Oral sex=sex?

[lovely]

I have a friend. We havent seen each other in about 5 months. We have been conversing through IM for about the last two months but thats about it. I have known him for almost two years and everytime we saw each other we had sex(except once). Well a couple of days ago he said that we needed to get together..it had been a while, things were looking up for him and he was feeling better..so he wanted to see me. I was like..cool, but we aint having sex.( I didnt want to have sex because i hadnt seen him in so long and i wanted to make sure our relationship wasnt based on the sex)I told him that i wanted to be picked up..taken out to dinner or movie and then makeout like a couple of teenagers and then go home. He said okay..we were more than that anyways..we are friends. So we went out that night. Chilled..talked for awhile. Caught up on each others lives. It was nice. Of course we ended up talking about sex. And of course brotha wanted to have it. But i was serious when i said i wasnt having sex with him. So we left the restuarant and we were heading back to my house. He was rubbing a sista leg..and i was aroused, because he is just a wonderful person, intelligent, sexy and the vibes were still flowing. He pulled in a big empty parking lot and said that now we were going to "make out like a couple of teenagers". I laughed and we started kissing. By the time we were finished i was braless...and he had pleasure of cumming by the skill of a sista's mouth and hands. I completly enjoyed myself. I love giving oral sex...and it was the first time a man came in my hand. But i was wondering if i just defeated the whole purpose of me saying that i wasnt having sex with him by giving him oral sex?

[mack_black]

ya gotdayum right......

ya sexed the brotha......

ya just didnt have intercourse thats all...

anyway, maybe you should have told him that you aint fucking him (intercourse) cause y'all sho did have sex.... :D

[Versatile]

Bill Clinton "I did not have sex with that woman" *LOL* You know you sexed him. Mack said it correct, you didn't have intercourse.

[Brightness]

I have used a variant of that last phrase and made it known I didn't intend to be "penile-ly penetrated"

Originally posted by mack_black+

ya sexed the brotha......

ya just didnt have intercourse thats all...

anyway, maybe you should have told him that you aint fucking him (intercourse) cause y'all sho did have sex.... :D

[que90nek]

that can be just as good as the real thing....lol.
whew...this is great.

[Tastey]

Originally posted by Versatile+
Bill Clinton "I did not have sex with that woman" *LOL* You know you sexed him. Mack said it correct, you didn't have intercourse.

LOL :p

That's definately some Bill Clinton freaky definitions going on there. :D

It doesn't matter. You enjoyed yourself...he enjoyed himself...that was the point wasn't it? ;) Do your thang girl! :p

[que90nek]

hmmmm

we have had this convo before...i think we agreed to disagree.

but...i would love to not have sex with u too!

[D2daO2da]

Hey, Who ever made up the term Oral Sex Makes us all confused. Is Phone Sex it's equal. There is no intercourse either and yet you can achieve an orgasm. I recall getting with an old EX that didn't let me enter her but I could do anything else to her. That was a sexual experience. Same with Jacking off to porn or grinding so close to jamaicain music that you cum in your pants on a cruise this past summer.. ok that was too much information. But face it... Sex comes in different types. Pleasure is your goal. You both were pleasured.
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[sistuhchey]

1+1 = 2.......kissing the clit, sucking the dick or giving a brotha a hand job all = SEX in my book......;)

[Bedroomeyes]

I agree Sistuhchey!

But I don't believe phone sex or cyber sex equal sex.. You're not touching each other so how is it sex... If anything it's just masturbation.. And how do you know if the person on the other end is even doing anything.. They can be watching tv or reading a book and just throw in an "ohh...ahh..." every once in a while... Believe me... it has been done... ;) :evil:

[seductive_tee]

Lovely.....girl yes you had sex....:D he didn't though..... anyway, you both left smiling and happy.... Go for what ya know! :beer

Ya seen him since?

[SoftNwet]

Originally posted by seductive_tee+

Ya seen him since?

Good question Tee!!! Yeah, what has happend since the last episode?!!?!? Inquiring minds:confused:

[misha]

Sorry family, it's foreplay to me!!!!!

[lovely]

Christmas Eve. No sex...just exchanged gifts. We said we would make plans to see each other after New Years. It will be very nice. The foreplay is very very nice. Cant wait:D

[KissableSexyShortStuff]

and had so much fun doing it.......