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You go to a social gathering and it’s not work related nor family related so basically its a good place to meet or make some potential friends/lovers/mates. You survey the landscape and decide that based on your personal likes and dislikes there are only two or three folks you would like to get with since you find them to be attractive.
You meet the three people and they are ok, and you give your number to the three of them. In the same night three people approach you and they give you their numbers.
Question: what do you do?
seductive_tee
11-29-2001, 07:56 AM
Give them a call, discuss the previous night maybe...see which one catches your eye maybe.
mack_black
11-29-2001, 11:54 AM
In this case......
even though I found 3 to be attractive ( meaning that they are fuckable, 'cuz I really dont know them) I would still see whats up with the other 3..they could be extremely beautiful people all around......
que90nek
11-29-2001, 12:00 PM
thats SIX people!
gosh....i never was good at meeting people. i would probably get to know the three that gave me their number....
and wait for the other three to call....
i have found that women choose you...rather than the other way around.
also...if these women know each other...u r royally screwed...u have spread yourself really really thin and women do NOT like that....they'll compare notes later and be like...."Ewwwwwww he gave u his number TOO!"
what I would have done....is given my number to ONE...if any.
SoftNwet
11-29-2001, 12:28 PM
Originally posted by mack_black+
In this case......
even though I found 3 to be attractive ( meaning that they are fuckable, 'cuz I really dont know them) I would still see whats up with the other 3..they could be extremely beautiful people all around......
You can never know too many people!!
Originally posted by que90nek+
[B]thats SIX people!
gosh....i never was good at MEATING people. i would probably get to know the three that gave me their number....
What's that mean...is that a new term for twisting them out...LOL!
I've always thought that you are not really skillfull when you just take what's given to you. I've always felt more powerfull when I go and get what I want...
Brightness
11-29-2001, 02:14 PM
The only thing wrong with this scenario is that I don't give my number out to that many men in one social gathering. Two would be an absolute stretch and it's for the very reason Que said, they may be boys. . .I do, however, accept as many as my purse can fit or cellphone can program and take things from there. That's how I've met most of my good {no-sex} male friends.
que90nek
11-29-2001, 02:21 PM
its all in perspective...
what you perceive as power....
to be sought after or to seek.
the way i do it....or shall i say...DID IT....at least one of the one's that i found attractive would have exchanged numbers with me.....it just would have happened that way.
lasttry
11-29-2001, 06:59 PM
Originally posted by que90nek+
also...if these women know each other...u r royally screwed...u have spread yourself really really thin and women do NOT like that....they'll compare notes later and be like...."Ewwwwwww he gave u his number TOO!"
what I would have done....is given my number to ONE...if any.
that's too true... you never want to meet women, like that...you'll be played quick...that's also like meeting someone from a small town, then meeting someone else from the same town...they will either know each other or they are related or something else like that...
Originally posted by que90nek+
its all in perspective...
what you perceive as power....
to be sought after or to seek.
the way i do it....or shall i say...DID IT....at least one of the one's that i found attractive would have exchanged numbers with me.....it just would have happened that way.
Tell me how to you get something that is not really looking your way for some reason or another, but you want it more than whats being offered.
When I go to the resturant and look at the menu, and they tell me they don't have any left of what I want, I don't settle and take what is the special of the day.
que90nek
11-30-2001, 05:59 AM
i didnt totally understand your first statement.
alls i am sayin is that one of the attractive ones would have given me her number.
mack_black
11-30-2001, 07:49 AM
hmmm....
how do you know that would be the outcome for sure?
or
is it that you just got flow like that? :confused:
que90nek
11-30-2001, 08:05 AM
well...to be honest...i used to have flow like that....
i was humble and unassuming....and that in itself...would attract a few.
i understand what you are saying....
i used to admire those guys that were aggressive and spit game....
but at the same time...my method of nonspitted game....seemed to work.
and i am sure...that i assed myself out plenty of times. but...it didnt really matter to me....then....certainly...not now.
HulaSista
11-30-2001, 05:31 PM
in each conversation...with the men who gave me their numbers...i would say "GOSH! i have a lot of folks to call now!" and you know the conversation would roll into the "call me first" or "make me the only one" competition! i would do that for pure fun!
but...if the ones that i was attracted too...hmm...well...it would be based on my approach. if i am just sitting there...and...one by one...they just happen to sit next to me...i would have to have enough time to conversate with them and find out a reason to give them my number in the first place.
i've always noticed that...the ones i choose...SOMEHOW have something wrong with them. vice versa for the ones that approach me.
is 6 people in one night an actual and true success rate anyways?
i rather be choosen...than go out and make any GRAND effort to seek.
The ones you give your number to, don't call, and the ones that give you their number you end up throwing out...
Now adays, I ask for the number and if I get that bullshit line..."I don't give my number out, so you'll have to give me yours" I always respond with..."I don't have a phone......Later"
14KBlaqWmn
12-03-2001, 06:51 PM
Originally posted by CD+
Now adays, I ask for the number and if I get that bullshit line..."I don't give my number out, so you'll have to give me yours" I always respond with..."I don't have a phone......Later"
When I've made that comment before, it was because I knew I was never gonna call that brotha and I dayum sure didn't want him having my number to bug me.
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