Bad Relationships!!!!

[Sparkles]

In previous bad relationship, what went wrong!?!?! I mean was it something that you did or your S/o did to mess the relationship up.

i have never had a bad relationship (knock on wood), I have dated bad men that i knew if I kept dating would turn into a bad relationship, so opted to pull out before it got to serious.

We all know, someone who is in a bad relationship or have been in one! My other question why is it that some folks can tell you how bad someone else relationship is when they are in a bad one themselves?!?!?!

[Admin]

You would go to work and come home and see all my shyt gone! LOL Admin don't even play!. No need to call the Sheriff.:D I'll remove myself. Funny thing was that I had all the electronics:D

All the: TV's PC's, Radios, VCRS, Speakers, Stereo's...so when I would bounce, honey's still had cable but could not watch the muvfucka. Be at Circuit City the next day applying for instant credit.:D

Now, some niggas just live in denial, that;s why they cannot see that they are in a bad relationship.

Holla

[seductive_tee]

the baddest relationship i had was the last one.

Why, cause he drank to much and couldn't do me right...which just pissed me off. I tell him whats wrong, what to do where to kiss and he still had it wrong. I'm like FUCK this, i'm calling ___.

[HulaSista]

i have always left because i realized i didn't have the tolerance or the patience for their bullshit.

[dulce]

Hula sis & Admin~I'm wit ya'll. Gotta go gotta go...I may be a knuckle head magnet but I'm stupid enough to stick around. Admin's seen you get rid of a few nukkas!

All the: TV's PC's, Radios, VCRS, Speakers, Stereo's...so when I would bounce, honey's still had cable but could not watch the muvfucka. Be at Circuit City the next day applying for instant credit.

I feel ya, admin on this ~ airythang including the apt was always mine. well, in the 2 instances where we lived together...otherwise they was just cut the f@%& off!

[dulce]

but I'm stupid enough to stick around. Admin's seen you get rid of a few nukkas!

sometimes I can't type for shyt!

it shoulda read but I'm NOT stupid enough to stick around. Admin's seen ME get rid of a few nukkas!

had to correct my stuff - just that anal writer thang jumping off!

[OhSoPrecious]

Can't really say that I have ever been in a bad relationship. However, in all my past relationships. . . it was something that he had done to cause me to leave his ass~!! :blah:

And, I agree with Admin. . most peeps are in denial about their relationships.. but, are too quick to point out someone else's~!! :rolleyes:

[sistuhchey]

good ones, bad ones...and the shit still didn't last....WTF...Life....goes on!!!:fu ....

Admin, possesion is 9/10th of the law!!!...leave !!!but leave the electronics...:D :D :D

[misha]

I have been in some horrible relationships...but I felt they were my fault for the bad choices I made at the time.

I have had two that were the worst. These men did everything possible to fuck up. And I found myself amazed that when I did get fed up and put their ass out, they never left willingly. In both cases, I had to call the police and they had to literally be dragged from my home. Then I could always depend on tearful phone calls, and tearful pleadings at my door....why?

If they didn't give a damn about being with me, why trip now?

Anyway, I am glad to say that I am making better choices now.

[shtalker]

Shyt let me think, its been a while but of course it was something he did.

[misha]

ah hell, back at it again, I don't know shit any better than I ever did! My choices are no better than they ever were, and now I gotta spend the next six months trying to figure out how to quit doing this dumb shit.... :blah:

I irritate the hell outta me sometimes.

[Pamalicious]

Hmm I was gonna answer this but you know what - rehashing and rehashing my bad relationships won't help, lol lol I'm gonna let it ride in a nutshell "They wern't the one"

[seducshun]

Originally posted by HulaSista
i have always left because i realized i didn't have the tolerance or the patience for their bullshit.


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dats me

[Juicey1]

WHAT WENT WRONG!!!!!!

That muthafucka was crazy as hell. He didn't appreciate what he had; didn't want to work; wanted to run my life and my house and my money.

The only good thing that came out of that relationship was my daughter.

[HulaSista]

Originally posted by seducshun

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dats me

girl! you know, they all crazy in their own way... but these fools ... their particular brand of crazy i felt i didn't have to buy.

they have new women that like it ... love it actually, and that's fine by me. lol

i know i have to have patience and tolerance, butterah... arrogance, trying to change me, guilt tripping me if i don't change, and pitching me against the next woman's ability to deal with bullshit (to name a few) is NOT... absolutely NOT... what i FELT like dealing with in that phase of my life (or ever).

coupled with being a new mother (at that time)? HELL NO... i was crazy and derange all by myself trying to learn this parenthood business lmao