If there was no such thing as Divorce.......Would you still get Married?

[FAMU]

Once you did it....you did it.....That was it.

How many of you would still take those vows of 'Until Death Do you Part' For Better or Worse, In Sickness and in Health...

[Toffee]

I would still get married. I am not getting married with the thought of divorce as an option. But I think our dating and/or engagement would be longer.

[nubianx2]

I would do it again, but I would definitely put more time and energy into completely evaluating who I'm marrying.

[seductive_tee]

I would still get married....

[Juicey1]

I would still get married. I didn't get married with divorce in mind. I plan to stay married to "him" forever:D

[HulaSista]

i would still want to get married.........

[Tastey]

I will still marry.

[Bedroomeyes]

yep... I'm not marrying to get a divorce.. I'm marrying "til death do us apart" in mind..

[CLSmooove]

Absolutely!!!!!!! A person should never go into a marriage thinking if it doesnt work then I will just get a divorce.... to me thats a big ass sign that yo ass should NOT be getting married

[sistuhchey]

Guess, I'd be breaking the LAWS,,,, cause if there's no such thing as a divorce and after a year or two..it went sour...I'll be gone!!!
Divorce or not.....

[SeaDuceme2]

Originally posted by sistuhchey+
Guess, I'd be breaking the LAWS,,,, cause if there's no such thing as a divorce and after a year or two..it went sour...I'll be gone!!!
Divorce or not.....

^5 Sista..

[texasheat]

bump.............

[sistuhchey]

...and to think...I've had a marriage proposal since then.....and been to three weddings......uuummm...all i can say...it ain't all "Bliss"....when choosing a mate be be very very careful... :rolleyes:

[HulaSista]

i don't know... lol... what an interesting question that i'm afraid to ponder!

[HisWife711]

:hearts: Married without divorce as an option.

[yendys]

I would do the "courtship" thing for as long as I could. Marriage can be a beautiful thing, but when things go bad, the whole thing can get really ugly.

I'm with the other ladies, if things got out of hand, I would be gone.

[jaybaby]

Yea I would've married him anyway.

[LoveStory]

Yes, I would marry him if divorce didnt exist because, truthfully, in my world, there is no option for divorce. Its TILL DEATH DO US PART..somebody gotta die in order to get out of this..LOL

[yendys]

lol....i recall telling somebody the only way i could get out of my marriage was to kill him and plead temporary insanity due to my taking "death do we part" literal. "i thought I had to kill him to get out b/c of our vows. I didn't know I could just leave!"

my best friend and myself even came up with a plan on 9/11. i won't even elaborate, but we had gone through some mess with our then spouses and were at wit's end. thank god for peace and growth.

[Sparkles]

lol....i recall telling somebody the only way i could get out of my marriage was to kill him and plead temporary insanity due to my taking "death do we part" literal. "i thought I had to kill him to get out b/c of our vows. I didn't know I could just leave!"

my best friend and myself even came up with a plan on 9/11. i won't even elaborate, but we had gone through some mess with our then spouses and were at wit's end. thank god for peace and growth.

yes God is a mighty God making a way out of know way...

I too would still get married, like most i didn't go into married anticipating a divorce. What else bothers me is folks who have dated a long time and decided to get married. Usually the courtship last longer than the marrage b/c the relationship wasn't working when you were dating for 5 yrs, what makes you think the married is going to work out?!!?!? Time doesn't mean anything but TIME--maybe some GOOD,BAD.LONG, but it's still just time.

[Brightness]

I would still do it because in my mind I wouldn't go into a marriage thinking of an "out". By the same token, I also tend to take my relationships very serious which may be why a lot of men don't want to mess with me.

[Pamalicious]

Do we still feel the same way?

[bsmuvdotcom]

Today must be a slow day. Ya'll diggin up threads from ovah a year ago now.......

[ERinger]

I didn't answer this one: Yes I would still get married because going into marriage thinking about an out, like divorce, the marriage would be doomed anyway.

[missbuttabutt]

Yea. :hearts: :rolleyes:

[Andre98]

I didn't answer back then so I will say yes, but I'm sure that won't surprise anybody. The title was cut off and I thought maybe it might be "if there was no such thing as STDs..." something like "how much would you then be fucking?" I'd be like Gump eatin' them chocolates

Yep, its a slow news day, Israel dropping bombs wholesale on Lebanon.... gonna be a mushroom cloud over that mug any day now.

[HulaSista]

my answer is still ... i don't know... i don't feel like pondering it! lol... i have too much stress to do that deep of thinking.

assuming that my general 'make up' is the same, i would still have the DESIRE to marry...

but now to switch and ask if as of right now based on my current 'situational' needs (financial and my son) - would i do it? - i don't know. wouldn't want to walk into a marriage 'messed up' just to be in a marriage, essentially, messing up the other persons' life. so i would be most cautious as not marry until i was ready.

duh. that goes without saying hula... :rolleyes: at myself

[topGunna]

nope... You would never change on me thinking that I will be stuck wit yo ass for the rest of my life. Wont happen.

[Melotic]

yes... I would...