Change for you?

[lovely]

Your in a relationship..things are going good. Then your SO says that before ya'll can go on in the relationship there are some things that you need to change. For example...the way you dress, your spirituality, your job, lose weight, etc.... What do you do. What are you thinking?

Do you think that he/she is trying to change who you are?

[Bedroomeyes]

I would tell him to kiss my ass! :blah:

This is me... If you don't like it.. Then step! :fu

[mack_black]

things were never that good in the relationship if one of the parties asks the other to change....


unless one of the parties has destructive behaviors....

[djackso]

if the change is for a better you then consider it but if it's for their personal gain then take a look at the relationship. Everyone has something that should be changed.

[Sparkles]

change is good. The person could be letting you know why the relationship didn't work the first!!! Know one ever won't to hear the truth about personal fault that they possible have, but it good to know!!!!

[seductive_tee]

They are trying to change things about you. Be careful with that, so look at it as making you and then turn around and throw it in your face.

[OhSoPrecious]

Originally posted by lovely+
Do you think that he/she is trying to change who you are?

Yes, and no one has the right to do that~!! :hammer

I would just wonder why he felt the need for me to make all these changes~!! :rolleyes: The problem might just be with him. . and not me, after all~!! :eek:

[SeaDuceme2]

they trying to change you...I'm thinking you can kiss my ass! it aint happenin captain!

[nubianx2]

If I need to change to be with someone then he's NOT the one. Everyone has flaws, if I can accept his then he damn sure should be able to accept mine.

[mystkev]

They are trying to change who you are.

I don't change for anyone, but myself.

[HulaSista]

he would have to asks me first what it would take to go from DATING to committed relationship.

the only thing i would ask him to change is for him to seek salvation....

yet....

i wouldn't be dating him if he wasn't a christian to begin with.

how ever they come AFTER their salvation is what then i would have to pick and choose if i want to tolerate.

i would then only ask God to change them... because... that is the only way... they can change... if they want to AND if they are willing to let God do the changing for them...