Hidden!!!

[Sparkles]

Scenerio: A friend of a friend mother had a daughter by a man who was apparently married! Well because of the situation at hand, they both opt to keep it a secret. So the daughter (who's by te way grown now) grew up not knowing who her father really was. The father knew he had a daughter but never told his wife, therefore acted like the daughter didn't exist. When the daughter finally found out who her father was, she made several attempts to meet him even went as far as going to the house, and when is wife answered the door , the girl asked for her daddy and the wife said baby your daddy doesn't live here! He was in the back ground looking dead in her face and would say a word!!! Because he didn't acknowledge her, she left.

My first thoughts would be what kind of mother would allow a man to hide her child regarless of the situation. She has siblings that she wasn't able to be apart of there lives. I mean sure the father is at fault also, but he was covering his own azz, he could have easily stepped up to the plate and came clean with the wife but instead he took the cowardly way out! But the mom, WOW what happen to alwasy being able to depend on Momma!!!

Your thoughts,

[Juicey1]

Momma should have told that girl who her dad was and explained to her why he wasn't or wasn't willing to be in her life. I would never let one of my children go through life not knowing there fathers name at least. I would want them to know his name and background just incase the child ran across one of his son's and they started dating.

Momma let baby girl down big time:(

[Sparkles]

That's my thoughts too. Hell I would have been the one knociking on the door saying girl there is your daddy,pointing at him and it would be on him to handle his business. I would have given ole boy a chance to come clean, but if he didn't good lord it would be on and popping. It not about messing up his marriage, it would be doing what's right by my child.

[SoftNwet]

My sons father did not find out who is real father was until he almost took his sister to the Prom!!!!! Basically it was the same situation as above except they lived on the same street and they grew up playing together, neither parent saying a word.....until they start dating. That's why to poor man is messed up in the head to this day!!!

The worse part is that I am from a small town and I remember being in middle school and hearing about it!!:eek:

[lovely]

1) Not knowing who your father is

2) Knowing who your father is. Seeing him with his other family...his wife, kids that he loves (that he is taking care of, but he is not taking care of you), having holidays, birthdays pass...and knowing he aint doing jack for you.

I grew up with my father. He was in and out of our home. He left when I was 16. He hasnt done jack for me or my two sisters since. But he has a girlfriend and a 8 year old daughter that he lives with and takes care of. He also takes care of his girlfriends 13 year old son. He has seen his granddaughter maybe 5 times in almost five years. I personally wish i never knew him. Hurts too bad.