SO or HLF

[Bedroomeyes]

This one is for the men... Well, I guess the women can answer too.. :p

When you meet a person that you are interested in.. How do you decide if they will be a SO or a HLF? Are there things that you look for to help you decide which catagory to put them in?

Or.. will they be your HLF first and then work themselves up to SO status? :upto:

[HulaSista]

all within the first 10 minutes

1. height
2. looks
3. can they hold a conversation and ask for the digits properly

if they get the digits

1. do they call

if they succeed and follow through on the date

1. what are they lookin for

compare the anwser to the last questions to my wants/needs and that determines if they even go be my friend.....let alone......a HLF or S/O

:D

[nubianx2]

When I meet a person, I look at them potentially as a S/O. To look at them any other way is a waste of my time. But it's up to the individual to gain S/O status.

[mack_black]

Originally posted by Bedroomeyes+
......Or.. will they be your HLF first and then work themselves up to SO status? :upto:

BINGO.....I think thats the generic answer for most men :D

[shtalker]

^^^Bump^^^

[Brother-Bile]

Usually, if I do the HLF, I am probably not planning on moving up with them to a SO. After all, my requirements for having sex is considerably lower than my requirements for being a SO. But that, of course, can change. But in most cases...If I like ya enough to be a SO, then that is what I am going to try to move forward to....and if that person does not want to move to SO, then I probably will 'settle' for a HLF, but I will still be on the lookout for a SO and will jump from the HLF to the SO with the quickness.