Not the Only one??? [Archive]

Sparkles

10-31-2001, 10:37 AM

I was thinking how sometimes folk are in denial about there relationships. What are some indication that you probably not the only one!

Not being able to call there house would probably be a dead give away for me! Especially if we consider ourselves dating!!!WTF

seductive_tee

10-31-2001, 10:46 AM

the way he talks on the cell phone in your presence!

Tastey

10-31-2001, 10:54 AM

1. When the only number you have is either the cell or the pager number...that ain't your man.

2. If you've never met his friends or family after several months of dating and they live 2 blocks away...that ain't your man.

3. If your picture is not displayed in his house...that ain't your man.

4. If he only drops by late late at night, and leaves before dawn...that ain't your man.

5. If you have no idea where he works....that ain't your man.

OhSoPrecious

10-31-2001, 04:19 PM

If the Nigga is acting a little too s-t-r-a-n-g-e~!!! :rolleyes: :eek:

seductive_tee

10-31-2001, 05:06 PM

Originally posted by Tastey+

2. If you've never met his friends or family after several months of dating and they live 2 blocks away...that ain't your man.

Well i went to meet his parents, and hung out with his mom when she came for a visit....his father calls me every year on my party.

ThickBodyHottie

11-01-2001, 04:09 AM

when his reasoning starts to sound warped...

nubianx2

11-01-2001, 06:40 AM

When he constantly contradicts himself.

sistuhchey

11-01-2001, 12:07 PM

about his soon- to be X-Wife!!!.....

"He Ain't yor man!!!)

Vronni

11-02-2001, 07:51 AM

Originally posted by Sistuchey

when he constantly talks, and talks.....
about his soon- to be X-Wife!!!.....

"He Ain't yor man!!!)

or (constantly talks about) his x-girlfriend!

yendys

11-02-2001, 08:48 AM

You are always referred to as shorty, baby girl, babee, etc, but never by your real name; Easy way to NOT mistake anyone for someone else. A generic name is a big azz turn off with me. My name is Sydney; so address me as such. :blah:

mack_black

11-05-2001, 09:05 AM

Originally posted by Tastey+
1. When the only number you have is either the cell or the pager number...that ain't your man.........

Sorry Tastey....

I cant agree with this one at all......nowadays this is all some people have -
Just a Cell Phone...with the rates as they are, it can be even better to have a celly than a telly........and LOTS of people roll like this.....so please dont make that mistake that because all he has is a cell phone that he aint your man.....

Tastey

11-05-2001, 09:49 AM

Re-read it Mack.

I said the only number you have.

Granted some people only have a cell phone as a matter of fact until about a month ago that's all I had for awhile. But when a man has a home phone but says..."i'm never there baby, call my cell"...i repeat

that ain't your man. :)

seductive_tee

11-05-2001, 10:10 AM

If i didn't need a line at home i'd have just the cell myself. I'm actually think about discontinuing alot of things on my phone.

HulaSista

11-05-2001, 01:09 PM

tastey...i think you summed it up! lol :beer

Vronni

11-05-2001, 03:11 PM

I gotta agree with Tastey on the cell phone. I don't know any mam who has a home phone but won't give it to you -unless he is a)married or b) living with his girlfriend.

que90nek

11-05-2001, 03:27 PM

when i was single...i kept my home location and phone number and work number secret until i got comfortable with the person....a few crazy lady experiences taught me that.

seductive_tee

11-05-2001, 04:04 PM

:D :D :D who u callin crazy QFor some strange reason....I don't believe you QUE....then again...u were military!

Sparkles

01-12-2006, 07:51 AM

I got a new one. When he's paying bill somewhere else, but sleeping in your bed every night....

Pamalicious

01-12-2006, 07:56 AM

When he only drives to your home and parks and you have to take your car everywhere - is it because his might be noticed and you in the passenger seat might be noticed as well.

Amazon Stallion

01-12-2006, 08:13 AM

If the Nigga is acting a little too s-t-r-a-n-g-e~!!! :rolleyes: :eek:

Yeah, might be HIS man.

Amazon Stallion

01-12-2006, 08:15 AM

Amazon Stallion

01-12-2006, 08:18 AM

when i was single...i kept my home location and phone number and work number secret until i got comfortable with the person....a few crazy lady experiences taught me that.

Indeed, I concur.

Not everyone is meant to have all the damn numbers right away. And sometimes, it doesn't bother them that all they have is the cellie.

PecanTan

01-12-2006, 08:40 AM

Sorry Tastey....

I cant agree with this one at all......nowadays this is all some people have -
Just a Cell Phone...with the rates as they are, it can be even better to have a celly than a telly........and LOTS of people roll like this.....so please dont make that mistake that because all he has is a cell phone that he aint your man.....

I agree with Black on that one, that is all my man has. Believe me I have been to the house, stayed over etc. It would probably be all of the other instances that they are giving you. I think in the back of a woman's mind she knows when her so-called man is creepin'.

que90nek

01-12-2006, 08:42 AM

pecantan....i thought u were married? did i miss something?

Conjure Woman

01-12-2006, 09:03 AM

*coughs* bullshit!

My girl lives in a lush pad in San Francisco and her lifestyle is so expensive that she only has a cell. She just was not using that land line. Another sistah I know in Chicago lives in Lincoln Park got rid of her land line too--cell only. If we didn't have ADT I'd get rid of mine too.

jaila

01-12-2006, 09:28 AM

*raises hand* jaila does not have a home phone anymore LOL da hell i look like paying a landline bill when i get free unlimited cell service...i cut that wit da quickness :D

Amazon Stallion

01-12-2006, 10:20 AM

My girl lives in a lush pad in San Francisco and her lifestyle is so expensive that she only has a cell. She just was not using that land line. Another sistah I know in Chicago lives in Lincoln Park got rid of her land line too--cell only. If we didn't have ADT I'd get rid of mine too.

Understandable.

However, there's a difference between ONLY having a cell and ONLY GIVING-OUT the cell #.

Tastey

01-12-2006, 06:19 PM

Dang all these folks defending not having a house phone.

I said

The only number YOU HAVE.

That means HE DOES HAVE A HOUSE PHONE but he won't give you the number.

Dag folks...READ.

lol :p

smoothchris

01-12-2006, 08:05 PM

Dang all these folks defending not having a house phone.

I said

The only number YOU HAVE.

That means HE DOES HAVE A HOUSE PHONE but he won't give you the number.

Dag folks...READ.

lol :p

I know females that have alot of these traits you guys are posting...