The Arguement..

[Bedroomeyes]

You and your SO are having an arguement over the phone.. Your SO gets pissed and hangs up on you... Which one of you calls back first?

[shtalker]

I am usually the one that hangs up. He will call back but I won't call him until the next day.

[que90nek]

if u r not pissed...u call as u normally would....after all, you are not the one who is mad...

[Bedroomeyes]

He hung up... He will have to call me first, cause I'm not calling!! That has been a rule that I have always stuck by..

I bring this up because my co-worker (who I sit by and here everything she says) just had an arguement with her boyfriend.. (more of him accusing her of still talking to her ex.. :rolleyes: ) He just hung up on her and she has called him 5 times leaving messages on his phone for him to pick up..

I'm about ready to go over there and tell her to stop playing herself.. She sounds ridiculous... :beating


She just called another 2 times... :rolleyes:

[que90nek]

hmmm

now he out with his ex!

she probably guilty!

[lovely]

Cause i dont like controversy. I won't call back immediatly, but in past relationships i am the one to call first. I dont apologize first, unless i am at fault...i just open the door for him to apologize if he needs to.

[seductive_tee]

I ain't calling a damn sole back......

My daughters father would hang up all the time, then call every number he had for me to get me to answer. Would blow up my mailboxes with messages until the next day.

Then his slick ass would show up at day care the next day asking me why i ain't answer the damn phone....LAWD!!!!!!

[HulaSista]

i don't mind calling him back to let him know that when his ass is in need and being ambulanced to the hosipital and he calls me to think about apologizing before asking me for another damn thing.

then...i sit back and wait for "the" call...

cause they always call back...

[Juicey1]

I hung up on my husband (boyfriend then) once. When he got home he told me I betta never hang up on him again. Since then, that has been a rule with us. We don't hang up on each other. We may pull the phone away from the ear or something or make an excuse to get off the phone, but we don't hang up on each other.

[SoftNwet]

that, to me, is an ultimate form a disrespect. But like I said I try not to. If I do I will call back because I do not want it done to me.

[Vronni]

In the past,I have been hung up on but I didn't do it. I still don't. But if someone were to do that to me,I would not continue to be involved with them. That is very disrespectful

[MsTopshelf]

;) if I wanna be a pest. If I do then I will blow up the phone for entertainment purposes. But if I don't feel like being bothered and don't give a damn then I'll just wait until he comes around. When he finally does call I will just let his name run across the caller id until I sense that he is getting a lil nervous at the thought of me putting him on permanent ignore.

[que90nek]

great....
just great....

u give your man an excuse to cheat on you...and in his mind justify it by saying "well we were broken up."

so if he hangs up...u are mad....

if u hang up....u are mad....

your solution is to cut off communication.....great...these "mature" high school type games that we accept as the norm....

it is a really bad idea to hang up on anybody....but perhaps they hung up so they could calm down and not say anything stupid....i am sure they didnt hang up so that u could put them in the freezer for a week or so.....

[HulaSista]

ummmmmmmmmmm..................

hung up just to calm down? fuck that...

what happen to saying: "boo.......i'm tired of argueing.....we will discuss this later...goodbye"?????????????????

:confused:

[Bedroomeyes]

I will not hang up... It is very disrespectful so I try to at least give you that respect.. Thinking back I think there has been about two times that I actually hung up in his face.. By that time I couldn't care less if he cheated because as far as I was concerned it was over... Once he called right back.. fussing some more.. The second time he didn't call back till the next day... Then I will ask him if he was feeling better.. :p

Now I have been hung up on on several occasions.. It will tick me off but usually I will just laugh it off and call him a stupid muthafucka and go on about my business... When they call back.. And they always call back... I act like nothing even happened.. :upto:

[Tastey]

I used to have a very hot tempter...so I've hung up on plenty of men. :upto:

I was so mean I would say something smart like "Listen! Just Listen I want you to hear something? Are you listening?" Then I'd slam the phone down HARD! LOL :D

What I never understood is why they call me right back with "Why you hang up?" :confused:

"Let's see Nigga, maybe because I don't want to talk to yo ass no more." Duh!!!

BE your co-worker was trippin. Why hang up on the fool if you just gone call him right back??? :beating

If I hang up...that means I am through talking...the worst thing you can do is call me right back...leave me alone...for awhile anyway. ;)

[OhSoPrecious]

I use to be the first one to call back. . whether I hung up or not~!! :rolleyes:

Now, I don't have anyone to argue with~!! :( (I'm really feeling like this. . . :D )

[Reesecup1]

Now I may be a young buck ( I don't consider 22years a young buck at all) to yall folks, but I was always the one to hang up on a man, if I got angry, only to keep me from hurting his feelings, and because I was the one to hang up, I would be the one to call back. If you don't mind taking advice from a " Young Buck" I would let baby girl find out on her own, that he should be calling her back.

[dulce]

I'm on the team with the Fam that thinks hanging on folks is rude. I will always forwarn someone when I am through with the convo - "I'm done & I'm getting off the phone. Bye." (Usually have to say "Bye" at least twice when they're screaming.)

Now, if someone hangs up on me, I generally don't call them back. Actions like that let me know that they're childish and don't need to be playing with grown folks. Helps weed out the knuckleheads. UNLESS it is a one time incident and we agree not to handle disagreements that way.

[CLSmooove]

Never Hung up on my Husband and he's neer hung up on me.....

But

My Ex-husband thats a whole nother story.... I will hang up on him in a hot second....

[D2daO2da]

The old me would hang up on your ass in a minute. Since I been reading the art of war I am non confrontational. I don't like to argue. Also being a scorpio you better watch out. My sting is lethal. Also I really try to be nice and rather than argue I rather debate. Each person gets to say what they want and I do it when we are calm. Not angry.