people all the time that we find attraction, but discretion should be used, to keep friction down.


4. If you and a man had words on the net and you had the opportunity to meet him in a social setting - would there be friction?

Ans: Depends, internet thuggism is weak, if you can say it on the net then you need to be able to say it in person, but if I'm in a social setting, i'm not gonna trip and have on my head "that nigga fighting over some internet shit' - I would just be cordial but if he ain't my cup of tea on-line, probably not off line cause he put so much energy into pissing me off on-line, I know that nigga got 'traits' I am not gonna feel.

This is interesting and given tastey's survey...it means that it all depends on who ya askin. You know...demographics etc.

[zuriyahe]

Actually I did this for my own sanity sakes last night cus reading this thread I began to question what would I do.

I asked the questions differently however on the nipple ring issue the answer I got was:

"If a woman doesn't want me to ask to see her nipple ring then she should not mention to me under any circumstances that she has one, cus I'm going to ask to see it. I'm a man. It doesn't mean I want her, just that I want to see the nipple ring."

On the issue of the FIONE comment.
"Was the person making lewd jestures when he said this?

My answer "I don't know but no one has mentioned that he was."

"Then I would not care. It's a compliment. Now if he continued to stare in a lewd manner or he made lewd gestures then we got issues.

So because of those answers I continue to stand by...I don't get it. :confused:

So the answer was that I was NOT making lewd gestures nor did I make any statements referring that I wanted to go any further than the 'compliment'. But who knows?

[Pamalicious]

Actually I did this for my own sanity sakes last night cus reading this thread I began to question what would I do.

I asked the questions differently however on the nipple ring issue the answer I got was:

"If a woman doesn't want me to ask to see her nipple ring then she should not mention to me under any circumstances that she has one, cus I'm going to ask to see it. I'm a man. It doesn't mean I want her, just that I want to see the nipple ring."

On the issue of the FIONE comment.
"Was the person making lewd jestures when he said this?

My answer "I don't know but no one has mentioned that he was."

"Then I would not care. It's a compliment. Now if he continued to stare in a lewd manner or he made lewd gestures then we got issues.

So because of those answers I continue to stand by...I don't get it. :confused:

So basically we have wrapped this up because all in all - the perception of all the incidents actual or imagined is based on the individual - some people project out as in they take in the entire circumstancs and can jump ahead to foresee possible outcome and some people project in as in I'm comfortable, so I'm going to approach it as being comfortable.

Quite interesting and I learned something thru this thread and all this reading.

The BASE of this was quite intriguing because it concerned inter-personal relationships and again, how the internet has totally changed the way we relate to one another.

[zuriyahe]

I learned something.

[Tastey]

So basically we have wrapped this up because all in all - the perception of all the incidents actual or imagined is based on the individual - some people project out as in they take in the entire circumstancs and can jump ahead to foresee possible outcome and some people project in as in I'm comfortable, so I'm going to approach it as being comfortable.

Quite interesting and I learned something thru this thread and all this reading.

The BASE of this was quite intriguing because it concerned inter-personal relationships and again, how the internet has totally changed the way we relate to one another.

Yes exactly. Which is why I believe this situation is what it is because it was ZURI and no other reason at all.

I also kinda agree with Zuri that Que is blowing it out of proportion. It's obvious it was not done intentionally and it has NOTHING to do with boundaries, in my opinion. It has to do with how differently people see things.

It's like if we are on a date with a man and we really feeling him and he says "I'd like to put ice cream all over you and lick you down." We giggle cus WE FEELING HIM.

But we can be on a date with a brother that's busted and broke, got 3 teeth, sent his cousin's picture and we are already turned off then he says the same exact thing and we wanna throw up.

Zuri it should not surprise you that folks wasn't "feeling you" like that.

Otherwise it would have been over at Hushnic and not brought back here.

[Pamalicious]

Yes exactly. Which is why I believe this situation is what it is because it was ZURI and no other reason at all.

I also kinda agree with Zuri that Que is blowing it out of proportion. It's obvious it was not done intentionally and it has NOTHING to do with boundaries, in my opinion. It has to do with how differently people see things.

It's like if we are on a date with a man and we really feeling him and he says "I'd like to put ice cream all over you and lick you down." We giggle cus WE FEELING HIM.

But we can be on a date with a brother that's busted and broke, got 3 teeth, sent his cousin's picture and we are already turned off then he says the same exact thing and we wanna throw up.

Zuri it should not surprise you that folks wasn't "feeling you" like that.

Otherwise it would have been over at Hushnic and not brought back here.

So based on this - is it like hanging a dead man. It might give you some pleasure to see him swinging, but honey he already dead and is that fair?


{and let me say, yes I said something in this thread and he and I had words, but I also have enough bandwidth to move and explore}

[Tastey]

So based on this - is it like hanging a dead man. It might give you some pleasure to see him swinging, but honey he already dead and is that fair?


{and let me say, yes I said something in this thread and he and I had words, but I also have enough bandwidth to move and explore}

Great analogy Pam.

[Pamalicious]

Great analogy Pam.

then my next question and no riddles, lol

Why invite a man to his own hanging? When you came in the door having memorized his eulogy?

[Tastey]

then my next question and no riddles, lol

Why invite a man to his own hanging? When you came in the door having memorized his eulogy?

I think a better question is why would a man ATTEND his own hanging? And provide the rope.

Knowing the history on board of Zuri and CL it boggles my mind that he would ask HER of all people to see a nipple ring.

My guess is things were going good, they were laughing joking having a good time...so he thinks things are cool.

But they weren't. She was just being cordial. She had not invited him into the inner circle.

An invite to Hushnic or any other offline gathering IS NOT an invite into the inner circle. It's just an invite to see your face. You still gots to earn that spot with people.

In some ways Rock had the right idea. He let him know UPFRONT. Nigga we ain't cool and we ain't gonna be cool. So Zuri did not laugh or make any inappropriate jokes to Rock. He knew not to.

Unfortunately a warm welcome from others gave him a false sense of security, he pulled his rope out of his pocket...and thusly began swinging.

[que90nek]

absolutely not.

the only thing that was disrespectful...

was

a. tellin admin that his wife was FINE
b. the question to cl

but both events were highly in character.....and to me it was zuri being zuri....

for example: when he pulled your shirt down to further show me your cleavage....and a portion of your left breast.......some might say that he was disrespectin u....BUT....it's not up to them to say anything....

that's YOUR man....ya'll can do what ya'll feel good doing....and MORE!

i can't tell you or zuri what is or is not disrespectful between the both of you.
i'm not the one beating this horse and analyzing the water it is being led to drink....

as stated above...

zuri was just being zuri...

the disrespect was not INTENDED....but rather that was the way it was received. you sorta had to be there in the kitchen...there are 4 people that were......admin, me, zuri, and mrs admin was on her way out....



period.

end of story.

[que90nek]

I think a better question is why would a man ATTEND his own hanging? And provide the rope.

Knowing the history on board of Zuri and CL it boggles my mind that he would ask HER of all people to see a nipple ring.

My guess is things were going good, they were laughing joking having a good time...so he thinks things are cool.

But they weren't. She was just being cordial. She had not invited him into the inner circle.

An invite to Hushnic or any other offline gathering IS NOT an invite into the inner circle. It's just an invite to see your face. You still gots to earn that spot with people.

In some ways Rock had the right idea. He let him know UPFRONT. Nigga we ain't cool and we ain't gonna be cool. So Zuri did not laugh or make any inappropriate jokes to Rock. He knew not to.

Unfortunately a warm welcome from others gave him a false sense of security, he pulled his rope out of his pocket...and thusly began swinging.
there was no hanging....

we continued to have a good time well in to the night....

zuri even helped himself to several dvd's and such....

it's just the AFTER analysis.....that appears to be the dragging out of this event....

[Tastey]

i'm not the one beating this horse and analyzing the water it is being led to drink....

as stated above...

zuri was just being zuri...

the disrespect was not INTENDED....but rather that was the way it was received. you sorta had to be there in the kitchen...there are 4 people that were......admin, me, zuri, and mrs admin was on her way out....



period.

end of story.

Cmon Que.

If you knew it was not INTENDED then why add it to your comments about Hushnic?

What does it have to do with him not having BOUNDARIES.

That's like saying Zuri...man he stepped on my foot at Hushnic but I guess that's just him being Zuri.

lol :p

[Tastey]

there was no hanging....

we continued to have a good time well in to the night....

zuri even helped himself to several dvd's and such....

it's just the AFTER analysis.....that appears to be the dragging out of this event....

Then again I ask.

Why sum up your comments of the entire night into those few insignificant UNINTENTIONAL moments?

[que90nek]

zuri -- one word....BOUNDARIES. do you have any? if u don't...u should. the refreshing thing about zuri was that he is exactly the same online and offline....the disturbing thing about zuri was that he is exactly the
same online and offline....zuri....i pray that you continue to GROW...and LEARN....your comment/question to cl was wrong on a few different levels. i appreciate that you extended a hand to rock...even if it was
not reciprocated...thanks for just SHOWING up....because if you hadnt...we woulda only been able to keep talkin about you BEHIND your back....but you showing up allowed folks to ASK you stuff directly. personally, the
comments about you being "whitewashed" yada yada....presume that all black folks are alike...and we know that that is not true. realize that marriage is about compromise and making your spouse happy...so ummm.....CUT YOUR
HAIR! Let her do it! lol... you are quite an interesting guy....



actually this was my SUM up....

and because this thread is labeled....

"que's comments"

i believe....that QUE can comment how he wants.

i could be wrong.

[RockYoKoo]

actually this was my SUM up....

and because this thread is labeled....

"que's comments"

i believe....that QUE can comment how he wants.

i could be wrong.

YOU ARE RIGHT 100%+

[Tastey]

actually this was my SUM up....

and because this thread is labeled....

"que's comments"

i believe....that QUE can comment how he wants.

i could be wrong.

Where did I say you couldn't comment how you wanted? lol

I simply asked a question for clarification.

Just wondering if it was so insignificant and so unintentional why you felt the need to bring it back to the board.

AND as I stated earlier other people mentioned it in other threads as well.

[que90nek]

Where did I say you couldn't comment how you wanted? lol

I simply asked a question for clarification.

Just wondering if it was so insignificant and so unintentional why you felt the need to bring it back to the board.

AND as I stated earlier other people mentioned it in other threads as well.
i hope my answer brought some clarity to you.

[que90nek]

he did not intend disrespect...

but that doesnt mean that he did not disrespect....

it does mean that he said something inappropriate....and ....

SO OUT OF THE BLUE..........for the moment it was said......



but again....


why are you asking me WHY i say what i say?

this doesnt make sense to me.

[CLSmooove]

Dammit can CL say something in this thread.....

Name being said all thruout the damn thing and i aint had but three or four posts.....

Dammit I got comments.....

Hold da line... BRB.....

[RockYoKoo]

Nobody Hung nobody.....I think because most of the talk is about Z yall thinking this is what went on for 4 days.

Z only came around twice, I would say a hot 4 hours altogether, people was not trippin on that really. It was some of the offensive things, that were not SOLVED at Hushnic that are being discussed. He said something offensive about me too, but I said my words on the spot, and that ended right there. No back in forth I said my words and it was over.

But to be honest his defense of what he thinks is right VS the FEELINGS of OTHERS. These things are not a question of if it is OK for Z to be the way he is....it is because he OFFENDED others and still have not just said.....im sorry for offending you because that was not my intentions and it wont happen again. Well maybe this has taken place with Admin in a PM, but if it was done on the SPOT then everything would be cool now.

Wasnt nobody hanging Z at that shit. I even told people to get off the topic cause it was dragging out, but shit I wasnt saying nothing so believe me it was not no HANGING. Shit we had so much fun it was rediculious.

To be honest it was like a family outting knowing that your crazy cuzin was coming by and when they showed up they acted crazy as expected. Still dont mean that your cuzin should not be CHECKED....and thats all that happen.

Funny how the people that were not at the event have such big opinions. Not that you cant have any, but you all sound WAAAAAAAAAYYY convincing about us doing somebody wrong.......pls come to the next one then you can watch the others that didnt come type about thier opinions and be like WTH?

Rock on :cool:

[SeaDuceme2]

OMG!! I can't believe this is thread is still going on, then again YES I can....

this whole incident didnt put the damper on Hushnic they way it is putting a damper on the board and all this went down at Hushnic... :beating

[aintnojoke]

OMG!! I can't believe this is thread is still going on, then again YES I can....

this whole incident didnt put the damper on Hushnic they way it is putting a damper on the board and all this went down at Hushnic... :beating


SAY IT AGAIN.....SEA!!!!

[CLSmooove]

Ok..... Had to fix me a drink (Dulce i got the Pepsi Vanilla and the Smirnoff Vanilla, gurl u got me hooked :D ) and smoke me a cigarette....

Now Lets get the record STRAIGHT.....

Aintno.... the question we are talkin about is not from FRIDAY night at E&J's.... This question was asked DURING Hushlive.....

It went down like this.....

Que: Who has a Question....
CL: I do.... I got a question..... Zuri, Man, what happened to your Twists???
Laugh laugh laugh.... joke joke joke.... Discussion on zuri's hair and JonJon wanting him to Cut it..... Nigga messed me up though when he said he had a "whole in his head"..... I was TH-A-RUUUUUU..... (insert me literally ROTFLMMFAO).... Joke Joke Joke.... LAugh Laugh laugh laugh....

Confusion, some back and forth talkin going on amoungst Hushnickers..... Blah Blah Blah.....


Zuri: I have a question..... CL can I see your Nipple Ring???
CL: :eek: Whattttttttttttttttttttttttttt???!!!!! Negro why would u ask me that.....
Que: to get a reaction out of you....
CL: ok u got one.... Now seriously, why would u ask a woman, who is MARRIED, to see their nipple ring.... Do u think Im going to pull the titty out (insert CL demonstrating how she MAY look if she pulls the titty out) and show u and everyone else.....
Zuri: Well..... I dont know, just thought I asked...
CL: But Darkie.... WHY!!!!!

Confusion once again.... Talkin going back and forth amoungst other Hushnickers....
Tee: Wait a min wait a min wait a min.... why would u disrespect yo wife and CL by asking that question???
CL.... It wasnt so much that he disrespected me... I did tell him I had the nipple ring.... I just dont understand why he would ask me to pull my titty out and show him knowing im married... Now if I was single.... Hey Maybe I would show it... but......
Tee: I'm waiting....
Zuri:..... Not sure what he said becuse Confusion Confusion Confusion..... ALOTTTTTTTTTT of talkin going back and forth.... Basically Is TEE really actually saying something......

20 mins later..... next question.....

Thats how it was....

Now Tastey, Had Que asked me the same thing.... I woulda been more like "Nigga is you out yo muthafuckin mind askin me some shit like that..... U know good and hell well I aint showin u and no one else my gat damn titty.....

So yes because it was ZURI.... I CONTAINED my INNER IKE..... and decided to ask him questions instead of going straight off the deep end.....

IT was not as bad as it is being made out to be.... I was SHOCKED that he would ask me that....


Ya'll have BLOWN this WAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY out of Proportion.... and now its becoming WE all jumpin on Zuri..... No NO NO.... it wasnt like that....

To for the record.... I told Zuri when I went up and hugged dat nigga.... I'm hugging you and laughing with u now.... But Come Next week.... We back to Blows.... I was NOT there to start shit with the man.... I was there to have fun and that what we did,.... Hell when that nigga and Jon Jon walked in the door at E &J we gave them a STANDIN OVATION..... If that didnt break the ice nothing wouldve.....

It was alllllll toooooo the Good.... and I hope like Hell that Jon Jon and Zuri dont let the "after effects Drama" stop them from attending another Hushnic.....

NOW please can we stop talkin bout My Damn TITTY RING!!!!!!!

PLEASE!!!!! :cool:

[Tastey]

Nobody Hung nobody.....I think because most of the talk is about Z yall thinking this is what went on for 4 days.

Funny how the people that were not at the event have such big opinions. Not that you cant have any, but you all sound WAAAAAAAAAYYY convincing about us doing somebody wrong.......pls come to the next one then you can watch the others that didnt come type about thier opinions and be like WTH?

Rock on :cool:

First of all I said a long time ago about how all this talk was looking to those from the outside looking in. If you didn't want those who weren't there to know about it, why tell us?

Lastly nobody said you did something WRONG. But you certainly have blown the incident out of proportion in my opinion.

As stated...I wasn't there. So the only opinion I can form is based on what's being said HERE.

I generally don't even discuss Hushnic because I've been accused of "tainting" the whole thing for others by my descriptions of what happened there.

This thread is accomplishing the EXACT same thing. Which is why I wondered why it was neccessary to mention at all. I asked and Que thinks I shouldn't ask the man who asks more questions than anybody a question. LOL :p

Like I said long time ago.

Comedy.

lol

[RockYoKoo]

I asked and Que thinks I shouldn't ask the man who asks more questions than anybody a question. LOL :p


Ok T that was funny. Yeah im not sure how it will end, because even after all this type I dont think we are any closer to good closure than we were before the post. Oh well...

Rock on

[aintnojoke]

Aintno.... the question we are talkin about is not from FRIDAY night at E&J's.... This question was asked DURING Hushlive.....

It went down like this.....

Que: Who has a Question....
CL: I do.... I got a question..... Zuri, Man, what happened to your Twists???
Laugh laugh laugh.... joke joke joke.... Discussion on zuri's hair and JonJon wanting him to Cut it..... Nigga messed me up though when he said he had a "whole in his head"..... I was TH-A-RUUUUUU..... (insert me literally ROTFLMMFAO).... Joke Joke Joke.... LAugh Laugh laugh laugh....

Confusion, some back and forth talkin going on amoungst Hushnickers..... Blah Blah Blah.....


Zuri: I have a question..... CL can I see your Nipple Ring???
CL: :eek: Whattttttttttttttttttttttttttt???!!!!! Negro why would u ask me that.....
Que: to get a reaction out of you....
CL: ok u got one.... Now seriously, why would u ask a woman, who is MARRIED, to see their nipple ring.... Do u think Im going to pull the titty out (insert CL demonstrating how she MAY look if she pulls the titty out) and show u and everyone else.....
Zuri: Well..... I dont know, just thought I asked...
CL: But Darkie.... WHY!!!!!

Confusion once again.... Talkin going back and forth amoungst other Hushnickers....
Tee: Wait a min wait a min wait a min.... why would u disrespect yo wife and CL by asking that question???
CL.... It wasnt so much that he disrespected me... I did tell him I had the nipple ring.... I just dont understand why he would ask me to pull my titty out and show him knowing im married... Now if I was single.... Hey Maybe I would show it... but......
Tee: I'm waiting....
Zuri:..... Not sure what he said becuse Confusion Confusion Confusion..... ALOTTTTTTTTTT of talkin going back and forth.... Basically Is TEE really actually saying something......

20 mins later..... next question.....

Thats how it was....

Now Tastey, Had Que asked me the same thing.... I woulda been more like "Nigga is you out yo muthafuckin mind askin me some shit like that..... U know good and hell well I aint showin u and no one else my gat damn titty.....

So yes because it was ZURI.... I CONTAINED my INNER IKE..... and decided to ask him questions instead of going straight off the deep end.....

IT was not as bad as it is being made out to be.... I was SHOCKED that he would ask me that....


Ya'll have BLOWN this WAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY out of Proportion.... and now its becoming WE all jumpin on Zuri..... No NO NO.... it wasnt like that....

To for the record.... I told Zuri when I went up and hugged dat nigga.... I'm hugging you and laughing with u now.... But Come Next week.... We back to Blows.... I was NOT there to start shit with the man.... I was there to have fun and that what we did,.... Hell when that nigga and Jon Jon walked in the door at E &J we gave them a STANDIN OVATION..... If that didnt break the ice nothing wouldve.....

It was alllllll toooooo the Good.... and I hope like Hell that Jon Jon and Zuri dont let the "after effects Drama" stop them from attending another Hushnic.....

NOW please can we stop talkin bout My Damn TITTY RING!!!!!!!

PLEASE!!!!! :cool:


See what happens when you leave early....LOL...Okay now I gets it. Oh now he was wrong for that. He already knew the answer from the night before. Okay Okay....now I know....and what...knowing is half the battle...LOL

Thanks for clearing that up CL.

[jaila]

its da energizer bunny up in here. :D

[Brightness]

Okay, forgive those of us that weren't there for being intrigued but I don't think for one minute that this clouded the whole Hushnic weekend. . .one monkey don't stop no show and I'm sure this was still the case this past weekend.

Like I said before I wasn't trying to beat a dead horse and I have been basically just asking point blank questions to Z in regards to his personality overall.

But I can certainly go on mute about this topic. Based on all the comments, it's been interesting and enlightening for me believe it or not.

[zuriyahe]

I think a better question is why would a man ATTEND his own hanging? And provide the rope.

Knowing the history on board of Zuri and CL it boggles my mind that he would ask HER of all people to see a nipple ring.

My guess is things were going good, they were laughing joking having a good time...so he thinks things are cool.

But they weren't. She was just being cordial. She had not invited him into the inner circle.

An invite to Hushnic or any other offline gathering IS NOT an invite into the inner circle. It's just an invite to see your face. You still gots to earn that spot with people.

In some ways Rock had the right idea. He let him know UPFRONT. Nigga we ain't cool and we ain't gonna be cool. So Zuri did not laugh or make any inappropriate jokes to Rock. He knew not to.

Unfortunately a warm welcome from others gave him a false sense of security, he pulled his rope out of his pocket...and thusly began swinging.


correction.

When I grabbed Rock's tiny hands, I told him "Come on dude, don't be a punk".

We had other exchanges at hushlive. I turned to him while he hid his drunk ass behind the stairs.

As for CL, you may be right. She stood up and clapped when I arrived. We laughed and had a good time. She showed me her tats and I took pics of them too. I wasn't faking. But maybe she was. Ok. My bad. I guess that hushnic did loose its healing powers. I'll keep that in mind for the future.

Who else was faking at hushnic?

[que90nek]

we clapped for ya'll twice...

we were GLAD you were there.

period.

[Tastey]

correction.

When I grabbed Rock's tiny hands, I told him "Come on dude, don't be a punk".

We had other exchanges at hushlive. I turned to him while he hid his drunk ass behind the stairs.

As for CL, you may be right. She stood up and clapped when I arrived. We laughed and had a good time. She showed me her tats and I took pics of them too. I wasn't faking. But maybe she was. Ok. My bad. I guess that hushnic did loose its healing powers. I'll keep that in mind for the future.

Who else was faking at hushnic?

See this is exactly why folks hate your ass.

I didn't say CL was faking. I said you were not in the inner circle.

Why try to turn that around into something else?

skust

[zuriyahe]

Oh it's all good. I learned my lesson. At least I didn't lose a lot of $$$ in the process.

[zuriyahe]

See this is exactly why folks hate your ass.

I didn't say CL was faking. I said you were not in the inner circle.

Why try to turn that around into something else?

skust


Did i say that CL was faking? Read again.

And I don't care what folks think. And that includes how YOU think.

The hush is the hush. It's not like the hush is family.

[Tastey]

correction.

When I grabbed Rock's tiny hands, I told him "Come on dude, don't be a punk".

We had other exchanges at hushlive. I turned to him while he hid his drunk ass behind the stairs.

As for CL, you may be right. She stood up and clapped when I arrived. We laughed and had a good time. She showed me her tats and I took pics of them too. I wasn't faking. But maybe she was. Ok. My bad. I guess that hushnic did loose its healing powers. I'll keep that in mind for the future.

Who else was faking at hushnic?

Maybe you need to re-read it.

It's obvious you don't care and I didn't ask you to care. You and I will NEVER meet so it's a moot point.

However, if you gonna get your lil ass in here and act all indignant then don't come at the ONE PERSON who was giving your ass the benny of the doubt and twist my words into something I did not say.

NOBODY was faking. And NOBODY is saying folks were faking.

The point that you obviously cannot understand is just because people asked you to come, and were glad you came DID NOT mean you could take other LIBERTIES with them. You thought it did mean that, and you took liberties you had no business taking and now we are HERE.

Now I'm putting your sorry ass back on ignore because talking to or about you is really pointless.

[aintnojoke]

its da energizer bunny up in here. :D


THROWING A SHOE AT YOU!! YOU NUT BUTT....LMAO :cry: :D

[Tastey]

Edited

wrong thread

[aintnojoke]

My suggestion

Greenville, SC (cus I don't wanna travel) lol

I can take ya'll to...uhm... :rolleyes:


Well if you like to club there's... no that's closed....uhm :confused:


Okay...we have a Red Lobster. :cool:


Ya'll coming?


lol :p


No you didn't say Red Lobster. Okay...Throwing a shoe at you too....LMAO

[Tastey]

No you didn't say Red Lobster. Okay...Throwing a shoe at you too....LMAO

*ducking the shoe*

I put dat in the wrong thread. lol :p

[aintnojoke]

*ducking the shoe*

I put dat in the wrong thread. lol :p

And I didnt see your edit until after i pushed post, and fell out laughin.

[RockYoKoo]

correction.

When I grabbed Rock's tiny hands, I told him "Come on dude, don't be a punk".

We had other exchanges at hushlive. I turned to him while he hid his drunk ass behind the stairs.



Ok someone is living is Fairy Tale land.....those who were there Know What Happen....and those who were not there.....won't BELIEVE that happen.

Niggas are FUNNY........

WHEWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[BLACK SINBAD]

Sinbad -- i had a feeling you would be there. u are quite worldly...it is obvious to me that you have been around...and can handle yourself wherever you are at....i was a little worried about you gettin left on friday nite, but...i shouldnt have been! you are a good listener...a good talker.....objective.....and CAN HANDLE
your liquor.....in fact, did you ever get drunk? We could hang out ANYTIME....

Que, my name aint ROCK and yes I CAN HANDLE MA Liquor. :upto:
Drunk???? What's that?????? Just call Brotha.....I got ya back.
Hush Brothas 4 Life <<<<DAPZ>>>>

[RockYoKoo]

Que, my name aint ROCK and yes I CAN HANDLE MA Liquor. :upto:
Drunk???? What's that?????? Just call Brotha.....I got ya back.
Hush Brothas 4 Life <<<<DAPZ>>>>

Next HUSHNIC we having a drinking contest......fa real fa real.

Yall will understand what DEATH RHO is about.

I dare a nikka to go drink for drink with me........

:rolleyes:

[BLACK SINBAD]

Next HUSHNIC we having a drinking contest......fa real fa real.

Yall will understand what DEATH RHO is about.

I dare a nikka to go drink for drink with me........

:rolleyes:

You might wanna git yo weight up first.
You fuckin wit a HEAVYWEIGHT!!!
I knock strawweight out with one shot of TEQUELLA!!!

Fa real, Fa real.....Rock you cool with me main. We might drink da club dry.

[dulce]

drink for drink? I want in on that one! :p especially if you got that Cazadores!

[HulaSista]

why am i suddenly missing my drinking days? DAYUM! lol

[RockYoKoo]

drink for drink? I want in on that one! :p especially if you got that Cazadores!

Man I have CAZADORES I bought in Mexico, was saving it for a special occasion. but I have to warn ya, me and 2 others drank a whole 5th one time in Tahoe.....so ummmmmmm IM READY FO DAT AZZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hahahahahahahahahaha

Fa real fa real

And Sinbad......Don't under estimate the powers of the Fit and Trim mane :D

[seductive_tee]

Next HUSHNIC we having a drinking contest......fa real fa real.

Yall will understand what DEATH RHO is about.

I dare a nikka to go drink for drink with me........

:rolleyes:

And Tee will be collecting keys........especially yours Rock!

[RockYoKoo]

And Tee will be collecting keys........especially yours Rock!

Awwww Tee I made it home without a ticket atleast 50 miles. Im like I must have look torn back after the comedy show. You saw me though Sunday :D

I tan doooos it :)

naaaa but if I drank like that I will not drive. Sangria was not messing with me too much other wise I would not have drove home. Yall would have seen a white car on the side of the road chillin:)

[seductive_tee]

Rock, thats what they all say.

My best friend drinks like that......I had to flatten his tires once and i've taken his keys several times. Of course i cussed out but he lived, avoided jail and didn't kill someone.

Another close friend was on his motorcycle coming up off a ramp. A drunk driver swerved and killed him instantly. So far, he is the only friend i have lost to any kind of death......

I begged Que to pull over and see if Sinbad would drive because of your swerving.

Most folks don't know there limit when it comes to drinking and driving, most think they can handle it, until that day comes when they are stopped, injured, jailed, killed or they have killed. Don't let it happen to you.

Tee is totally against driving while drinking!

[que90nek]

it would have been irresponsible of US not to try ....

[RockYoKoo]

lol.....

Now I get it.....

I was on the phone and looking for candy in the car after Hushnic.......I didnt get it at 1st. hahahahahahahahahaha

When we were on our way to the comedy spot, I was doing hella shit in the car. I hate to be drinking and meet people without a mint. Who did I offer mints? I was looking for them and driving and swerving, it was not the alcohol.......LOL

Good looking out, but that was not it.....now I get why yall keep saying I was drunk.

Rock on

[zuriyahe]

Maybe you need to re-read it.

It's obvious you don't care and I didn't ask you to care. You and I will NEVER meet so it's a moot point.

However, if you gonna get your lil ass in here and act all indignant then don't come at the ONE PERSON who was giving your ass the benny of the doubt and twist my words into something I did not say.

NOBODY was faking. And NOBODY is saying folks were faking.

The point that you obviously cannot understand is just because people asked you to come, and were glad you came DID NOT mean you could take other LIBERTIES with them. You thought it did mean that, and you took liberties you had no business taking and now we are HERE.

Now I'm putting your sorry ass back on ignore because talking to or about you is really pointless.

Uh huh. Thanks for highlighting the words.

Do we both have a definition of the word "Perhaps" and "Maybe"? Everything was done in fun, so I saw no need for it to go the direction that it did. And I stand by what I say.

So perhaps in the future gatherings...I will have to temper "Z"...which means that I will have to not be me.

My 'white-washed' ass don't need or want to work my way into any wack 'inner circle' if it means that I have to not be me...and I don't want to walk into any situation where I am assumed to be a bad person. And I don't want to walk into any situation where I have to wonder who to shake hands with or who to hug or anything like that.

On the hush, I am who I am. But I don't wish bad on anyone. I give good, but often un-wanted advice. I wish well of others...no matter who they are. I debate hard, but that is my style. And if you come at me, I might make a fool outta them. But I don't go around trying to do bad things to folks. So it makes no sense to even try to do things with folks who, dispite my nearly 10,000 posts in 3 years, are goign to still expect me to walk on shells.

But that is not for others to deal with. That is something that I will deal with and resolve. And as far as I am concerned...it is resolved.

And, hopefully, this concludes our discussion about this.

Wait...you are on ignore. Good. Thank you.

[que90nek]

booo hoooo

folks don't want me to be me....


man...

GO HEAD with all the bull shiznit! *lil rock saying*


nobody is saying for you not to be yourself.

but...realize that some of the things u say may or may not be LAUGHED at.

[zuriyahe]

booo hoooo

folks don't want me to be me....


man...

GO HEAD with all the bull shiznit! *lil rock saying*


nobody is saying for you not to be yourself.

but...realize that some of the things u say may or may not be LAUGHED at.

Who's boo hooing? I am stating my outlook. And jonjon feels the same way.

You have a problem with that?

[Tastey]

Uh huh. Thanks for highlighting the words.

Do we both have a definition of the word "Perhaps" and "Maybe"? Everything was done in fun, so I saw no need for it to go the direction that it did. And I stand by what I say.

So perhaps in the future gatherings...I will have to temper "Z"...which means that I will have to not be me.

My 'white-washed' ass don't need or want to work my way into any wack 'inner circle' if it means that I have to not be me...and I don't want to walk into any situation where I am assumed to be a bad person. And I don't want to walk into any situation where I have to wonder who to shake hands with or who to hug or anything like that.

On the hush, I am who I am. But I don't wish bad on anyone. I give good, but often un-wanted advice. I wish well of others...no matter who they are. I debate hard, but that is my style. And if you come at me, I might make a fool outta them. But I don't go around trying to do bad things to folks. So it makes no sense to even try to do things with folks who, dispite my nearly 10,000 posts in 3 years, are goign to still expect me to walk on shells.

But that is not for others to deal with. That is something that I will deal with and resolve. And as far as I am concerned...it is resolved.

And, hopefully, this concludes our discussion about this.

Wait...you are on ignore. Good. Thank you.

See this would really be touching if it wasn't directed at ME. One of the few members who's been here since the beginning and still not that popular.

Because I am ME. I know that, and I accept it. I can't be a BITCH at times so this whoa is me act is really wasted on me. Don't give me the "I can't be myself" speach because I patented that shyt years ago.

You disqualified the maybe, why you said "WHO ELSE WAS FAKING?" That lead to the assumption that someone was otherwise the word ELSE is not needed. The correct sentence would have been "Who was faking?"

No one made you go to Hushnic and no one will make you go to another one. You are a grown ass man and should be able to know how to handle yourself in a group.

The problem is you do shyt to people, say you don't care how they feel about you, then want them to LOVE your ass as if you never did it. You know good and damn well you rub people the wrong way sometimes...but you want to blame the other person for it.

Grow up Zuri! Take some responsibility for your antics.

[que90nek]

lol

lol

u r funny.

i'm trying to imagine you saying "you have a problem with that" to my face.....

lol


your issues with rock are one thing.

but the rest of us can and have accepted you as you are......and that doesnt mean that when you say somethin out of line....that you won't get checked.

you've made your bed....of being an asshole/jerk....whatever....and so...u lay in it.


it's all good.

[Tastey]

lol
you've made your bed....of being an asshole/jerk....whatever....and so...u lay in it.


it's all good.

That's the bottomline right there. If you are insistent on being this way, then accept who you are and be proud of it.

[RockYoKoo]

lol

lol

u r funny.

i'm trying to imagine you saying "you have a problem with that" to my face.....

lol



Que.....you cracking me up.....

"you got a problem with that.....HEEE HEEE(in my best Micheal Jackson voice)"

Watch out Que he will break out his glove on you..........

Keep on ROCKn it.

[zuriyahe]

lol

lol

u r funny.

i'm trying to imagine you saying "you have a problem with that" to my face.....

lol


your issues with rock are one thing.

but the rest of us can and have accepted you as you are......and that doesnt mean that when you say somethin out of line....that you won't get checked.

you've made your bed....of being an asshole/jerk....whatever....and so...u lay in it.


it's all good.

You say that as if that is a bad thing. This is me. I don't have an issue with it.

[RockYoKoo]

That's the bottomline right there. If you are insistent on being this way, then accept who you are and be proud of it.

Tastey you better watch what you post....

You will be included in the dreded....I dont like Zuri list....which according to sources includes....

Rock
Chey
Que
Foxee
Bright(?)
Hula
Remi
and now introducing our newest member......drum roll please......


TASTEY

Becarefull what you post, cause Z is the only one on this board that can be an ASSHOLE. Yep he is the only SHITTER here......

LMAO

[que90nek]

You say that as if that is a bad thing. This is me. I don't have an issue with it.
it's not always a bad thing, zuri....

and rock, please take me off the HATE ZURI list....

i find him quite interesting......

although i wish he could just stick to his guns and not EVER try to be accepted...or acceptable.

[zuriyahe]

Que.....you cracking me up.....

"you got a problem with that.....HEEE HEEE(in my best Micheal Jackson voice)"

Watch out Que he will break out his glove on you..........

Keep on ROCKn it.

My ex dog maggie always yipped...

yip
yip
yip
yip

Until I came home....

Then it was silent....and kept his head down...and wouldn't say much.

What ever room I entered...SHE left...And when I turned my back...all i would hear is

yip
yip
yip


It was pretty funny, but I did feel kinda sorry for her.

So keep on yipping, 'man'. lol.

I have already sized you up...and you ain't worth the trouble.

[Tastey]

Tastey you better watch what you post....

You will be included in the dreded....I dont like Zuri list....which according to sources includes....

Rock
Chey
Que
Foxee
Bright(?)
Hula
Remi
and not introducing our newest member......drum roll please......


TASTEY

Becarefull what you post, cause Z is the only one on this board that can be an ASSHOLE. Yep he is the only SHITTER here......

LMAO

I joined that club a looooooong time ago. I been had his ass on ignore and I only took him off to see the Hushnic pictures.

See the thing is...even though I don't like him...I am ALWAYS fair to him. And that's what makes me hate him more is that he never accepts my fairness. He always wants to fight with me when I am trying to give him the benefit of the doubt.

That is the mark of a weak ass pussified man.

[que90nek]

My ex dog maggie always yipped...

yip
yip
yip
yip

Until I came home....

Then it was silent....and kept his head down...and wouldn't say much.

What ever room I entered...SHE left...And when I turned my back...all i would hear is

yip
yip
yip


It was pretty funny, but I did feel kinda sorry for her.

So keep on yipping, 'man'. lol.

I have already sized you up...and you ain't worth the trouble.
this is the part that i find....

ummm

disturbing....


You two threatening each other HERE...is very very....

ummm...

lame.

can you'll understand why?

ya'll were able to ignore each other in person....but when it comes to on the board...now ya'll can talk trash to each other....but not in person......

:confused:

[SeaDuceme2]

I joined that club a looooooong time ago. I been had his ass on ignore and I only took him off to see the Hushnic pictures.

See the thing is...even though I don't like him...I am ALWAYS fair to him. And that's what makes me hate him more is that he never accepts my fairness. He always wants to fight with me when I am trying to give him the benefit of the doubt.

That is the mark of a weak ass pussified man.

Did you says Pussified man?!?!?! OMG! :D :cry: :D

[RockYoKoo]

it's not always a bad thing, zuri....

and rock, please take me off the HATE ZURI list....

i find him quite interesting......

although i wish he could just stick to his guns and not EVER try to be accepted...or acceptable.

Dude I feel ya, I dont hate him either but the list has been written and as much as people say they dont hate him....he still writes hate......


it is all fun and a satire to state that people dont really hate him, it seems like the list is updated because a person post an OPINION of one of his post then all of a sudden people are listed in a post......

this is not meant to be true but prove a point......just cause people dont agree with you, dont mean they HATE YOU......to be honest I think I am the only one with real problems with him.

Fa real fa real

[que90nek]

I joined that club a looooooong time ago. I been had his ass on ignore and I only took him off to see the Hushnic pictures.

See the thing is...even though I don't like him...I am ALWAYS fair to him. And that's what makes me hate him more is that he never accepts my fairness. He always wants to fight with me when I am trying to give him the benefit of the doubt.

That is the mark of a weak ass pussified man.
and again....

more words out of the persons name....


*sigh*

[Tastey]

and again....

more words out of the persons name....


*sigh*

I didn't call him out of his name. I said what type of man he is.

Big difference.

[Tastey]

lol

you've made your bed....of being an asshole/jerk....whatever....and so...u lay in it.


it's all good.

How you gonna type THIS and then accuse me of calling him out of his name.

Check yourself Que.

[SeaDuceme2]

this is the part that i find....

ummm

disturbing....


You two threatening each other HERE...is very very....

ummm...

lame.

can you'll understand why?

ya'll were able to ignore each other in person....but when it comes to on the board...now ya'll can talk trash to each other....but not in person......

:confused:

Que, nothing would have been resolved if they would have talked trash in person it would have become very ugly, since the physical would have went down and not the verbal.

Since all this back n forth keeps going like the energizer bunny, can yall LET IT GO and move out of this THREAD ALREADY!!!

[que90nek]

Dude I feel ya, I dont hate him either but the list has been written and as much as people say they dont hate him....he still writes hate......


it is all fun and a satire to state that people dont really hate him, it seems like the list is updated because a person post an OPINION of one of his post then all of a sudden people are listed in a post......

this is not meant to be true but prove a point......just cause people dont agree with you, dont mean they HATE YOU......to be honest I think I am the only one with real problems with him.

Fa real fa real
gotcha....

i do sense a little sensitivity coming from shonuff.....

which is odd to me...considering his purposeful attempts to start stuff....and seek attention...at all costs.

[RockYoKoo]

My ex dog maggie always yipped...

yip
yip
yip
yip

Until I came home....

Then it was silent....and kept his head down...and wouldn't say much.

What ever room I entered...SHE left...And when I turned my back...all i would hear is

yip
yip
yip


It was pretty funny, but I did feel kinda sorry for her.

So keep on yipping, 'man'. lol.

I have already sized you up...and you ain't worth the trouble.


A famous quote, everyone in the room heard loud and clear.......


DUMB ASS NIGGA

but wait, I said that under my breath, no you didnt hear me cause I was behind you ass right in yo mutha fuckin ear, or better yet, catching myself from clockin your stupid ass cause I was in ADMINS house.......what yo ass say after that.......hummmm giggle giggle......nutty professor looking mutha fukka

naaaaaa I had my head down, I was silent.......yo bitch huh.....BWWWAAAHHHHHH!!!!

Nigga sing to the mutha fuggn choir....cause everybody know what went down...... :rolleyes:

[que90nek]

How you gonna type THIS and then accuse me of calling him out of his name.

Check yourself Que.
i was using the words of his spouse and others.

the way that he admittedly likes to be.


but sea, why threaten ONLINE?

[Tastey]

i was using the words of his spouse and others.

the way that he admittedly likes to be.


but sea, why threaten ONLINE?

I doesn't matter who's words they were, u used them to describe him. The same thing I did only I used original words.

[mystkev]

why threaten ONLINE? I have to agree with you on this one. Y'all had plenty of opportunity to get into each other's asses if that's what y'all truly wanted to do. Leave it lone. Let's be free. Let's sing a song together or something.

Oh and thanks Que for saying I'm not quiet. I'm just real reserved is all.

[SeaDuceme2]

i was using the words of his spouse and others.

the way that he admittedly likes to be.


but sea, why threaten ONLINE?

I sowie, I didnt read any of the threatening post as I refuse to go back through this thread....But threats are the result of bottled anger. Typing the words online could be a form of release for some. In this case the person the anger is geared towards will read/see it.

[zuriyahe]

it's not always a bad thing, zuri....

and rock, please take me off the HATE ZURI list....

i find him quite interesting......

although i wish he could just stick to his guns and not EVER try to be accepted...or acceptable.

Those who accept me will accept me.

That that don't won't.

I will NEVER try too hard to be accepted with anyone. That is my FIRE that creates the gold of friendship. If it fails, then it's all good. I tried that try to be accepted route long ago and found out that trying to be accepted never works, and is a huge waste of time.

I got too many real friends including some on the Hush to worry about some of YOU folks. And yes, we all laugh about my voice too.

*in a high pitch voice*
But I like the Hush as a GREAT online place to hang out.
*end high pitch voice*

[seductive_tee]

kum by mwa my lawd
kum by ya

lol.......

[SeaDuceme2]

Can This Thread Be Closed....puhleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeze!

[zuriyahe]

gotcha....

i do sense a little sensitivity coming from shonuff.....

which is odd to me...considering his purposeful attempts to start stuff....and seek attention...at all costs.

You always say that I seek attention. You are often wrong with your analysis.

You are very unbalanced, dude.

[zuriyahe]

this is the part that i find....

ummm

disturbing....


You two threatening each other HERE...is very very....

ummm...

lame.

can you'll understand why?

ya'll were able to ignore each other in person....but when it comes to on the board...now ya'll can talk trash to each other....but not in person......

:confused:


I ignored him in person? You've got some serious issues. I got on him at the beginning, during, and at the end.

[dulce]

Can This Thread Be Closed....puhleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeze!

I second this! The way this thread is going on makes it seems like this was the highlight of hushnic and I KNOW it wasn't. I think it's time to move on, don't ya'll?

[texasheat]

yep...................

[aintnojoke]

Lord yes. Please close it. This subject is so dead.

[que90nek]

*stickin tongue out*

Next time i'll keep my comments to myself!

*stickin tongue in*

[dulce]

everything is not about just you, que...but hey, appreciate the peace and quiet! :p

[aintnojoke]

*stickin tongue out*

Next time i'll keep my comments to myself!

*stickin tongue in*


No, your comments were cool. All this extra shit wasnt.

[que90nek]

hey, dulce!

*putting you on ignore*

nanny nanny boo boo!
stick your head in.....

*takin dulce off ignore*

:blah:

[dulce]

:cry: :D :cry: :D

[zuriyahe]

Ok. Sea, Dulce and Pudy. I'm done. I'm going to try to stay out of this thread.

(Waiting for the toy poodle to come back nipping my heels on the way out of this thread)


yap
yap
yap
yap

"...An...and STAY OUT...NUKKA"

Yap On.

[aintnojoke]

Don't instigate him Z, just walk away quietly. And the thread will end in PEACE!!!

[zuriyahe]

Sorry, Pudy.

*walking quietly out of thread*