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nubianx2
11-28-2001, 05:06 AM
Who's responsibility it is to supply the condoms? The male or female?

lovely
11-28-2001, 05:12 AM
Since i have been out of a long term relationship..i always keep condoms with me. And i lose respect for a brother that thinks he is going to be having relations with me and dont have any condoms. :blast Get up Boy! And get ta stepin

SoftNwet
11-28-2001, 06:21 AM
But I think it was Tastey that said that he should be the one to have them at first since it is usually the man that initiates sex then he shouldbe hitting CVS of Eckerds before he gets to the house.

I think that a man that does not even have one on him is irresponisble in this day and age. I keep my own on me but I would like to see more men take the condom initiatve.

Bedroomeyes
11-28-2001, 07:09 AM
I would say it's more his than mine, but I will always have a "just in case" supply...

As long as he doesn't think my last name is Rite Aid!! :blah:

Admin
11-28-2001, 08:01 AM
Condoms=The Man
KY Jelly=The Woman

Holla:upretty

SoftNwet
11-28-2001, 08:10 AM
Originally posted by admin
Condoms=The Man
KY Jelly=The Woman

Holla:upretty


Since I do not need KY I will continue to have my stash of condoms.;)

seductive_tee
11-28-2001, 09:38 AM
My son asked me this same question.

I told him it's on him, never use another persons condom till you out my house!

Tastey
11-28-2001, 10:15 AM
I did say that Soft. If he's planning on having sex he can plan to stop at the store. Ya heard.

When I was in a committed relationship that involved sex we shared that responsibility.

Funny related story:
A few years ago my current insignificant other (who was my SO at the time but we broke up now we are back together kinda sorta) Anyway he and I had gone out to dinner and a movie and on the way home I reminded him we had used the last condom before going out so we needed to stop by the store. He said cool and we pulled into the parking lot of the drugstore. In the next car was his church pastor and his wife. He waved and they got out and went into the store. This Nigga reached into his wallet hands me his Visa and says..."Go get the condoms...but don't let them see you." RTFLOL I was like "Nigga please...you coming in here with me, or you ain't getting none tonight." We sat in the car and argued about it until his pastor and wife came out. When they got in their car and drove off he says "Okay, give me the card I'll go in." RTFLMMFAO!!! :D

Then I was like "Oh so you can't let your pastor see you buying condoms??? Forget it I'll go in." LOL

How about I bought about $50.00 dollars worth of sh*t and put it on his card just for him being so silly.

LOL :D

SoftNwet
11-28-2001, 10:21 AM
Originally posted by Tastey+
I did say that Soft. If he's planning on having sex he can plan to How about I bought about $50.00 dollars worth of sh*t and put it on his card just for him being so silly.

LOL :D

But I bet you did not forget the condoms in the midst of all the other shit that you bought!!! LMAO

Tastey
11-28-2001, 10:31 AM
Forget the condoms??? Not a chance. After my shopping spree I knew I had to break him off nicely that night. LOL ;) :p

djackso
11-28-2001, 11:31 AM
The person with the most to lose if something bad happens.

Brightness
11-28-2001, 06:37 PM
I believe it's both parties responsibility.

OhSoPrecious
11-28-2001, 06:51 PM
Mine~!! :cool: I never leave that up to him. . never leave home without 'em (when I know I'm gonna get some :upto: )~!! If he has a supply with him. . then that's cool to~!! :upretty

SeaDuceme2
12-01-2001, 02:15 PM
no one is responsible for your actions but YOU!!

Qjai
12-02-2001, 02:55 PM
Originally posted by SeaDuceme2+
no one is responsible for your actions but YOU!!

Amen...and Amen...Sea said it best!!!

OhSoPrecious
12-03-2001, 06:51 AM
That's exactly why I said. . . mine~!! :upretty

KissableSexyShortStuff
09-13-2003, 07:38 PM
Originally posted by SeaDuceme2
no one is responsible for your actions but YOU!!
so true....


why is it that some guys take this as you sleeping around a lot?????

scoops
09-24-2003, 01:53 PM
Mine......
I'm like a boyscout, always prepared.

Milan
10-23-2003, 05:30 AM
Like Sea said I am responsible for my actions and my body no one else, I want for him to be responsible for his too so I want him to have them but my life is in my hands.

dns70
10-23-2003, 09:56 AM
People ask this a lot...to me it's pretty simple...

You BOTH are responsible. Each person in a sexual relationship should have protection. I don't think it's the responsibility of one person over the other.

garcia vega
10-25-2003, 06:19 AM
Originally posted by KissableSexyLips

so true....


why is it that some guys take this as you sleeping around a lot?????

thats a good point..

some guys who see a girl having a supply of condoms may make them wonder...