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sinnah
12-07-2001, 07:32 PM
I dont want my s/o to know I've said this until I find the right way to tell him....I'm not sexually attracted to him. He's a really big guy and I love him to death...but...I just can't do it...anything sexually with him. What do I do? I dont want to leave him, other than that our life is good. Do I talk to him about it? How do I do it without hurting his feelings????
SeaDuceme2
12-08-2001, 07:49 AM
Are you not attracted to him because of his weight? Did his appearance change recently or was he this way when yall got together?
que90nek
12-08-2001, 10:06 AM
cook less
cook more healthily
encourage working out
by a treadmill
have i remember when conversations ("i remember when u could wash clothes off your stomache")
seductive_tee
12-08-2001, 10:09 AM
Que, what if she never could wash clothes off his stomach?
que90nek
12-08-2001, 01:16 PM
the i remember when conversation can go however she likes....she did at one time like something about him...and for some reason it has gone sour.
OhSoPrecious
12-08-2001, 05:14 PM
No matter what. . . you need to talk to him about it~!! :rolleyes: Sooner would be better. . . than later~!!

Good Luck~!!
FAMU
12-10-2001, 05:29 AM
Hmmmmm, this is a common problem in many marriages, but I think Que had the best suggestion. If you are the one that is cooking the meals then should should cook a more healthier meal for dinner. Encourage long walks after dinner, don't buy or cook any sweets, and most important tell him how u feel. Let him know that his weight has become a problem and that you would like it corrected. It is all about communication.