living with the fam?

[Vronni]

Hush fam, after the age of 18,have you ever moved in with relatives or had relatives move in with you? How was the experience? Good,bad or just plain ugly?

[seductive_tee]

I had my baby sister move in for a minute...she was cool, no problems really.

I also had my oldest brother on my fathers side move in....negro used me and everything in my house...I had to personal ship him and his shyt back to NC....ran up everything and ate everything....

[lovely]

I stayed with my cousin for a little over a year...it was fun we partied like crazy...thats were I met my baby daddy and got pregnant, got drunk for the first time, smoked weed for the first time...had a lot of firsts there.

About three years ago i moved to MD to be with my sister and to get myself together. Best thing i ever did. Now i am school, church, having wonderful relationships with all types of people, jobs where i have aquired much experience. I dont consider myself staying with my sister. More like roomates..but it did take a minute for me to feel like i wasnt living in my sister place..but that it was our place.

[SeaDuceme2]

It was just plain UGLY (bubba sparks ugly)...was the worse experience, made my entire pregnancy a horrible time...

[shtalker]

My god yes, My sister. It lasted bout 3 month.
We just don't get along anyway.
How you gonna come up in my camp and try to Regulate. Sorry not gonna happen.

[sistuhchey]

Moved to LA......daughter and I packed up the 67 volkswagon...with our glad rags....put-putted thru the grapevine....Landed on my sister's doorsteps...3rd Ave and 65th..it was good for about a year or so.....Then I got caught up in the party and Hollywood hype of Los Angeles.....had to have my on spot eventually....cause I had to do it Chey's way......valuable lessons learned.....

Have had a neice or nephew stay with me....but...I made it clear...this shit is temporary...get it together......work, go to school...do something....only my daughter can pimp me... :blah: ...I find when you spell it out from the gate they then can accept it or reject it...ain't no sense in be being unhappy...

[HulaSista]

I was just talking to a guy in car pool about this. We discussed how back in the day, when you moved away (out of state especially), you moved in with relatives until you got a job and got on your feet and this was normal practice. He and my co worker agree that now a days you can't do that because you just don't know how folks are and how they were raised and what kind of issues they bring with them. I would love to do this though. Plenty of young cousins fresh out of college wanting to come to cali and live for a few months just to see if they like it. Make agreement that they chip in on some bills if they stay longer than a month and they get a good experience out of it and tarry on to the next life experience. My mom on the other hand don't like the idea at all! lol

[dejavu]

Yeah, I moved back with my mom back when I was 23. My mom has always been my backbone to keep me moving (RIP). Shit I wish she was here now I would be living with her...makes life alot easier when you have a good support system.

[lovely]

ive always lived with someone. cousin, sister, mom.

finally..in a month..jasmine and i will have a place of our own. :D