Loose a Job, Get a Job, Keep a Job...WTF!!!

[sistuhchey]

...It must be....."PMS" for the past 2 years........I am sick of people at work.....I just want to tell them to "STFU!!!.......really, for the past 3 years...i've lost my niche/drive/energy...in the work force.......Unlike you (youngin's)....Chey..is giving less, and less than a damn...about work........

The reason...I relate this to PMS...cause when one sister started the "CHANGE"..of life @ 49...she just up and quit her "Good-Paying Job" (inside family jokey-joke)...sold her home...packed up her "GLAD RAGS"...and moved down to Fricckin Fresno...after living in Los Angeles for 30 years.......

My other sister....@49... became a widow and married hastily after bout a year.... With former brotha-in-law...still kinda fresh on folks minds....New brotha-in-law he aiight... he just ain't former brotha-in-law.....

NO!!!..I'm not 49...i have a few years......but damn...I'm feeling kinda "Different".....like I won't be responsible for my actions and maybe just maybe there's some truth to this "Going Thru The Change"( I've always believed in mind over matter and you being in control, you decide) .......No...I ain't thinking bout doing drive-byes, or start drinking 40oz's...at a late age.....

I've turned down a marriage proposal, changed 2 jobs in 3 years,(thinking about changing this one).. became a grandparent...when i just started feeling comfy...about being a damn mother!!....a feeling of uncertainity/undecisivness..and some evil/mean thoughts...has engulfed my spirit......and i don't like how it feels...

oh well my daughter...said...you need some HRT..as we're getting escorted out of Norsdtroms...because the lil heffa (my daughter) pissed me off..and i went smooth off on her azz...right there and then in the shoe salon @ nordstroms....


...Don't mind me just thinking and and typing out loud....Pray Chey....

[Admin]

Chey....you need a Hushnic!!!!
Naw, but seriously....you need and escape to get ya mind some rest from the hustle and bustle. I think I know what you are going thru....since you and I have talked over the years about your jobs, child, relationships...even the folks in Fresno. Remember?

Look, you are changing. No doubt. It's good to scream once and a while to let shyt out. So Scream!!! Nigga Scream!!!

FACT You need money, so you'll have to work. 49? Hmmmmm, well, you aint there yet , so chill out.

I am happy to hear that you were proposed to, but unhappy to hear that you said NO!...that could have been te move to change your lifestyle...right there. I used my marriage to help me out of a rut and it worked wonders for me. I feel better about me and I know that I am not alone and have someone to come home to, love and hang with also to support one another.

I was speaking to Dulce about the currentr dtaing scene and after listening to her rants about the bruthas these days. I was glad that I am married.

Anyway, you are going to have to do some drastic step to change your lifestyle and to get out of the rut. That will put some pep in your steop and spark back into chey.

I do not know what the change will have to be, but you'll make it. I'm sure..
Holla

[sistuhchey]

;) ...Nothing like a Hush Hug w/ words to follow......No judging, no sarcasm...just real talk.....love ya!!

On the proposal...that N---- loved his dog...in the house..no matter how much pussy I gave him....I would would hug & love...and he would turn around...and give his (bitch) "Molly"...equal attention....WTF...she was always at his feet!!!

Not to mention... relocating to Southern California not my style..

Remind me to tell ya what we did for Valentines day...which included the dog.... :cool:

Sept. 25 regional..I'll see ya then.... :)

[HulaSista]

I am happy to hear that you were proposed to, but unhappy to hear that you said NO!...that could have been te move to change your lifestyle...right there. I used my marriage to help me out of a rut and it worked wonders for me. I feel better about me and I know that I am not alone and have someone to come home to, love and hang with also to support one another.


this is the second time i've seen you voice relationship involvement from a positive standpoint. (you've probalby done it more but i don't remember). i dont know why this is 'shocking' to me... but... it does feel good to see you as this kind of encourager. helps me to see things a little differently...

[sistuhchey]

.....That's one of the reason's he's able to give love back...so freely, he's surreal...and got love and support from the Mrs....

He felt my pain in my words....

**personal on...marriage CAN be a wonderful thing...when you connect...with that right person....

[Admin]

**taking a bow**~Thanks Hula and chey..
Holla