please b'live it

[dulce]

Got drama and want a little feedback from the HushFam...

situation is that I'm kicking it with this brotha and it's all gravy - cool-ass friendship - lot in common - BOMB-ass sex with no strings...why is he trippin'?

I was real clear from jump that I'm just looking for a friend - other priorities right now...but went out last night and now it's become that I'm hiding my feelings behind sarcasm and humor. Mind you - this man is all in the club telling folks all night "I love her with all my heart - she's my ace!" Then telling me the same thing in the car later...

I'm cool with that but WTF? We have this wack ass argument after the club about how I'm not being honest about what's up with me?

am I missing something?

appreciate a male perspective...

[Tastey]

I've seen you around glad you decided to jump in the mix.

This is a clear case of a man wanting what he thinks he can't have. If you had been all up on this brother he would have a totally different attitude.

For whatever reason men like a challenge, and because you are cool with no strings...you have now become a challenge.

[dulce]

Thanks for the welcome, Tastey!

Yeah, I think you're right. And I have a feeling that he's got some issues with his own feelings. We kicked about a year ago and he tripped so I split. Hooked back up & it's been cool but I may be out again - especially since I try to live drama-free...

would miss that thang tho'...

[Admin]

Dulce, Look...I have never pushed up on a woman like this fool is. REAL niggas ain't even trying to hear a female say I LOVE YOU! :D

REAL niggas, got they own agenda..especially if you have told this fool (from jump street) that all you want is a friend?

Hell, I think I speak for all the Hush Brothas when I say that that is a line we run all the time on females and know what baggage comes with it.

This nigga seems SOFT to me, and I really think you should move on! I mean, he could be hazardous to ya health in the future...nigga seems toooooo clingy to me.

Suspect?
Jealousy?
Argumentive?

............after the club? Hell he should have been trying to TAP THAT ASS.... instead of creating drama in the car.

I just have never heard of such shyt from a REAL nigga....

Holla

[dulce]

"Hell he should have been trying to TAP THAT ASS.... instead of creating drama in the car. "

Okay? That was my damn agenda...like you said most brothas would NOT be spitting that wack-ass stuff. I mean, a woman is telling you that it's cool to kick it w/ no committment and no drama and the man is trippin'?

Gotta say that this ain't the first time a guy has done that to me...but still feel it's better to be upfront with my game and if he can't hang then WTF!

thanks for the wise words, Admin!

...hey, haven't I told you some of those stories before?

holla back

[Admin]

LOL, You know what? Since I have known you (20 years).....you have always attracted some silly ass Negro's...what's tyhe deal.

I mean that's you biz, but Dayum, if anyone I know should be married with chil'ren...it's yo ass:D

Smart, Intellegent, Fine, High Yella, Cook, Thro a party in a minute, Funny as Hell!, Well Read, Got Ya HSyt together, Non-Ghetto, Strong, ..etc. (is ya ego..... BIG ENOUGH NOW?)

Now, what the fuck is wrong with these brothas you be attractin? I've met several of them and they are all flighty mofo's.

They got more issues than Tony Soprano! Have you tried another race?...LOL

Holla

[dulce]

Gracias for the ego boost - I had to wait for the swelling in my dome to subside before I holla'd back! hahahaha!

I ain't knowing what vibe I'm putting out there - you know I try to be drama-free but it's like I'm a magnet for dysfunctional brothas...but I still love y'all - yeah, me and Angie Stone...

and about the other races - a man is a man...it ain't racial - it's mental...but then again, chocolate has always been my favorite umm-umm-finger-lickin' good flava!